“At 28, single and childless, Men only wants to sleep with me” – Lady cries out over inability to find love and start a family

A 28-year-old lady @IamMbali_M, has taken to social media to pour out her emotions, expressing the challenges she faces in finding love and starting a family.

The young lady, who acknowledged God’s favour in her life, shared her struggle with the societal expectations surrounding relationships and motherhood.

“It breaks my heart that at the age of 28, I’ve got no child & I can barely find love that’s secure, I don’t even think at my big age I know how it feels to be loved however, I’m so grateful for Gods’ favour & pray that he gives me the strength to accept what isn’t meant for me,” the lady wrote.

Despite her concerns, @IamMbali_M demonstrated gratitude for the successes in her life, mentioning her job, car, and progress toward further education and property ownership.
She questioned whether it was wrong to desire more, prompting a reflective discussion on societal expectations and personal aspirations.

In a follow-up tweet, she shared some of her personal achievements.

“I’ve got a job, I’ve got a car. I’m 2 board exams away from admission, better pay & property. Is it wrong to just yearn for something else?,” she added.

Netizens Reactions…

@Mjudana said; “Sorry but at least you know our timings are meant to be different & will never be tampered with, what’s for you will find you at the right time for you, it’s no longer scary to start at mid 30s/40s medical science has advanced, all is well & will be well with patience & faith.”

@Xoli_Ntshangase said; “Don’t feel bad, I will love you ghelli. In fact, I love you my soul mate.”

@Kgolo_ said; “Keep the optimism going, when the time is right He will make it happen.”

@BbwMaturity said; “There are 21-30 year old women who got kids from deadbeat men, who are regretting opening their legs to such vermin. Be thankful you’re not a statistical evidence. Your time will come. Better time.”

@Konke_Worldwide said; “If it’s any consolation I’m 30 & single. Never been in love and don’t have kids. I’m sorry you’re going through those feelings but they will pass trust me. Sometimes social conditioning makes us feel like we are missing out on something or we’re inadequate. It’s not true. “

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/come-marry-me-i-have-a-car-and-property-lady-heartbroken-over-being-single-and-childless-at-28/

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

Iyanu masele

Too early to think of marriage, her counterparts in developed countries are thinking of how to build generational wealth not marriage and child bearing.

Na women dey feel the loneliness pass. Na why they cry out on Twitter, IG and YouTube.

This one is just 28 and she don already do smart advert.

It is well

Boom Dig_It!!!


At least Men still won just sleep with you, try use that one hold body.

what do you want before

you want them to bath with you ne

if you want to be a baby mama say so, stop beating around the bush

JustPowerApps:
Too early to think of marriage, her counterparts in developed countries are thinking of how to build generational wealth not marriage and child bearing.

She is in her prime to get married now.

Johnsinia:
She is in her prime to get married now.

marriageable age

Johnsinia:
She is in her prime to get married now.

African mentality sha, everything they think of is marriage and child bearing.

I don't know why they always cry as if being single is a death sentence. This crying is what makes a woman age faster.

You better enjoy it while it lasts.

Chai

Her plea for help is a coded advertisement that her market is open for business.

If you don't get it, forget about it.

Jewessgratitud3:
I don't know why they always cry as if being single is a death sentence. This crying is what makes a woman age faster.

You better enjoy it while it lasts.

..
she should wait till 40 before lamenting..

How many have u slept with. Drop that info. Make my advice 4u fit fresh

JustPowerApps:
Too early to think of marriage, her counterparts in developed countries are thinking of how to build generational wealth not marriage and child bearing.

But tomorrow you will still call her old newspaper at 35 if she follows your advice 😎

JustPowerApps:
Too early to think of marriage, her counterparts in developed countries are thinking of how to build generational wealth not marriage and child bearing.

That is Nigerian ladies for you. Highly myopic. What is in their head is marriage to a man. They don't contribute any developmental thing to a man life. I guessed the reason we are like this as a nation is because of our myopic women. Nigerian men are highly hardworking. But asked yourself, where is the money going to. It is definitely going into the hands of these myopic, wicked and destructive ladies and women.

There must have been a time they were coming and you were doing inyanga thinking that they would keep coming. Well, go and seek help

Caveat Emptor
This old meat ranting about guys not ready to commit to her...don pass 28yrs...she is between 33 and 35yrs... believe she is 28 at your own foolery

This also buttresses our point here that the average Nigerian lady have no retirement plan, except marriage...cos once they get married, they offload all their wahala, baggages and problems on your head

money121:
“At 28, single and childless, Men only wants to sleep with me” – Lady cries out over inability to find love and start a family

A 28-year-old lady @IamMbali_M, has taken to social media to pour out her emotions, expressing the challenges she faces in finding love and starting a family.

The young lady, who acknowledged God’s favour in her life, shared her struggle with the societal expectations surrounding relationships and motherhood.

“It breaks my heart that at the age of 28, I’ve got no child & I can barely find love that’s secure, I don’t even think at my big age I know how it feels to be loved however, I’m so grateful for Gods’ favour & pray that he gives me the strength to accept what isn’t meant for me,” the lady wrote.

Despite her concerns, @IamMbali_M demonstrated gratitude for the successes in her life, mentioning her job, car, and progress toward further education and property ownership.
She questioned whether it was wrong to desire more, prompting a reflective discussion on societal expectations and personal aspirations.

In a follow-up tweet, she shared some of her personal achievements.

“I’ve got a job, I’ve got a car. I’m 2 board exams away from admission, better pay & property. Is it wrong to just yearn for something else?,” she added.

Netizens Reactions…

@Mjudana said; “Sorry but at least you know our timings are meant to be different & will never be tampered with, what’s for you will find you at the right time for you, it’s no longer scary to start at mid 30s/40s medical science has advanced, all is well & will be well with patience & faith.”

@Xoli_Ntshangase said; “Don’t feel bad, I will love you ghelli. In fact, I love you my soul mate.”

@Kgolo_ said; “Keep the optimism going, when the time is right He will make it happen.”

@BbwMaturity said; “There are 21-30 year old women who got kids from deadbeat men, who are regretting opening their legs to such vermin. Be thankful you’re not a statistical evidence. Your time will come. Better time.”

@Konke_Worldwide said; “If it’s any consolation I’m 30 & single. Never been in love and don’t have kids. I’m sorry you’re going through those feelings but they will pass trust me. Sometimes social conditioning makes us feel like we are missing out on something or we’re inadequate. It’s not true. “

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/come-marry-me-i-have-a-car-and-property-lady-heartbroken-over-being-single-and-childless-at-28/

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

JustPowerApps:
Too early to think of marriage, her counterparts in developed countries are thinking of how to build generational wealth not marriage and child bearing.

That is a lie.Her mates in developed countries are almost done with having babies and completing their families.

In developed countries,Govt provides social welfsre benefits for them.Europeans and the whites are not rich but comfortable because of various welfare packages given to them from unemployment benefit,maternity benefits,pension,old age discounts,child benefits,free edication,scholarships to study abroad,free health care,council/ kommun housing,free dental care for children etc.

MILLERMannn:

That is Nigerian ladies for you. Highly myopic. What is in their head is marriage to a man. They don't contribute any developmental thing to a man life. I guessed the reason we are like this as a nation is because of our myopic women. Nigerian men are highly hardworking. But asked yourself, where is the money going to. It is definitely going into the hands of these myopic, wicked and destructive ladies and women.

I tell you, they've turned marriage to future ambition, the orientation is so unpleasant. The moment they clock 23, the next expectation is marriage, they hardly think of how to achieve greater heights in life. It's really unfortunate for a society that needs all hands on deck to move forward

cocolacec:


That is a lie.Her mates in developed countries are almost done with having babies and completing their families.

In developed countries,Govt provides social welfsre benefits for them.Europeans and the whites are not rich but comfortable because of various welfare packages given to them from unemployment benefit,maternity benefits,pension,old age discounts,child benefits,free edication,scholarships to study abroad,free health care,council/ kommun housing,free dental care for children etc.

The benefits enjoyed by those people come from individuals who dedicate their time to working and contributing to the wealth of their country. They often marry late and have fewer children. Early marriage is one of the reasons why Africa is considered the most backward continent to date.

All they seem to think about is mating and bearing children they can't adequately take care of. They then shift the responsibility to the government. It is at this point that they begin pointing out countries that pay their citizens just to breathe.

Stop exposing your desperation or vulnerability on social media. You'll only attract users, predators and fraudsters. I'm sure right now her dm is already buzzing with men whose mothers have threatened to disown them if they don't find wives this year. These predators don't randomly jump into people's inboxes, they act based on what people post about themselves for instance the tragic case of Ini Umoren

She's too desperate. Men dislike desperate women.
By the way, everyone has their timing. It will happen fot some early and some later. We are not in absolute control of our lives.

Her problem is her taste and standard.

It is the same problem with single successful ladies of her age; they want rich, successful handsome men since they believe they are successful, but unfortunately life doesn't favor women in that regard because naturally, men don't marry based on a woman's financial or material worth, except for financially struggling men and men looking for a woman to assist them come up in life.


A lady doesn't need to be rich or successful to attract a quality man, she just needs to be good looking, homely, friendly and respectful, and some atom of divine favor.



But for a man, what he needs mostly to find his desired woman is financial success or financial stability and a good sense of reasoning to decipher good from bad.



Men of her marital age range (32 to 40) who are financially buoyant are all married or seriously engaged, making it difficult for her. So her only option right now is to:

1.) lower her standard and go for a financially struggling humble man within her biological age range

or

2.) go for younger guys who are still struggling to stand financially

or

3.) go for older divorcees or widowers

or

4.) codedly share a married man with his wife

Naija girls have got nothing to offer except their smelling...

You're only attracting more predators to yourself.

She is 37yrs old already. People like her can never show you her birth certificate.

franchasofficia:
Her problem is her taste and standard.

It is the same problem with single successful ladies of her age; they want rich, successful handsome men since they believe they are successful, but unfortunately life doesn't favor women in that regard because naturally, men don't marry based on a woman's financial or material worth, except for financially struggling men and men looking for a woman to assist them come up in life.


A lady doesn't need to be rich or successful to attract a quality man, she just needs to be good looking, homely, friendly and respectful, and some atom of divine favor.



But for a man, what he needs mostly to find his desired woman is financial success or financial stability and a good sense of reasoning to decipher good from bad.



Men of her marital age range (32 to 40) who are financially buoyant are all married or seriously engaged, making it difficult for her. So her only option right now is to:

1.) lower her standard and go for a financially struggling humble man within her biological age range

or

2.) go for younger guys who are still struggling to stand financially

or

3.) go for older divorcees or widowers

or

4.) codedly share a married man with his wife

super correct

Her mentality is the culprit .. men these days wants partners, supporters not leeches that needs a man to empty his bank acct for her..



Have the right mentality and men would never be a problem..

Wahala Yayso!
This marriage stuff is fast becoming a Pandemic!

Use it to your advantage then.