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| Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by shawn5ng(m): 5:22pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Hello peeps, This question keeps bogging my mind. Can u marry a lady that has done two or three abortion in her failed relationship but now born again. Will the thought not affect such guy relationship with the girl. Let's hear ur opinion. |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by aadetoyin(f): 5:27pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
As if she will be naïve enough to tell u.  10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by ihedioramma: 5:48pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
WHAT OF U? MARRY HER NOW NA UR WIFE SHE BE 1 Like |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by shawn5ng(m): 5:55pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Have dated a lady that I ask her of her past and I told her to be honest and not lie to me and she did tell me her past relationship and hw she was jilted after two abortion for the guy. Don't get me wrong this baby doesn't look like some cheap girl but guess she was just not lucky to have gone this far with a guy doesn't appreciate her kind of personality. We all got our past anyway but then she can decide not to tell me. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Les: 6:07pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
I can under some certain conditions.... Complete and ol sound repentance womb not damaged nor any collateral damage done during d process She over matches my choice and type of girl for me to leave other girls for her for her to be able to tell me, dat means ofcourse she must be trustworthy/truthful unless she is just fulfilling ol righteousness... Ready to forsake her past and be dedicated to her new man/home and finally, she must have a complete remorse not just being born again, d remorse must be there but will never be explicit and guarantee me dat it wont be a threat to our marriage. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Nobody: 6:38pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
If you have had several relationships in the past, you have no right to judge ladies that have been pregnant in the past. I'm pro-life but I know that men are equally to blame. Women don't make themselves pregnant. We bash our ladies as if they are not human; after pressuring them to commit abortions. If men will stand by their partners, there won't be any need for abortion. 21 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by stint(m): 6:40pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
several abortions or 2 or 3 abortions . they ain't the same . several is . . . well several 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by ITbomb(m): 6:55pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Several as in seven times? Hell No! |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by ovalrose(f): 7:35pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
kITA TITA: If you have had several relationships in the past, you have no right to judge ladies that have been pregnant in the past. I'm pro-life but I know that men are equally to blame. Women don't make themselves pregnant. We bash our ladies as if they are not human; after pressuring them to commit abortions. If men will stand by their partners, there won't be any need for abortion.Jah bless you for your observation. It's a man's world,and that's why at the end of the day the woman is left carrying the can. Guys,if you know you aint ready to marry a woman with a past,then refrain from tampering with the present so the future will be preserved! I rest my case. 4 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by eddy1977(m): 8:35pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Not me. Christian or not, it's all the same. If you aborted a child in ur past, i have no business going into a relationship with you. There are so many single women out there who have never committed any abortions. I will go for them. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by stint(m): 8:46pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
eddy1977: Not me.and how would you recognize them. many will not tell you. that a woman can share that kind of information willingly shows remorse . so what do you do ? you leave her without any exceptions then go get another who might have done something worse but would never tell you. especially once she knows how judgmental you can be . am just saying life is not black and white 6 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by MrCork17: 8:52pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
shawn5ng: Hello peeps, Brother...the greatest regret is being what others would want you to be rather than being yourself ..if u want her.. Forget abortion...go for her!!!  2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by eddy1977(m): 9:48pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
stint: I would know by asking her. If she can lie to me her potential husband about it,then she can kill me or get pregnant from another man and pin it on me. Remorse or not, i have my principles. No woman who has killed an unborn child can be MY wife. This world is filled with so many single ladies who have not shed innocent blood yet. That's my target. I am not being judgmental. I just know my standards. Some people will never marry smokers.some people will never marry ex inmates. In my case, i cannot marry a person who has murdered an innocent baby. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by dokunbam(m): 9:51pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
aadetoyin: As if she will be naïve enough to tell u. abi oo tell him |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by chikeorji123(m): 10:06pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Once she told me the truth..then l will suggest us seen a doctor to make sure she's alright..abortion or no abortion won't stop me from marry her period!..afterall it's was guys like us injected that seed in her that lead to such situation.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Lolaabokoku(f): 10:38pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
ovalrose: Jah bless you for your observation. It's a man's world,and that's why at the end of the day the woman is left carrying the can. Guys,if you know you aint ready to marry a woman with a past,then refrain from tampering with the present so the future will be preserved! I rest my case.are Ɣ☺ΰ Å witness? |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by aadetoyin(f): 10:47pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
A lot of guys are saying YES. Ok u take her to a doctor dat says she's ok then u get married and for years she doesn't conceive. What will happen? A lot will start quoting " its all the abortions that u have done dat is causing it" By that time, all this love that u re saying would have vamossed! 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by 190: 11:28pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
No!  |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Popowaa: 6:11am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Those of you saying no should abstain from premarital sex 5 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by ovalrose(f): 6:28am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Popowaa: Those of you saying no should abstain from premarital sexGBAM!!  1 Like |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Les: 6:32am On Mar 30, 2013 |
ovalrose: GBAM!!out of topic.... Do some girls get angry at a guy they have crush on if he failed to recognise her or confront her  |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Soglad(f): 8:47am On Mar 30, 2013 |
ovalrose: Jah bless you for your observation. It's a man's world,and that's why at the end of the day the woman is left carrying the can. Guys,if you know you aint ready to marry a woman with a past,then refrain from tampering with the present so the future will be preserved! I rest my case.exactly, God bless u |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by 190: 9:43am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Popowaa: Those of you saying no should abstain from premarital sex i know say you go don abort like 5  |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Lovetinz(m): 11:26am On Mar 30, 2013 |
I haven't committed murder or any grievous crime. yet I will marry an after2, and even an after4, 5 or 6! If I was daft enough to do the silly things I've done before. Then it would be crass hypocrisy for me to reject a girl on the basis of her erroneous past in which she probably has as much control as I did when I marred mine. |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
See guys... Which girl hasnt committed abortion?... Very few mates. Trust me. Sometimes guys are not to be blamed for this cos certain girls made the decision themselves to have the abortion. If she's cool enough to tell u, which I feel is better and you love her then carry one. Maybe after some tests too. That girl telling u she hasn't done it may be lying. Love folks is all that matters. If love jam u or if uv decided to love someone u will ignore abortions, hw many guys a girl av slept with and u will even accept forgiveness if she cheats on you. |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Mr..Cork: OMG this comment is from Mr. Cork  you have surprised me today. pls keep such comments up because i had the view that you were some misogynistic fellow.truly i am shocked4 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Caracta(f): 1:11pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
You should be glad she told you about it. Some of you guys have slept with girls and made them abort for you several times. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone... 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by eddy1977(m): 2:17pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
You are free to marry whoever you want. But for ME,if you murdered an innocent baby , i will not even think twice about it. Go ahead,cry and regret your mistake and blame it on the guy, it won't change a thing. I know my heart and i will not cheat my conscience. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by Acidosis(m): 2:44pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
I'm not sure... |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by 190: 3:16pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
how is this abortion even done do they insert any HOT IRON inside the  to extract merr...im thinking too much these days |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by MrCork17: 4:00pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
pc guru: |
| Re: Guys Can U Marry A Lady That Has Done like 2 Abortion In Her Past Relationship by AdeniyiA(m): 4:25pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
Caracta: Some of you guys have slept with girls and made them abort for you several times. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone...i totally agree wt u on dis, more reason our ladies/girls shu b more carefu cos they bear d brunt of unhealthy relationships. 1 Like |
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