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Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by kay29000(m): 10:27am On Oct 04, 2014
Neither. But if I should have to choose, I would go with a nagging wife. I can still walk away from her nagging, but I can't imagine another man sleeping with my wife...I just can't.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:32am On Oct 04, 2014
Both... Could be infuriating but if I am to choose, a nagging wife z considerable undecided... When she nags, avoid her... Na her mouth go pain her grin but a cheating wife It takes God's grace...
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 04, 2014
If I am certain of the fidelity of my wife, her nagging will sound like rap music in my ears. Bros, of all temptations in life, that one is wat i do not wish for myself because Jesus said if I put her away, I hav to go celibate which means I have to forgive her if I do wish to be doing bedroom thingz.

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Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Jidefido(m): 10:43am On Oct 04, 2014
Anytime anyday, I will prefer a nagging wife to a cheating wife. Though I don't pray to have both but if I do, Omo na nagging wife oooo
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by starlingbawa(m): 10:47am On Oct 04, 2014
A cheating wife is worse than a nagging one. It's as simple as ABC!!!

I can stomach the nagging but when it's got to do with cheating, then it's the end of the road for us!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 10:49am On Oct 04, 2014
Janetozi:
A nagging husband is preferable to a cheating husband.

Like the saying goes "silence is the best answer to a fool"

whenever he start nagging just ignore him and he will get tired sooner than u expect.

Or when he starts nagging, just exclaim "oh, this dog have started barking again! As if u don't know that he is the one nagging. I assure u that he will stop nagging

but a cheating husband? God forbid. The cheating could be as a bad blood that runs in the vain.

A cheating husband can play away match and have many children outside and u will only get to know them when his will was to be read after his death.
A typical example of a nagging wife. Imagine, you will indirectly be referring your husband as a barking dog. Pity!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Sunbellar: 10:49am On Oct 04, 2014
Both are Unacceptable!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by starlingbawa(m): 10:53am On Oct 04, 2014
lynpetra:
i can see no man wants a cheating wife but their priiccck dey waka up and down like 404 .Today na amaka compound,that evening sef na ruka mama backya.hmmm!

Your point exactly?
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by tlops(m): 10:57am On Oct 04, 2014
well cheating and nagging are on two different scales.

A cheating wife really doesn't care, so she has nothing to fight for, so no nagging!

A nagging wife could be as a result of her love for you, at least she is fighting for her marriage which means you can channel that nagging spirit to your advantage.

cheating is worse, Nagging is bad but can be controlled!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by HARDDON: 11:01am On Oct 04, 2014
Mynd44:
I will rather stay and die single

Better for all!

Of what Economic value r ........

@op, women cheat? Wow!

Tot they were only blessed with d gift if tfe gap
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by dani3(m): 11:02am On Oct 04, 2014
Odilafta:
Nagging is better o,kpatakpata earpiece go become your best friend..One day one day,she go shut up.
But if she's a cheat,people's children would be yours,STI,HIV,89% EBOLA RISK(over hugging and kissing of different men),infact the risk of having a cheating spouse is 4much.


It would actually be best if a wife is none of the above.
ma guy u ar ryt jor cheating can cause more harm dan nagging
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:08am On Oct 04, 2014
dani3:
ma guy u ar ryt jor cheating can cause more harm dan nagging
cheesy I be babe o
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:10am On Oct 04, 2014
blakky97:

Okay no need. It means you don't have anything left in your sense bank. No network for your head
Now you wanna insult me?!Make thunder fire your pillar and two stones!!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by dani3(m): 11:11am On Oct 04, 2014
Na nagging wife sure pass a cheating wife go fit ad otapiapia 4 ur food just 2 silence her evil deed
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by FADEO: 11:17am On Oct 04, 2014
Mondisweets:
I think if nigerian men change their attitude towards marriage and their wives they will be able to enjoy the fruits of their union. Once you go into a union with a negative mentality, best believe me you will never enjoy it.
Please give example of negative mentality.......
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Danhumprey: 11:27am On Oct 04, 2014
lynpetra:
Now you wanna insult me?!Make thunder fire your pillar and two stones!!
Chai! Lynpetra don vex.gringrin
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by adedayourt(m): 11:28am On Oct 04, 2014
lynpetra:
Dont worr,you go marry better.cheesy.This your prayer touch me sef cheesy

I go marry better, Amen. thanks a million
cool
Nd May notin com imbtw u nd ur better(on d assumtion..... wink

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Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:31am On Oct 04, 2014
OracleHex:
I heard a man say that he prefers a cheating woman to a nagging one.

According to him the tongue of a Nagging wife brings disasters.

What do you think?

Even a belligerent dog can be kept at bay, how much more a nagging woman?

I don't know about you but I can handle a nagging woman.

Cheating is one thing that disgusts me in relationships, I can't accept it.

If you've seen someone who you consider to be an upgrade, someone who's better than me in some areas, simply quit the relationship and leave my life. Don't go having an extra-marital affair.

I can't talk you into quit being a cheat, it's your life and your call. So it's better to leave with such trait, I can't handle cheats. The only pragmatic move that comes to mind when tackling such issue is to gun you and your lover down.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:32am On Oct 04, 2014
Danhumprey:
Chai! Lynpetra don vex.gringrin
I no dey vex o.The dude no make sense to me,i no understand am.But he choose to insult me,i insult am back.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by starlingbawa(m): 11:37am On Oct 04, 2014
AirborneLacer:


Even a belligerent dog can be kept at bay, how much more a nagging woman?

I don't know about you but I can handle a nagging woman.

Cheating is one thing that disgusts me in relationships, I can't accept it.

If you've seen someone who you consider to be an upgrade, someone who's better than me in some areas, simply quit the relationship and leave my life. Don't go having an extra-marital affair.

This will do for me too.

So spot on!!!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 04, 2014
Nag baby nag, but cheat? N0 JUPITER can reconcile us til death do us apart! Gbam!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by steppin: 11:43am On Oct 04, 2014
lynpetra:
i can see no man wants a cheating wife but their priiccck dey waka up and down like 404 .Today na amaka compound,that evening sef na ruka mama backya.hmmm!
is your Hubby cheating on you? @Op, none. Though cheating is worse.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by princebergz(m): 11:44am On Oct 04, 2014
Janetozi:
A nagging husband is preferable to a cheating husband.

Like the saying goes "silence is the best answer to a fool"

whenever he start nagging just ignore him and he will get tired sooner than u expect.

Or when he starts nagging, just exclaim "oh, this dog have started barking again! As if u don't know that he is the one nagging. I assure u that he will stop nagging

but a cheating husband? God forbid. The cheating could be as a bad blood that runs in the vain.

A cheating husband can play away match and have many children outside and u will only get to know them when his will was to be read after his death.


ehn ehn... "the dog has started barking again" I pray you don't have someone like Tee Billz as a husband. If not ehn there won't be any difference between a drum during a masquerade festival and yourself
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:44am On Oct 04, 2014
FADEO:

Please give example of negative mentality.......

-every woman wants to be a stay at home mum after marriage
-every woman wants to make her husband's life miserable after marriage
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 04, 2014
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Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 04, 2014
starlingbawa:


This will do for me too.

So spot on!!!

It's just like trying to stop a thief from stealing, the best you can offer is an advice that'd last for the moment.

He'd only quit stealing if he only wishes to. It's his call and decision, you can't help it.

Same way you can't help the life of a cheat.

Sitting down to address issues that prompts nagging is feasible, simply avoid those little things that'd have her 'temper' running high.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 04, 2014
Deehvahrzz:

Happy Birthday. God bless you much
thanks...am happy...!!!!!
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:47am On Oct 04, 2014
LadyCaty:


U aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ wlc nd tnx too. cheesy
u are welcome too....lols...
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:48am On Oct 04, 2014
NAGGING IS FINE BUT CHEATING IS DISGUSTING.
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:49am On Oct 04, 2014
softsparkyy:

Welcome back my friend.
cheesy cheesy
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by Nobody: 11:51am On Oct 04, 2014
steppin:
is your Hubby cheating on you? @Op, none. Though cheating is worse.
Why do you ask?
Re: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by bukatyne(f): 11:53am On Oct 04, 2014
legalwealth:


Are you married?

See question

The thread says 'Which do you prefer in a nagging wife and a cheat'

The poster you quoted is obviously a female so can only talk about the type of husband she prefers

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