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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:49pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


Don't look down on them or people in general. I just want them to learn the art of being responsible for whatever actions they take, or choice they make.

Why should a girl who isn't ready for motherhood, and without a solid family structure to raise a child, with the two pillars of the family decide to get pregnant in the first place? That's an irresponsible behaviour!

However, the nan is still a psycho though. She just dug her own grave with the law.

I agree with you on this.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 6:50pm On Oct 10, 2014
YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR OPINION

soulglo:


This makes no sense
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 10, 2014
Ilekere:


I'm surprised that someone actually mentioned that since the grandma is in Nigeria now, she only abides by Nigerian law.

Once she gets her baby back, she should file restraining order on that side of the family. If they can kidnap a child, they can kill.

Hopefully, the child has not been auctioned off to ritualist or being used for ransom.

I commend any woman that keeps her pregnancy, cares for her baby while obtaining her education and let's in the same family that wants that same baby aborted. That is a lesson in courage, love and forgiveness.
tell me about it, just when she thought she was dealing with sensible human beings

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by coogar: 6:51pm On Oct 10, 2014
onoja12:
my sister you are lost from the way you speak,i know you came from a broken home or raised by single parent or you are a lesbian.i am not insulting you,and please don't take it as such but that what you are leading me to believe.you kind of thinking if what the father of that child is trying to prevent

you are a consummate retärd!
and with the quality of utterances dropping out of your arsë.....you were likely raised from a polyandrous marriage - by the look of things, you probably have 8 daddies all shacking up with you in a small apartment.

we have to literally educate you that a crime has been committed & you won't keep your trap shut with your irresponsible firewood background. if you have any iota of decorum, you should log out & find somewhere to wail.....you are a waste of sëmen.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 10, 2014
Mondisweets:
You are the one showing ignorance at its best, thats not the purpose of this thread. if you want to discuss "women committing crimes against other women", CREATE A THREAD THAT SERVES THAT PURPOSE.

Well, it's part of the thread.

Let me explain it further: folks have cited culture as the reason for what the nan did. And the person imposing/upholding this culture to the detriment of another woman, is a woman. Evidently, it's a crime by a woman against another woman, and definitely part of the topic. grin
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by coogar: 6:53pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:

Lmao...he's pissed! grin

i am going to make his life more miserable....what a twerp! he's just spewing nonsense i wouldn't expect from a ruminant animal.


Donedy, be a good son, and save your mum from the wrath of the British law. And you lot need to stop dragging naija's name in the mud! grin

i would personally be joyous to see him & his mother in cuffs on BBC news. grin cheesy he's a useless son of an irresponsible mother.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bournvita: 6:54pm On Oct 10, 2014
onoja12:
dont get it twisted does are not way of life,and secondly for the record wearing cloths and technology including education started right here in Africa,go and read history


Go on google...read history come back and share your knowledge with us
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 6:55pm On Oct 10, 2014
itstpia1:



she needs to know where the son and grandma actually are, first.


since she was talking of "lots of toys", i'd suspect canada although perhaps onila can tell us more.

second, she also claimed her "little sister" is living with her in the UK.




they live in Nigeria
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bournvita: 6:55pm On Oct 10, 2014
coogar:


you are a consummate retärd!
and with the quality of utterances dropping out of your arsë.....you were likely raised from a polyandrous marriage - by the look of things, you probably have 8 daddies all shacking up with you in a small apartment.

we have to literally educate you that a crime has been committed & you won't keep your trap shut with your irresponsible firewood background. if you have any iota of decorum, you should log out & find somewhere to wail.....you are a waste of sëmen.

Buuahahahahahahahahahahaha cheesy I was wondering why it took you this long to unleash some of your venom on her. You are a very patient man Coogar and I must commend you on that
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


Don't look down on them or people in general. I just want them to learn the art of being responsible for whatever actions they take, or choice they make.

Why should a girl who isn't ready for motherhood, and without a solid family structure to raise a child, with the two pillars of the family decide to get pregnant in the first place? That's an irresponsible behaviour!

However, the nan is still a psycho though. She just dug her own grave with the law.
last time i checked being irresponsible, is deciding not to live up to your responsibility. She clearly did by having her unwanted baby and taking care of her. How is deciding to face your responsibilities instead of escaping them, being "irresponsible" ? undecided

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 6:57pm On Oct 10, 2014
after all that hope you feel better now,as for crime,is society that determines what amounts to a crime,and this is arrived at by the thinking of such society,like i said before probably in the uk a crime may have been committed but for Nigeria,no crime has been committed,and you can't force us to see things the way you see it just because you are in uk

coogar:


you are a consummate retärd!
and with the quality of utterances dropping out of your arsë.....you were likely raised from a polyandrous marriage - by the look of things, you probably have 8 daddies all shacking up with you in a small apartment.

we have to literally educate you that a crime has been committed & you won't keep your trap shut with your irresponsible firewood background. if you have any iota of decorum, you should log out & find somewhere to wail.....you are a waste of sëmen.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 6:58pm On Oct 10, 2014
i believe that was the assignment i gave you

bournvita:


Go on google...read history come back and share your knowledge with us
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:59pm On Oct 10, 2014
bournvita:

The western way of life doesn't work for us so...tell me why are you wearing clothes? What are you not walking around naked covered in plantain leaves? Why did you attend primary/secondary school....[size=18pt]I will hold off on university.[/size]
What are you browsing Nairaland with? A phone? A laptop? A tablet? You bought any of the above or all of the above made by the people in the west and you are spewing thrash? Throw them all away and then come back and preach this nonsense to me. I will be all ears then...
You are not making sense and if only there was a shop where people can purchase sense for x amount of dollars, trust me...I would have invested my dollars in you a long time ago.

Too fucking hilarious cheesy

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 10, 2014
coogar:


i am going to make his life more miserable....what a twerp! he's just spewing nonsense i wouldn't expect from a ruminant animal.

i would personally be joyous to see him & his mother in cuffs on BBC news. grin cheesy he's a useless son of an irresponsible mother.

Bwahahahaha

I'm sure Dailymail can't wait to get the sole right to publishing this news and more. Top page material! grin

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bournvita: 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2014
onoja12:
i believe that was the assignment i gave you


No. Only people who have seen the four walls of a university have the right to assign me to look things up. You unfortunately do not have that right. To acquire such right, you need to bag a bachelor's degree in something even if it is in Palm oil and vegetable...just something and then only then can you....hurry up Cos I might change the rules and ask for post grads instead.

You are a troll abeg go and sit down let us see road.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


Sholly, you found ya voice today. grin

Anyway, Angela Davis, Alice Walker, and Assata Shakur have a message for you. grin

I wasn't aware that I lost it undecided

I don't speak to dead people. Stop randomly calling my name on threads I have nothing to do with.

Did Mondi call 50calibre your gf?? Bwahahahahaha, that was funny grin grin grin
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


Well, it's part of the thread.

Let me explain it further: folks have cited culture as the reason for what the nan did. And the person imposing/upholding this culture to the detriment of another woman, is a woman. Evidently, it's a crime by a woman against another woman, and definitely part of the topic. grin
so if a man robs and stabs another man, we can conclude that men are their own worst enemies right? If men go to war with other men, " in the name of attaining peace", we can safely conclude that a man's worst enemy is his own right?

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:04pm On Oct 10, 2014
onoja12:
after all that hope you feel better now,as for crime,is society that determines what amounts to a crime,and this is arrived at by the thinking of such society,like i said before probably in the uk a crime may have been committed but for Nigeria,no crime has been committed,and you can't force us to see things the way you see it just because you are in uk


Where does NL find these uneducated lots? cheesy

Let's assume that in Nigeria no crime has been committed, wouldn't you worry that a relative can steal your child and Nigerian law wouldn't do anything about it?

That's the part that worries me. The fact that child abduction (from relatives) is absolutely legal in Nigeria.

But, an international crime has been committed. She committed a crime in Britain and ran to Nigeria, she'll be found. Remember the daycare worker that left kids entrusted in her care alone to go shopping, house burnt down and she ran to Nigeria? They snuffed her azz out and brought her back to the US.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:05pm On Oct 10, 2014
Mondisweets:
last time i checked being irresponsible, is not deciding not to live up to your responsibility. She clearly did by having her unwanted baby and taking care of her. How is deciding to face your responsibilities instead of escaping them, being "irresponsible" ? undecided

I'm sure you're not oblivious to the single parent households which are now more or less the bane of the black community in diaspora. And the more people keep trying to fix the idi.otic break-down in the black family structure that keeps producing misfits - the more folks like this chic and her apologists keep messing things up for everyone else.

She's an irresponsible girl! Don't bring innocent children into this world, if what you're bringing them into is a quagmire. That's just common sense.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:11pm On Oct 10, 2014
BananaBender:


I wasn't aware that I lost it undecided

I don't speak to dead people. Stop randomly calling my name on threads I have nothing to do with.

Did Mondi call 50calibre your gf?? Bwahahahahaha, that was funny grin grin grin

You lost it when you went ghost! grin

Well, it shows your knowledge about black feminism isn't extensive enough. They're not dead, and the three of them are still alive. And they actually did what most armchair feminists like you wouldn't be brave enough to do in this life-time. However, you saw the light - and move on to better things.

Mondi is 50calibre's permanent full housewife and he lords over her. Heck, she's not allowed to leave the house without his permission. Ask her. grin All the feminazi tripe she spews on her is for the birds - she has to bow down! cool
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bournvita: 7:11pm On Oct 10, 2014
Ilekere:


Where does NL find these uneducated lots? cheesy

I honestly wish I could answer your question. I honestly wish I could...Seun is to blame for all this. If only he insisted on people uploading a picture of them holding their degree certificates online with their drivers license or national ID card or passport, before they could become a member, some of us will not be subjected to sharing a thread with the person you quoted.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


I'm sure you're not oblivious to the single parent households which are now more or less the bane of the black community in diaspora. And the more people keep trying to fix the idi.otic break-down in the black family structure that keeps producing misfits - the more folks like this chic and her apologists keep messing things up for everyone else.

She's an irresponsible girl! Don't bring innocent children into this world, if what you're bringing them into is a quagmire. That's just common sense.

It takes two to make a baby. Both were irresponsible, just that one had to take care of the "mistake". Granted, she was irresponsible to get herself impregnated by a coward, but he was also irresponsible for getting a girl pregnant without financial stability.

He wasn't handcuffed to a mattress and raped, obviously she wasn't raped either. So why blame one party and leave one blameless?

You want to know why there's a real breakdown in the black community? Because men are left blameless, they feel no sense of guilt or conscience. They then are able to carry on and impregnate another girl without repercussion, aside from child support fees.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 10, 2014
Mondisweets:
so if a man robs and stabs another man, we can conclude that men are their own worst enemies right? If men go to war with other men, " in the name of attaining peace", we can safely conclude that a man's worst enemy is his own right?

Utter tosh! And illogical retort!

This is about the cultural values most African pseudo-feminists always argue against, and blame on the men.

And in this case, just like most cases, the women are always the ones who cultural values.

So, let's talk about that!

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by bournvita: 7:14pm On Oct 10, 2014
What attracted temmy to this man sef ehn? I just saw his pictures on the first page and all I could see was a picture of a man who obviously has spent all his life savings on TURA cream as evident on his facial skin.

Bleaching cow

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


You lost it when you went ghost! grin

Well, it shows your knowledge about black feminism isn't extensive enough. They're not dead, and the three of them are still alive. And they actually did what most armchair feminists like you wouldn't be brave enough to do in this life-time. However, you saw the light - and move on to better things.

Mondi is 50calibre's permanent full housewife and he lords over her. Heck, she's not allowed to leave the house without his permission. Ask her. grin All the feminazi tripe she spews on her is for the birds - she has to bow down! cool

You are a fool, I knew you were going to say they're alive. They are so old, they are practically dead. One has been in exile in Cuba before my parents even met.

I never went ghost. What are u ever talking about? What light?
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by coogar: 7:15pm On Oct 10, 2014
onoja12:
after all that hope you feel better now,as for crime,is society that determines what amounts to a crime,and this is arrived at by the thinking of such society,like i said before probably in the uk a crime may have been committed but for Nigeria,no crime has been committed,and you can't force us to see things the way you see it just because you are in uk

she has to answer for the crime she committed. whether it's a crime in nigeria is a moot point. no one is asking nigerian courts to sentence her, we are saying grandma should be brought back to the UK to answer for the crime she committed.

bournvita:

Buuahahahahahahahahahahaha cheesy I was wondering why it took you this long to unleash some of your venom on her. You are a very patient man Coogar and I must commend you on that

i am now bornagain. grin

SirShymex:

Bwahahahaha
I'm sure Dailymail can't wait to get the sole right to publishing this news and more. Top page material! grin

dailymail cannot wait to hear that this woman has been arrested. expect this story to cover about 3 pages - they will print photos of the grandma's house, her neighbours & the whole shebang!
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:16pm On Oct 10, 2014
coogar:


ahhhhhhh, no wonder.

he's probably hiding in a bunker now. with PH thugs on the lookout for him, he cannot be safe. for £100, his local government chairman would rat him out easily. grin cheesy

It's like that's how much it took to rat your deluded family out of the bunker.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 10, 2014
bournvita:


I honestly wish I could answer your question. I honestly wish I could...Seun is to blame for all this. If only he insisted on people uploading a picture of them holding their degree certificates online with their drivers license or national ID card or passport, before they could become a member, some of us will not be subjected to sharing a thread with the person you quoted.


lmaooo grin

Omo, I was looking at NL political section and one expose page. The same people that claimed educated, rich, and classy looks hungry, tired and pathetic. TBH, many on this NL are uneducated and miserable.

That thread was SHOCKING!
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 10, 2014
Ilekere:

It takes two to make a baby. Both were irresponsible, just that one had to take care of the "mistake". Granted, she was irresponsible to get herself impregnated by a coward, but he was also irresponsible for getting a girl pregnant without financial stability.

He wasn't handcuffed to a mattress and raped, obviously she wasn't raped either. So why blame one party and leave one blameless?

You want to know why there's a real breakdown in the black community? Because men are left blameless, they feel no sense of guilt or conscience. They then are able to carry on and impregnate another girl without repercussion, aside from child support fees.

Not absolving the guy. Obviously, it takes two to tango. However, she knew what she was getting herself and the kid into. And I'm sure when the guy rejected the kid, he must have stated his reasons. So, why not think about that?

All the parties involved, except the innocent kid, are guilty.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by 50calibre(m): 7:19pm On Oct 10, 2014
BananaBender:


I wasn't aware that I lost it undecided

I don't speak to dead people. Stop randomly calling my name on threads I have nothing to do with.

Did Mondi call 50calibre your gf?? Bwahahahahaha, that was funny grin grin grin

Hahahaha funny!! Laugh till you incur my wrath.

Laugh your way to suicide grin

You've been keeping a low profile, staying below my radar, now you've chosen to surface. Hmmmm!!
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 10, 2014
SirShymex:


I'm sure you're not oblivious to the single parent households which are now more or less the bane of the black community in diaspora. And the more people keep trying to fix the idi.otic break-down in the black family structure that keeps producing misfits - the more folks like this chic and her apologists keep messing things up for everyone else.
She's an irresponsible girl! Don't bring innocent children into this world, if what you're bringing them into is a quagmire. That's just common sense.
if these women are making themselves pregnant then i would understand. Is takes a woman and a man to make a child. I have a mother who brought up 2 children outside of marriage, who are now happily married with their own children. Funny enough my dad's favourite out of all his child is one his step-daughters. There are many children brought up by 2 married people that still turn up to be f*ucked up beyond measure, so you cannot blame "producing misfits" on single parents, its caused by one's (married or unmarried) inability to train up in the way a child should go.

The mistake this woman made was not being a child into this world, it was trusting the wrong person with her child.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 10, 2014
coogar:

she has to answer for the crime she committed. whether it's a crime in nigeria is a moot point. no one is asking nigerian courts to sentence her, we are saying grandma should be brought back to the UK to answer for the crime she committed.

i am now bornagain. grin

dailymail cannot wait to hear that this woman has been arrested. expect this story to cover about 3 pages - they will print photos of the grandma's house, her neighbours & the whole shebang!

I'm not a fan of dailymail - but I definitely won't miss that! grin

Expect a lot of twists with background information. And the comments should be hysterical - classic dailymail nutters on the prowl! grin

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