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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by BABE3: 5:52pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
bukatyne: What's the correlation please? We have aethiests and "unbelievablers" with wonderful marriages. Instead of paying attention to yourself, you're busy fasting and praying (not you), and tieing wrapper around the house. When exactly won't that spirit of God waka pass that marraige ? And like they say, you're only as faithful as your options. A slacking spouse is playing with "faya". 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by crackhaus: 5:55pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:All these just cos I asked about the price...SMBigH Okay, brain tease: How many people know you consider poser photos awkward? Does your dad know? Does he not know you? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 5:56pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
BABE3: they said tying wrapper is the only way wives can portray decency. 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: They had better be careful. Its getting dark. Its safer buying a treadmill or step coogar: For every Okoya there are 1 million unknowns . . . . The unknown retiree men sitting at home by themselves or at best living with one young boy from the village who helps him to cook soup, while his wife is in the US looking after her 10th grandchild Every Xmas the kids send baba $250 to buy christmas chicken and Maltina and he gets a 5 minute phonecall once a week. He is the lonlely old man who sits on his balcony reading Daily sport and watching the world go by. coogar: Go and sit down! Grrrrrrr Which Moremi Hall? The one in your borough? So according to you, 45 year old okada drivers have girlfriends in Moremi hall . . .Like my daughter says . . are you joking me? coogar: Yes!!! you can both do it together . . .and still enjoy life Hubby and I put on our trainers and take evening power walks. Its fun and you are doing something healthy. it gives you a chance to jist and get some fresh air too. There are a heap of other things that you can do to make yourself attractive to each other too. Size 8 or 6 pack doesnt mean your work is finsihed as a wife/husband. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by BABE3: 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: That's what I heard too. Double wrapper, scarf and turtle neck....with white satin underskirt or 'tights' 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by chlowi(f): 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
austine4real: Am not married! I just dnt like it when married women/men Cheat! Stay faithful or. Get a divorce or better still marry more. Than. One woman or man!!! (if you buy that school of thought anyways!!! |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
crackhaus: Poser photos are one of the many reasons why I am not on Facebook, so people who know me, know what I think of them, even my father. And my father also knows what type of men his daughter is interested in and men with half-n*aked bodies in their pics are definitely not what I would go for. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 6:09pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
BABE3: you forgot pink satin underskirt. chaircover: who are they? abeg, any man who lived a fulfilled life wouldn't worry about loneliness or whatever. that's just nollywood.
so because he's not globetrotting like his wife means he's regretting? why would i as a father go to my son's house & spend 3 months there in the name of omugwo? someone should please tell chaircover that men(real men) don't give a damn about such nonsense........ and what kinda kids would abandon their father too? the scenario just doesn't add up. just because a man had many women in his life doesn't mean he would be abandoned by his kids. that assertion is just flawed.
money is the name of game! if an okada man is willing to match the asking prices, he would get laid in naija.
so you actually do your aerobics with your hubby and you are arguing like it's not important. why don't you refuse to go power-walking?
but it's a step in the right direction. i wanna wake up everyday to still see the shape of the woman i courted.....that's the attraction. she has to keep me coming back for more.........that's the only thing that would make me tell my mates that i ain't going to the pub cos something appetising awaits me at home. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: So you've never taken a picture of your man half naked before?? Men are just as superficial as women. Not a big deal, but I get why you might find it awkward. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by austine4real(m): 6:11pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
chlowi:i knw am just hppy d@ we'r cheating 2nght i wll xpectin u |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by chlowi(f): 6:14pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
austine4real: you are a confirmed clown!!! Now enough of the mentions!!! |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by crackhaus: 6:15pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Carefreewannabe anytime we get into one of these our round arguments, you should always be careful making certain claims especially when it's with me, I have the memory of an elephant. Are you not the one who at more than one time posted pics of half dressed guys with toned out abs and biceps? Wait let me guess, you were only joking around and taunting the guys you thought would feel bad by it, yes? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by iykedare(m): 6:15pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Story for the Gods. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
crackhaus: Exactly. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by BABE3: 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: forgot pink satin underskirt. I added it to my post before you quoted me. Layers and layers of yeye undergarments; how sexy! Coogar do you know some believe wearing a thong is a sin?. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: We both go powerwalking not becasue we are scared that either one of us will fall for a coogar or coogaress lookalike but because it is healthy and we enjoy spending time together. You dont understand coogar When a man begins to have other women in his life, the first wife is hurt and switches off emotionaly The kids pick up on their mums hurt and sadness and tend to look after their mum more than their dad. I know of someone whose dad asked him to send him money to buy a car. His response was NO! its not as if my mum will get to ride in the car and he went on and bought his mum a car. . . .baba still has no car. The annoying thing with these baba's is that when they now become old frail and sick, the concubines run away and its the first wife who now gets to look after him Ive seen several situations like this. Meanwhile this your argument get k-leg cos even if he has an affair with a size 8, he still comes home to his fat wife and wakes up beside her most mornings. Why not just pack out and divorce his fat wife. Why one leg in and one leg out? Why the cheating? why the lies? why the deceit? 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
iykedare: I know you were working your azz off in the gym hoping that all ladies would get weak in the knees but it won't happen. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by elipheleh(m): 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
chaircover: TAA U DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. SEXING LOTS OF WOMEN IS GOOD AND HEALTHY. SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THIS FACT AND ARE JUST HIDING THIS TRUTH FROM US THE GUYS. IF NOT ASK OUR TEENAGE GIRLS WITH 100 BOYFRIENDS NOW HOW CHEATING SWEET REACH. ALTHOUGH I AM CLEAN NOW AND DONT HAVE TIME FOR FLIRTING AT THE MOMENT, I WILL HAVE MY OWN FUN ON LIFE TOO. JUST LIKE MANY YOUNG MEN, WE ARE BUSY BUILDING OUR FINANCIAL STATUS WORKING HARD NOW, WHILE OUR FUTURE WIVES ARE BUSY WITH POT BELLY ALHAJI. LIFE NA BY STAGES. MY POINT? STOP SCARING YOUNG MEN WITH FALSE DOCTRINES ABOUT HOW CHEATING IS HARMFUL. JUST ACCEPT THAT ALL OF US MUST CHEAT. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
BananaBender: I have never done it. Not a big deal, but I get why you might find it awkward. Why? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by crackhaus: 6:21pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:21pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
elipheleh: Bacterial Vaginosis Chlamydia Genital Herpes Gonorrhea Hepatitis B Hepatitis C Human Papillomavirus Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV) Pubic Lice (Crabs) Scabies Syphilis Trichomoniasis Yeast Infections ... 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
crackhaus: Is there a price for it? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 6:23pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
crackhaus: Neither were we discussing law; it was just an expression What scripture again? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by austine4real(m): 6:24pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
chlowi:quiet plz dnt let ppl hear our discussion..i wnt us cheat LMAO:-D:-D |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 6:28pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
chaircover: yes - the above is the diplomatic explanation why you guys go power-walking. the raw truth is - it's deeper than that.
i have seen the exact opposite! women painting their husbands bad to the kids only for the kids to figure the real truth out later in their adult life. they run back to their father & abandoned the mother cos she often lied against her hubby...... different strokes!
he comes home happy as a whistle around 4am with empty loins. do you think he's concerned about the fat wife? he rarely even eats her food at this point. divorce his fat wife ke? he has to keep up with the joneses. "happily" married man & a well known figure in the society meanwhile he's growing through hell internally. nah, infidelity is the easier option. no one knows about it....wife is happy(thinking hubby is coping with the bi-annual sėx). mistress is happy & the man is happy. what's not to like about this scenario? 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 6:31pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
BABE3: I think you & coogar are just trying to keep this thread lively I have an uncle who thinks wearing shorts around the house is wrong. So you know that make up, earrings etc. are off. My aunt's short skirts are below her knees and she does not wear sleeveless tops so your dress sexy at home, look good etc advises are lost on her. She till looks neat though. Deeper life Church has millions of members. Please ask around to know their lifestyle. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 6:33pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
BABE3: dirty looking underskirt...... you see them in church tying & retying the wrapper just to reveal the satin undergarment.
any sėx position other than missionary is a sin for most naija wives yet they fast & pray for 40 days in the wilderness for the holy spirit to keep their marriage. bukatyne: he thinks wearing shorts in the house is wrong? wrong for who? you, his wife or himself?
and this is one of the reasons bornagain christians have the highest divorce rate in the world. they throw logic out of the window & deliberately turn the holy spirit into a magician. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by austine4real(m): 6:33pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
chlowi:later church tins |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by cococandy(f): 6:36pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Very healthy stuff. Oh you didn't know? |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 6:36pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
cococandy: LOL! @edusoul, Why don't you start by asking God how He feels creating your mother? 3 Likes |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by BABE3: 6:36pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: Mish is what the holy spirit ordained. We can't go against that. bukatyne: Good for your uncle and his wife. |
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 6:40pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
cococandy: No but NL enlightened me. It is not only healthy but also body art. Better than a tattoo. Check this out. http://www.slate.com/content/dam/slate/articles/life/low_concept/2013/01/130114_LC_PubicLice.jpg.CROP.original-original.jpg 1 Like |
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