Hadizy:


Please un-quote the post. Remove the schooling story. Thanks pls.

Ehmm. Mails? I dont know how to reply them .

Did that already.

You check your mail. there's always a notification there. just click the reply button and voila you done.

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

wow! Nice one. I like the way you think(like me), lol but some people would just refuse to understand...i guess its different strokes.

Back then in school, the hottest chics dated the alpha males at the top of the "food table". Few years after graduation now, they are all marrying improved nerds/repentant "baddos". When it comes to pairing, nothing is really set in stone jare. Plus conji wont allow u to wait till u find husband/wife material b4 u date

beckyomas:

wow! Nice one. I like the way you think(like me), lol but some people would just refuse to understand...i guess its different strokes.

thanks. Yea. Different strokes for different persons.

satope1:

Did that already.
You check your mail. there's always a notification there. just click the reply button and voila you done.

Ok i will do that.

Hadizy :

Ok i will do that.

No issues. Will be expecting. Just quote me if you got any issues.

I would hv been married by nw but she is a witness so she left the man of God
So believe u me I can't do dat unless na side chick way wn give me cat chop
Mind u dat is not dating

Is like dressing a bed u will never sleep on!

Its fun

"He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing". How do you find?

You find in the midst of many girls.

It didn't say he that ppicketha girl.

Every rship must not end in marriage.

Two words "B00by Trap"

I don't date. I just bang and go

All of the men and women are echoing "I can't date a woman/man I can't marry" but as we speak 99.9 % are doing the exact opposite

Hypocrites on NL since 1500

I guess today is "Dating Sunday" on nairaland:

» Dating Someone You Will Not Marry «
» Mistakes Women Make In A Relationship «
» How Do You React To An Accidental Kiss «
» Things Guys Look At First On A Woman «

It seems the mod is trying to get our advice on a lady he is eying, albeit indirectly.

In these days of hook-ups, serial dating, friends with
benefits, stay-over relationships and other such collective
stupidity, I can understand how the real purpose of dating
has gotten lost. Just to be clear and fill in the blank for those
of you who are wondering…the whole point of dating is to
find someone you love and want to build a life with and to
get married. I know people “date” for all kind of reasons—
anything from boredom, and loneliness, to getting sex or
boosting their egos—but none of those should be the
motivation to date. It’s pretty straightforward people: If you
don’t want to get married, then don’t date.
#my 5cent

Wich kind talk be that one?
Ur mama dey cook only one soup?

temigracie:


...I cant date anyone I cant marry.....

Thats one of the major reasons I look out for some important qualities in men I consider dating.....


.....What you cant eat, dont smell it.....lailai!!!.....

how about me? I get all the qualities hope u will take my case into consideration

Y u deh ask me?of u enter one chance na u sabi cos if I say o u say e anoda man say hmm. Na u sabi.

yes you can date without marrying...

especially after u are already married.

I can't imagine how a girl must feel to be in a relationship with a guy she hopes to marry and to find out that he's planning to marry another TYPE of girl or another girl.

Waste of time, resources and investment.

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

Very thoughtful. I love smart ladies....iDey hail o!

LegendarySage:
In your teenage days, there is nothing wrong. But when you are old enough to know right from wrong, you shouldn't play him/her except it's a mutual agreement.

Thumbz up.

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.


All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

Can i buy you a drink?

Mehn! D kind lies wey dey fly comot for som guys mouth no be here See all of dem screaming 'I can't date a gal whom I can't marry'.


No 'masculine' lie fashioned against me shall prosper.

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

you just gave a befitting answer. You got lots of intrigues attached to your write up that even had to read like 3 times for the fun of it.

We have different reasons for dating different people...... Some people date for fun or just for d heck of it. That I can date a dj or actor doesn't mean I would like to marry one ooo.....there are more serious issues to consider in marriage which may not necessarily matter when dating.
Needless to say not all dates will end up in marriage.
My humble submission

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

mmmmmmm
1. u v practiced and typed wit xperience
kudos to dis.
dos d point worth it?
frnds with benefits, so go v fun jst lyk dat?
gal u v morals jst tell ur daughter dis.

WELL D TRUTH IS VIN A RELATIONSHIP IS MUCH PRACTISD DAN MARRIAGE. ITS JST DIFFICULT TO HLD D URGE OF LOST.

hadizzy and ha three lyks(victims wit no choice)
jst said v sex as far as it mks u happy.
to d who*es and pros**ti*tut**es v fun as far as d moni mks u happi

How do mean? The girl u dated back in school days both in secondary school & on campus, did u marry her.

U better avoid dating until u are ready 2 settle down. Dating a girl/guy 4 six yrs all in d name of him promising u marriage is NOT ideal.

Abstinence is the best.

I do not understand Nigerians' morbid obsession with marriage. Why must every relationship be a potential stepping stone to marriage? I am not ready for marriage, so the primary reason I dive into a relationship is that I want my nuts to lose weight, if you catch my drift.

Once you are 25, stop entertaining people u see NO future with Be focused. Mind the things u do and people u hang out with.

Must every friendship be all about marriage? Hail no! Much ado about marriage!