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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by LEAFLET(m): 10:56pm On Oct 12, 2014
Still trying to figure out what it is with women and marriage..... smiley
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by cbrass(m): 10:58pm On Oct 12, 2014
Evathyst:
Lyk seriously? Calendar date abi embarassed

Emm...the one u were talking about ni, that one that looks like courtship
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by HARDDON: 10:59pm On Oct 12, 2014
nneh1:
we all reason differently but I'll answer.

If dating requires SEX, no I won't date someone I can't marry bcs I won't X u as a friend.

If dating doesn't require SEX, of course I can date u and not marry u. angry embarassed

Sure, dont gurls just love to ride them dough instead of them d1cks?

So many fake a33s right up in here !
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by oleary(m): 11:00pm On Oct 12, 2014
Hadizy:


Truth be told am just studying the course not really trying to push foward. But graphics and video editing is my passion.

I want to do business. I like it. So business + graphics , video ....

Got some cool softwares? I've been using AE for effects but i need something more. Can u direct me?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by joe17: 11:07pm On Oct 12, 2014
donroxy:
That is why I won't even date her at all since I won't marry her and the worst is : ''I have never and can never break a heart'' !!
***yawns***
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by secretcode01: 11:08pm On Oct 12, 2014
temigracie:


...I cant date anyone I cant marry.....

Thats one of the major reasons I look out for some important qualities in men I consider dating.....


.....What you cant eat, dont smell it.....lailai!!!.....

Mtcheew! What important qualities, money and physical appearance? So when someone asks you out or you ask someone out on a date, then you're gonna know immediately if he/she is a take home guy/girl... You wanna judge a book by its cover. People pretend, study each other very well first, then eventually you're gonna know if he/she deserves your marriage.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by yehmy(m): 11:08pm On Oct 12, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
Sounds more than great mayb not too biblical.... But this is a good post cool

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:09pm On Oct 12, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
French again? Ontop all the critical analysis? Sharp girls still dey naija sha.. By the way, i donate 1 like too

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:10pm On Oct 12, 2014
cbrass:


Is this what Seun Osewa asked u to come and be doing on nairaland Wooing is prohibited bro!!




And as for you hadizy why let him woo you when am here grin


lol... Is that wooing?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by cbrass(m): 11:13pm On Oct 12, 2014
satope1:


lol... Is that wooing?

Yea, wooing in its embryonic stage

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by jomoh: 11:15pm On Oct 12, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

satope1:



Let me guess . you read law or did something along those lines.

Hadizy:


Ehmmmm why do u ask.

satope1:
just your response and the intrigues surrounding it. So are you one?

Hadizy:


**Blushing**

Thanks. However i didnt or dont read Law

satope1:
Oh ok...Didn't see your cheek turn pink though. tongue

what did you read instead?


Hadizy:


Computer Science

satope1:
Nice...so what area are you tending to now?

Programming, AI, graphics or design. ?

Just took a peep. Did I just say the word "stunning"? cheesy

Hadizy:


Truth be told am just studying the course not really trying to push foward. But graphics and video editing is my passion.

I want to do business. I like it. So business + graphics , video ....


satope1:
But why would you study a course you don't have a passion for. Oh I forgot. Naija admission issues.

What level now?

I hope we aren't derailing the thread already.

Hadizy:

....

U saw the reply.

Hadizy:
'some post missing'
On derailing the thread this will be my last post. I feel guilty myself.

satope1:
oh ok. That's a lot of moving around. As for the derailing. The mail option is there. Care to respond. ?

Hadizy:


Please un-quote the post. Remove the schooling story. Thanks pls.

Ehmm. Mails? I dont know how to reply them .

satope1:


Did that already.

You check your mail. there's always a notification there. just click the reply button and voila you done.

Hadizy:


Ok i will do that.


satope1:
No issues. Will be expecting. Just quote me if you got any issues.

See how this guy take style excuse babe comot this thread/crowd for private chat.

Has anyone seen these two around here after their last posts? Didn't think so. Chai! Badt Guy......Smooth Criminal.

Another Nairaland couple in the pipe. Let us know the ....ing date o. At least let me give an "I was there ....." Toast.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:18pm On Oct 12, 2014
Stelvin101:
Two words "B00by Trap"
hahahahahahaa! Wait! I don't get it...
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ripo(m): 11:19pm On Oct 12, 2014
UchihaMadara:
I guess today is "Dating Sunday" on nairaland:

» Dating Someone You Will Not Marry «
» Mistakes Women Make In A Relationship «
» How Do You React To An Accidental Kiss «
» Things Guys Look At First On A Woman «


It seems the mod is trying to get our advice on a lady he is eying, albeit indirectly.


Initially, I thought I was in the Romance /Relationship section. What a Sunday!
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 12, 2014
[quote
author=lebesgue post=27092022]I do not understand Nigerians' morbid
obsession with marriage. Why must every relationship be a potential
stepping stone to marriage? I am not ready for marriage, so the primary
reason I dive into a relationship is that I want my nuts to lose weight,
if you catch my drift.[/quote]





I catch ur drift bro...lol

@Hadizy,u go girl... smiley

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 12, 2014
EmmyDe25:

Guy, why you dey chew gum this Hadizy babe now, shes a minor please. Dont be a paedophile. Thanks.

!
See you o...She's above 18 and someone who could pen such up there is definitely not a minor.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 12, 2014
cbrass:


Yea, wooing in its embryonic stage
ok o.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by poweredcom(m): 11:26pm On Oct 12, 2014
date someone i cant marry..omo me na the under i dey go.....hit n run
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 12, 2014
jomoh:





See how this guy take style excuse babe comot this thread/crowd for private chat. Chai! Badt Guy......Smooth Criminal...

lol...I didn't do that joor...She's very intelligent and I just enjoyed talking to her. It's rear to find such breed around here...
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:32pm On Oct 12, 2014
Evathyst:
Hmmnn Hmnnn!! D kinda lies being peddled here is one dt can make even d devil blush with embarrassment. U av never nd wil never break a heart


How poetic undecided


Although I don't know u, but somtin in me tell me u typed dt statement for fun lipsrsealed
I pity all doz small small gals wey u don tel ds kind big lie to....
let me just be a gentle man with you because your profile suggested a girl that is insecure and severely jilted by internet dudes .... !!

I didn't post for you to believe me and it is simply nonsensical of you to be calling people you never meet nor know children simply because they aired their motives on a thread !!!

With your mentality , you will always attract the bad ones cuz when the good one talk , you won't believe !!!

Little girl !!
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by cbrass(m): 11:34pm On Oct 12, 2014
satope1:
ok o.

So how market grin. Have you guys exchange contacts?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by piagetskinner(m): 11:34pm On Oct 12, 2014
Abeg wetin b the difference btw dating and going on a date....I'm guessing the former is present continuousundecided

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by jomoh: 11:34pm On Oct 12, 2014
satope1:


lol...I didn't do that joor...She's very intelligent and I just enjoyed talkong to her. It's rear to find such breed around here...

I get ur gist the, gel beatiful for brain **not seen her pics though** but its your game bro.

No sweat. Nothing do you
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 12, 2014
jomoh:


I get ur gist the, gel beatiful for brain **not seen her pics though** but its your game bro.

No sweat. Nothing do you
You should have seen the previous one she uploaded before this...

Game? Lets see to that.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by cbrass(m): 11:37pm On Oct 12, 2014
donroxy:
let me just be a gentle man with you because your profile suggested a girl that is insecure and severely jilted by internet dudes .... !!

I didn't post for you to believe me and it is simply nonsensical of you to be calling people you never meet nor know children simply because they aired their motives on a thread !!!

With your mentality , you will always attract the bad ones cuz when the good one talk , you won't believe !!!

Little girl !!

Oops , that's a T.K.O grin

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by yehmy(m): 11:41pm On Oct 12, 2014
satope1:
You should have seen the previous one she uploaded before this...

Game? Lets see to that.
Sharp Guy grin
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by mindmatikx(m): 11:46pm On Oct 12, 2014
i can.....simply side chick principle.....###living for d moment
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ferdinandex: 11:46pm On Oct 12, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
sis, I agree with your point o... But sincerely it doesn't apply here. Why date someone yhu knw yu definitely can't marry? Ok.. Yu wanted a fling and from a fling yhu get emotionally attached in such a way dat yhu jes can't let her go because yu're afraid yu'll leave her heart broken and still you know you can't marry her. In such case wetin. You go come do na? Dats why it's necessary to define wah yhu like in a gal and always go for gals dat meet yur taste so dat in case of any mishappening, yu knw she can easily fit in as a wife. Nobi say yu go chop gal finish come dey tell her say she no meet yur taste... Na Devil himsef go Build Mansion for your life.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by mindmatikx(m): 11:50pm On Oct 12, 2014
frendx wit benefit
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by jomoh: 11:51pm On Oct 12, 2014
satope1:
You should have seen the previous one she uploaded before this...

Game? Lets see to that.

**runs to see her profile pic** O my goodness. You mean Hadizy's pic is for real? On Nairaland?

This one na complete package "brain and beauty".

Eleyi Gidi gan

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Sanmix2007(m): 11:51pm On Oct 12, 2014
donroxy:
That is why I won't even date her at all since I won't marry her and the worst is : ''I have never and can never break a heart'' !!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by SirTunechi(f): 11:52pm On Oct 12, 2014
why not?
I thought practice makes perfect grin

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by mmmustapha(m): 11:59pm On Oct 12, 2014
That one na friends with benefits

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