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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ELGREF(m): 4:58am On Oct 13, 2014
temigracie:


...I cant date anyone I cant marry.....

Thats one of the major reasons I look out for some important qualities in men I consider dating.....


.....What you cant eat, dont smell it.....lailai!!!.....
how do you know quality men? How do you consider/know he was serious for mariage?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 5:03am On Oct 13, 2014
impactz:


They are talking about dating this one is saying a different thing
so you think what i said didnt go with the topic
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by hezy4real01(m): 5:13am On Oct 13, 2014
Only God knows who that lucky man or woman is.... But nevertheless disappointment is not the best for both parties.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ELGREF(m): 5:15am On Oct 13, 2014
[quote author=Hadizy post=27069868]Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon kudos to you, you must be a lawyer/journalist, if you fall into any of this, your service is needed

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by justmag(m): 5:15am On Oct 13, 2014
Dating someone u will not marry is like driving a car with no gas in it...."its not going anywhere!" Then again....some people have married people they never thought they'll ever ever get married to. So u never knew!!
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by justmag(m): 5:17am On Oct 13, 2014
[quote author=ELGREF post=27096172][/quote]

That's the gospel right there!! Preach brother! Preach!! Well said! smiley
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by born2boink(m): 5:23am On Oct 13, 2014
temigracie:



mtcheeeewww.......Please, be reasonable for once....
what?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by bidexmat(m): 5:35am On Oct 13, 2014
abi oooo. many lads go test run enter ditch com dey shout y me? same question wey nearly mud tu baba!(quote author=irishCream post=27073486]See pretenders everywhere... undecided


When y'all (babes) know deep down ur reason for dating that nigga is for his cash



Or good seex finish


Aside from that u shld be courting not dating


And the guys be test running and sampling punany in the name of dating undecided[/quote]
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by christopher123(m): 5:39am On Oct 13, 2014
The problem with Nigerian girls ....they think all relationship is for marriage and they think every girl will eventually marry

It doesn't work that way

They should know better
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by lakamua: 5:41am On Oct 13, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
This is the definition of pure social intelligence. Neva in my life have i seen a lady that can reason like this. If u are truly a lady, then ur kind is almost extinct.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by kaboninc(m): 5:48am On Oct 13, 2014
brilapluz:


aren't we saying the same thing..
how wud you know the future if you are not HOPEFUL of it or have that inner CONVICTION or belief that there is going to be a better tomorrow( FUTURE )...?
go back and read 'slowly' what i wrote...unless you dont understand what i said previously or u just want to make an unnecessary point....smh undecided

Some of you guys are just silly. I should go back and slowly read your comment...because you want to present yourself as what..? You should go read my reply to your comment. Always looking for grounds to throw out insults. You miss road.

This is your reply when I asked you if you know what your future holds:
brilapluz:

ofcourse i do...

And then I said 'WOW!.....'

Can't you understand simple English words or you're that daft that you feel like starting the day with insults?

Abeg don't add your diseased mindset to this already diseased world. If nothing to do, sleep, morning never break.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ramdris(m): 6:01am On Oct 13, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Now this is what I call an intelligent contribution. You are surely my man of d week. People always assume dey av full control of How they can do things. But trust me bro, life throws some gbege at u dat brings out some other attributes u urself will find it hard to believe u v change.
Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Ifebazz(m): 6:03am On Oct 13, 2014
So who will date the Senators and NASS guys and Governors and Commissioners etc? Or all those runs girls go marry 20+ men?
Dating is like a chemistry experiment, the elements cannot react until they're mixed up.
That's one of the major reasons ladies fall into bad relationships, cos they are 'selecting' based on some mundane criteria a guy to date; does he have a car, is he tall, white teeth, etc? Men too though only three criteria; can she cook, is she pretty and good in bed?
So date anybody dude, cos nobody 'knows' who he/she is going to marry.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Missmossy(f): 6:30am On Oct 13, 2014
Its a complete waste of time! Why date someone you have no future plans for?

I really can't as whats the essence of your dating if there is no possibility of it culminating into marriage.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by chibwike(m): 6:31am On Oct 13, 2014
Missmossy:
Its a complete waste of time! Why date someone you have no future plans for?

I really can't as whats the essence of your dating if there is no possibility of it culminating into marriage.
Dont worry, i will marry you
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by clemzo101(m): 6:33am On Oct 13, 2014
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Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Chommieblaq(f): 6:35am On Oct 13, 2014
If I can date n love u, den I can marry u. always pray to end up with d person am dating.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by clemzo101(m): 6:42am On Oct 13, 2014
It is applicable just for certain age grade, u don't expect a 15 year old guy or geh to be thinking about dat wen he/she is in a relationship because dere are many more things to xplore in life. But u wld expect a 30yr old man and above to start thinking about dat. All I am saying is dat priority differs within certain age range. And the reason why we have so many frustrated people now adays especially ladies is dat they think any relationship dey go into shld lead to marriage and when such a relationship fails den she start acting like someone dat wants to die.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by idu1(m): 6:43am On Oct 13, 2014
Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!
U re too much nd am..........

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Missmossy(f): 6:53am On Oct 13, 2014
chibwike:
Dont worry, i will marry you
Lolcheesy we aint even dating.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by val4sure(m): 6:53am On Oct 13, 2014
Been in relationship is not a guarantee for the two folks to end up been couples,people are into a relationship for many reasons,d reason u had in mind may not be d same with anoda.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by kenex4ever(m): 6:58am On Oct 13, 2014
ibietela2:


For sure? Can i get your contact please? I am going for CS too
yes u can 070389719**, to get d remaining two numbers, they r d 303rd and the 1004th value of PIE. Am her manager-I manage her affairs.
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by chibwike(m): 7:05am On Oct 13, 2014
Missmossy:

Lolcheesy we aint even dating.
We are dating jor
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by nneh1(f): 7:10am On Oct 13, 2014
HARDDON:


Sure, dont gurls just love to ride them dough instead of them d1cks?

So many fake a33s right up in here !


Seriously I don't understand u
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by freecocoa(f): 7:19am On Oct 13, 2014
So people now see the future and I didn't know? I must be in another planet.

Just how do you know you'll end up marrying the one you date/dating?

If there's one thing I'm sure of in this life, it is that, no one knows what tomorrow holds, therefore impossible is nothing.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by silversonuc(m): 7:31am On Oct 13, 2014
irishCream:
See pretenders everywhere... undecided


When y'all (babes) know deep down ur reason for dating that nigga is for his cash



Or good seex finish


Aside from that u shld be courting not dating


And the guys be test running and sampling punany in the name of dating undecided
realest babe eva, u nd dat hadiza are d bomb eish, God bless y'all , shun all em pretending folks
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by gidjah(m): 7:36am On Oct 13, 2014
Ipledge:
i dont date who i cant marry,so my only advice for person dating who he cant marry is to always use condom make he no see wetin go force am marry her
MY dear,dat na SERIOUS trouble abi na gobe !most of us young men hav fallen prey to such antics .but how can u tel if shes is going to be or not?u could start wit d intention of marriage but suddenly noticed she is a no no !How For Do In That Case?
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Odunharry(m): 7:38am On Oct 13, 2014
free2ryhme:
All of the men and women are echoing "I can't date a woman/man I can't marry" but as we speak 99.9 % are doing the exact opposite

Hypocrites on NL since 1500
true
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by TDstarr: 7:45am On Oct 13, 2014
Lemme share a story,
I dated a girl and I told her I won't marry her dat we should just date, guess what??, she now brought out her true colours, lazy,nagging bitch, women pretend when marriage is involed
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by CaniiiceDim(m): 7:48am On Oct 13, 2014
These comments I see here are nothing but UNDILUTED HYPOCRISY.

Naija peeps,,, Una too lie abeg...

The truth is We all date someone we may find cute and lovely, even when we know we can't marry them.

A cute rich guy would come to woo a lady, and even tell her that he is engaged, YET, THE BABE WOULD AGREE TO DATE HIM.
It happens Everyday...
Simply, there are guys that babes find irresistible.
They don't mind being his side chick.
They just want to be a share holder in his life..
YET, THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T MARRY THEM Ooo.

Make una no dey lie nau...

As for guys,
Their own na transparent lie.
They become single and searching once they meet a bootilicious pretty chick,
Even when they have 6 other girlfriends whom they know they can't marry.

Did I mention the married guys wey no dey let girls rest?
Or the married ladies that develop hot blood once they see a charming guy ?
THOSE ONES TOO DEY MARRY THOSE THEIR DATES Abi ??

Until we stop this hypocrisy for nairaland,
We won't head anywhere.

Fake people full here.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by valdes00(m): 7:50am On Oct 13, 2014
I can't date who I can't marry..... Ppl can lie.... As for me ooo, I can date who I can't marry.... infact, I can't marry my current gf.... Buh we r still datin, her red card dey cum @ d right tym.... Wohts my own...
Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by silversonuc(m): 7:52am On Oct 13, 2014
Evathyst:
Mehn! D kind lies wey dey fly comot for som guys mouth no be here See all of dem screaming 'I can't date a gal whom I can't marry'.


No 'masculine' lie fashioned against me shall prosper. lipsrsealed

nwanyioma calm dwn , hehehehe

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