After my letter to the single guys, people asked fr d female version it's here
A Letter To Single Ladies
Greetings to you the most adorable paragon of
God's creature. A rare jewel and the mother of
life.
I write this letter to you to understand some
important things that are of great importance to
your life and future in which negligence to these
would cause you more harm than good.
Please spare me some little time to read through.
I promise not to bore you through this piece. It
won't be lengthy, I promise!
My first major concern is about your dressing. I
know it's not all of you that has issue with this.
See, you don't need to show us your cleavage or
the details of your body by wearing that tight
fitted clothes. Your dressing will determine how
you're addressed and who will approach you.
Some men are 'weaker vessels', when they see
your revealing clothes, they commit fornication
and lust in their heart. Endeavor not to be a
reason for such men to commit sin.
We know beautiful ladies. It is not until you wear
that heavy make-up before you look good. Real
men don't place much emphasis on looks but we
are much concerned about what you can offer us
as a wife, a mother, a friend and a suitable help
meet.
Take time to build your 'content' (character,
strength, passion) rather than place so much
emphasis on your looks. Real men marry ladies
that have great contents but playboys and gold
diggers are so crazy about your looks. Being
moderate looks great with!
No man can love you better if you fail to love
yourself so well. This is not pride but self-esteem.
Raise your standards so that you can sieve out
'ordinary' men. It takes a strong man with vision
and purpose to approach a strong woman. Become
one! Don't be managed but be celebrated and
adored.
Someone of you don't understand the word called
love. Most of you are emotional. Easily aroused by
sweet lies and empty clatterings that some guys
use. Love is not only in word, frequent calls,
chatting, text messages or 'false' care so as to get
you in bed. It is practical - in sacrifice and
commitment.
Love isn't that butterfly feelings you have. Love is
all about making wise decision on who you'd
commit your heart to in love. This will determine
your peace of mind and happiness, now and in the
future. Look before you leap!
Don't let feelings drive you into a relationship
because it is temporal and would change
overtime. It is only when you are ready to make
that decision based on some carefully considered
factors that you should start a love relationship.
You may not accept this, but it's the truth. It is
not a must that you should be in a relationship
when you are not ready for marriage. Yes! Any
relationship that doesn't add value to you will
take away something valuable from you. Many of
you, due to loneliness, intimidation or desperation
entered into a relationship, only to bite your
finger in the long run. This would make you to say
all men are wicked. Not so my dear. Some of us
would treat you the way we'd treat our mothers
and sisters.
As a single lady, God has completely made you, if
you know this truth. No man, I repeat, no man
can make you complete. You have a brain and a
functioning mind. Your completeness lies in
getting a life and building it. Get a career -
pursue it! Or learn a trade - gain expertise!
It's somehow sad that most of you fall victim of
premarital sex because you attach sex to love. A
man can have sex with you without loving you,
tomorrow, he's gone with other ladies. He'd even
deny ever knowing you. Treasure your dignity. A
real man will not culture you for sex but would
bring out the best in you.
Rather than become a mother by circumstance,
take your time to become a mother by choice. You
will bear the consequences alone if you allow a
man to have sex with you without paying any
bridal price. Nursing the baby alone, delay in your
plans and progress in life and the pain of
motherhood which you didn't prepare for are the
things you won't want to bear.
I still have more to say, but I'll will sum up this
letter by quoting a Nigerian Proverb; "Many words
won't fill the gourd, only adhere to that which has
been said". I hope you'd consider all these points
I've listed. Do so and be wise!

Nice one bro

Op thumbs up..nyc 1

A rare jewel and the mother of life.

You sure?.. Some ladies na MOTHER of death o..

Wow.... Twale to you Op

Nice Post.God bless you.

A very nice one OP.

Lets strive to be the best we can ever be,

Strive to fully equip ourselves for the journey ahead,

Strive to be an asset not a liability,

Strive to make the world a better place beginning from that little corner where we are,


All other good things of life comes crawling at our feet seeking for our attention.

Beautiful piece

Remix

A guy needs a lady who will understand him, who can stand by him and encourage him to reach his full potential, who can spur him on and always remind him dat he can make it no matter all odds. A lady who can come into his life and put things right dat were wrong, dat can get him to be organised and focused

Ladies and their fickle minds. I hope they appreciate this and adhere. Sad that possessions and money rule their minds with the iron grip of a slaver.

*yawns*

Nl guys b criticizing girls since 1908BC






Nice post op

You deserve a Medal

I knew this was coming... Hmmmmmmm!!!

Oya single ladies,over to you.

imsuboi:
hmm. Is this write up for naija females?

I think not.


OP. A typical naija female would come here, read this your lengthy juicy post, say some nice stuff like "Wow. Nice write up"

& still open up her legs to the next dude that comes around with a flashy ride & some dough to blow.


I don't mean to generalize sha, but head to either PH or Owerri then you'd see what I'm talking about.

By engaging in a deep intellectual converation with some of them, you'd discover that the "content" is not there. Loyal, Classy Females are hard to find these days.

You mean those ones who travel to Owerri every weekend ?

Nice points, hope ladies can work on themselves with this writeup cos is for there own good.

kentozybee:
After my letter to the single guys, people asked fr d female version it's here
A Letter To Single Ladies
Greetings to you the most adorable paragon of
God's creature. A rare jewel and the mother of
life.
I write this letter to you to understand some
important things that are of great importance to
your life and future in which negligence to these
would cause you more harm than good.
Please spare me some little time to read through.
I promise not to bore you through this piece. It
won't be lengthy, I promise!
My first major concern is about your dressing. I
know it's not all of you that has issue with this.
See, you don't need to show us your cleavage or
the details of your body by wearing that tight
fitted clothes. Your dressing will determine how
you're addressed and who will approach you.
Some men are 'weaker vessels', when they see
your revealing clothes, they commit fornication
and lust in their heart. Endeavor not to be a
reason for such men to commit sin.
We know beautiful ladies. It is not until you wear
that heavy make-up before you look good. Real
men don't place much emphasis on looks but we
are much concerned about what you can offer us
as a wife, a mother, a friend and a suitable help
meet.
Take time to build your 'content' (character,
strength, passion) rather than place so much
emphasis on your looks. Real men marry ladies
that have great contents but playboys and gold
diggers are so crazy about your looks. Being
moderate looks great with!
No man can love you better if you fail to love
yourself so well. This is not pride but self-esteem.
Raise your standards so that you can sieve out
'ordinary' men. It takes a strong man with vision
and purpose to approach a strong woman. Become
one! Don't be managed but be celebrated and
adored.
Someone of you don't understand the word called
love. Most of you are emotional. Easily aroused by
sweet lies and empty clatterings that some guys
use. Love is not only in word, frequent calls,
chatting, text messages or 'false' care so as to get
you in bed. It is practical - in sacrifice and
commitment.
Love isn't that butterfly feelings you have. Love is
all about making wise decision on who you'd
commit your heart to in love. This will determine
your peace of mind and happiness, now and in the
future. Look before you leap!
Don't let feelings drive you into a relationship
because it is temporal and would change
overtime. It is only when you are ready to make
that decision based on some carefully considered
factors that you should start a love relationship.
You may not accept this, but it's the truth. It is
not a must that you should be in a relationship
when you are not ready for marriage. Yes! Any
relationship that doesn't add value to you will
take away something valuable from you. Many of
you, due to loneliness, intimidation or desperation
entered into a relationship, only to bite your
finger in the long run. This would make you to say
all men are wicked. Not so my dear. Some of us
would treat you the way we'd treat our mothers
and sisters.
As a single lady, God has completely made you, if
you know this truth. No man, I repeat, no man
can make you complete. You have a brain and a
functioning mind. Your completeness lies in
getting a life and building it. Get a career -
pursue it! Or learn a trade - gain expertise!
It's somehow sad that most of you fall victim of
premarital sex because you attach sex to love. A
man can have sex with you without loving you,
tomorrow, he's gone with other ladies. He'd even
deny ever knowing you. Treasure your dignity. A
real man will not culture you for sex but would
bring out the best in you.
Rather than become a mother by circumstance,
take your time to become a mother by choice. You
will bear the consequences alone if you allow a
man to have sex with you without paying any
bridal price. Nursing the baby alone, delay in your
plans and progress in life and the pain of
motherhood which you didn't prepare for are the
things you won't want to bear.
I still have more to say, but I'll will sum up this
letter by quoting a Nigerian Proverb; "Many words
won't fill the gourd, only adhere to that which has
been said". I hope you'd consider all these points
I've listed. Do so and be wise!

...which letter & to which ladies?.....dak skin females or light skin females?

..wots goin on?

Very good OP. and there's more here about both sexes

https://www.nairaland.com/1954668/looking-perfect-partner-really-unfair

...we not tryna hate but juss try a under stand his mission.....the boy right story like father chrismas and yet....no punnny reward.


....our questions;...wots the logic? ...serrriosly?

I pray my comment does not enter the second page.I want to be on the front page too.Nice one@ op

LadyCaty:
Op thumbs up..nyc 1

runaway cathy

By engaging in a deep intellectual
converation with some of them,
you'd discover that the "content" is
not there. Loyal, Classy Females are
hard to find these days.

Lol.. Nice one OP..

kentozybee:


We know beautiful ladies. It is not until you wear
that heavy make-up before you look good. Real
men don't place much emphasis on looks but we
are much concerned about what you can offer us
as a wife, a mother, a friend and a suitable help
meet.
Take time to build your 'content' (character,
strength, passion) rather than place so much
emphasis on your looks. Real men marry ladies
that have great contents but playboys and gold
diggers are so crazy about your looks. Being
moderate looks great with!

Okay.. This part I have a problem with.
I like to feel good about myself so I place emphasis on how I look before I step out of the house.
I think boys need to understand that most girls don't make up to attract men.. infact very few do. I wear make up cos it makes me feel prettier and more confident... has nothing to do with a guy..

So if my makeup has got me running into play boys then.... its safe to say that the "so called" good guys like to judge a book by its cover..Not so good if u ask me..

No man can love you better if you fail to love
yourself so well. This is not pride but self-esteem.

I couldn't agree more with this point.. this is soooo true.

The earlier a girl realizes this, the better for her.

Nicely written tho.. thumbs up.

.

I just hope they will hear cos girls of nowadays are very much after material things such that they are easily used and dumped at the mere flaunting of flashy things by guys.

I like this part "Love isn't that butterfly feelings you have. Love is
all about making wise decision on who you'd
commit your heart to in love. This will determine
your peace of mind and happiness, now and in the
future. Look before you leap!"

Love has become one of the most confusing source of debate, people never agree abt wat the true meaning of love is, the "butterfly feeling" is what people describe when they talk abt love

NICE!!!

INTERESTING PIECE!!!