There is this young man we hired as a family driver for more than a year now. He happens to be a graduate of one of the polytechnics in lagos and is well groomed. I don't know what this is but I've never given him any attention or even noticed his several outstanding qualities until now. It is like my eyes just opened or he changed his overall appearance and attitude at work. This feeling is now something I cannot deal with and I'm beginning to make obvious advances at him, which happens beyond my control. Just yesterday,
when he dropped me after work, I
surprisingly pecked him on the cheek and stared in his eyes for almost 10 minutes, not knowing what to say. My husband, being so busy with work isn't aware of my
new attraction, but I want this nonsense to stop before it gets out of control. My driver is obviously still awed by my advances and should be thinking about my latest actions. Please how do I kill this feeling before he
starts getting interested in me. I'm very sure that when he gets interested, I won't be able to refuse his advances. Please I need your advice. This is serious.

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ENELDEE:
There is this young man we hired as a family driver for more than a year now. He happens to be a graduate of one of the polytechnics in lagos and is well groomed. I don't know what this is but I've never given him any attention or even noticed his several outstanding qualities until now. It is like my eyes just opened or he changed his overall appearance and attitude at work. This feeling is now something I cannot deal with and I'm beginning to make obvious advances at him, which happens beyond my control. Just yesterday,
when he dropped me after work, I
surprisingly pecked him on the cheek and stared in his eyes for almost 10 minutes, not knowing what to say. My husband, being so busy with work isn't aware of my
new attraction, but I want this nonsense to stop before it gets out of control. My driver is obviously still awed by my advances and should be thinking about my latest actions. Please how do I kill this feeling before he
starts getting interested in me. I'm very sure that when he gets interested, I won't be able to refuse his advances. Please I need your advice. This is serious.

www.naijalovedoctor.com/2014/10/im-attracted-to-my-family-driver-how-do.html

simply sack him

Its all about self control but if you cant control yourself,i recommend you free the guy and find another driver before it gets more serious.Unless of course if the guy is worth your marriage.

You have you answer. Please act quickly.

Attraction happens everyday, but this guy has access to almost all your private and available moments so it is different from attraction to the opposite sex at a distance.

It happens to us all but save yourself and your loved ones from one moment of emotional vulnerability.

Cheers and best of luck. ..

Ride him and start pretending like it never happened. Better still, tell your husband.

did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?... did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?...

Number one• Yhu r confused....

Number two• Y did yhu rush into marriage since yhu no one dik can't serve yhu?

Number three• Yhu nid deliverance..

Finally, if yhu sack d guy, t wil be an avenue for yhu to hook up wid hm in hotels..

Madam pls wake up from ur sleep. Leave d poor driver alone. Monkey dey sleep.... .Direct this new emotional rage to ur husband and take ur eyes away from Mr driver. When d bubble will burst, d poor driver will be d first casualty. And rremember the scandal dat will follow u forever. A moment of emotional madness can last u a lifetime. Enough said.

If u can't control ur feelings u better sack him

Simple. Sack and employ him as ur husband.

Out of sight, out of mind : get a new driver

boboLIL:
Number one• Yhu r confused....

Number two• Y did yhu rush into marriage since yhu no one dik can't serve yhu?

Number three• Yhu nid deliverance..

Finally, if yhu sack d guy, t wil be an avenue for yhu to hook up wid hm in hotels..

buahahahahahaha laughing in Japanese, no mind the attention seek

eiya, the man will be a victim of ur urges because if you can't control it, you may have to sack him.

Ugh!! all the Sack him sack him sack him sick him sack him ! Even if he recolates to Sierria Leone If its gonna happen it will happen.

@Op I have only one thing to say:





















You need deliverance!
You're under the York of LUST!!
Set yourself free now before it's too late.

Mr. OP, so you expect me to believe this poorly woven story? You're wicked!

lol,na advice she ask for na....no kee her with insults

tell your husband

Don't start what you will regret for the rest of your life , if you think you can't handle the situation I recommend you let the guy go.

I didn't sign up on NL for this shiitt

If you have a real job that is time consuming, you won't have time to notice your driver. Get yourself a real job or fire your poor driver. Your driver has nothing to offer you except his dicck. Your husband has been busy at work because he's been working hard to take care of his family. Just be reasonable.

Sack him and employ me as your driver. I nor fine and I nor sabi fvck. Nothing dey my body wey go attract you

Madam its eida u control ursef,sack im or enta d place. Simple

Floyd45:
Ugh!! all the Sack him sack him sack him sick him sack him ! Even if he recolates to Sierria Leone If its gonna happen it will happen.

Jah bless ur hustle for this post

Driver?

O boy, see groove. Which brand of perfume abi na toothpaste the guy dey use so?!

Sarimah:
If u can't control ur feelings u better sack him

I beg to disagree, it's not all about the driver she just can't control her emotions,

Sack the poor man who's only fault is probably "been handsome"

The lady should just control her urge else she would still fall for any handsome man either in her office or the next handsome driver!

johndwayy:
did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?... did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?...

I thought so too, may be she meant 10 seconds, cos it's just so awkward looking into someone's eyes for 10 minutes.

I love everybody opinion...if she cnt control her feelings she should sack d driver...and i kn he will be very close to her than her husband..d close they are d more she have feelings 4 d guy.

johndwayy:
did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?... did u say u stared in his eyes for 10mins?...

Are u see wat am saw?


Abeg OP, where is dat ur driver from?

Kill it now