First things I must warn that I am going to do some major generalising. ,   can’t be helped because I hav met a few guys with this problem as well as heard a number of complaints from friends and acquaintances.

It is well known and accepted the women’s PMS make them act crazy, most of us accept this and find no shame in this. I’ve got news for u, men also have periods and suffer from PMS. . . how else r we to explain their crazy and senseless behaviour sometimes (they too can't explain it if u ask). What I find most irritating is that you're friends with a guy (sometimes, a relationship is the last thing on your mind), u guys hang out and talk all the time. He calls regularly, can't get enough of talking to u and hanging out with u. . . then he goes cold turkey, no communication whatsoever, starts avoiding u even, dosnttake ur calls, no reply to messages. . . Rather than stress too much, I move on accepting the ride has come to an end. . .  What pisses me off is that the bastards come back after they’ve had their fill, acting like nothing happened and expecting to carry on from where you stopped.

Dude, u just don’t cut a sista off without explanation and expect to be forgiven when you're done menstruating. . . the sad part is the bastards don’t even accept the fact that that kind of behaviour is not civilised. The least u cld do is give a sister some warning and we will go off and get a pedicure or something. Another thing is their silly and childish rants about nothing whatsoever, after hours of sulking, they snap out of it and expects things to go back to normal.

“How come u don’t love me the way u used to?” sweety i don't love u differently, you're just acting crazy right now

“why are u still friends with that person?” that person happens to be your cousin and u introduced us, just because u don't like her right now doesnt mean i should stop being friends with her, u'll like her again tomorrow


“who is that guy and why is he looking at u that way?” i don't knw that guy and he's proabably lookin at me that way because i look stunning, take a second look and see for yourself

I‘ve had to deal with this kind of behaviour from boyfriends, friends and my brother. I’m just sick of it quite frankly. . . u guys claim to be masters of the universe, well try acting like it!

poor frustrated lady u need to meet a real man already

richo:

poor frustrated lady u need to meet a real man already

frustrated u say?

lol, dude u have no idea

really? then wat are u experiencing?

I'm not frustratated, I am anything but
u knw nothin about me so calling me names is quite rude and uncalled for. . .

I'm having a good rant, thats all

theres a difference btw that and callin you names. ^{if i had called u a bitch then u can say thats rude and callin u names}

richo:

theres a difference between that and callin you names. ^{if i had called u a bitch then u can say thats rude and callin u names}

either ways, u know nothing about me and hav no right to call me frustrated

i'm not goin to get into an exchange with u, go entertain urself somewhere else

see this woman girl oh?!! ur jus gettin angry over a little thin and u think ur not frustrated? sorry oh

another case of heartbroken lady
@ poster
sorry oooo.
guys sef,why una dey treat girls like this
na una dey make us "genuine guys "
to  get problems with chicks

bennygee:

another case of heartbroken lady
@ poster
sorry oooo.
guys sef,why una dey treat girls like this
na una dey make us "genuine guys "
to  get problems with chicks

another ignorant response, where hav i mentioned heartbreak?

@post
I feel u! Personally, I act that way to give the friend some breathing space.

HR.hotness:

, u guys hang out and talk all the time. He calls regularly, can't get enough of talking to u and hanging out with u. . . then he goes cold turkey, no communication whatsoever, starts avoiding u even.

Dude, u just don’t cut a sista off without explanation and expect to be forgiven when you're done menstruating. . . the sad part is the bastards don’t even accept the fact that that kind of behaviour is not civilised. The least u cld do is give a sister some warning and we will go off and get a pedicure or something. Another thing is their silly and childish rants about nothing whatsoever, after hours of sulking, they snap out of it and expects things to go back to normal.

IncaGold:

@post
I feel u! Personally, I act that way to give the friend some breathing space.

I personally dont hav a problem with that. . . very well appreciated.

how about a little warning first tho, or better still wait till she asks for the space. . . my beef is that u r left hanging without any clue as to whats going on

Moreover my girlfriend cant stand my female friends, not that she's jealous or anything she just feels it doesnt make sense to have a female friend you call all the time, hang out etc when you've got a girlfriend.

And it wont be fair on my girl if I tell you she doesnt like us hanging out (know what i mean?). So my best is just to go outta circulation and resurface later!

HR.hotness:


. . . how else r we to explain their crazy and senseless behaviour sometimes (they too can't explain it if u ask). What I find most irritating is that you're friends with a guy (sometimes, a relationship is the last thing on your mind), u guys hang out and talk all the time. He calls regularly, can't get enough of talking to u and hanging out with u. . . then he goes cold turkey, no communication whatsoever, starts avoiding u even. Rather than stress too much, I move on accepting the ride has come to an end. . .  What pisses me off is that the bastards come back after they’ve had their fill, acting like nothing happened and expecting to carry on from where you stopped.

Dude, u just don’t cut a sista off without explanation and expect to be forgiven when you're done menstruating. . . the sad part is the bastards don’t even accept the fact that that kind of behaviour is not civilised. The least u cld do is give a sister some warning and we will go off and get a pedicure or something. Another thing is their silly and childish rants about nothing whatsoever, after hours of sulking, they snap out of it and expects things to go back to normal.

wait let me xplain
I blackout to regain my sanity going on vacation from the babes influence helps
no communication, avoid her, when i return I can boldly say NO when required because I have cured myself from some of her enticing charms.

HR.hotness:


[i]“How come u don’t love me the way u used to?” 

just want you to confirm with your lips that I still make your head spin, nothing more

HR.hotness:

“why are u still friends with that person?” 

Just testing your loyalty, do I sense any betrayal

HR.hotness:


“who is that guy and why is he looking at u that way?”

I don't want any unneccessary competition, don't invite one for me. I have got you, so stay in line let me have peace to chase the next babe.
I don't want to waste the time for the next babe on protecting you from competitors
so make sure no one stares at you

HR.hotness:


What I find most irritating is that you're friends with a guy (sometimes, a relationship is the last thing on your mind), u guys hang out and talk all the time. He calls regularly, can't get enough of talking to u and hanging out with u. . . then he goes cold turkey, no communication whatsoever, starts avoiding u even. Rather than stress too much, I move on accepting the ride has come to an end. . .  What pisses me off is that the bastards come back after they’ve had their fill, acting like nothing happened and expecting to carry on from where you stopped.

LOL, this shit happens ALL the time, still happened to me last week. A good friend of mine just switch off for no apparent reason. Anytime I call or wheneva he's online, he answers in monosyllables. I closed his chapter quick quick only for him to call yesterday sounding all cheerful and everything. Unfortunately for him, now the begger has become the begged: my time to go incommuniado  

And a friend of mine once dated this guy who was so fond of dis nonsense. I exhausted all my defenses for the guy, in order to make my friend feel all better. Stupid arse men!

Poster, having periods has absolutely nothing to do with it. These guys never grow up. No matter how old ther are, they still act like babies. Its shameful really. Its not the swtiching off that ir[sub][/sub]ritates me the most. Its the way they call out from the blues after like 2mths and goes - 'Hey how about that tennis date we had'. That was like 3 mths ago for pete's sake!!!

tollu:

LOL, this shit happens ALL the time, still happened to me last week. A good friend of mine just switch off for no apparent reason. Anytime I call or wheneva he's online, he answers in monosyllables. I closed his chapter quick quick only for him to call yesterday sounding all cheerful and everything. Unfortunately for him, now the begger has become the begged: my time to go incommuniado  

And a friend of mine once dated this guy who was so fond of this nonsense. I exhausted all my defenses for the guy, in order to make my friend feel all better. Stupid arse men!

I thought I have xplained 4 the guy.
Oya start begging the guy

Ur explanation is not good enough jare. I doubt if any explanation can make us females feel better about this

Richo, you are so ignorant!!!!!!
So having a rant must always be equated to being heart broken? I think I saw this from the original poster:

find most irritating is that you're friends with a guy (sometimes, a relationship is the last thing on your mind), u guys hang out and talk all the time.

But alas! She must be heart broken!!!

Like the rest of your bunch, you need to grow the heck up!

your contradictin your sef! am sure your one of few girls who dnt no what dey really want

tollu:

your explanation is not good enough jare. I doubt if any explanation can make us females feel better about this

i hear you.

beg the guy before you lose am finally. remember men scarce  

@Post

Never knew this was rampant with most guys.

I speak for me alone:

It happens to me for various reasons but what I tend to do now is warn the ladies before hand. Sometimes indirectly, other times directly.

I was trying to focus on some major decisions I had to make recently and to quell any tension between myself and a dear female pal of mine I plainly told her I was going on Sabbatical. She didnt understand why but she appreciated it.

Again, I speak for me alone.

somebody tell me what going on here,just get a life for yourself for you are your problem.All of you.

Ujujoan:

Poster, having periods has absolutely nothing to do with it. These guys never grow up. No matter how old ther are, they still act like babies. Its shameful really. Its not the swtiching off that ir[sub][/sub]ritates me the most. Its the way they call out from the blues after like 2mths and goes - 'Hey how about that tennis date we had'. That was like 3 mths ago for pete's sake!!!

PMS is the only explanation i can think of

_bami:

@Post

Never knew this was rampant with most guys.

I speak for me alone:

It happens to me for various reasons but what I tend to do now is warn the ladies before hand. Sometimes indirectly, other times directly.

I was trying to focus on some major decisions I had to make recently and to quell any tension between myself and a dear female pal of mine I plainly told her I was going on Sabbatical. She didnt understand why but she appreciated it.

Again, I speak for me alone.

Thank u jare
and that is all that is required. . . . dont need to understand, we only want to knw whats going on

HR.hotness:

. . . . don't need to understand, we only want to knw whats going on

Cos I dont wanna fall in love! Going AWOL gives me ample time to analyse things. I guess i'll sound silly if i tell you that i dont want to fall in love with you, so i've to back off a little bit! Silence is cool sometimes.

Men are grown-ups, we reason with our HEAD not our HEART. Quite sadly ladies follow their hearts and leave their heads to wonder!

IncaGold:

Cos I don't want to fall in love! Going AWOL gives me ample time to analyse things. I guess i'll sound silly if i tell you that i don't want to fall in love with you, so i've to back off a little bit! Silence is cool sometimes.

Men are grown-ups, we reason with our HEAD not our HEART. Quite sadly ladies follow their hearts and leave their heads to wonder!

again u r getting it all wrong. . . i dont need to knw why u r going AWOL, just a little warning that i wont be hearing from u fro a while wld suffice

it happens to me

at times its not delibrate, I may be be incommunicado for a period and then find it difficult to start the communication, then it stays too long.
The babe calling at this point helps to get things going again

but in some cases it is delibrate, to prepare the babe for the breakup
in other cases, to wean myself of the babe's influence, some babes can be infectious, believe me.

Infact many reasons, most recent one is keeping off a babe for calling a trickster, while I do everything within my power to be the man of her dreams.
couldn't understand it, so I kept to myself._{I nor fit commit suicide to convince any babe}

@Poster,

Just see yourself and what you posted.  It's all on net, you dare not insult a guy like that face to face.  It's for you and any person who cares to take your ranting serious.

seeu:

@Poster,

Just see yourself and what you posted.  It's all on net, you dare not insult a guy like that face to face.  It's for you and any person who cares to take your ranting serious.

swhrt u hav no idea so shut it!

every guy who acts this way gets and ear-full and more from me. . . my rant actually originated from a friend who just called out of the blue expcting a warm recption. . . after ignoring all my emails, text messages and not taking my calls. . .

i dont hide how I feel oh. . . no one is above reproach

waz up with Hr hotness and her rantings, never mind she's just growling over her insecurity and a heart break or sometin', hottey u nid to get a grip of urself aight, dis is not the best way to handle it.

HR.hot

I think you should just stick to those guys who replied with some real answers, the others dont have a clue what ur talking abt

My take

I dont get it either but some of these answers make sense

its the getting chummy all of a sudden that beats me
its like knocking on sum1's door for 24 hrs with no response
then a month later the said person just walks into ur house and puts the telly


Then again aren't all human beings complicated

mygivenchy:

waz up with Hr hotness and her rantings, never mind she's just growling over her insecurity and a heart break or sometin', hottey u nid to get a grip of yourself aight, this is not the best way to handle it.

insecurity. . . heartbreak. . .

dude u r just a clueless mofo