jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

Guy, you be Mumu with capital letter M with square on top.
You dey form gentle man abi
You bought a phone worth 100+ of which the girl is currently using to post her current dude on social networks, it simply means she already had that guy even while both of you were still dating, you were just an alternative, you leave a phone worth an hundred grand to a cheat
You need your head cross-examined mr. Op.
If you dont collect that phone from her then you've just made an impression in her mind that you're a 'Maga' which aint cool...
So, wake up, and oh yeah, it's not too late, as matter of fact it's never too late!

She dumped d op, 24hrs after collecting his 130k phone nd now uses her new boyfriend picture as dp. HEARTLESS BIITCH. While op was busy being extra nice to her, her new boyfriend was busy chopping her kpomo. This explains why free spirit guys(commonly called guy men) gets ladies very cheap. For d immature guys(MUGUS AND MAGAS) reading this, d rule remains: NEVER B TOO NICE TO A LADY. Occasional (once in a while) niceness is what u need. If u must buy any expensive gift for a lady, buy it in ur name. Once yawa gas, collect ur thing back sharply. Op, collect ur phone back nd give it to ur sister or mum nd get d blessings that follow. If u must b nice to any lady, make sure u get value(Bleep) for ur money. These bitches are not loyal.

if she dumped U cos of cultural differences, she should also dumped the phone cos of other differences!. She took the phone and dumped, be wise my friend, invite her out, ask to use her phone, take out her SIM, return it to her. Keep ur phone after all u have the recepit for it.
Forget all dis pple saying u shudnt collect ur phone, get ur phone back!

gede7744:
some post on this forum heeennn......

l don't want to be insultive sha


next time buy her a plot of land in d outskirt of town and will it to her after u are married

130k for phone......... is ur love for sale?

dont say dt my dear.when d mony is dre,130kisnt too much to spend on someone u love who deserves it.d gurl only turn out to use him not his fault he wanted to mk his gf proud of him.i use iphone 6 u knw hwmuch dt is courtesy of my love and I knw I deserve more dan dt.he only fell for soneone not appreciartive.soorry op but if u wre my bro wld find dt gurl beat d shit outta her get dt fone and get her 3310 dt her kind deserve, lets c hw she wld put her stupid bf up on her dp.

Stelvin101:


Then learn to mind ur goddamn 4ckin biz next time b4 u open ur stinky mouth. Coz u talking like a F00l on the loose.

you re the fundamental f00l around here. telme, when was the OP's issue your cherishd business? I just gave my own contribution just like everyone else even though I consider it quite amusing. what a free world, isn't it? . so I don't know why m the one to get peakd on by u,which shows how blatantly seeking jobless and retärded you're,exposing ya glumpsed nonentity for the world to see. you seem so pained ni and its eating u up. just take it eaassy son,i know the world is a terrible place;heed my advice and crawl back to ya comfort hole SCHMUCK ...what a waste. Its of no use to argue with a witling cos twill drag u to its level and beat u with experience..

The guy never collect the phone ni ever since I just d follow the thread,d wait patiently for feedback. #Bringbackourphone#

barnabasj:
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This Guy is a Pure Bastar.d this are the ones that spoiled Ladies this days someone you have not marry, there is a difference between money and Love, they are two seperate entity, i as a woman i will never drain my boy friend even Husband that marry me at home. Money is not Love. if you marry someone because he has Television if the TV got spoiled the Love will fade, Ladies should marry a Man because he has a Vision.

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Marry someone you can be pround of someone who can be there for you and who can associate with you.

what is dis one sayn.y kall him a bastard just because he fell stupidly.its ur type dt ur hubby wld lie to dt dey dont hv money for 3310 yet buy dir gf samsong galaxy note 3.nothing bad in being spoilt when u knw d mony is dere

keyman0007:


Oga Oga lets hear word abeg, nobody said collecting the phone was going to make you feel better, that was damage control, the fact you never saw the sign b4 being dumped still amazes me. she doesnt love you, move on.

okay,he's collected the phone,good.

Mckandre:
you re the fundamental f00l around here. telme, when was the OP's issue your cherishd business? I just gave my own contribution just like everyone else even though I consider it quite amusing. what a free world, isn't it? . so I don't know why m the one to get peakd on by u,which shows how blatantly seeking jobless and retarded you're,exposing ya glumpsed nonentity for the world to see. you seem so pained ni and its eating u up. just take it easy son,i know the world is a terrible place;heed my advice and crawl back to ya comfort hole SCHMUCK ...what a waste. Its of no use to argue with a witling cos twill drag u to its level and beat u with experience..

A f00l is someone who does or say things unknowingly except a person corrects him/her. U just admitted u r giving ur own opinion and looking for trouble indirectly without having knowledge of if it cause u r an epitome of f00l. U need ur vacuum brain checked. I don't time for Ugly n mannerless modafuckas like u. Am out

I hope this f00lish OP has collected the phone back because if I hear that he has not I will slap him everyday of his life when I see him till his brain is re-aligns to corrective state. At least he should have some self respect and let the gal know that he is not a f00lish idiiot that she thinks he his. Poor iidiot will continue to drink garri while servicing phone debt for the next 10month on top of a gal that had been busy fccuking another man. Hell NO!

jidestroud:

Predictable...expected nothing less...

Funny how I'm predictable but you can't predict the actions of someone you claim to love. Ode.

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Guys , I must say this - YOU are not the great provider. STOP buying expensive gift for a lady u ve not yet marry. It's a risk ! If u are married u can do anything for your wife. But this time u are still dating Anything can happen. Thank God it's just a phone. Imagine if u have sponsored her to school for 4yrs and after graduating and waiting to take her to the altar now tells u there's no future in the relationship? Hmmm, Guys be moderate please!!

born2fuck:
sharrap jooh, what's special in that, I bought a house and live in it, buying her a phone isn't a fool, taking a loan to get a phone even for myself is a fool, not to talk of a girl in the name of love. I have bought,nothing less than 5 phones but on convenience without even worry of them dating someone else or not. I do things without regret even one who promise to return phone, I refused, you come on nairaland to lament and you are not expecting an insult? Do you expect them to praise, you get your phone or not, heart break is an heart break, but your case, the girl is a confirm gold digger, and he will treat the next guy the same. Be watchful of every steps you take, never do something in the name of loan to any girl except she is in critical condition in hospital or else they may bite you with same finger. I have dated nothing less than 7 girls, Bleep nothing less than 200 oloshos, retired ex ashawo boy talking.

hmmm...the wise one... . Real smart!!! Hope i get to meet you in 10 years time.
jst in case you care to know...I WILL DO IT AGAIN IF GIVING THE CHANCE

jidestroud:

hmmm...the wise one... . Real smart!!! Hope i get to meet you in 10 years time.
you in case you know...I WILL DO IT AGAIN IF GIVING THE CHANCE

and you will come on nairaland 10 times to cry, expecting seun to put in frontage 10 times, over the same silly things you do for 10 times. Guy, walahi! Bomb dey your head

barnabasj:
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This Guy is a Pure Bastar.d this are the ones that spoiled Ladies this days someone you have not marry, there is a difference between money and Love, they are two seperate entity, i as a woman i will never drain my boy friend even Husband that marry me at home. Money is not Love. if you marry someone because he has Television if the TV got spoiled the Love will fade, Ladies should marry a Man because he has a Vision.

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Marry someone you can be pround of someone who can be there for you and who can associate with you.

lol...coming from from someone who has been LOVE starved (NOT SEX) sure hope u can tell the difference.

freshdude2:
Funny how I'm predictable but you can't predict the actions of someone you claim to love. Ode.

lol...predict her? naaah...she's way out of your league i guess. (smarter). Dum.b peepz are so easily predictable isn't that obvious?
*No hating bro...one love

born2fuck:
and you will come on nairaland 10 times to cry, expecting seun to put in frontage 10 times, over the same silly things you do for 10 times. Guy, walahi! Bomb dey your head

*One love bruv...I'v got the fone now okay. any suggestions? Pls be smart about it though...

money cant buy love. u shld have use dat money to flex both urself n d babe, lodge in a nice hotel n hv fun together, u wldnot have been feeling this bad by now. if u think ur money can buy her love, u on a long thing, r u the richest man in ur hood not talking of d city. girl with money at heart will always jump to d new spender, put dat in mind.

I knew I had my doubts about this story....Mr jidestroud

But making us believe Funnkyshade is your so called ex is the worst mistake u made so far.... I thought u said she was igbo?

You must be feeling real smart and think we're all stuupid

You got ur 5 minutes of fame and front page, or would I say 2 days? Hope you satisfied?

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used. (you really are)
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a Samsung Note 3 phone (Chai!)
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As a guy who is deeply in love (mumu, there's no such thing)
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giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, (very true, and only what you can afford)
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to be paid over a period of 12 months. (Chei!)
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i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.
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(To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.
(Chai! ...DerisGodoh!!!)
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SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK? (C'mon hurry ur ass up!)

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Firstly, why would you even give a gift you can't out rightly afford to a girl who isn't ur sister?
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Before I read your story, I wanted to abuse you, call you a poor man and ask you to free the girl but...
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...she did yahoo on ur head and I just can't stand it.
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Advise: she won't give that phone back on a plater. You need a smart plan to cunningly retrieve a phone you haven't paid for. Just use your head.
Involve ur trusted friends.
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Go and collect the phone joor! Mumu boy!

shindarayo:
dont say dt my dear.when d mony is dre,130kisnt too much to spend on someone u love who deserves it.d gurl only turn out to use him not his fault he wanted to mk his gf proud of him.i use iphone 6 u knw hwmuch dt is courtesy of my love and I knw I deserve more dan dt.he only fell for soneone not appreciartive.soorry op but if u wre my bro wld find dt gurl beat d shit outta her get dt fone and get her 3310 dt her kind deserve, lets c hw she wld put her stupid bf up on her dp.

u see ur life..iphone 6....naija and thier follow follow mentality.....saying 130k is not too much to spend....well...i bow for girls these days....can u dash some one 10k

dem don mugun this guy oooo...i keep sayin it Nigerian girls are idiots and foolish ..if truly there is hell fire...they will be the first to enter there ....all women are not the same but what they have done through ou their life..will shock you.....imagine a smallgal....noteven appreciating what some one has for her......but putting .another nicca pics on dp....my guy i know how dat feels painful...now adays it seems social media is the best way to express ur feeling for someone......if i were u ...thisgal wont go free...i go find am enter rat hole ...change am for her....bastard bitch......shame to our naija gals who only like the material things of life..other than showing true love.........

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

Let it go!
Move on.... Goodluck paying off the debt you have now been saddled with!

Bros. Please collect your phone SHARP!!! SHARP!!! If you can't invite her to a place where it'll be easy to collect it, just involve the police and tender the receipt... She's a BLOODY GOLD DIGGER!!!

Next time, you too u'll be sharp......lol

jidestroud:

*One love bruv...I'v got the fone now okay. any suggestions? Pls be smart about it though...

nothing wrong giving a lady fun but she is a devil type, because what she did could make a man cry, 2 days after gift she broke up and still put another man on DP. Now your mind will be free with little hurt but goodness and relieve sake.... don't impress anyone, get yourself impress.

Keep the phone for yourself, work hard, get ride, cruise, buy better wine, better cream,better cloths and do shakara like you never get hurt.dem do girls don use my eyes see shege, now dem ex dey begs me while I flow with yellow sisi for about 7 yrs till date

smh 4 sm pple wey de say u no suppose collect am bak..say na gift.,@op make i ask u, had it been u straffed her a few days b4 d brk up,n afta d brk-up she come carry belle, she go talk say na parting gift? she no go carry all her ancestors join her village visit ur house mak u claim pikin?? abeg do d needful joor..collect ur fone

jidestroud:

*One love bruv...I'v got the fone now okay. any suggestions? Pls be smart about it though...

let me tell you one truth, I bought a phone for my ex like 2 times, gave her 100k in day, excluding all those 20k,10,5k era oo. Yet after we break up about after 3 yrs, she didn't date anyone for about 2 yrs and she was still a friend till she relocate, even till now, I never see a guy on her DP, she waited for 2 yrs and and even after I found a new girl, she still talk to her, I never regret anything I did, but the case of yours is not the phone but her devil heart even when you haven't completed the loan make it worst but even before my ex got 100k, I made a total cash of 750k from stock in obasanjo era, stock normally boost, so giving her 100k, still left with 650k excluding my saves... we have good time and rough time, I know same girls stick for me for 2 yrs without 1 naira before, so when things turn good, I impress without them asking. Yet, I'm still ashawo girl, I can still dash some girls 20k without asking anything yet, I cannot dash some girls #500 naira without asking for pussy in return. I do things with brain but if I wanna dash anything, I don't like sweating or going through condition before I do it

This is going to my last response to all

Firstly, In all fairness to the lady who once held my heart captive she has done me no wrong
Giving isn't something you take away from a relationship (and bn spoiled with gifts isn't either)
Love gives...She gave wile it lasted and I did give (never for once held back) *what's the point in love if you cant prove materially?
cooperative issue How can people be so myopic about that? does it connote giving outside your limits?
it's cooperative for Loord sake; You see a product, u like it, u put in your interest..and the payment spans out over a period time daahh!!!!
*Now there's go your argument (so why complain? why not pay out rightly? does your mum or siblings experience the same benevolence?)

about me being stupiid?...(i get to read most comments, Oh Lord sweet Jesus, I deifnitely HAVE HOPE). I guess that's why the country keeps nosediving.

And as for then "why bother nairalanders? or why lament?...well i was going to to pay off the debt outrightly THIS MONDAY!! But friends wont jst let me be. so decided to seek general opinion about it (*Point: Money was never the problem. it's called paying at conveniently...same way i paid for my very own house )

to think some so equate my gift to sex with her? (Ifeo*** aka funnkyshade...sorry i had to say this)
DATED 2 YEARS AND WE NEVER HAD SE.X *Well, you dont have to believe and I sure dont have to prove myself to you ALL

Thanks to council of friends who told me to do this. I GOT MY FONE BACK. BUT IT AINT WORTH IT
i'm deeply sorry Ifeo*** saw the message on the fone. i know i should have simply asked for it back. my fault. I hope He's not mad at you for this. and i hope he sees this. DEEPLY SORRY IF I HAVE CAUSED ANYTHING
and for all those who asked if i didnt see signs? hmmm...My question to you is HAVE YOU EVERY BEING IN LOVE?

jidestroud:
This is going to my response to all

Firstly, In all fairness to the lady who once held my heart captive she has done me no wrong
Giving isn't something you take away from a relationship (and bn spoiled with gifts isn't either)
Love gives...She gave will it lasted and I did give (never for once held back) *what's the point in love if you cant prove materially?
cooperative issue How can people be so myopic about that? does it connote giving outside your limits?
it's cooperative for Loord sake; You see a product, u like it, u put in your interest..and the payment spans out over a period time daahh!!!!
*Now there's go your argument (so why complain? why not pay out rightly? does your mum or siblings experience the same benevolence?)

about me being stupiid?...(i get to read most comments, Oh Lord sweet Jesus, I deifnitely HAVE HOPE). I guess that's why the country keeps nosediving.

And as for then "why bother nairalanders? or why lament?...well i was going to to pay off the debt outrightly THIS MONDAY!! But friends wont jst let me be. so decided to seek general opinion about it (*Point: Money was never the problem. it's called paying at conveniently...same way i paid for my very own house )

to think some so equate my gift to sex with her? (Ifeo*** aka funnkyshade...sorry i had to say this)
DATED 2 YEARS AND WE NEVER HAD SE.X *Well, you dont have to believe and I sure dont have to prove myself to you ALL

Thanks to council of friends who told me to do this. I GOT MY FONE BACK. BUT IT AINT WORTH IT
i'm deeply sorry Ifeo*** saw the message on the fone. i know i should have simply asked for it back. my fault. I hope He's not mad at you for this. and i hope he sees this. DEEPLY SORRY IF I HAVE CAUSED ANYTHING
and for all those who asked if i didnt see signs? hmmm...My question to you is HAVE YOU EVERY BEING IN LOVE?

for that 2 yrs you dated and no sex is never called relationship, I cannot even date a girl 3 months without sex and the one I waited longer was 6 month cause because she was virgin, for that reason I move on. Hope you eventually Bleep the crazy, even the one wey I give 100k, I Bleep her already nothing less than 50 times. Wetin concern me for yeye no sex relationship.

jidestroud:
THE PHONE IS NOW IN MY POSSESSION @ ALL
PICKED IT UP ABOUT AN HOUR AGO
SHE JUST SIMPLY DROPPED IT OFF HERSELF WI TH A FRIEND, I GUESS I SHOULD HAVE JUST ASKED FOR IT ALL ALONG
TRUST ME, I FEEL VERY VERY VERY BAD
IT WAS NEVER ABOUT THE PHONE, IT WAS ALL ABOUT HER
I STILL LOVE THIS LADY...

THANKS ALL....ONE MORE PHONE TO A HEARTBROKEN DUDE

OP...you should've just post the thread and chill. You picked up the phone?...or she and her friend just dropped it off? Didn't you declare earlier that your friend called to say the phone was at his house? ....and why are you typing in caps?...and embolding lines without reason?...and coincidentally....the supposed person who received the phone ...funkyshade...is responding in the same way? Do you really believe you are sooo smart?...or Nairalanders are sooo dumb?..or is it someone is posting under your name?

destante:
sorry but anything that has been gifted is no longer yours. pele

once he has d receipt.. Chikena.....legal advice