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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by thorpido(m): 5:52pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
HumbledbYGrace:my comment suggests nothing of such. I'm sure chastising her but never looking down.The other part of my comments sure shows what I want her to do. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 6:02pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 6:06pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
crackhaus:will knw what to do,tanx |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
thorpido:anyway,tanx,its becos of love dat make u to comment,I appreciate 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 7:07pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo: Am sorry but you are not serious Oya go back to your love-vendor since you are too proud to go and work with your mother but not too proud yo collect her hard earned money 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by thorpido(m): 7:09pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo:Nothing but love my sister.You have a challenging situation at hand but it's what many have been through and you can do too and smile at the end. The most important thing as many have said is that you get a job.Have something doing that brings an income.That way,you will be less dependent and your mum and siblings will have less cause to insult you. While you say with them,just numb your mind to the insults. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Lepetitechic(f): 7:55pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo: Sorry to hear what you are going through. I feel you're going through this because you're still dependent on your mom. I can relate. Maybe it's the getting old thing but my mom is like that some times. She doesn't feel like my fiance and I can make it cos of distance and we're young so it's like every time she opens her mouth to say sth about us it seems like she is mocking us. My dear stay strong and try to stand on your own feet it helps when you are able to take care of yourself as well as your kid. Try finding a job and then a house go from there. God be with you 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 8:43pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Mojayo u re not serious at all, u can't help ur mother with what she is doing and u can't get a job u feel befits u, u re shouting I dnt understand dis country abeg no be 4 naija dey born you. Abi u ve been in SA all ur life u spent just 5yrs and u re acting lyk omo onile, u dnt even appreciate d little ur mum is doing 4 u. She feeds you and ur baby, give ur a roof yet u can support her biz. Get a business u re talking about ur class and respect well u re still enjoying now. I just pity dat innocent baby. So u still want to go back to dat criminal. Ve u forgotten all ur with thru b4. U still ve not learn a lesson. So u want a man to be catering 4 u. Hmmmm. Orishirishi. Ur parent re seperated so ur mum has every right to start a new life. Shebi ur father now has a wife. Am sure is d way u lazy around and insult ur mother that's y ur siblings re disrepecting u, better get something doing u re a school cert. Get a menial job 4 d main time. U dey do shakara. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 8:46pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Aisha2 leave her jare she never learn ni upon all he did to her she still talk abt going back aisha2: 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by ifyalways(f): 9:03pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Hahahaha. You are here talking down on your mom like you are any better? She's feeding you and your baby, after wasting her money on your fruitless SA trip. I say, you have a good mother! Not sure my momma would be that kind. Young lady, stop complaining, finding faults, judging your mom cos u are not in a position to. Meanwhile, you are too proud and holy to get your hands dirty in your mom's shop? Lucky you, I say. wait for NLders to help you, don't help yourself, shotigbo? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 9:12pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo: Seriously you are not serious. Judge and Jury over the mother who accepted you back home warts and all. Abeg do and leave her house so the woman can breathe. You spent only 5 years in south Africa nobody go hear word chai. # I dont know how thw system here works# same system you have spent almost 18 years or more in oh. Poor woman will go to her shop all day hustle come and give you baby money and food while you are too oyiboish to go to her lowly shop then come home and face judgement from you how exactly are you the victim jere? Please go back to your pi- mp you too deserve each other 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
My dear,I will never condemn you neither will I judge you cos am only human and we all make mistakes. Now is the time to rise up ,dust your self up and believe you are not worthless,start from somewhere,pick up a job,get ur self busy and stop wallowing in self pity.going back to SA is not really a wise decision for now,get busy and pray for God's direction. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Bootylicious(f): 10:30pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Your story is so similar to my cousin's story. Firstly i'll use this medium to warn all ladies living abroad to be very careful with men abroad, the men abroad are 80% worse than men in our home based country,coupled with the fact that we cannot do a proper back ground checking, the men abroad are more dangerous, liars and polygamist. The only difference is my cousin looked for something doing to support herself and she got all the love and support from her parents, siblings and extended families. Sometimes we can't blame ourselves for falling into wrong hands, how do u know if some1 is lying, but Moyo's case he was abusive and u went ahead, you are just the type that doesn't learn from your mistakes. Any little money you can get start a petty business or look for a job, stop ranting that you don't understand nigeria's system, my cousin was in d UK for 6yrs and she came back home,she is doing well. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:38pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo: i am in same shoes as u and mine is a bit complicated dan urs.av learnt to b patient nd ignore wateva my mum does.i blive i wunt live wit her forever.its just a matter of time. b determined nd focus more on trying any skill that could b of help to u later. it is well |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by HumbledbYGrace(f): 11:03pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
aisha2:Is this constructive? Really? Going back to the guy will not solve anything, we all know that. She is not being proud, ask anyone who has left her home and lived outside the country how it is like. To endure the stares of those who knew u were once living large aint easy. @ Op, all I can say is, you can follow your mother wherever only if she wants you to. I can't imagine following her even if she was my mother if she would be embarassing me in public making me the joke of the town. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by HumbledbYGrace(f): 11:08pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Hold up, OP..... Under no circumstance will you come back to South Africa for that guy......you left because it wasn't working out for you so please save yourself from an early grave, get your act together before coming back. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 11:18pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by jayedu108: 11:22pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
@op u are the cause of ur problem,u travel to SA to fool around,came bck like a prodigal child,and u expect ur mum to be happy,u deserve no pity,no mercy,go out dey and hussle so u can regain ur lost respect cos if ur mum still feed u and ur baby then knw that she will continue to see u as a pest to her. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 11:24pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by jayedu108: 11:33pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
MojAyo:Park well u aint got policy,u are just too proud,ur type sit at home all day watching MTV,AFRiCA MAGiC,e.t.c u get luck hw I wish ur mum is nt taking care of ur responsibility if hunger wire u,no be person go tell u make u enta street,u still dey enjoy mama small change I blame ur mum nt u. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 11:45pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Madam I know you ve policy dats y you can't help your mother and u re miss perfect. Abeggi spare me if you like wrk if u like no wrk na you get ur life shikena. MojAyo: |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Warfi man say any Dog wey dey wait patiently instead of hussling na hunger go tell am MojAyo: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:09am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:13am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:23am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Everybody,tanx for ur comments,all help in some ways,even d good ones and d bad ones,I will let u people knw one thing,I love my mother more than anything,I dnt hate her at all,bt sometimes,I got so emotional dat I carried every bit of what she said in my head,she has been so loving and caring to me,bt I still hate d fact dat she is nt with my dad again,I just need to look past that,and focus on my life,I believe its gonna be well with me,about my husband,we may get married or not,only based on his character,if he change |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:30am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 12:48am On Nov 17, 2014 |
See am not against you and I know its not easy inn your predicament what am saying is be appreciative in whatever condition u re. She is trying her best even if its not good enough you re under her so follow her way just 4 peace to reign. So pls appreciate every little things she is doing. As a yourba gal I understnd u dnt want to pple to say rubbish about you but @ times you take that rubbish because you know what u want to achieve. Get something doing so you can stand on ur feet again and cater 4 ur baby. Dat way she will have little or nothing to quarell about. MojAyo: |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 12:58am On Nov 17, 2014 |
And for your baby daddy pls dnt go back to an abusive relationship. U re lucking u came out on scatch nw. You may not be lucky next tym. 4get about him 4 now and force on your life. Don't hate your mum 4 leaving your dad no woman will wish to just end her marriage just like dat she may be passing thru things she can't share with you so leave it that way and move on. You can't change a man you can only pray 4 him. U re not married to him yet so u can still find some one who will luv and appreciate you. Your baby should be your top priority now. |
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