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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Onegai(f): 7:33pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: If my husband was a WEALTHLY FORMER PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES, A WEALTHY EX-FOOTBALLER (MOST LIKELY TO END UP IN GOVT) or A WEALTHY BASKETBALL PLAYER (who will most likely sign a 6-figure deal to write his memoirs after he retires).... Baby, I will fight any oloshi strolling around him, cook him egusi and pound yam daily and pray unceasingly for him But y'all broke brothas, you will be cheating, giving me High BP, I cannot even afford to fly the kids and I out for a weekend in Dubai, instead I'm in your rented house, waiting to turn off the gen at 10pm and sleep in heat, skabashing in the darkness telling myself "he will return to my arms one day" whilst you are shouting "hallelujah!" on top of one woman in an air-conditioned hotel room somewhere.... As my aunt said to her ex-husband, "I'm leaving you because you're cheating and beating me and you cannot give me hypertension and AIDS when you haven't even built your house" She went on to marry a widowed retired military General #CorrectWoman 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:36pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Onegai: ROTFLMAO. Oh gawdddddd 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Jahblessme: 7:40pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Onegai: Thank youuuu Added to these,I will keep body and soul together.. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by armyofone(m): 7:40pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
OP HappyWife, Discuss with him about open marriage. You both take turns to refill the Condom storage. That way no need counting condoms. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
saucechilli: Nne m the bible says that on the day of The Lord ,there shall be last minute surprises . Some of us will be at the front of the line wearing our white robes and crowns |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
iykedare:well not all women , and perhaps you married a runs babe , you must ave done that because she turned a new leave, except that is not the reason. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by 2legit2qwt: 7:41pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
mutter: Perfect answer. Bananabender kneels while giving me egusi soup and she's over here claiming strong woman. Strong woman my d1ck |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
DailyNews:which men don't cheat while young.... Perhaps the broke young ones, even the broke ones still find their match.... Cheating should never be encouraged... Whether young or old. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
veave: And is this the reasonable thing u have to say?? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
CHoccolaTE: Abi o Who no get list of people that can be upgraded in a flash if need be Men think all women are that desperate and will be crawling around begging Any woman that has the mind to cheat back,God may frown at it but I won't condemn you 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Onegai(f): 7:45pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
jennykadry: But they insult all of us women with one side of their mouth, calling us "fishbrains, golddigger", then the other side of their mouth telling us to "accept their cheating, they are good fathers and providers, you need to be more submissive, Feminism is the cause of my selfishness to you". I mean, why disappoint you men by attempting to live up to ideals you yourself have NO intention of living to? Is there a Heaven nicer than regular Heaven that long-suffering, patient, backbreaking wives will go to (because it is not in my bible). Dear men, when you start behaving, it will shock you how the world will realign itself correctly. When the head is acting insane, the body starts to dance the mad-man's dance (old proverb) 4 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
BananaBender: I think you're not looking at the bigger picture of what the guy is saying. I grew in a community where a lot of folks never really had father figures in their lives. And no matter how folks try to make excuse for it, that missing link can never be replaced. It went from that, to a stage we're right now, where being single mums and absentee dads have become cool, and that dysfunctionality has now become a vicious cycle. Affecting not just individuals, but a community. Personally, I just think a lot of folks are selfish/self-centered and myopic. And our haste to always make rash decisions without thinking it through is our bane as a people. When folks make stupid decisions, thus getting hitched-to/marry and make babies with the wrong folks - they should be ready to live with it. Find a compromise, go to counselling, or do something - to keep that family structure intact. It's your decision and you know what you were getting into, before you got into it. Learn to carry ya cross and live with it. All these broken marriages with dysfunctional kids they keep churning out are causing problems for everyone. Just make it work in whatever way you can...single mum isn't an option. Anyway, sholly, if you ever get married - just make sure you tell the guy who/how you're and he's someone who agrees/loves you for that. Single-mum/divorce isn't an option. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Fourwinds: 7:45pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cococandy:women are always problem to demselves. y because of greed for money and material things. who do d married men cheat with....most cases it is d single ladies. d single ladies end up marrying a man and complain about her husband cheating. Check very well...dere is LAW OF KARMA. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by onadana: 7:49pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sometimes women don't realize cheating spices up the marriage.Every time he goes out he comes back...he still values his home.The grass looks greener from the other side men later realize that grass has to be mowed. Remove your eyes do and be the best you can be.....its a facade....he will surely come home. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
BananaBender: And did I reference "feminism" in my post? (I'm waiting). I compared two communities based on single mums and absentee dads. So, where's the correlation with feminism there? And I believe you saw the bit I highlighted in his post. Whenever you get emotional like I always tell you, you tend to lose that cerebral bit - and end up like the airheads and noisemakers who populate this forum. Next time, read and comprehend - and always reply based on the context in which a post is made. Just go and sin nomore...and stop acting like these numbnuts. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
lacord5:great .... You only looking at it from the angle of men who have got class.... There are babes who are good looking willing to hang out with dudes just for the fun not money, some colleagues at work do that. We got crazy babes out there these days, they just wanna get into that nigga. I pray you don't meet such. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Fourwinds:who do the married women cheat with? Single guys too sometimes. It is even becoming very common these days to see lots of married women with toy boys. Then these single guys get married and think their wives won't cheat? Karma you called it .right? Funny folks 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Jahblessme: 7:53pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Chaiiii so many pained souls here I wonder why when a married woman has se x its refered to as desecration of body?? Its just s ex,mutual satisfaction,back breaking and mind numbing orga sms. Chances that most of these women are hitting the big O with their hubbies are very low..after all he's busy with mistresses, what time will he have to satisfy the poor woman. Imagine playing the good wife fr years and years ,ignoring the guys at work etc One day,something will give especially if the woman is tired of being cheated on.Its just a matter of listening to the flattery, allowing yourself to be appreciated by another son of Adam,friendship develops from there and b4 u know it,sekem sekem sekem.Pure enjoyment and release of pent up frustration. Forgot to add that the fact that its sooo forbidden makes it more exciting.. Chop with condom and clean mouth.Go home and continue your wifely duties. No more frustration, someone out there gets an erec tion just by hearing your name,hehehehehehe. Happy wife,happy kids,happy home. The charade continues till una repent. 11 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
DailyNews:stop these money shit.... The fact that you have been broke and perhaps your real self never came out till you had it doesn't mean it is the same for everyone. Even a poor man has got his class to cheat with. It's not about money . 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Onegai: And when did broke nyggahs start cheating? The only thing broke nyggahs have and use for stress relief is their wives' pum...cos there ain't no one checking for broke nyggahs out there. However, these women have the world on their feet...and they could have opted for divorce, and run off with half of their husbands' wealth. But they never did that. They're classy women who understand the fact that imperfection is what makes us human. And that thought their decisions through, by looking at the bigger picture. Only nasty and needy women think about wealth as the on glue that makes marriage work. Sometimes you just have to look at the bigger picture and what the institution represents, including the kids involved. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by nicedaddy(m): 7:55pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Call me on 08181651787 for more advice or counselling, it has help so many woman like you. happywife: |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
jennykadry:na where me and you dey fight be this ... U no be Nigerian too. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: Well, he must have been a late bloomer, or ya mum just never created an atmosphere for peace at home. Regardless, there are always isolated cases. And perhaps ya dad falls into this category. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Fourwinds: 8:00pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
babyosisi:hmmm shining Congo meat |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: Find me in the remaining 10% |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
bukatyne:cheating is not a Nigerian thing. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Onegai(f): 8:04pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: But why o why is it always women that have to look at the big picture and what the institution represents, did they force men into marriage that there is a Get-Out-Of-Jail-Free card that enables them to disrespect the institution they are asking women to uphold? Is there a company where the people more concerned with the big picture and are willing to make sacrifices to make the company a global brand, were its employees, NOT THE OWNER? Did Steve Jobs not work even longer hours than his staff, is Obama not the one more stressed than his staff (and getting grey hairs faster). How does it make sense that the HEAD OF THE HOME is disrespecting the public vows he took before his peers (because Marriage is a legal and Societal institution) but instead he wants the SECOND-IN-COMMAND to do an exemplary job of leading the children? Even in a bank, a non-performing ED will lose their position to a junior staff if they keep abdicating their responsibilities. So why are men so suddenly shocked that after years of cheating happily, their wives have also discovered the pleasures of another man's arms? Then you must have the same lack of foresight as the Nigerian govt, who, when the sun was shining (and oil was N140/barrel), did NOT make hay ( didn't save, were not fiscally prudent) and next year, pump prices are going to increase Nigerians always shout "this is how it has been and it will never change" and be putting down any sort of Positive Change. Then once a few folks push it through, they scramble to catch up. My friend's father NEVER CHEATED, his wife was academically great and had a strong career. When she died, the whole world stopped. Her name is a rallying point in LUTH. Because she stood on the shoulders of a giant! All our underachieving, underperforming women are too worried and broken and filled with mistrust to fly high, whose shoulders will they stand on? African men have always defied the laws of Reason and Logic. There are some few one out there, who understand that a woman will submit to a Leader. And to those ones, I salute and respect you. 10 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Fourwinds: 8:04pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cococandy:hmmmmm. always shining Congo |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Fourwinds: 8:05pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cococandy: |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:most sensible post... That's why you are sweet. Ur dude is quite lucky. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: Fathers are absent in the lives of their children and feminism is to be blamed?? Not the irresponsible man that impregnated a girl who he isn't ready to raise a family with? What about the 1diotic black man that abandons his family due to Bleep and jail time?? What about the even more 1diotic black men that think selling cocaine or becoming a rapper is the only way to make it in life?? Women stay working two, three jobs just so they can take care of these kids and then you turn around to blame the parent(woman) that chose to stay as the bad one. You point your blaming finger to the woman enslaving herself for her kids and you absolve the men from any blame? How does this make sense to you? I do not support single parenthood but I will rather be a single mom that raise my children in a home where their father is a serial cheat or where their father is abusive. What do you want those children to learn? That it is okay to cheat?? Most men charged with domestic abuse grew up in a domestic home, I bet those mothers were trying to stay married and raise their kids in a home with both parents. Where did that lead them Shy? Why would I stay with a cheating man, a man I can only grow to hate and find repulsive. Imagine a child growing up in a home where the parents live like roommates, where there is no love, everyday na so so fight-fight. That child is better off in a single home than in a home with both parents. I can't even date a man that is not a feminist Shy. Tufiakwa! 6 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
junglebook:well not tat they are smart, the man has barely got time... Busy on how to make money. I have seen my married neighbor.. on badoo...I mean a married woman. Well I said hi ... Lols |
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