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Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:04am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

Same as most naija guys ve their own mega issues.
Oga it can't b d babes alone o. We b winch? Haba
bur shey u no dey sleep??.is alnost 1 am
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:08am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:

bur shey u no dey sleep??.is alnost 1 am
Lol. But u sef still dey awake na.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:10am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

Lol. But u sef still dey awake na.
na yuh ad dey wait make u first sleep naa..abi shey no b say werrin ah dey tink wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:16am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:

na yuh ad dey wait make u first sleep naa..abi shey no b say werrin ah dey tink wink

Shuooo. Abeg wetin u dey think ke?
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:18am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:


Shuooo. Abeg wetin u dey think ke?
vaht normal thin wey babes em dey do wen lonely naa..xpecially for nyt lyk viz..i don catch u! wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:23am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:

vaht normal thin wey babes em dey do wen lonely naa..xpecially for nyt lyk viz..i don catch u! wink
See u.. lol. Wetin babes dey do? Me i no know o.. Abeg fill me in..
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:25am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

See u.. lol. Wetin babes dey do? Me i no know o.. Abeg fill me in..
vaht same thin na as u dey do am nw..u understand werrin u dey do nw ...wey u dey inside+cold tins wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:29am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:
vaht same thin na as u dey do am nw..u understand werrin u dey do nw ...wey u dey inside+cold tins wink
Na u dey do am. N u feel sey I dey follow u do am.. Abeg o. I dey browse so I no sabi wetin u dey yarn... undecided
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:32am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

Na u dey do am. N u feel sey I dey follow u do am.. Abeg o. I dey browse so I no sabi wetin u dey yarn... undecided
me!do am i dey craze??..any way na u sabi sha..
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:39am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:
me!do am i dey craze??..any way na u sabi sha..
Na u know! As u no want craze, so na me wey u think sey dey do craze?
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:45am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

Na u know! As u no want craze, so na me wey u think sey dey do craze?
no hard feelin babe..juz tryina b social..dn't mis-put ma quote ...any way letz make our chatt privacy wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by ellechrystal(f): 1:46am On Nov 30, 2014
kristein:

no hard feelin babe..juz tryina b social..dn't mis-put ma quote ...any way letz make our chatt privacy wink
Lmao... I no take am serious oo. Me sef dey joke grin grin
Anyways .. E-hugs
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by kristein(m): 1:51am On Nov 30, 2014
ellechrystal:

Lmao... I no take am serious oo. Me sef dey joke grin grin
Anyways .. E-hugs
aiit babe..can we watsapp?, wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Wisegeek01(m): 3:44am On Nov 30, 2014
These days any small good deed can be misconceived like u want to ask her out"

Remember that photography studio I used to go to, yeah" they have a new secretary ("she fine die" but dts non of ma business)

Went there the other day asked the secretary for her boss,

she said he wasn't around, so as I was leaving she said she liked my shirt, I said thank you

From there We started talking
after which she told me she hadn't eaten since morning ( omo d lady sabi lie angry )
I intentionally decided to turn maga for my friends sake "her Boss"

I gave her 1500 and left

Omo na so their boss come dey call me early morning the next day say I come they chyke Im secretary, small tin make we dey argue for phone,

I com ask d guy wetin she talk, E say "I dey ask her out" . ..

Mbo I was speechless*
angry shocked undecided lipsrsealed

But she go see ma true color grin cool
Hope say she no dey nairaland sha* wink
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by zynzyn(m): 4:48am On Nov 30, 2014
adepiero:
Nigerian girls and misconception of the phrase "ask me out!" angry

Often times I've come across scenarios where a guy talks to a lady in a friendly manner only for the girl to tell her girlfriends that he is trying to ask her out! shocked

My ideology of asking a lady out is that first you invite her on a date or multiple dates and during one of such dates you let out your intention but in Nigeria, reverse seems to be the case. once you strike up a convo, she believes you've already started to ask her out undecided

Is this a Nigerian mentality or a misinterpretation of the word "ask me out" feel free to air your opinion smiley

They actually enjoy being chatted up but Shakara will not allow them to admit it, so your talking to them will be taken to another level! cheesy
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Thinkr(m): 5:05am On Nov 30, 2014
Natasha2:

99.9?? Kindly explain how and when you carried out your research to come up with such figure, I'm waiting.
its a long story. Have a nice sunday. Bye
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by TDstarr: 5:25am On Nov 30, 2014
Evina:
Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.
depends on how mature the guy is, like me i can even kiss a girl and still believe nothing is going on, until things becomes serious.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Ehimenboy(m): 5:53am On Nov 30, 2014
monickerless:
Dem babes are always getting everytin wrong and misconcepted! Some of them be like a 'boyfriend is a boy that's your friend' or... 'he's my boyfriend' yet they don't have a sexual relationship with the guy.
By the way, I'm new here
Welcome to "Nigeria's largest online FAMILY". Today, we fight; tommorow, we're best of pals. It's such fun but you have to tread carefully so you're not grossly misled. I have my regrets. Be wise.
Once again, you're welcome
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by csteve: 5:58am On Nov 30, 2014
Evina:


The only place I am really friendly with a guy is online. Because in real life, they always misconstrue the most genuine intentions. They always want to push for something further.

My friend that is normal, There is never any sh*t like just friends. And you too knows that. Stop bieng so close and using sm1 if u aint ready 4 sm sh*t. U aint holy!
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by nickz(m): 6:07am On Nov 30, 2014
Spidermon:
Upon all the telemundo they watch, they still can't properly define the process that lead up to their getting f*cked...
ouch!!!.....you are evilgrin
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by fadolak(f): 6:11am On Nov 30, 2014
Wen will our men be polite.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Ghyft(f): 6:31am On Nov 30, 2014
There was this male friend of mine who said that he cannot be casual friends with any lady and that was the end of the seeming friendship.
These guys thinks that once you are polite enough to talk to them, then you are automatically a girlfriend.
Guys change their mentality,and we change ours shocked
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by magabounce(m): 6:37am On Nov 30, 2014
Natasha2:
Erm poster you also have a misconception about it. To ask someone out doesn't necessarily mean you want him or her to be your bf or gf. It is just inviting someone to go out with you. For example I can ask you out to the cinema,or for ice cream or whatever it is I want us to do. But I guess everyone narrows "asking me out" to relationship and love.



And as for the other part guys do it too, a girls is being nice and you think she wants you.



So I'm asking you out right now @ op can you join me for ice cream next week? tongue
In op's mind... Mehnnmm Natasha don de trip ooo... lolz
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by magabounce(m): 6:41am On Nov 30, 2014
Ghyft:
There was this male friend of mine who said that he cannot be casual friends with any lady and that was the end of the seeming friendship.
These guys thinks that once you are polite enough to talk to them, then you are automatically a girlfriend.
Guys change their mentality,and we change ours shocked
Buh fr real, av had experiences whr av tried tu be jst friends wif ladies... Buh they wanted the "something extra" In my opinion, itz a two way thing
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by adepiero: 6:41am On Nov 30, 2014
magabounce:
In op's mind... Mehnnmm Natasha don de trip ooo... lolz
Aswear if I trip, make cow lay egg undecided
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by magabounce(m): 6:42am On Nov 30, 2014
fadolak:
Wen will our men be polite.
Tah... mechionu dia
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by magabounce(m): 6:43am On Nov 30, 2014
adepiero:
Aswear if I trip, make cow lay egg undecided
LMAO
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by jomoh: 6:44am On Nov 30, 2014
Natasha2:
to ask someone out means inviting them to go out with you. Thats how people mistake flirt to mean someone that sleeps around.

Its the intention that gives the meaning the. Generally if I ask you out does not mean I want to date you. It could mean I want to try you out to see if we can be compatible and it could mean I just want a female companiout to hang out with and chat. While on the outing, I might get interested in you (if I wasn't before) and convert it to a date and my intention might be a date from the outset which I won't tell you so you don't get to object.

The whole idea is just to get the woman unawares, leaving no room for preparation thereby making the date look natural.

BTW on ur profile pic which one is u? The cutie in front or the beauti at the back? grin grin
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Wisegeek01(m): 6:44am On Nov 30, 2014
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Nobody: 6:48am On Nov 30, 2014
Natasha2:


lol google is your friend oga

I noticed you re the type that don't take simple corrections... And it is very bad for you relationship-wise. You feel you re always right and that's a sign that you re the arguing type.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Misconception Of "Ask Me Out" by Nobody: 6:50am On Nov 30, 2014
Always gets on my nerves when things like this are generalized. Can't you simply say "some"?
Is that word missing in your vocabs OP? Smh for your mentality!

I sincerely can't totally blame you sha, its apparent some bush girls are making your head swell. KMT!

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