The ugly ones are very fertile

Dont marry for love, its usually the first to go. Marry a trust worthy friend who got your back and smells your dirty boxers, and knows the smell of your mouth odour before sunrise. Whooaaa, Am I a relationship manager. OP, dont take my word for it, but take my lead.

iceberylin:
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Pls, how do u mean?

christopher123:


Dude

Love is not enough for marriage cos there is notin like true love

Compatibility and attributes are the main thing

Wake up

@op, listen to this Word of Wisdom.

tygaweezy:
Hey o.p here , c'mon guys! Really?? I've been following all ur coments here,hw about sum real solution? Marriage is outta d list guys am still very young .

hey! If you dont love her, dont marry her. If she insist on having the baby then let her and u guys can work out a way to take care of the baby.
Marrying a girl because of a baby? Pls dont do it if u dont want to, dont let anybody tell you otherwise.
I cant get married to a guy because i have a child for him.

They keep tellin u if youdont love her dont marry her

Let me tell u..that is western orientation and stupid one

I am married and ask many men here they will tell u most times they do not plan to marry early but they just find themselves..you talk that ur young..are u not upto 26 ..dude marry her..if u fit give her belle u fit marry her



Our parents never had time for love stuff they married and their marriage lasted

Now u fall in love ..love fades and u fall out

Her breast will sag
her skin wil strech
Her pusssy will wide
She might get fat
All these when kids come
love is out due to these and finer girls out


But what keep u guys are compatibility and attributes not love


Take my words



You will grow in love


Give it a trial

No reasonable man misses a wife material



From experience

beckyomas:

hey! If you dont love her, dont marry her. If she insist on having the baby then let her and u guys can work out a way to take care of the baby.
Marrying a girl because of a baby? Pls dont do it if u dont want to, dont let anybody tell you otherwise.
I cant get married to a guy because i have a child for him.

Then why bring in a bastard and illegitmate child

Billyonaire:
Dont marry for love, its usually the first to go. Marry a trust worthy friend who got your back and smells your dirty boxers, and knows the smell of your mouth odour before sunrise. Whooaaa, Am I a relationship manager. OP, dont take my word for it, but take my lead.

Tht is wat i told these kids



Love aint enough not even the main ingredients

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christopher123:




Then why bring in a bastard and illegitmate child

i guess you missed where i said 'if she insist on having the baby'. He cant possibly force her because its her body. He should deal with what ever decision she take but should not be forced/tricked into marrying her.

christopher123:
They keep tellin u if youdont love her dont marry her

Let me tell u..that is western orientation and stupid one

I am married and ask many men here they will tell u most times they do not plan to marry early but they just find themselves..you talk that ur young..are u not upto 26 ..dude marry her..if u fit give her belle u fit marry her



Our parents never had time for love stuff they married and their marriage lasted

Now u fall in love ..love fades and u fall out

Her breast will sag
her skin wil strech
Her pusssy will wide[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
She might get fat
All these when kids come
love is out due to these and finer girls out


But what keep u guys are compatibility and attributes not love


Take my words



You will grow in love


Give it a trial

No reasonable man misses a wife material



From experience

I no love again!

The way some guys reason and behave sometimes,is kinda appalling. How do you have unprotected sex with someone you have broken up with,and already know you don't wanna get married to? Where were you expecting the seimen you poured into her,to go to? Why do you guys like flooding the society with single mums and kids without fathers? Some of the criminals in our society today,are offsprings from such kinda relationships. At the end of the day,you want to render the girl useless in the "marriage market" and also produce a child you'd probably not be there for;why? Is it so hard to discipline your manhood and control your sexual urges?

I don't mean to sound like a perfect person but I'd state this. It's been 14 yrs since I made a promise to myself never to have a child outside wedlock and despite all the temptations and disappointments,I've stayed true to it. The day I make a mistake of breaking it,whether or not I love the lady in question,I'd have no option than to take responsibilty for the pregnancy and marry her. You can't just wake up and mess other people's lives up and move on like it's nothing. Do what you want others to do to you;tomorrow,you'd have kids also.

Very true. That is why you should play with caution,when you get near them.

adwem2003:
The ugly ones are very fertile

beckyomas:

i guess you missed where i said 'if she insist on having the baby'. He cant possibly force her because its her body. He should deal with what ever decision she take but should not be forced/tricked into marrying her.

Ok

But i am anti abortion


She must have the baby

Marriage is another thing

christopher123:


Ok

But i am anti abortion


She must have the baby

Marriage is another thing

ehen! Now you're talking.
Oya op, a decision has been reached. Go and sin no more.

.............

Evina:
Congratulations

I can supply you pampers at discounted rate

Sorry to say... Seems like your thought process ain't working very well... You broke up with a girl that you have been dating for 3 years... And still kept on sleeping with her and you still didn't think nothing was wrong with it... So you think all women are dumb that they will just continue giving in to you without working out their own plans... Most especially a lady in love...

Anyways... The deed is done...
First of all confirm for yourself by taking her to go see the doctor to confirm her pregnancy

And If it's really true.. . You have to take responsibility for it...

The lady in question has stood by you from what you have just said... So you too should give her the chance by learning to love her....

OP, I don't blame u, u're a guy&dats ur normal attitude. U just used her wen konji was catching u&nw she's gonna bear d consequences of dat. Nywys, ppl like u don't deserve good women. Pls let me ask u, do u even no what love is? Do u think love is one of dose butterfly feelings u have in ur stomach? Op, its high time u stop listening 2 ur heart&listen 2 ur head&stop fooling urself. Hw many women will go thru wat she went thru with u, but nw u have change&u realise u don't love her. Please don't marry her, leave her, she'll find a better man who will appreciate her.

I don't no hw some ladies reason, if I went thru all with u&u still have d boldness 2 tell me u don't love me den its over 4eva. I can't believe after what u told her, she cud still go&see u, even 2 d point of making love.

Thank you guys so much for your contributions, I really appreciate.
So here's the recent development, she came to my house yesterday which is on Sunday and we sat down and had a chat, I told her about letting my mum and her mum know about the pregnancy,she totally objected to the idea and said that she knows her mom very well, that telling her would be somtin we all know as "from frying pan to fire" and the idea of tellin my mum should b kept pendin for now.
I think she wants to do all this in a lowkey style, she only had me promise to be there for her wenever she needs me, both financially and physically.
So, I guess everytin z ok for now... and am hoping it goes accordin to plan . Thank ya'all once again, you guys are great.

You dated her for 3good years, had unprotected sex with her, now she don carry belle and you are asking for advice Guy, na marriage sure pass o...DON'T LET HER ABORT THAT CHILD, you'll forever regret it!

tygaweezy:
Thank you guys so much for your contributions, I really appreciate.
So here's the recent development, she came to my house yesterday which is on Sunday and we sat down and had a chat, I told her about letting my mum and her mum know about the pregnancy,she totally objected to the idea and said that she knows her mom very well, that telling her would be somtin we all know as "from frying pan to fire" and the idea of tellin my mum should b kept pendin for now.
I think she wants to do all this in a lowkey style, she only had me promise to be there for her wenever she needs me, both financially and physically.
So, I guess everytin z ok for now... and am hoping it goes accordin to plan . Thank ya'all once again, you guys are great.

Did you ever get to think that she's simply lying to you and simply want to get you hooked...
Come to think of it... Your mother is the best person to help both of you in this situation whether your mother and every one goes gangster on the two of you...
If shes saying that she wants to do this on a low key... do you think her own parent will not notice most especially her mother unless you think they are dumb and not observant... then it will work...
i smell something fishy from what she told you...
Kindly exercise caution and please try to stay away from her... as she might not even be pregnant and her seeing that you
are agreeing to it will simply make her seduce you and now get pregnant for you which has finally sealed the deal for her...
To test her... Send her a text message telling her that you can hide what has happened and have already told your mum and your mum
demands that she takes you to the hospital for a checkup before anything is said...
Do that and watch what happens...

staminaguy:


Did you ever get to think that she's simply lying to you and simply want to get you hooked...
Come to think of it... Your mother is the best person to help both of you in this situation whether your mother and every one goes gangster on the two of you...
If shes saying that she wants to do this on a low key... do you think her own parent will not notice most especially her mother unless you think they are dumb and not observant... then it will work...
i smell something fishy from what she told you...
Kindly exercise caution and please try to stay away from her... as she might not even be pregnant and her seeing that you
are agreeing to it will simply make her seduce you and now get pregnant for you which has finally sealed the deal for her...
To test her... Send her a text message telling her that you can hide what has happened and have already told your mum and your mum
demands that she takes you to the hospital for a checkup before anything is said...
Do that and watch what happens...

You knw, I wud love to agree with you but I've already seen the signs of pregnancy in her already. Like "spiting all the time" , dizziness, and her ass is getting bigger" ... I've known this gal for 3years and I know when she's lying, and dis aint one of those moments. *am jux gon allow her do it her way*

Hi Tyga,
Play along but pls what is what doing is what doing well.
No one will kill her for getting pregnant and bringing d responsible guy home.
Jump start d process.
Most importantly get her family to know u formally; it is better now than for them to meet you only when and if emergency beckons.
Goodluck

tygaweezy:
Ok,I've been dating this gal for 3years now nd its been going great ,she is the kinda person that really understands me and would never do anytin 2 hurt me , when I had problem with my business and dint know who to turn to , she stood by me and gave me support in which Eva way I needed it and yeah the sex was awesome too.
But here's the problem,I don't think I really love this girl and I don't wana sound like an asshole but its true,I tink I fell for her because of her awesome personality not because I really loved her, so few months back I took her out on a date and told her that I don't tink our relationship is gona work anymore,and yeah she cried and pleaded cos she has done nothing wrong , I felt bad but I can't just kip saying "I love you" to some1 I don't really love. Finally she accepted the breakup but each time she visits or I visit we do have sex "unprotected".
The last sex we had was three weeks ago and I knew I ejaculated inside of her and told her about it,she said don't worry that she was gona take care of it ,which I guess she Neva did because a day before yesterday she called my phone and asked if we could meet , we did and she told me that she is 3weeks pregnant . Am totally confused because I don't tink am up for that kinda responsibility, out of frustration I told her to abort it but she got really upset and said she won't .
Mehn , shit jux got real for me , I need advice ya'all please!

Yo sef you greedy, u want to eat your cake and have it.

Brace up my friend you hv two choices either you mary her, or offer to take care of the child.

#handshaking_seriously , ok guys I jux told my mum about it ,here's how the conversion went
Me: mum, I hav sumtin 2 tell you please
Mum: what is it dear
me: mum hephzy is pregnant, I really don't know what to do
Mum: (showing no sign of alarm) really?? And you are responsible for it?
Me : (nods in agreement)
Mum: is that why you look troubled? Did you see the pregnancy results yourself?
Me: yes and told her to abort it
Mum: you must be very stupid,(signs) stands up and leaves
Am so confused, I don't even know what's on her mind now .... Can she be possibly tinkin of marriage?? Cos I can't marry that gal o
Will let you guys know what happens next , as for now am feelin cold all of a sudden

Evina:
Congratulations

I can supply you pampers at discounted rate

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Stop, I m gonna pee

Can't stop laughing

MhisIjay:

Buhahahahahahahahaa
Stop, I m gonna pee

Can't stop laughing

Lol, why are you laughing at my generosity?

tygaweezy:
#handshaking_seriously , ok guys I jux told my mum about it ,here's how the conversion went
Me: mum, I hav sumtin 2 tell you please
Mum: what is it dear
me: mum hephzy is pregnant, I really don't know what to do
Mum: (showing no sign of alarm) really?? And you are responsible for it?
Me : (nods in agreement)
Mum: is that why you look troubled? Did you see the pregnancy results yourself?
Me: yes and told her to abort it
Mum: you must be very stupid,(signs) stands up and leaves
Am so confused, I don't even know what's on her mind now .... Can she be possibly tinkin of marriage?? Cos I can't marry that gal o
Will let you guys know what happens next , as for now am feelin cold all of a sudden

Woow! You told your mum? Good.

As for the sudden cold, get some blankets and gloves dear cos you would be freezing by the time the baby arrives and the bills are shown to you.

Be excited, your gonna be a papi

Evina:


Lol, why are you laughing at my generosity?

U r indeed vry generous