Mprex:
Erm... One of my NL admirers (clevvermind) created a thread on things husbands should not do to their wives and i think i should produce a counter thread for that.

So these are the 8 things i feel ladies should desist from as married women

1: Dont think you are the Project: its true that he has to woo you, chase you, court you and all that but once you both are married. You become his helper. Dont ever have the mentality that he married you to pet and care for you. Its true he will do that but that is not the main reason for the marriage. You are not his life project rather you are to assist him achieve and attain his life project.

2- Dont Turn Him Against His People: dont turn the mother that bore him for nine months into a witch in his eyes pls. His relatives shouldnt become his enemies because you married him. Dont destroy the family relationship.

3- Dont Try To Change Him: You met him that way. You loved him that way. Why are you trying to change him now?. If you met him drinking alchohol, brace yourself to put up with it. Dont try to change him. You are not the HolySpirit.

4- Dont Be Too Familiar: dont be too familiar with your husband. Queen Vashti lost her crown to Esther because she was too familiar with her husband. Her husband sent for her and she refused to go. Dont get too familiar. Dont forget he is still your head. Still respect him.

5- Dont Stop Looking Good: this one is a major one. He met you looking sexy, fabolous and great. Dont stop looking that way. Even after having kids, hit the gym and still keep fit. Dont forget that he sees fresh babes every day as he goes out. Men are moved by what they see. Dont stop looking good.

6- Help Him On Bed: i wont talk much on this one but please dont make !sex! boring for him.

7- Dont Nag: pls dont nag biko. Instead of nagging, pray to God. God can change his heart, you cant change his heart.

8- Dont Try To Train Your Husband: you are expected to love your husband not to train him. If his mother that has been with him for the first part of his life cant change him on certain things, dont think that you can. Just help him.

Culled and Modified: Pst Mrs Mildred Okonkwo

millionboi:
lik say if i marry u nw,u wil kip 2it....i tink is easier said than done

Elantracey:
I agree with you 100% 80%

obongproff:
I wd rily like my future wife to do dis. I think I shd save dis for future reference.

zubby29:
mprex,come if u never marry make i marry u,lol,ur head correct well.ur mama train u well,hope u go fit do all dis tin u list here

dre11:
Mprex


Such a nice post by you.. ...

I hope u won't default when u get married sha



9) do give the guy his needed space and freedom

10) don't bore his mind and brain with pretty talk that don't add value to him and the relationship

KingTom:

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I hope you will heed to your own advice when we get married

Mprex:
Erm... One of my NL admirers (clevvermind) created a thread on things husbands should not do to their wives and i think i should produce a counter thread for that.

So these are the 8 things i feel ladies should desist from as married women

1: Dont think you are the Project: its true that he has to woo you, chase you, court you and all that but once you both are married. You become his helper. Dont ever have the mentality that he married you to pet and care for you. Its true he will do that but that is not the main reason for the marriage. You are not his life project rather you are to assist him achieve and attain his life project.

2- Dont Turn Him Against His People: dont turn the mother that bore him for nine months into a witch in his eyes pls. His relatives shouldnt become his enemies because you married him. Dont destroy the family relationship.

3- Dont Try To Change Him: You met him that way. You loved him that way. Why are you trying to change him now?. If you met him drinking alchohol, brace yourself to put up with it. Dont try to change him. You are not the HolySpirit.

4- Dont Be Too Familiar: dont be too familiar with your husband. Queen Vashti lost her crown to Esther because she was too familiar with her husband. Her husband sent for her and she refused to go. Dont get too familiar. Dont forget he is still your head. Still respect him.

5- Dont Stop Looking Good: this one is a major one. He met you looking sexy, fabolous and great. Dont stop looking that way. Even after having kids, hit the gym and still keep fit. Dont forget that he sees fresh babes every day as he goes out. Men are moved by what they see. Dont stop looking good.

6- Help Him On Bed: i wont talk much on this one but please dont make !sex! boring for him.

7- Dont Nag: pls dont nag biko. Instead of nagging, pray to God. God can change his heart, you cant change his heart.

8- Dont Try To Train Your Husband: you are expected to love your husband not to train him. If his mother that has been with him for the first part of his life cant change him on certain things, dont think that you can. Just help him.

Culled and Modified: Pst Mrs Mildred Okonkwo

iceberylin:
No6 is Epic

voodoo85:


listen girl. u can give so many advices but... what works for u doesn't work for me. every person is different. and naive and young girls will think about this thread : oh really its good advice i should use them all when i get married. pleaaaaaase ! don't joke me. if every men would want the same thing- there wouldn't be divorces in the world, there wouldn't be cheatings in the world because women would be all same behaviour. thats why girls when u marry don't be delusional. all those threads about how wife should be makes me laugh. u can't cut shapes of people like snowflakes. we all different. and u know what - even if all find that woman who hits your top 50 list criteria for wife- people change so good luck

voodoo85:


listen girl. u can give so many advices but... what works for u doesn't work for me. every person is different. and naive and young girls will think about this thread : oh really its good advice i should use them all when i get married. pleaaaaaase ! don't joke me. if every men would want the same thing- there wouldn't be divorces in the world, there wouldn't be cheatings in the world because women would be all same behaviour. thats why girls when u marry don't be delusional. all those threads about how wife should be makes me laugh. u can't cut shapes of people like snowflakes. we all different. and u know what - even if all find that woman who hits your top 50 list criteria for wife- people change so good luck

Mprex:

your post reeks with anguish. Anything eating you up on the inside dearie?


Your moniker tho

slimmingcare:
You are right .God bless you.I hope all women can read this

Hackin:
obong i guess u re from calabar; my guy pls i need your help here. translate this for me " nduk ke ado" a lady said dis to me n when i requested for the translation, she said i shld figured it out by myself.

Dellakizz:
Blissful lesson ...those are basically basic for a marriage... happily ever after....mprex hope you will abide by them ooo...kudos