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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by owabige: 9:37pm On Dec 13, 2014
A guy marries who he wants to weda u cook or wash his clothes or otherwise...it is the love that matters...

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ItsAaliyah: 9:39pm On Dec 13, 2014
OlamiB:
The way some girls think ehn? No wonder loneliness go kill the op as said by her in a post. I dnt see anything wrong in cooking for ur BF, its romantic and it not like you will start living with him thereby making his meal everyday, its just once in a while.
Ladies want guys that would buy things for them, take them on romantic date, and so on but find it difficult to help him organise his room once in a while?
This is quite not OK, moreover you thinking faculty is different frrom others so dnt pollute the minds of girls that derive happiness doing it. cheesy

Cool. cool
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by jdluv(f): 9:40pm On Dec 13, 2014
Melahou:


is that what you think...
some girl jst love doing thing like that...its more like a hobby to them
am sure if someone like you visit your bf and notice his house or room is dirty you`ll jst
sit there and be looking without knowing you have to help out and clean up
home training is inbuilt..some times you just do somethings like cooking and
cleaning without even thinking you are not in your house

its not call desperate..

Note: thats why most people wonder while some pretty girls are still single
even though they are of age while the "ulgy" once are getting married.

fact. U sit n wait 4 d guy to buy takeway dat u wil eat togeda. Taaa.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Bugatie(m): 9:47pm On Dec 13, 2014
ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

Be there forming decency while another gal cooks her way into his heart

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 13, 2014
Derbyman:
au will u knw he's uising u fr sex



You have to pay me to answer that
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 13, 2014
Movesz:
babe your boyfriend/hubby is a luck guy.



Thanks
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Dec 13, 2014
ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.
...I totally disagree with u on dis...

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Tymax(m): 9:59pm On Dec 13, 2014
All I know is that I can't mistakenly propose to any lady who is not a GOOD cook. It can't happen.

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Idowuogbo(f): 10:03pm On Dec 13, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Ladies and their mindgames.
Why should you guilt a man into doing dishes for him and hold it against him?

If you're in a relationship, I want to believe you love that person, don't do anything because you wanna come off as a wife material(wareva dah means).

Do things that you enjoy doing, as long as it's morally right.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong in it, it's my hobby.
Better pikin, chop am kiss kiss kiss
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by NwaJesusteete(m): 10:08pm On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
There's nothing wrong in all you mentioned above, its the lady's choice to cook or not. Even if the relationship is one day old and to the guys that a lady is cooking for you doesn't mean she's desperate, she's only helping you out. I'm not encouraging you ladies to go and cook for a guy that is not worth it, you should know when a guy is using you for sexxxxx and quit the relationship.
chinke brito ewoooo may u live on my dughter u r a wifi material.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ProsperUSA: 10:09pm On Dec 13, 2014
If there is God in your family, any woman will make a good wife.
Seek God first not wife.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:12pm On Dec 13, 2014
NwaJesusteete:
chinke brito ewoooo may u live on my dughter u r a wifi material.



Your daughter??
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ROZZAYY(f): 10:14pm On Dec 13, 2014
izaray:
Lol, dnt mind her, i suspect dat too, and for a very long tym now, we av not been seeing her online
Just seeing dis now. Hmmmmmmmmmm abeg no spoil my market ooooo. Btw just wondering after today s melodrama irene makes fp, nice!
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by NwaJesusteete(m): 10:14pm On Dec 13, 2014
It isn't a big deal otherwise invite me provid every i will cook no go warri cheesy








i will even wash ur :Dand as well tidy ur conner.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by NwaJesusteete(m): 10:20pm On Dec 13, 2014
brito:




Your daughter??
yeaa i am now 60cheesy
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 13, 2014
NwaJesusteete:
yeaa i am now 60cheesy



Ok father
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by NwaJesusteete(m): 10:23pm On Dec 13, 2014
brito:




Ok father
yea my doughter u r on point
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:33pm On Dec 13, 2014
NwaJesusteete:
yea my doughter u r on point


hmmmm......thanks dad
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ThaProphet(m): 10:33pm On Dec 13, 2014
ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

I agree. Any lady trying to trap me with cooking for me, washing my clothes and cleaning my house will FAIL badly. This is because I probably cook better than most ladies out there and there would be nothing for her to clean up in my house anyway.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 13, 2014
What is it to you if she's only a sex object. If she's ok with that, move on. Moreover, she no go chop inside? Is it not better for her to cook and eat than to frakpa finish and go home hungry and weak? Una matter don dey tire me sef. Wetin?
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by yungcyrus(m): 10:40pm On Dec 13, 2014
ROZZAYY:
Thank God I don't have a boyfriend.
eya! Dats xo pathetic.........
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ROZZAYY(f): 10:44pm On Dec 13, 2014
yungcyrus:
eya! Dats xo pathetic.........
*yawns* uwc
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by YoungIncredible: 10:44pm On Dec 13, 2014
ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

This is exactly the advice that aunty bola followed that make bro kunle dumped her for a village girl who knows how to take care of the house. Now, aunty bola is now 33 running to church and praying for husband.

To the ladies. If you truly love a guy and he also loves you. Forget about all this shits been spewed by the OP. 85% of men used to believe that "if she doesn't display a house wife attitude when we are courting, how am I sure that she would show the attitude when we are married?".
People don't change after marriage, they only improve on their courtship attitude. Be it good or bad.
For me. If my girl friend sits down all time whenever she visits and she watches me cooking without offering an assistance, or if I'm washing cloths or cleaning house and she could even struggle to assist me. Then she is meant to be used and dumped "no offence". If you can't show a wife attitude in relationship, I can't trust you for that attitude in marriage.

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by NwaJesusteete(m): 10:55pm On Dec 13, 2014
brito:



hmmmm......thanks dad
hahahahaahahahahaa kai cheesy my doughter ur face no gree show y8-)
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 13, 2014
NwaJesusteete:
hahahahaahahahahaa kai cheesy my doughter ur face no gree show y8-)



Father! my phone screen no dey show my face
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 10:59pm On Dec 13, 2014
ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

You see how you are misleading other ladies! with this your idea i can see that your aer not properly trained, ask your grand mother if its good or not to do this for a boyfriend, she will tell you that your idea is wrong because rendering such assistance shows some of the qualities that you has, during marriage /burial ceremony dont women cook for people that are not from their tribe/state and dont even know them, if you can do this for people you don't know, then what's wrong doing same for who provide some of your needs?

You believe not helping in doing the guy`s domestic work but you think its good for you to open your legs, one in the North the other to the East for the guy with his weapon of mass destruction to have direct and porous access to your PNY, I dont know what some of you are turning into.

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Melahou(m): 11:08pm On Dec 13, 2014
MayflowerB:

God bless u my brother.....exactly wat I had in mind. I enjoy cooking a lot so whenever I feel like cooking, I just go ahead and do it be it a friend or a bf.

God bless you too jare
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Melahou(m): 11:09pm On Dec 13, 2014
Movesz:
COC..confirmation of the confirm.#TUMBZ UP

I hail you

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Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ochon: 11:10pm On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
There's nothing wrong in all you mentioned above, its the lady's choice to cook or not. Even if the relationship is one day old and to the guys that a lady is cooking for you doesn't mean she's desperate, she's only helping you out. I'm not encouraging you ladies to go and cook for a guy that is not worth it, you should know when a guy is using you for sexxxxx and quit the relationship.

God bless you. As simple as this.
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by ajuwarhodes(f): 11:18pm On Dec 13, 2014
I never did any of those when we were dating, but now,I do it and more self( but I don't wash his cloths o,I never wash mine finish)I do those things effortlessly now sef.all the while I wasn't washing or cleaning his house per ser,I was busy washing and cleaning my mother's house like say I be maid(no hard feelings though)so any time I visited my fiance then( now hubby) I go there go relax ni o
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by Nobody: 11:18pm On Dec 13, 2014
cool A bottle of Orijin please! *takes a sofa*
Re: Ladies, Cooking For Your Boyfriend Doesn't Make You A Wife Material. by BISIXCLUSIVE: 11:25pm On Dec 13, 2014
burr fortunately for u guyzzz a lady can cook,clean the house,probably she is a working class nd she do sacrifice all her time for u,she is trust worthy nd all dat........she is doing all this for gud 4yrs nd u didn't propose to her. menn that's wickedness,u just dating her as a part time house girl.....goshh guyzzz shaa

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