The truth is,a good person is a good person,a bad person is bad person. Continuous s pretense is reality,if a lady is honest in her deeds towards you,be it day 1 or day 365,you know u should keep her for observation,but for a player if you like play hard to get,as soon as he gets what he wants his off,so lets allow instinct guide us!!!things should flow in a natural fashion..

ronald4lif:


I believe you. I don't need a girl to do my chores, I am not handicapped or clueless when it comes to the kitchen, if I want to eat I fix it myself even when my girl is at home, except of course she decides to, not a mandatory. And if you like work like jacky, I don't find it plausible. There are other factors which should be considered when in a relationship and house chores are the less relevant ones.

Guy enoof gbosa for u...u puked ma tots here

I need a cigarette

And the feminine obsession continues *rolls eyes*

so wen my babe visit me all the time, I will be in d kitchen making d food why she will b in d sitting room sipping exotic pineapple juice. After which she eats full to her throat level and fart around my house. pity.

even while I was still in school, babes I didn't date would come to my hostel and make some food, we ate and discussed wide range of issues. it just normal, nothing spectacular about it. it's possible u still a kid and u v not dated yet, but unto sey na faceless forum, u just talk crap on air. smh

Seun:
I think ladies do it because they enjoy playing wifey. As long as you enjoy it, and you don't think it guarantees a proposal, then it's alright.

dating is also about give and take. I take care of u in anyway I can make u happy, and u help out with little u can do around d house. it doesn't translate to anything

brito:
There's nothing wrong in all you mentioned above, its the lady's choice to cook or not. Even if the relationship is one day old and to the guys that a lady is cooking for you doesn't mean she's desperate, she's only helping you out. I'm not encouraging you ladies to go and cook for a guy that is not worth it, you should know when a guy is using you for sexxxxx and quit the relationship.

see how u proclaimin as if sex makes u gals suffer

ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

I love cooking and eating home-made meals. So if I visit my bf and feel the need to cook so I could eat a healthy meal, its my choice.

If I visit my bf and notice that his house is untidy, for my enjoyment of the environment, I would help and clean/tidy the place up. This is also my choice.

And I could also help him with his laundry if need be, afterall we are friends. They all depend on the situation.

He should also be up and doing in his responsibiities as a bf and a friend. Afterall, no gurl wants to be used as a 'handygal'

VickyyB:
OP, Spot on.
You are damn right.
I would rather make a guy desperate for me.

you remind me of kulyie

Melahou:


is that what you think...
some girl jst love doing thing like that...its more like a hobby to them
am sure if someone like you visit your bf and notice his house or room is dirty you`ll jst
sit there and be looking without knowing you have to help out and clean up
home training is inbuilt..some times you just do somethings like cooking and
cleaning without even thinking you are not in your house

its not call desperate..

Note: thats why most people wonder while some pretty girls are still single
even though they are of age while the "ulgy" once are getting married.

Spot-on

it is ok wen she takes kia of her man in every way she can i left my ex even if she is very beurltiful nd luvd by me because she knws how to but wanted to hide all dis from me.... but ladies shld nt stressdemselves

ireneony:
haba i thought u are married

Rozzay is a happy single mom.

chiogoezubem:



I love cooking and eating home-made meals. So if I visit my bf and feel the need to cook so I could eat a healthy meal, its my choice.

If I visit my bf and notice that his house is untidy, for my enjoyment of the environment, I would help and clean/tidy the place up. This is also my choice.

And I could also help him with his laundry if need be, afterall we are friends. They all depend on the situation.

He should also be up and doing in his responsibiities as a bf and a friend. Afterall, no gurl wants to be used as a 'handygal'

*in Ichie Nwosu's voice*
Igbam! Uve landed
Girls listen to the formula
Good domestic work + big ukwu + brain = having a bf/husby oooo

@OP: Are Married? Am nt sure. Ur opinion is good and bad, it depends on d lady.

Wat i hate wit some ladies is trying to force ur self on d man. Its bad. Let d Love come natural, without pretense.

Cooking 4 me is nothin, nd it can be sumtin if it is d kind of food i love to eat. Bt, she shud nt force herself on me. Am the Man!

correctguy0900:
so wen my babe visit me all the time, I will be in d kitchen making d food why she will b in d sitting room sipping exotic pineapple juice. After which she eats full to her throat level and fart around my house. pity.

even while I was still in school, babes I didn't date would come to my hostel and make some food, we ate and discussed wide range of issues. it just normal, nothing spectacular about it. it's possible u still a kid and u v not dated yet, but unto sey na faceless forum, u just talk crap on air. smh

Same thing am thinking. She is talkin 4rm her experience. You wnt people to believe ur own rubbish. Even in office, ladies i dnt date can cook 4 me. Its normal.

Cooking is small; some even saturate their boy friends with sex with the belief that the boy friend will not like to let go of the great sex.

Is normal and not only for girls, this only shows good up bringing,from a responsible home though some do this because the are looking for some thing(marriage)but you don't expect a responsible girl or guy to stay in un tidy environment,you can't help but to do it,as a guy i also do this, when I visit a friend and am hungry,i will gently take permission go inside the kitchen and prepare some thing to eat, same thing with girls though girls are more homely,only lazy people complain

wordbank:

*in Ichie Nwosu's voice*
Igbam! Uve landed
Girls listen to the formula
Good domestic work + big ukwu + brain = having a bf/husby oooo

Abeg Ichie Nwosu, I didn't say anything about husband o, cos those things I mentioned don't untimately get you married. Just like spending on a girl or paying her school fees, like some guys do, don't always get them the girl in question as a wife.

I only meant that you can do those things too for your own enjoyment, and also to help. Afterall he is your friend. Not every babe who does them is looking to hook the guy. Afterall some babes had gone to the extend of getting pregnant, but yet got dumped.

When your heart has chosen someone, it has chosen him/her, irrespective of what they can or cannot do.

GBAM!!!

Op one thing you will understand is that being in a relationship is kind of learning the rope to marriage,if your a kind of girl that love doing all those things but because u dont wana look desperate you wont do them. Just know that you are murdering the relationship. Even if a relationship is a day old just dont hide who you are. A man that loves you will never see u as desperate

ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

Let me cook my own food first and wash my own cloths first na. They are the ones spoiling things for others.

[size=15pt]When you cook for your boyfriend, wash his clothes, clean his room etc when he later dump you don't cry that men are wicked

Which kyn yeye love be cooking and washing clothes for one lazy "boyfriend".

I can only support that when a girl and a guy are engaged, know themselves deeply or a girl willingly do the chores for her boyfriend not forcing/expecting her to do it. [/size]

ireneony:
some ladies can be so desperate; you just start dating a guy, before you know you start cooking, washing his clothes and cleaning his house that doesn't mean he will marry you.
doing what I wrote above is okay when you are in long term relationship.
we ladies should learn to have self respect.
to the guys if a lady is doing all this in the beginning of your relationship please run, she want to trap you with marriage.
I don't need to do all these to win a man love.
ladies, when a man loves you he does not need you to prove yourself by washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him.

ops ,there is no specific time /period to cook for a' guy u re dating or inlove with
washing of clothes well, depends on d suitation n d type of clothes else he shud his laundry somewhere else. but cleaning n cooking sometimes its ok. dont just make it an habit of all d time

Melahou:


is that what you think...
some girl jst love doing thing like that...its more like a hobby to them
am sure if someone like you visit your bf and notice his house or room is dirty you`ll jst
sit there and be looking without knowing you have to help out and clean up
home training is inbuilt..some times you just do somethings like cooking and
cleaning without even thinking you are not in your house

its not call desperate..

Note: thats why most people wonder while some pretty girls are still single
even though they are of age while the "ulgy" once are getting married.

Abegi. Of all the girls that cooked, washed, licked your ass and did jackie chan kerewa for you. How many did you later marry?


At the end of the day its just one.
As for me... i will not cook, wash, mop your house. and i do not expect you to buy anything for me or give me money. You are not yet my husband neither are you my father or family. When you know your worth there will be no need to turn to a slave for him to marry you. Sebi its people that still married ladies that cant cook and paid for them to go to catering school. Abegi, lets not deceive ourselves jare...

Movesz:
you go tey for market

I be like commodity for eyes?

AfricanApple:
you remind me of kulyie

lol. Who's she?

VickyyB:

I be like commodity for eyes?

babe parkwell jerre..so as long as you be chick you be commodity..abi you get prick?

Movesz:
babe parkwell jerre..so as long as you be chick you be commodity..abi you get prick?

I'm not a chick. I'm a human being(girl)

i'm not a commodity whatsever.

Movesz:
babe parkwell jerre..so as long as you be chick you be commodity..abi you get prick?

Leave her jaws, we know them. Living a life of fantasy on Nl.

Misogynist2014:
Leave her jaws, we know them. Living a life of fantasy on Nl.

better pikin e be like say you go sabi the tin?

VickyyB:

I'm not a chick. I'm a human being(girl)

i'm not a commodity whatsever.

me they despirate 4u o

VickyyB:

I'm not a chick. I'm a human being(girl)

i'm not a commodity whatsever.

You are a chick.

Misogynist2014:
You are a chick.

Loool.

Hahahahahaha

You think all girls are like the one you follow?

You berra upgrade