At a point in the life of a bachelor...I am sure you must have heard a lady(ladies) fantasize about (Mr.Right).
You hear them whining on how they haven't been able to find that perfect, sensitive and sweet man.

*Is there really a perfect man out there?

*Or is it the ability to look beyond his shortcomings and love him up that makes him Mr.Right?

*Given that as you grow and learn, your life and priorities would change, Your version of Mr.Right may probably change too.

I wanna believe there is difference between what most women want Mr.Right to be and who he actually is.
WHO IS MR.RIGHT?

Objective views please.

Islie:
Mr Right is always in the dreamland




I just wish most lady will get out their dreams and face reality

there is only Mr Available and not Mr Right

Sleekyshuga:
'A perfect man isn't MR RIGHT, and a MR RIGHT man isn't perfect'...


Mr Right is not one of those fantasised superheroes or a favourite movie actor you droll over daily while seeing a movie..

He isn't one of those guys who say 'I love you' without meaning it..

He is that one man who makes you feel special, unique, happy, and meets all your needs (love, commitment) etc.


He is that man you meet, understand and grow with..

He is that man who understands your flaws and deals with it..

N/B: Don't always rely on him to meet all your physical needs.. It's one factor that chases men away.. Learn how to be useful to yourself ..

Sophyrocks:
Mr right and Mr perfect are two different phrases. why do people keep mixing them up? My Mr right is a man who "i think" is right for me, whom i can live with for the rest of my life. And whoever i think is right for me cannot be right for someone else because my preference will differ from the next lady's own. So whoever you choose based on your preferences is your Mr right.

aww. Thanks Ma'am
So, in a nutshell...he could be Right but not Perfect because no human is actually perfect?
I am asking bc in a thread of mine sometime, I gave my definition of Mr.Right and someone countered it...saying it is non-existent. That's even after I stated the fact that, it's my personal definition.

@sleekyshuga

Sophyrocks:


Thank you. That is the mistake people are fond of making. When they hear the phrase "Mr right", they think its Mr. perfect. Is there anything like Mr perfect? i think people react negatively to that phrase because it makes them feel inadequate.

Kachisbarbie:


aww. Thanks Ma'am
So, in a nutshell...he could be Right but not Perfect because no human is actually perfect?
I am asking bc in a thread of mine sometime, I gave my definition of Mr.Right. That's even after I stated the fact that, it's my personal definition.

Sleekyshuga:
No dear.. Mr Perfect doesn't exist.. Any man who claims to be PERFECT, RUN as fast as possible...

You can rather build your man to your taste..

Sleekyshuga:
No dear.. Mr Perfect doesn't exist.. Any man who claims to be PERFECT, RUN as fast as possible...

You can rather build your man to your taste..

Microflux:
Mr perfect exists. Bt only if mr right finds mrs nice. Bt most ladies want prince charming. Dnt wait 4 mr.right tho' search 4 him like kilode.

Sophyrocks:


True. No perfect man o. we all have our skoi skoi for head. lol. We just have to choose our battles wisely. Its pertinent to honestly ask if we can spend the rest of our lives with whomever we are dating flaws and all. If the answer is No, then the person isnt right for you. choose the flaws of your partner wisely. What works well is concentrating on the good part of your partner but make sure the flaws do not supercede the good side of him.

Sleekyshuga:
Wise talk, dear ..

Sleekyshuga:
No insults.. Pick up a lexicon, and look for the meaning of PERFECTION..

Is there any human without fault(s)?

Mr Perfect doesn't exist biko.. You can rather build your man/woman to a standard.. Only God is perfect..

Microflux:
hahahahahagagagagagagagagag. Do u knw our weakness ar perfected in christ?

Sleekyshuga:
Funny you

Microflux:
if thats ur consensus. Am taking it spiritual? Bt u can be ur man's perfectionist, tho' no one is perfect. I want u to know, love covereth faults. Use ur love to perfect ur mr. Right. Ma'am