eagleeye2:

Guy you suppose dey preach for all the MFM people....... wey dey always shout, "fire come down and burn him and destroy him"
The God that I serve is a God of mercy and second chances.

adorable29:
Typical Nigerian mentality!

Blame the woman for the husband's cheating ways! So, she isn't perfect. So she outta love, insecurity and fear of losing her husband snooped on her husband's fon and challenged her husband's mistresses. Is that enough for him to betray his 3 kids and wife and discard his family?

If he could have 3 kids with his wife and live with her for 10 good years, why can't he be wise enough to try and work on his marriage.

Now the bomb! HOW CAN HE TELL THAT THIS NEW WIFE WILL BE THE ANGEL GOD SENT FROM HEAVEN TO GIVE HIM THE PERFECT MARRIAGE! I laugh at some men!

Soon this new angelic wife will start having her own kids for him, become stressed with family and kids, become insecure cos she has had 3kids and don't look as hot as she use to and also try to snoop on her husband's fon cos she is also afraid to loose him!


So what is he gonna do then! MARRY ANOTHER PERFECT WIFE!

Hahaha! Yeye dey smell!

Edusouls:
well this woman just told us the tip of the iceberg. the real saga that sunk this marriage is best known between this woman and this man...

kristen12:

You're saying trash. Just pray it doesn't happen to your sister or your female children

babyosisi:
This is sad,I may not say anything to ease your pain but your story should be a lesson to other women
Ladies,please get an education and have a career you can fall back on and do not ,I repeat,do not depend on any man for your total sustenance.
This is a prime example of what can happen when one gets into marriage uneducated or under-educated and naive with time on your hands
You become too absolved in the marriage ,losing your sense of self and with little confidence
The man becomes the focus and the center of your life and any perception real or imagined that this man (who is now elevated to the status of a god) may be slipping off your hand is met with brutal force.

You tried to fight other women off him
You don't do that
Men who cheat enjoy that attention
You teach people to respect you by holding your own
Most men don't like weaklings and women who smother them
They prefer strong willed but loving women who they know can take charge of the family should he drop dead
You are too needy
Needy women scare people
There is no need calling fire and brimstone for this woman and your hubby,they are both grown and they have made their decisions
Leaving or staying is your choice but never leave without your kids if you ask me
Take your children and move on,if you have to fight for custody of your kids please do
If you leave your kids,they will become maids and boi boi to this new wife and second rated citizen in their father's house

hatelove:
Dear nairaland family

My heart is broken, i so much hate life and my hubby. Guess my hubby knows i am very angry hence his refusal to talk to me.

I have not seen him since i learnt his marriage is on saturday, his family has been arriving our home, at first his elder sister then an older uncle and some other relation, i became curious to find out whats up if someone had died but to my greatest surprisec it was my husband that is getting married.

My husband has not arrived home since yesterday they started coming.
my heart is broken, my soul is weak. ive called my parents that im done with the marriage i will be coming home. my mum cried on phone on hearing the news, im confused, my family is confused, all i feel for my husband right now is hate, i can strangle him or even poison him with trhe amount of hate i feel right now.

Our pastor called he didnt pick up.

Even though we have heen married for ten years with three beautiful kids.

dear hubby whereever you are right now, i pray for Gods purnishment on you
may you never know peace with your new wife
may your pocket go dry, by that way you will get to suffer with your miserable mistress
i wish you all the bad things of life

To the mistress
as far you have destroy my home, that is how God will destroy your home be destroyed too.

My heart is broken, i so much hate life and my hubby. Guess my hubby knows i am very angry hence his refusal to talk to me.

I have not seen him since i learnt his marriage is on saturday, his family has been arriving our home, at first his elder sister then an older uncle and some other relation, i became curious to find out whats up if someone had died but to my greatest surprisec it was my husband that is getting married.

My husband has not arrived home since yesterday they started coming.
my heart is broken, my soul is weak. ive called my parents that im done with the marriage i will be coming home. my mum cried on phone on hearing the news, im confused, my family is confused, all i feel for my husband right now is hate, i can strangle him or even poison him with trhe amount of hate i feel right now.

Our pastor called he didnt pick up.

Even though we have heen married for ten years with three beautiful kids.

dear hubby whereever you are right now, i pray for Gods purnishment on you
may you never know peace with your new wife
may your pocket go dry, by that way you will get to suffer with your miserable mistress
i wish you all the bad things of life

To the mistress
as far you have destroy my home, that is how God will destroy your home.

sleepless night for me, my husband wedding, my husband family asking me to be patient nothing has changed apart from me having a helpmate, me helpmate? TO MY HUSBAND I HATE YOU.

Wrong prayer. You should realize who our enemy is: the devil. Not your husband, who is obviously being controlled by demonic forces. You should use prayers to recover your home.

GhaliNaaba:

Shut up! I see you hate the truth.

kristen12:

You're saying trash. Just pray it doesn't happen to your sister or your female children

kristen12:

Get lost! Which useless truth can drop from your mouth

IDEApro:
Before a man embark on this journey, his home front is a living hell.


Op, you chased the man away. Stop seeking for pity party.

SexySapphire:
If this is true, it is devastating. I can understand the hate and anger going through your mind at the moment. Lemme just drop my two cents as a lady. What your hubby did is unforgivable buh I think I understand why he did it. As u said earlier, u were chosen for ur hubby by his relatives which means both of u didn't meet each other, date, fall in love and all those paparazzi so definitely u guys av been coping with each other in the marriage cos it's a loveless marriage. I'm sure u went into the marriage wit the notion that both of u will fall in love with time which obviously didn't happen wit dear hubby. Now he has found someone he thinks he's in love with. I'm sorry if this hurt buh I jst av to say this, u partly drove ur hubby into it. You calling his contacts without prove dat he is indeed dating them is what brought up this issue to the extent that u guys had to be seperated for 3months and in the course ur hubby sought for refuge in the arms of this lady in question. When u came back home, ur hubby had already become use to ur usually attitude so he didn't bother to respect or hide anytin from u and as usual, u also started nagging. Nothing irritates a man more than a nagging wife and so ur hubby came to the conclusion dat so far u will always nag, he has to bring in the love of his life who will always calm him down when u start nagging. Bae, the thing to do now is to ensure the wedding doesn't happen, go to the place where they will be joined together and disrupt it. U don't av to be violent about it, just walk up to the priest or whoever that is gonna join them and explain situation of things to him. And pls now is the right time to dust ur certificates and be on the look out for job. Now is not the time to be heart broken, it is the time to strategize. I'm not going to tell u to leave his house or not buh if u're ever gonna leave, pls take ur kids along. I wish u all the best.

bushdoc9919:


Yeah...and the man will keep on searching for the perfect wife....until infinity.

When will we humans learn? If we are not perfect ourselves....why expect others to be perfect?

hatelove:
Dear nairaland family

My heart is broken, i so much hate life and my hubby. Guess my hubby knows i am very angry hence his refusal to talk to me.

I have not seen him since i learnt his marriage is on saturday, his family has been arriving our home, at first his elder sister then an older uncle and some other relation, i became curious to find out whats up if someone had died but to my greatest surprisec it was my husband that is getting married.

My husband has not arrived home since yesterday they started coming.
my heart is broken, my soul is weak. ive called my parents that im done with the marriage i will be coming home. my mum cried on phone on hearing the news, im confused, my family is confused, all i feel for my husband right now is hate, i can strangle him or even poison him with trhe amount of hate i feel right now.

Our pastor called he didnt pick up.

Even though we have heen married for ten years with three beautiful kids.

dear hubby whereever you are right now, i pray for Gods purnishment on you
may you never know peace with your new wife
may your pocket go dry, by that way you will get to suffer with your miserable mistress
i wish you all the bad things of life

To the mistress
as far you have destroy my home, that is how God will destroy your home be destroyed too.

My heart is broken, i so much hate life and my hubby. Guess my hubby knows i am very angry hence his refusal to talk to me.

I have not seen him since i learnt his marriage is on saturday, his family has been arriving our home, at first his elder sister then an older uncle and some other relation, i became curious to find out whats up if someone had died but to my greatest surprisec it was my husband that is getting married.

My husband has not arrived home since yesterday they started coming.
my heart is broken, my soul is weak. ive called my parents that im done with the marriage i will be coming home. my mum cried on phone on hearing the news, im confused, my family is confused, all i feel for my husband right now is hate, i can strangle him or even poison him with trhe amount of hate i feel right now.

Our pastor called he didnt pick up.

Even though we have heen married for ten years with three beautiful kids.

dear hubby whereever you are right now, i pray for Gods purnishment on you
may you never know peace with your new wife
may your pocket go dry, by that way you will get to suffer with your miserable mistress
i wish you all the bad things of life

To the mistress
as far you have destroy my home, that is how God will destroy your home.

sleepless night for me, my husband wedding, my husband family asking me to be patient nothing has changed apart from me having a helpmate, me helpmate? TO MY HUSBAND I HATE YOU.

GhaliNaaba:
. Not well trained child. You better learn how to behave in your husband house or else he send you packing.

hatelove:










When my last daughter was three i called one of his
senior colleage to stay off him which made my
husband angry and said im being hostile to him so
he wants a divorce, the issue became so big that my
husband and i got seperated

lakamua:
Your husband is a very very good man. He gave you all you needed yet u went frustrating his life and trying to spoil it even after warnings. You married him for money and he knows. He is quiet so he wont tell u but the proof is clear. He has found a woman who truely likes him, rich or poor

dominique:
@hatelove, Sorry your husband is not a baby. He has made his decision. Try to come to terms with it so as not to affect your health adversely. If you feel you can't live under the same roof with the new wife. Tell him to provide alternative accommodation for either of you (better her).

Women need to know that going after women linked to their husbands diminishes his attraction to them. All the time she was busy humiliating her husband by harassing his colleagues, she should have sat him down. Truly, they barely knew each other, but it is strangers that become friends then lovers. After being embarassed by his wife, the man must have started having second thoughts about the person he married. women need to be less insecure.

babyosisi:



Living under that roof will mean torture for you
I wonder why the man would want to do that
It is dangerous
The man has heaped enough insult on you for 25 people,please pick up the little dignity you have left and get out of there
If he wants to support you and kids, let him do it from another roof.
Call your parents immediately and return there if you have no place else to go
You have a degree ,good
You need to look for a job and I pray you get one fast

This is why I hate that word " housewife"
No wife should ever agree to that plan ,it keeps you stuck with No voice and eating shait because you have no means
People think when men say they don't want their wife working,it is always out of love for them,many times it is their mode of control and that is exactly what happened here