Truckpusher:
You have this natural hatred for guys that talks like this,don't you?
You take life too serious........smh

I swear I don't understand where that last bit of your comment came from.
I thought it was a light hearted banter.
When did I become so serious?

You SERIOUSLY need to go and push your truck for today.
Bye

cococandy:

I swear I don't understand where that last bit of your comment came from.
I thought it was a light hearted banter.
When did I become so serious?

You SERIOUSLY need to go and push your truck for today.
Bye

firstEVA:
common stop acting like you know me, my post is about my observation on the Average Nigerian man, not all men, you'll be surprised that my man is nothing like the average Nigerian man

Your man is worse than the average Nigerian man. Can he even be called a man? He is a weakling.

firstEVA:
When did you become an advocate for men? @ vivly
They should just know they can't have it all, no one woman can be all.

I wonder where you get your notion about 'women from the West'

Everywhere, be it East, North, South, West, in the air or under the water...wherever that place it, a Man will never accept his authority to be challenged. That's his pride.

iykedare:



Your man is worse than the average Nigerian man. Can he even be called a man? He is a weakling.

no need insulting someone you don't even know, it makes no sense, stick to the subject.

kaboninc:


I wonder where you get your notion about 'women from the West'

Everywhere, be it East, North, South, West, in the air or under the water...wherever that place it, a Man will never accept his authority to be challenged. That's his pride.

my point is, since you have your pride, you want to be head, why be uncomfortable when she wants you to play the role of a head when it comes to meeting her needs?

firstEVA:
my point is, since you have your pride, you want to be head, why be uncomfortable when she wants you to play the role of a head when it comes to meeting her needs?

Sometimes I don't understand you guys.

Meeting her needs as per boyfriend and girlfriend or married couples?

A man marries a woman and assumes complete responsibility over her and her needs. The average man DOES that...whether Nigerian or not.

However a man is human and humans are generally selfish including women. So he might be selfish in meeting certain needs and so there might not be a balance. So that's where a responsibility comes in and he knows about it.

Besides a woman also should consider her man when meeting her own needs too.

I wonder what the women of today are striving for. A man is born, he struggles to survive, earn a living, marries a woman and sets up a family, he continues struggling to keep his family alive and dies while struggling. What else do you ladies want again?

firstEVA:
no need insulting someone you don't even know, it makes no sense, stick to the subject.

But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite.

iykedare:


But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite.

her own reach 100 % thats how you test nairalanders put them in the position and you will see how foolish they are

iykedare:


But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite.

I'm sure one nut on your head has fallen off.

iykedare:


But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite.

It was only a matter of time before someone figured this out...

crackhaus:

It was only a matter of time before someone figured this out...

lilmax:
her own reach 100 % thats how you test nairalanders put them in the position and you will see how foolish they are

iykedare:

But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite.

So these are the average Nigerian men described above. Instead of changing the subject, answer the question, if you want equality, why not accept take it in all respects, or if you want to be the "man" why not be man in all things?

firstEVA:
common stop acting like you know me, my post is about my observation on the Average Nigerian man, not all men, you'll be surprised that my man is nothing like the average Nigerian man

And what makes you think your man is in the minority?

firstEVA:
I'm sure one nut on your head has fallen off.

So your mumu boyfriend has a nut "on his head ". No wonder he is dating a block head like you.

LordReed:


And what makes you think your man is in the minority?

Don't mind the dull girl. Her head is filled with sperm.

Why should you give him a slap? Is that what " western " women do?
What has paying bills got to do with being badly behaved, rude and uncultured? Even when I go out with friends we spilt the bill based on what we all ate does that mean I will now start challenging them, slapping them and being rude to them?

Young ladies please read and understand the concept and struggle of feminisim before you put yourself in trouble.

If you slap a man he has the right to give you a powerful slap back. If a woman in the west slaps a man he can sue her for assault and get paid loads of money in damages.

If I pay my own bills, spilt cheques and take care of myself it simply means I respect myself and know my responsibility towards myself and don't see a man as my atm.

You marry a man because you love him and respect him. That love and respect shouldn't be based on what he can or can't give you.

aisha2:
Why should you give him a slap? Is that what " western " women do?
What has paying bills got to do with being badly behaved, rude and uncultured? Even when I go out with friends we spilt the bill based on what we all ate does that mean I will now start challenging them, slapping them and being rude to them?

Young ladies please read and understand the concept and struggle of feminisim before you put yourself in trouble.

If you slap a man he has the right to give you a powerful slap back. If a woman in the west slaps a man he can sue her for assault and get paid loads of money in damages.

If I pay my own bills, spilt cheques and take care of myself it simply means I respect myself and know my responsibility towards myself and don't see a man as my atm.

You marry a man because you love him and respect him. That love and respect shouldn't be based on what he can or can't give you.

who is talking about feminism here? Please comprehend before you comment.

firstEVA:


So these are the average Nigerian men described above. Instead of changing the subject, answer the question, if you want equality, why not accept take it in all respects, or if you want to be the "man" why not be man in all things?

man in all things like?

firstEVA:


So these are the average Nigerian men described above. Instead of changing the subject, answer the question, if you want equality, why not accept take it in all respects, or if you want to be the "man" why not be man in all things?

Please ask your father or your boyfriend, either of them must have exhibited behaviour that prompted you to start this topic.

I'm not responsible for your anger and frustration with the average Nigerian man, neither does this average Nigerian man care what FirsrEVA thinks about him...

firstEVA:
who is talking about feminism here? Please comprehend before you comment.

Buahahahahaha...

This one is obviously pained. Alright tell us what he did to you, don't be shy...you can tell daddy anything

crackhaus:

Please ask your father or your boyfriend, either of them must have exhibited behaviour that prompted you to start this topic.

I'm not responsible for your anger and frustration with the average Nigerian man, neither does this average Nigerian man care what FirsrEVA thinks about him...

you can't even answer a simple question, ok, move to a corner, you can now un follow the thread, let me hear from other people, thank you.

firstEVA:
you can't even answer a simple question, ok, move to a corner, you can now un follow the thread, let me hear from other people, thank you.

What stvpid simple question do you need me to answer love?
About being a man in all things, or about equality?

What has being a man in all things have to do with equality?
Aren't you ladies the ones advocating for gender equality?

It's you who should be answering your question - If you want equality, why won't you do everything a man does in exactly the same way he does it?

Things like opening the car doors for him, buying him a car for his birthday, taking him shopping & vacationing in exotic places/islands, doing manual/physical labour, getting down on your knees and proposing to him, providing half the cash to be spent on your fantasy I-want-to-be-driven-on-a-white-horse and wear a Vera Wang wedding dress on my wedding… etc. etc. etc. Should I go on?

Now do you understand why you're the hypocrite, or is it that you don't even understand what you're trying to talk about on your own thread?

some ladies sha!

If this is what the average Nigerian man is, May my children's children never ever, ever I repeat ever, come close to them as wives.
Iseeeeee!


Make I go find money for Christmas gifts .

I agree with you, most of them are hypocrites who want to have their cake and eat it too.

They want Nigerian women to pay bills like the western women yet they don't want to contribute to household chores like western men do in return. It's like Nigerian men think the women have some supernatural powers, she's supposed to go out in the morning just like him to earn money and then come back home in the evening after sitting in the traffic for hours just like him. Yet he expects that when he gets home his dinner should be waiting she'll be the one to feed the children, help them with homework, do laundry etc the list is endless.

Men in the west understand that when a woman works just as hard as you do to help pay bills then you need to pitch in on the home front and not tell us how you are doing her a favour by cleaning the house you contributed to dirtying or washing the dishes . If you want women to take financial responsibilities then you need to pitch in on the home front , it's hypocritical to want the benefits if modernity but when it's time for you to do your part you then want to stick to traditional roles make up your minds

bamidele029:
I agree with you, most of them are hypocrites who want to have their cake and eat it too.

They want Nigerian women to pay bills like the western women yet they don't want to contribute to household chores like western men do in return. It's like Nigerian men think the women have some supernatural powers, she's supposed to go out in the morning just like him to earn money and then come back home in the evening after sitting in the traffic for hours just like him. Yet he expects that when he gets home his dinner should be waiting she'll be the one to feed the children, help them with homework, do laundry etc the list is endless.

Men in the west understand that when a woman works just as hard as you do to help pay bills then you need to pitch in on the home front and not tell us how you are doing her a favour by cleaning the house you contributed to dirtying or washing the dishes . If you want women to take financial responsibilities then you need to pitch in on the home front , it's hypocritical to want the benefits if modernity but when it's time for you to do your part you then want to stick to traditional roles make up your minds

Absolute nonsense...

Many Nigerian women since the days of our parents have been going to work and coming back home to fix meals for their husband and kids, they aren't dead but still living their lives and building their homes, they not complaining - even most of the married and working women here on NL family section do the exact same thing in their homes but only come online to preach 'heresy' and lead the naive and highly impressionable folks astray.


Now let's do a reality check to see if you don't have your head so far gone up your azz;
How many married women with husbands who work and earn well, take care of the bills themselves without any input from him?

In fact I can bet you that in situations where both husband and wife work, the husband still bears more of the bills and expenses...do you disagree?

bamidele029:
I agree with you, most of them are hypocrites who want to have their cake and eat it too.

They want Nigerian women to pay bills like the western women yet they don't want to contribute to household chores like western men do in return. It's like Nigerian men think the women have some supernatural powers, she's supposed to go out in the morning just like him to earn money and then come back home in the evening after sitting in the traffic for hours just like him. Yet he expects that when he gets home his dinner should be waiting she'll be the one to feed the children, help them with homework, do laundry etc the list is endless.

Men in the west understand that when a woman works just as hard as you do to help pay bills then you need to pitch in on the home front and not tell us how you are doing her a favour by cleaning the house you contributed to dirtying or washing the dishes . If you want women to take financial responsibilities then you need to pitch in on the home front , it's hypocritical to want the benefits if modernity but when it's time for you to do your part you then want to stick to traditional roles make up your minds

my point exactly

crackhaus:

Absolute nonsense...

Many Nigerian women since the days of our parents have been going to work and coming back home to fix meals for their husband and kids, they aren't dead but still living their lives and building their homes, they not complaining - even most of the married and working women here on NL family section do the exact same thing in their homes but only come online to preach 'heresy' and lead the naive and highly impressionable folks astray.


Now let's do a reality check to see if you don't have your head so far gone up your azz;
How many married women with husbands who work and earn well, take care of the bills themselves without any input from him?

In fact I can bet you that in situations where both husband and wife work, the husband still bears more of the bills and expenses...do you disagree?

Yes I disagree.

Your last paragraph stinks like the crap of a bull.

Evina:


Yes I disagree.

Your last paragraph stinks like the crap of a bull.

Is that all?

You should back up your disagreement and make the crap of bull scented…don't you think so?

crackhaus:

Is that all?

You should back up your disagreement and make the crap of bull scented…don't you think so?

No, I think not.

jumbotron:


Most times, that man just did not look well.

lol!

Evina:


No, I think not.

Okay I see you just felt like quoting then, you definitely agree with that last paragraph