Girl's are dummb. They got no standard. Of all d guys in her office dat she cud av bn close 2, its her boss, a married man 4 dat mata! Orishirishi

Chai..

Most women don't even know what they want in marriage, they marry because most of their friends are getting married or for money without evaluating the person they are getting married to.

This one no be marriage now.

Going to reap where you did not sow will only give you a harvest of whirlwind. All girls know this, but all of them keep hoping that their case would be different.


Agege Bread!

Seems like you're jealous of the other family.

Just leave nah. E be like say you be the disposable wife.

dorlapoh20:

Reasons are best known to her,from what i read i think she felt sorry for the man.
Even if those u metioned were her reasons which i really doubt no man has the right to lie, use and dump a lady. The lady was used as an open door to their child bearing. The man should have been truthful to her in the first place.
And do you know what? she would agree if what she wants is money.

When did she become God solving the problems of infertile couples?

The man is 100% wrong .

carefreewannabe:
First of all, I don't understand why people try to put the OP down. I don't see where she went wrong. Ok, she married him quite fast, so what? She trusted him for one reason or another. Some people wait until they marry and still end up in a miserable marriage.

I pray you don't make such mistake.
Everyone should set a good moral standard, a man that was married to another woman and seperated with the story that they could n't have a child even when he is medically okay, what makes her thinks she is the one that can be able to give him a child?
Between i did n't see where she said she investigated if the man was saying the truth.
*Desperado*

Brandnew2:

Ishilove has come o!

where he/she go b4

Ishilove:
They used her star to open the first wife''s womb, because how else can you explain the four months difference in both their children's ages?

When a man tells you about issues with his wife, jump and pass. Marriage is not the beginning and end of life.

Lol @ jump and pass.

bukatyne:


When did she become God solving the problems of infertile couples?

The man is 100% wrong .

Help me ask her o!

So why exactly are those two females arguing back and forth? Deed has been done. Give advise and let everyone read and learn from another's mistake. Simple as that. As for me, i think she shud try to move on, get a job (I'm assuming she's a graduate), seek assistance from family if the need arises, there's absolutely no need giving yourself high blood pressure over someone who's somewhere enjoying his life. Create your own happiness and move on

chisco82:

Help me ask her o!

Lol!

She is probably the goddess of fertility; was it not after marrying her the wife got pregnant?

Mondisweets:
All i can say now is she must claim for maintenance thats actually enough to take care of the needs of her children and move on with her life.

It may not be easy to get over what really happened to her but she will just have to do it either way. She is still 30, so there is hope.



Front page tingz woop woop

I thought the old men are so nice and caring and they barely hurt .....hehehehe.

Ishilove:
They used her star to open the first wife''s womb, because how else can you explain the four months difference in both their children's ages?

When a man tells you about issues with his wife, jump and pass. Marriage is not the beginning and end of life.

I dont wanna believe this tho , humans are cruel.

Mondisweets:
she met him years ago, so its not unusal if they get serious in a couple of months. like i said many couples were friends for years and they marry after months of dating and they still live happily under normal circumstances
I was only emboldening it to show you how clueless you are about the difference between a relationship and marriage diverting the issue to insulting my "salient points" didn't make you sound any clever anyway. The point i made was that a normal human being who has reasonable belief that she is not being deceived, wouldn't under normal circumstances stalk her partner, because she is of the reasonable belief that she is marrying someone who is being genuine with her since she actually was formally introduced to the family ( like every other normal couple)



Anyway its capisce not capische... You are welcome

you are a chronic hater

majekdom2:
I thought the old men are so nice and caring and they barely hurt .....hehehehe.

This one was on a mission o

MizMyColi:



X'cuse me Ma'am.

This man didn't ask her to date him or become a concubine, he asked her to marry him and "and she obliged" --- just like that.

Jeez! Whatever happened to common sense?

Whatever happened to asking questions.

Someone I haven't seen in a year, pops out of the blues and asks me to marry him, so hastily for that matter. I have been in Nigeria long enough to know that Men aren't so keen on marriage, now if one comes at me with such proposal, an allegedly divorced one at that.......

Call it stalking, call it psycho-analysis, if it pertains a life long decision where I'd mostly be on my own, common sense, even when it's not common requires that I do some background research. I really don't know about other people but as an individual, I've never made a decision while relying totally on my inner light and ever regretted.

Capische?

thank you , you are just a realist . many individuals need to come out from their delusions.

youngice:

you are a chronic hater

Hating on what exactly?

bukatyne:


Lol!

She is probably the goddess of fertility; was it not after marrying her the wife got pregnant?

Lol!
I do ask people "someone that left or divorce his/her partner to mary you, how sure are you that he/she is not going to leave you for another person?"

Mondisweets:
This one was on a mission o

everyone is always on a mission . My going ou with a chic is either to marry or use and dump .... not all that glitters is gold . life itself aint easy . the bible envisages long suffering tho . people should stop thinking it can go smoothly hence making some decisions without a second thought.

uplawal:
Why write choi,silly

My word, my choi!

mizmycoli and mondisweets
why the e-war

remsonik:
Simply divorce the man and move on

well , it may not be as simpe as you thnk , the hurts and all plus I dont think this is ordinary .

it is well

bukatyne:


When did she become God solving the problems of infertile couples?

The man is 100% wrong .

hmmmmmm it's a common pratice among the yorubas that wen a couple have problem with child bearing. Marrying or impregnating a lady will open the first wife womb.These children are mostly called SHINA. thou it's diabolic cos no Pastor will tell u dat. But the lady should be aware of it and must not be cheated
Am sure the man would pay for his sins

Ishilove:
They used her star to open the first wife''s womb, because how else can you explain the four months difference in both their children's ages?

When a man tells you about issues with his wife, jump and pass. Marriage is not the beginning and end of life.

Lol

Nkan be

Ishilove:
They used her star to open the first wife''s womb, because how else can you explain the four months difference in both their children's ages?

When a man tells you about issues with his wife, jump and pass. Marriage is not the beginning and end of life.

u don dey watch too much home video

bukatyne:


What will attract a single 28yr old to a divorced 48yr old after 10yrs of marriage? Money? Desperation?

What was even the probability that the problem was not with the husband?

Thank God people like you are being real here ..... some folks will come up with sentiments that perhaps she thought the man would be caring , would not beat her and maltreat her as we have been discussing on a thread . This all balls down to greed and she sould just take responsibilities for her actions ... simple.

I can't say she was deceived but you got the lust of yourlife.I did know how you made his day while in your I T days that made to asked for your hand in marriage. Let me assume you don't know where he was staying even when he told u that he is No longer with his wife. Desperation couldnot allow you asked simple questions and know simple things.if u are Christian pray for mercy and ask for your own husband.