Newkidoo:
Better way of getting past exes is self love.. Immerse yourself in yourself.. I tried it.. It works..

Best advice so far

KissQ:


Awww u lucky, I deleted all contacts from my fon as well now Bt d funny fin is dat I have his numb stuck in my head so to me it's of no use deleting contact.

after 2 encounters, I stopped memorizing numbers

KissQ:


Lol!!!! R u serz..wat can daddy do to mk me forget him

make u see reasons y your ex was a loser

He left bkx he is not the perfect one. u r yet to meet someone who is much more better than him. this should b your point of consulation. Forget about him and move on knowing that what's yours is yours.

KissQ:


Am actually trying very hard on this 1 bt mehn according to u it's almost impossible, sometimes I jst feel like calling him,other tyms I feel like adding him bk on bbm and most of my fwends who dnt knw we broke up already still ask me abt him n I pretend n tell dem he's fyn, dats wen it even hits me d more... am jst tired sha, bt darris God

I think u shud be able 2 tell dem (ur frends who asks) dat u guys ar no longer 2geda...srsly dat helps plus wen u've said a few more dan once it cant help but sink in

2sExy1:
after 2 encounters, I stopped memorizing numbers

I ain't ever memorising again.

It's so hard to forget your EX especially when the break up was due to situations beyond your control like genotype/blood group or no support from parent. It still hurts and will linger in your heart. I still try to check up on my EX and see how his life is going. I spy on him and it hurts when you see them with another girl

yemicoal:
make u see reasons y your ex was a loser

Lol

Etetejake:
He left bkx he is not the perfect one. u r yet to meet someone who is much more better than him. this should b your point of consulation. Forget about him and move on knowing that what's yours is yours.

Fnkz dear

zeezahbee:
It's so hard to forget your EX especially when the break up was due to situations beyond your control like genotype/blood group or no support from parent. It still hurts and will linger in your heart. I still try to check up on my EX and see how his life is going. I spy on him and it hurts when you see them with another girl

Serzly

Its quite hard forgetting your ex considering the fact that he/she has once been part of your life..I see some of the previous posters telling you to get a better person.
first..Its not a competition about who gets a better person.if you are doing that,it means you havent moved on.
secondly..There is no book that can help you get over someone, even those who say you should find a hobby,none of it works.
The best advice i can give is:
1.Think about it when you have to,after that move on.
2.Love is good, the fact that you'll still fall in love again with someone else should give you some sort of Joy.
3.Moving on depends on you,Just take it as one of life's experiences, learn from it and move on...remember that time something happened to you and you thought you would die?...But here you are, still standing...
This would also pass

tirex:
Its quite hard forgetting your ex considering the fact that he/she has once been part of your life..I see some of the previous posters telling you to get a better person.
first..Its not a competition about who gets a better person.if you are doing that,it means you havent moved on.
secondly..There is no book that can help you get over someone, even those who say you should find a hobby,none of it works.
The best advice i can give is:
1.Think about it when you have to,after that move on.
2.Love is good, the fact that you'll still fall in love again with someone else should give you some sort of Joy.
3.Moving on depends on you,Just take it as one of life's experiences, learn from it and move on...remember that time something happened to you and you thought you would die?...But here you are, still standing...
This would also pass

Fnkz dear

KissQ:


Fnkz dear

same here

KissQ:


Am actually trying very hard on this 1 bt mehn according to u it's almost impossible, sometimes I jst feel like calling him,other tyms I feel like adding him bk on bbm and most of my fwends who dnt knw we broke up already still ask me abt him n I pretend n tell dem he's fyn, dats wen it even hits me d more... am jst tired sha, bt darris God

sis try speaking to him u might be surprised its just an acre of pride holding u guys getting back if its geniue love.if he was just a crush or a good lay,you would eventually get ova him but if he caused butterflies flutter in your heart--then sis you er on a long thing.I for one hasn't forgotten a girl i met in jss3-she's still probably very mad at me.

U need to realize that life is certainly not very fair sometimes & getting over an ex culd be a tasking issue especially if deep affections were involved. If the break up was caused by u & still desire him back,then get back to making up with him,but if it was deliberatly caused by him & u made efforts at encouraging the ralatnshp back but he still maintains a brick wall,my dear,simply move on,cos u can't trade in self denial because of anothr human being,when he's seemingly basking in the happiest time of his life probably with some other lady...I tell u nothng is really worth dying for in this planet earth. Personally,I believe the passage of time is the ultimate healer of all wounds,u culd cry & reminisce on the good old times...oh yes,feel free to do so, cos it'll help u heal a great deal.On a last note,remember u were created special,love n admire urself more & change or adjust some of ur ways that'll definitly attract the right person into ur life...of course there's one special person for every1.Above all,u need to believe u two were'nt meant to be,therefore som1 really special will come calling someday..

enkay4love:
U need to realize that life is certainly not very fair sometimes & getting over an ex culd be a tasking issue especially if deep affections were involved. If the break up was caused by u & still desire him back,then get back to making up with him,but if it was deliberatly caused by him & u made efforts at encouraging the ralatnshp back but he still maintains a brick wall,my dear,simply move on,cos u can't trade in self denial because of anothr human being,when he's seemingly basking in the happiest time of his life probably with some other lady...I tell u nothng is really worth dying for in this planet earth. Personally,I believe the passage of time is the ultimate healer of all wounds,u culd cry & reminisce on the good old times...oh yes,feel free to do so, cos it'll help u heal a great deal.On a last note,remember u were created special,love n admire urself more & change or adjust some of ur ways that'll definitly attract the right person into ur life...of course there's one special person for every1.Above all,u need to believe u two were'nt meant to be,therefore som1 really special will come calling someday..

Fnkz a bunch

I don't know what to do,we just break and she automatically friend zone me...I still have her on my bbm,I have her Google+ account,I see her picture everyday
She still want us to be friend...I still have heart break

Ipledge:
I don't know what to do,we just break and she automatically friend zone me...I still have her on my bbm,I have her Google+ account,I see her picture everyday
She still want us to be friend...I still have heart break

I fink if u don't want her in ur friend zone den tell her n u guys shud just end it amicably, mayb wen u ova ur hrtbrk u can readd her n become friends, bt for now d more u c her d more u wud want to b wif her

KissQ:


I fink if u don't want her in ur friend zone den tell her n u guys shud just end it amicably, mayb wen u ova ur hrtbrk u can readd her n become friends, bt for now d more u c her d more u wud want to b wif her

you made a very sensible comment,I told her but she said that will break her heart...since we broke up on mutual consent,I don't want to hurt her

Ipledge:
you made a very sensible comment,I told her but she said that will break her heart...since we broke up on mutual consent,I don't want to hurt her

Dats selfishness on her part, remember no human being is worth dying for, she doesn't want to get hurt bt doesn't u gettin hurt, it's high tym to learnt how to please urself instead of her u knw

KissQ:
We av all gone through breakups at some point in our lives, a lot of people av bin able to get their broken pieces together and forged ahead whilst others still wallow in d pain of hrtbreak. There are a lot of remedies we come across in books such as not being alone,not singing emotional songs,not doing d fins u guys used to do etc, to me I wud jst simply put it dat those fins are beta said dan done. One would ask y I said dat, yes I wud answer u.....different strokes for different folks is d simple answer, people differ, d way I might act towards sumfin might not b d way u wud react towards dat same fin!
Anyways to cut the long story short, I want us to discuss practical examples of how we have handled our hrtbrks and forgotten our ex..... for me I want to learn from pple cus I haven't bin able to get past my ex and it's annoying.
So pple let's discuss,interact and learn!

be a narcissist, develop an excessive love and admiration for yourself. whenever his images comes to mind. think about something else

KissQ:


I ain't ever memorising again.

for me it's nt dat i intentionally memorize numbers being a number i constantly call it stuck 2 my head....

balispecial:
for me it's nt dat i intentionally memorize numbers being a number i constantly call it stuck 2 my head....

So how do u get it out of head u d relationship eventually ends

KissQ:


So how do u get it out of head u d relationship eventually ends

bliv me i nvr been able 2 do dat, in fact i swear i was laughing at myself d last tym i tried 2 recall my 1st gf's fone number n i got it ryt n mind u d number was an old glo number(0805*******)....i tink my problem is i quickly memory tinz i c 4 d 1st tym n i dnt 4get tinz easily if it's important lyk my gf's fone number

balispecial:
bliv me i nvr been able 2 do dat, in fact i swear i was laughing at myself d last tym i tried 2 recall my 1st gf's fone number n i got it ryt n mind u d number was an old glo number(0805*******)....i tink my problem is i quickly memory tinz i c 4 d 1st tym n i dnt 4get tinz easily if it's important lyk my gf's fone number

Hmmmm

KissQ:


Hmmmm

even though i couldnt 4get them bt i stil move on frm them.....thr z more 2 lyf than ur relatnshp

balispecial:
even though i couldnt 4get them bt i stil move on frm them.....thr z more 2 lyf than ur relatnshp

Dat so true

How I move on after break up
1. I try to be very busy..
2. I try to hang out with friends. ( funny friends )
3. I try to face my fear by keeping it real with her .... I feel jealous when I see her with a new guy but I try to face my fear by making her my casual friend, that's when she will start getting jealous when I start balling with my new girl.
4. I try not to be alone during the first or second week of the break up.
5. If she leaves very far from me then the feelings will die very quick but if she live close and I always see her then I have to keep repeating number 1&2 with seriousnes till the feelings die. ( let say one month maximum)

fnep2smooth:
How I move on after break up
1. I try to be very busy..
2. I try to hang out with friends. ( funny friends )
3. I try to face my fear by keeping it real with her .... I feel jealous when I see her with a new guy but I try to face my fear by making her my casual friend, that's when she will start getting jealous when I start balling with my new girl.
4. I try not to be alone during the first or second week of the break up.
5. If she leaves very far from me then the feelings will die very quick but if she live close and I always see her then I have to keep repeating number 1&2 with seriousnes till the feelings die. ( let say one month maximum)

Nice

KissQ:


Dats selfishness on her part, remember no human being is worth dying for, she doesn't want to get hurt bt doesn't u gettin hurt, it's high tym to learnt how to please urself instead of her u knw

nice advice,am sure she will see this herself

U will want to know what'supp wt ur ex through various means, call, whatsapp etc., u will do dat sometimes.. it doesnt really mean if it will mk u feel better for d time being till u 4get him..
Get occupied and busy, learn something, watch films..
Move closer to God...Love God nd know he is d only one whose love lasts..Never Rely on anyone..
Life is a journey,.. Thank God u still av life, dts y u cud brood over ex,,. wat if u are not..
Mix with better people nd make friends...Always be nice to evry1 nd b happy truly...
HAVE PATIENCE..Everything happens for a Reason
But its a pity.. humans are lyk dat

.HOW CAN U HAVE PATIENCE ON WHAT YOU HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE OF... BUT UR GOD KNOWS WATS BEST FOR U

alhyhat:
U will want to know what'supp wt ur ex through various means, call, whatsapp etc., u will do dat sometimes.. it doesnt really mean if it will mk u feel better for d time being till u 4get him..
Get occupied and busy, learn something, watch films..
Move closer to God...Love God nd know he is d only one whose love lasts..Never Rely on anyone..
Life is a journey,.. Thank God u still av life, dts y u cud brood over ex,,. wat if u are not..
Mix with better people nd make friends...Always be nice to evry1 nd b happy truly...
HAVE PATIENCE..Everything happens for a Reason
But its a pity.. humans are lyk dat

.HOW CAN U HAVE PATIENCE ON WHAT YOU HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE OF... BUT UR GOD KNOWS WATS BEST FOR U

Yes dear God knws best