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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 13, 2015
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This man na benin man? The question is, would my wife ask me to do this. I will always be in control, i can help my wife tiding thinks up in the house. Of cause there are little things a man can also do to help his wife, expecially if she also countribute to the family income, but not like this, you can help her clean the dust on the windows, tv, pack dirty cloth for lundry, play with the kids why she doing something, monitor what she is cooking, take the kids to school...this issue of bathing baby, washing cloths,backing baby is senseless. Even the petty ones, i should volunteer mysef, she dare not ask me to help her on domestic work, the day she ask me the day i stop helping her then i will get her housemaid. Of cause she should know that housemaid is threat 4 her family.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by kayalla(f): 9:42am On Jan 13, 2015
Mimienudles:
That isn't love. I mean it isn't proper

what isn't proper about it?

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by babariches: 9:42am On Jan 13, 2015
for what i dey craz, this is too extreme and not love express but stupidity
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by jpphilips(m): 9:44am On Jan 13, 2015
@Op
On no grounds should you confuse poverty for love.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by judekoffi(m): 9:48am On Jan 13, 2015
They are my children n so I can do the first one with all submissive heart.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by 9jatatafo(m): 9:48am On Jan 13, 2015
I do the first one though I don't know how to back a kid but I bath my kids, cream them and take them to school in my car. It bonds you and the kids together. I hate house maid so my wife and I do the things together. My kids are closer to me than their mother because they tell me deep secret and their mother always feel bad. She is working but I have my own business. So I have more time with them. I don't think it is wrong for a man to do anything for his kids. I read a story how a Chinese father always backed his crippled son to trek several kilometers to school because school close by never accepted the child for his condition lo and behold, the man was rewarded heavily for his effort and the child is the best student in his school academically. So what are we talking about?

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Alvison(m): 9:49am On Jan 13, 2015
The first is understandable. Possibly the wife is elsewhere busy or ill. The second is possible but in the right way; the baby should be carried in the front with hands not backed.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by nobilie: 9:50am On Jan 13, 2015
The first PIX where the man baths for his baby, if you call that "doing it for your wife", you need to rethink cos the baby is the man's also.

but, backing a baby is off it. y not carry the baby another way?

my 50 kobo.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by AreaFada2: 9:50am On Jan 13, 2015
Nothing special in this.

Lots of men would actually like to do it but fear what people would say.

If you don't look after your own children, is it a cow's kids you're going to look after?

Suppose your lady has to earn the bacon, you will siddon jeje seeing the kids unkempt waiting for her to come do all too?

This is 21st century. Couples have to assist each other.

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Edusouls(m): 9:51am On Jan 13, 2015
mbaanu, maka gini zi..?
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by gbodimowo(m): 9:51am On Jan 13, 2015
woky:
I can do the first one with all pleasure, but can't do the 2nd one becos it stickily for mothers cheesy
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 9:53am On Jan 13, 2015
There's nothing wrong with that! it brings him closer to our children cheesy, but carrying the baby at the back? nah! I can't even do that too
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by lonelydora: 9:54am On Jan 13, 2015
I will do the second only if I will carry the baby in front and not backing him.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by electropiz(m): 9:54am On Jan 13, 2015
Mimienudles:
That isn't love. I mean it isn't proper
you're right cuttie, not proper

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 9:57am On Jan 13, 2015
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I see nothing in it, the child is mine as much as it is hers.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 13, 2015
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Haba!!!

For what?

The only reason I would do this is if she is ill. Asides that, for wetin now?

Theres nothing wrong with bathing my kids but to this extent. Bath 1 child while backing the other. Wetin. Water do pass garri be that.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Elebiju: 10:01am On Jan 13, 2015
I'm not an ijebu man so why won't I assist my wife? I can bathe d baby, feed him, change diapers and even help my wife in d kitchen, d laundry and all other domestic chores. Manliness isn't about being bossy its about commanding respect through your attitude.

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 10:06am On Jan 13, 2015
Elebiju:
I'm not an ijebu man so why won't I assist my wife? I can bathe d baby, feed him, change diapers and even help my wife in d kitchen, d laundry and all other domestic chores. Manliness isn't about being bossy its about commanding respect through your attitude.

Eheeen!!

I hope you are really true to your words.

You do ALL domestic chores.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by stigman(m): 10:07am On Jan 13, 2015
Mimienudles:
That isn't love. I mean it isn't proper

You mean this do you?
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by abtmaviz(m): 10:07am On Jan 13, 2015
No harm in tryna help your wife with some chores though buh the mentality of people you surround yourself with matters before one pesin say nah juju
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Lordfrayo: 10:08am On Jan 13, 2015
wel i tink it isnt proper if a man is performin d duties of a woman.d bible is against it
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 13, 2015
Elebiju:
I'm not an ijebu man so why won't I assist my wife? I can bathe d baby, feed him, change diapers and even help my wife in d kitchen, d laundry and all other domestic chores. Manliness isn't about being bossy its about commanding respect through your attitude.

Nice.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by DePrynCe: 10:11am On Jan 13, 2015
I can do it and even more,I mean it-i'll love and cherish my Wife.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by DaPhilosopher(m): 10:16am On Jan 13, 2015
There is nothing wrong in bathing and carrying your kids. Your definition of 'carrying' may be different!
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by chiane: 10:19am On Jan 13, 2015
Beamborla:
I can allow my husband do the first but the second, no way! I would rather back the baby while he carry the bag before all his family members start pleading with me or shouting at me to untie their son. That aside, I wouldn't want anyone to disrespect him or fingers pointing at him whenever he steps out.
true talk.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by shakazuldadon: 10:22am On Jan 13, 2015
Dear Lord...

I want to be so wealthy that I bathe my children in the jacuzzi just for fun..

Bless me so that I buy my wife a Lexus jeep and while she drives I kiss and hold my kids in the passenger seat.

Amen.

Say Amen for me.
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by chiogoezubem(f): 10:23am On Jan 13, 2015
woky:
I can do the first one with all pleasure, but can't do the 2nd one becos it stickily for mothers cheesy


This your opinion belongs in the 1920s! If you do it, you would be backing your own child. I have a senior friend; an engineer, an all-round big boy, and a man-after-God's-heart who has a back strap for his new born baby. I wish I could upload his pic, where he has his months-old son strapped to his upper back, to show you how proud he is, spending time with his little boys. But they are personal pics.

But not to worry. Remember the saying, "Never say never"? I'm sure you would even do more when you babies start coming.
undecided . By the time you strap your first baby on your back with a soft beautifully coloured Oja, while you run one or two errands picking a few stuffs for your beautiful wife at the vegetable market, you will understand the real meaning of LOVE; for your family. grin
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by greall1: 10:24am On Jan 13, 2015
Bro. Which be jehovah witness couple cheesy cheesy cheesy.

dhantey324:
D second pix be like Jehovah witness couple

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by ATinaC(f): 10:27am On Jan 13, 2015
My hubby can help me with d first, but d second one, no way!!!!
Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by homesteady(m): 10:28am On Jan 13, 2015
dhantey324:
D second pix be like Jehovah witness couple

Very correct! grin

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Re: Guys: Can You Do All These For Your Beloved Wife? [Photos] by senatorbayor(m): 10:28am On Jan 13, 2015
what is the big deal about the pics?
Are the kids not mine and is there any law that prevent me from performing domestic chores?
Is it expressly stated that it is solely the duty of the women. Trust Nigerian mentality, if whites are in the habit of doing it, my people will join fray and[b] "over do it self"[/b]
I think African in nature are bossy and not romantic in terms of family affairs.
OP, what do you make of women who oversee the affairs of the home due to their huge income, should the woman leave the job and face the chores of the home while they struggle to manage with the peanut salary of the man whose take home can not take him home
Many homes are run by the women folks and some men who are tied to their wives apron strings will say "TUFIAKA".
even if we don't know you, UNA know una self. SHIKENA!
In actual fact, I do this for my kids and they are dear to me than their mum. you will experience a fatherly bond.

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