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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 10:06am On Jan 18, 2015
Kimoni:


cheesy grin

He is just a clown, nothing else. Pls don't take him serious.
If you take the pain that your gender unleashed on a loving father of beautiful daughters as clownish then there may not be hope for you after all.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by SAMBARRY: 10:11am On Jan 18, 2015
dinachi:
There is no ray of hope though, the evil stench from my rotten dheek is the beginning of my curse, yaba left is recruiting. Bwahahahahahahahahahhahah grin grin grin
you better apply ASAP grin grin

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 18, 2015
dinachi:

This woman why are you stalking me? The fact that I love to be fair to everybody should not be misconstrued for anything else.

Being fair is not your middle name. Being bitter is. Hehehehehehe. Mr man, who broke your heart? See a therapist o.k.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by irunoko(m): 10:14am On Jan 18, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Being fair is not your middle name. Being bitter is. Hehehehehehe.
stop arguing with these people. Don't you notice frustrated men when you see one?

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 18, 2015
irunoko:
stop arguing with these people. Don't you notice frustrated men when you see one?

Buhahahahahahahahha. You damn right!!!

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by irunoko(m): 10:16am On Jan 18, 2015
SAMBARRY:
you better apply ASAP grin grin
madam stop wasting your time on these people. They are an embarrassment to men . They are the ones that keep portraying men in negative light. It's ok

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Arsenate(m): 10:21am On Jan 18, 2015
In Nigeria, a significant percentage of women hate their step children. Stories like this are common occurrences. Usually the children are not lucky to have their dads on their sides.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by SAMBARRY: 10:23am On Jan 18, 2015
Irunoko I hear you. I have clicked the report button to report dinachi since he has turned the thread into something worthless . However if he continues ranting and the mods don't do the needful I will kuku turn and derail the thread till they come and lock it.sefini!
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:31am On Jan 18, 2015
Seriously, this woman is heartless. One thing i have noticed with some men is that when their wives maltreat their children, they dnt do anything about it. Its a good thing this man is concerned. He is better left single than being married to a jezebel like this woman. I hear really horrible stories of stepmothers. Dnt know why most women do not like to treat children who arent theirs with love. It seems most men who remarry do not make wise choices of spouses.
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 18, 2015
Sophyrocks:
Seriously, this woman is heartless. One thing i have noticed with some men is that when their wives maltreat their children, they dnt do anything about it. Its a good thing this man is concerned. He is better left single than being married to a jezebel like this woman. I hear really horrible stories of stepmothers. Dnt know why most women do not like to treat children who arent theirs with love. It seems most men who remarry do not make wise choices of spouses.

I don't understand that their motherly instinct is not activated in such situations or why they at least do not use their brains and be reminded that children are innocent.

I would do my best to love the kids like my own and try my best to replace their mother the best way I can. I would not enter the relationship if I couldn't. Do they have no conscience?

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:38am On Jan 18, 2015
carefreewannabe:


I don't understand that their motherly instinct is not activated in such situations or why they at least do not use their brains and be reminded that children are innocent.

I would do my best to love the kids like my own and try my best to replace their mother the best way I can. I would not enter the relationship if I couldn't. Do they have no conscience?

True talk. I find it hard understanding it too. Whether they have a special mentality that says you cannot treat another person's child with love because you didnt give birth to him/her, i just dnt know. Its just wickedness. This is why ladies who date widowers/divorcees with kids are advised that if they know within their hearts they cannot take a man's child as their own, then they better not venture into a relationship with such men.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Kimoni: 10:41am On Jan 18, 2015
dinachi:
If you take the pain that your gender unleashed on a loving father of beautiful daughters as clownish then there may not be hope for you after all.

my gender? And what's that?

Hope? In what exactly?

It's a bright new day, a new week. Life is short, enjoy it.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:42am On Jan 18, 2015
Sophyrocks:


True talk. I find it hard understanding it too. Whether they have a special mentality that says you cannot treat another person's child with love because you didnt give birth to him/her, i just dnt know. Its just wickedness. This is why ladies who date widowers/divorcees with kids are advised that if they know within their hearts they cannot take a man's child as their own, then they better not venture into a relationship with such men.

Exactly!

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 18, 2015
Kimoni:


my gender? And what's that?

Hope? In what exactly?

It's a bright new day, a new week. Life is short, enjoy it.


You see what i mean? His reference to "Your gender" says it all. He is pained mehn. so when i say something, you better believe it. grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Juliaann(f): 10:54am On Jan 18, 2015
IDEApro:
The woman denied all the allegations and the question is; Why did the man head to court? For the husband to have rented another apartment, obviously the woman lied in defense.
that's it oo
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Juliaann(f): 10:56am On Jan 18, 2015
IDEApro:
The woman denied all the allegations and the question is; Why did the man head to court? For the husband to have rented another apartment, obviously the woman lied in defense.
that's it oo.
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by smartigo: 11:08am On Jan 18, 2015
The woman doesn't love him too but wants to stay and frustrate his life the more grin grin grin. Chai,there is god o.

There isn't any point staying in a relationship where love is lost. The bible confirms it too.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 18, 2015
SAMBARRY:
sefini!
C'est fini. It's French. Just saying.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by lilmax(m): 11:23am On Jan 18, 2015
crackhaus:

- she always handled them in a rough and cruel way. “My wife always maltreats my children, she hates them to the extent that she only cooks for her children and refuses to give her stepchildren food.

- “Due to frequent fighting and rivalry with them, I rented another apartment for my children but she still refused them to visit me.”

- she does not respect me and she talks to my parents rudely.


Are all these what you classify as bla bla bla? ergo, they're still not enough reason for him to want a divorce I guess.

And to think you are the chief proponent of divorce in all unhealthy marriages... gringrin
@last statement

Her actions shows dirvorce depends on gender,i dont think she would think twice about the “D“ word if the case was reversed

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 11:41am On Jan 18, 2015
SAMBARRY:
I will apply now to yaba left ASAP. Anything to butress the level of my idiocy is welcome. I admit that my atrociously stinking puccy is getting worse. I am expecting it to start dripping maggots very soon. Yank my leash again and I will sing. The curse of dementia and venomous stench is in full swing in my life.. Eieee..Don't yank so hard..I know am a a goat who loves bleating in the morning. grin grin

There she goes again....,Bwahahahahah grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 11:45am On Jan 18, 2015
Sophyrocks:
Seriously, this woman is heartless.
Now you are talking! But she is more than heartless. She is a venomous witch!

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 11:50am On Jan 18, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Being fair is not your middle name. Being bitter is. Hehehehehehe. Mr man, who broke your heart? See a therapist o.k.
Now this is pathetic and reeks of insensitivity and lack of basic logic...Seriously, you need to upgrade! This is 2015. I will find it difficult to believe if you remain at this level till end of this year.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 11:53am On Jan 18, 2015
Kimoni:


my gender? And what's that?

Hope? In what exactly?

It's a bright new day, a new week. Life is short, enjoy it.

Chimooo! Where did you drop your sense of fairness? Pls pick it up already. You are chocking me with your insensitivity.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 11:57am On Jan 18, 2015
irunoko:
stop arguing with these people. Don't you notice frustrated men when you see one?
Since you have the courage to openly admit your frustration, let me kindly prescribe two bottles of Otapiapia for you to be taken twice daily with a rich helping of rat poison. Thank me later grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 12:08pm On Jan 18, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Irunoko I hear you. I have clicked the report button to report dinachi!
Now this got me cracking up! Who started it? I know your addled maggot infested brain is seriously challenged so let me help you. Get four bottles of Otapiapia, shake vigorously and empty into a big bowl of rat poison. Stir for several minutes then proceed to guzzle all at once. You need the quick energy! grin grin grin. Thank me later.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:09pm On Jan 18, 2015
I mean the kids are old probably in their twenties
If she didn't maltreat them when they first got married 18yrs ago, is it now that she's maltreating them? Now that they are OLD.

Or has the man been enduring it for the past 18yrs?

Note their conflicting testimonies too.

I just think he's tired of the marriage and looking for an excuse jare

Starve his children ko. As if they are babies

@chief proponent.
I don't encourgae her to remain married to someone who doesn't want her. But I recognize he's lying.

And you stop lying too, I only advocate divorce in cases of abuse.deliberate mischief angry

@topic:
She should just let him go, if his kids have the guts to slap her a woman who has been married to their father for 18yrs, there's no shred of respect in the union and they obviously got it from their father.
Must she remain married? angry

crackhaus:

- she always handled them in a rough and cruel way. “My wife always maltreats my children, she hates them to the extent that she only cooks for her children and refuses to give her stepchildren food.

- “Due to frequent fighting and rivalry with them, I rented another apartment for my children but she still refused them to visit me.”

- she does not respect me and she talks to my parents rudely.


Are all these what you classify as bla bla bla? ergo, they're still not enough reason for him to want a divorce I guess.

And to think you are the chief proponent of divorce in all unhealthy marriages... gringrin

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:11pm On Jan 18, 2015
passionate88:

You won't... Most Nigerian women don't like the idea of them living with their step-children... They might say no deal when dating, but when they get married, that's when they will unleash the dragon in them..

It's one of the reason, and yes it is a reason to him
remmeber they've been married for 18yrs. Did this just start?
Has she been tolerating the kids and suddenly decided to stop?

Hmm something doesn't add up.
Some people will tell any lie they can think of to wriggle out of a marriage especially when another sisi is lurking in the corners
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:14pm On Jan 18, 2015
lilmax:
@last statement

Her actions shows dirvorce depends on gender,i dont think she would think twice about the “D“ word if the case was reversed
undecided undecided
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by zeb04(f): 1:34pm On Jan 18, 2015
Is she supposed to be cooking for some 20years old adults?
Which mother cooks for her children at that age.

The marriage should be dissolved biko its obvious they are both fustrated.

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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by lilmax(m): 2:06pm On Jan 18, 2015
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by passionate88: 3:53pm On Jan 18, 2015
cococandy:
remmeber they've been married for 18yrs. Did this just start?
Has she been tolerating the kids and suddenly decided to stop?

Hmm something doesn't add up.
Some people will tell any lie they can think of to wriggle out of a marriage especially when another sisi is lurking in the corners
Maybe she tried at first... Then she just give up when she realised she couldn't cope... Maybe there's another lady at the side too... Relationships nowadays is just confusing
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by bukatyne(f): 4:04pm On Jan 18, 2015
cococandy:
something doesn't ring true in this story.
He had the kids before he married her according to him and they have been married for 18yrs, the children are obviously not kids. Why should she be the one to feed them? I don't get it.



Clothes and bla bla bla. Is that even a reason to get divorced?

Very odd story...

If they have been married for 18yrs and his last child was a baby when he left their mother, he/she should be 18 by now.

What 18yr old waits for his or her mother to cook before eating...

Women especially are to look well well for marrying a man with kids especially grown up kids.

Not to say some women are not wicked to their step kids anyways

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