When Will Nigerian Girls Start Asking Bobos Out ?

One thing I've come to notice in Nigeria is that you can hardly find a babe walk up to a guy she likes so much and say "hello, excuse me, you know I've got this felling for you" or "men I'm having a crush on you men".

They've got hubris, they will never admit to what they want. You barely know when they want you inside them if you can't be Aristotle or Plato or maybe Freud.

Babes you know what you want know, so why not go 4 it like MTN'S "achieve what you want to achieve"

PASO LOMO (NA ME BE DAT)

Pasuma, I have had the experience before.
A sister in my particular Church came to visit me and said "Bro. Peter I have this feeling for you but I don't know whether it's a lust I just say I should tell you so that you can pray with me.

I picked up a bible and this sister collected this bible and flinged it and started crying.

As I moved closer to calm her down before I know it she started romancing me I saw hell that day but I won't the rest of the story.

I discarded her friendship after that day. We still have them around but they are scarce.

But there are ones which satan planted just to make you fall.
Watch out brother.

The youth and singles president is currently eyeing me and I know it so I give a wild berth.

K'olorun gbami, make God deliever me.

what sort of gurl will come and say that and tell u to pray with her. i think she is lost, she needs to wake up.
i can not believe that there are gurls like that. if u want something get it with a straight mind not zig zags.

Thank twinkledew but it happened live to me.

One is planning herself now not me.
I've senced it and it happen the second time.

Once beating twice shy.

Because Nigerian men take advantage of the girl when they realise she likes them. Advantage here means, play hard to get. Probably walk in front of her with another girl. You guys better not deny that, because u gon start a war in hurr. When Nigerian girls tells a guy she likes him, Instead of the guy to respect the girl and see how hard it was for her to tell him, he will just do something stupid that will in turn hurt the girls feelings.

Duhhh...watch "games women play". The girl told him she liked him and he kept embarrasing her. Anyways...my point is, Nigerian girls will start telling "bobo's" that they like them, when the bobo's start acting like a normal "bobo" should act.

hot-angel:

Because Nigerian men take advantage of the girl when they realise she likes them. Advantage here means, play hard to get. Probably walk in front of her with another girl. You guys better not deny that, because u gon start a war in hurr. When Nigerian girls tells a guy she likes him, Instead of the guy to respect the girl and see how hard it was for her to tell him, he will just do something stupid that will in turn hurt the girls feelings.

Duhhh...watch "games women play". The girl told him she liked him and he kept embarrasing her. Anyways...my point is, Nigerian girls will start telling "bobo's" that they like them, when the bobo's start acting like a normal "bobo" should act.

Im always perplexed wen folks tend to generalise men, its like y'all sayin there aint a gud brova like me out there dats so unfair, my hommies wetin una see to this.

tada tada... I knew u will support yourself. I know there are good guys out there, But the fact is that the bad ones have over-shawdowed the good ones. Besides, is it not true that you guys call girls that approcah you "cheap"?

hot-angel:

tada tada... I knew u will support yourself. I know there are good guys out there, But the fact is that the bad ones have over-shawdowed the good ones. Besides, is it not true that you guys call girls that approcah you "cheap"?

here we go again not all guys see girls who approach dem as chep , im a livin xample

uhn uhnnn.....I know that it ain't ALL. But even those ones that don't still think in their mind that, "Damn, that girl must be some kinda girl if she can tel me she likes me". You will still wonder it, although u might not be strong about it.

well methinks since the mentality dat its d dude who must mke d first move tends to alienate d hunnies frm xpressin wat they feel, luv is viceeeeee verssssssaaaa, we aint in da stone age no mo, well dudes need to feel the western wrld to knwatimtalkinabout, if a chick is dwn 4 u she's gonna tell u straight up, no child games hia. Can I get a witness??

You got urself a fvcking witness bro. i can tell a guy i like him, and have self confidence that he ain't gon turn me down or probably call me cheap. But dang..i dare not do that in Nigeria.

preach on sis, i feel u to da bones dat xactly is wat im talkin about methinks its got to do wiv cultural diversity, i'll tell u sumffin at college yeah, i form d gud guy( im really gud tho) and this hunnie walks up to me HOT ANGEL u gonna give her 101% and she goes "hi babe, i tell u wat i knw dis sounds crazy but u got me tickin" 4 like 10 secs ma jaw was droopin, y cos of d nja mentality................ u dnt wanna knw d rest of da gist

hahaha....That reminds me of this guy that just came from 9ja, L a friend of mine just went to meet him like we were all in library. My friend was like, why r u sitting alone, come on join our table. He was like , All of you are girls. I am fine like this. I was like, dude....we are Nigerians. He was like, you people don't sound Nigerian . I bet he'll beat my ass if he sees that i am telling people about this.

He was like always running from us when he sees us. He later on realised there was no biggy about a girl asking him to join her or go to lunch with her. We are like close friends now. He told us he thought my friend wanted to be his girlfriend. He was like, "i was scared of a girl that asked me to sit at a table with her, i dunno if she wanted something more. I am in school to read, not sit with bunch of fine girls". I was like....

@ hot angel


guess i really agree with u,they ll simply end up taking advantage of u, making u feel inferior simply bc u made the first move couple with the fact that in this our Nigeria setting or more less african in general,the guys must always make the move cos not all of them ll accept the fact that the babe is comin up straight.


so it ll neva start even if it does it ll not last

@ greatpeter

i piti u ooo,in bin like u fine well well so tee babes dey disturb u welll take am easy sha na one of those things

I've had such xperience with ladies too. I see nothing wrong. If its ok by me, it'll always be okay wherever i find myself tomorrow (culture or no culture).
Nofin wrong if a lady woos a guy. It shows how much she likes him. Its unheard of in Nigeria anyway..so if a lady does that in Nigeria, she should be taken serious.
The prob is that most ladies can't handle rejection. If u r in that shoes. Just bribe GOD to push him to u.

Whats with this 'cheap' thingy? R guys cheap too for 'toastin' Or Oh! Its suppose to be a guyz thin huh? Under what constitution?

Ladies, If u love Him. Tell Him. Its better to be rejected and move on than to live all your life 'expectin' him.
Life aint got rules except the ones we make.

@ greatpeter

i piti u ooo,in bin like u fine well well so tee babes dey disturb u welll take am easy sha na one of those things
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My brother no be say i fine ooo.
It's the devil's plot.
I won't marry errorneously.

@ GP.....Uche is a girl.

Asking a nigerian guy out is the last thing i will ever do.They just take advantage of the gal,not only playing hard to get ,as well as using her like a piece of Rag.
I remember when i was in High school in Nigeria and i was friends wiv this really hot guy in my class,i think i was just been stupid then,i am the Bold type of gal,i tell u what i think and feel.I dont see any reason pretending or fighting feelings.Ok as i was saying i hummmmmm was flirting wiv him and everything was working out fine until i told him what i felt for him.After that day we stopped being friends,he greases me off at school,he told everyone of my mates what i said,OMg i was so humilated.I started going out wiv this guy that was 2 yrs older than ,me in that same school,he noticed i was seeing the guy,he went up and told the guy that i asked him out,that was how we broke up cos of him.
After high school graduation,all of a sudden this guy was so about crazy me,he always wanted to spend time wiv me ,call me on d phone and all.After all he had done in school, i was like what da heck?do u think i have forgotten what u did?and hummmmmmmm he apologised,i forgave him.we r still good friends till date.I guess that was one of my high school stories,a lot of things happen in school especially to teens.

There are usually probs with high school dating/relationships. Immaturity i guess.

Dat'll probably b when d guyz start actin rt. i'm a very shy person n if ask a guy out n he messes me up, that would really suck n that's also d reason most Nigeria girls won't attempt it. by d way i think it has somn to do with our culture as in men are alwayz in charge n stuff.

when the men are ready

Naija babes Dont expect that much from them, try approaching the ones u like but my humble advice is that u shouldn't go waiting for them to make the first move, the achievers amongst them will try, but then again, thats just like 0.00000000000000000000000000000000001/2%

Well,there was this corper that came to serve in my office here in benin.We were close because I vowed to always assist corpers anywhere I see them because of the way I was treated during my service year.I promised myself,I will not treat corpers bad because Iwasn't treated well where I served(all the corpers there).This lady was married with 2 kids and suddenly one day,she told me she had something to tell me but she cannot tell me to my face that she will chat with me on the internet when she logs on.

Tom my utmost dismay,she told me that she loves me but doesn't know how to tell me that she is confused.I told her she was out of her mind but she was damn serious about it.I had to take to my heels from her but it wasn't easy and it took God's grace for me to escape that temptation,but am happy till date it never happened,would have been a life regret.She still calls me till date and I talk wit hher husband too.

If she wasn't married,I would not have seen her as cheap because I feel she just expressed her feelings.

@bernieman

O Boy, are you the twin brother of Joseph,

and I was just wondering, since you said you talk to her and her husband now, i wonder what you usually discuss with her husband? gonna gimme hints?

Really, one just has to be careful u know, the world of nowadays is so terrible,

they HAVENT started

i think if u ask most guys here if they preferred a girl asking them out, the answer might be no. its a guys thing, there better at it, and its part of the stress they have to go through before we go through ours as girlfriends and wife's, why then should we stress. am not good at it and i wont even think of trying i just make sure i dont push away the guy i like.

let me add,

I would really consider a girl that asks a guy out to be someone that has "guts", i mean "guts",

baby4u2:

i think if u ask most guys here if they preferred a girl asking them out, the answer might be no. its a guys thing, there better at it, and its part of the stress they have to go through before we go through ours as girlfriends and wife's, why then should we stress. am not good at it and i wont even think of trying i just make sure i don't push away the guy i like.

kimba:

let me add,

I would really consider a girl that asks a guy out to be someone that has "guts", i mean "guts",

Okay, so @baby4u2 aint got guts?

@Whitelexi, lol, ur'e funny. i have guts, thats kimba's belief for if a girl ASK'S HIM OUT and not a fact. i reserve my guts for better things in life not asking a guy out.

bull rubbish!!!!!!!

Personally, I don't think it's proper to ask a guy out. _{(My opinion, so don't start).}  

But I know some women in Nigeria do ask men out and to them it's no big deal. 

If I like a guy, I'll drop some hints and if I think he's feeling me the same way i'm feeling him, I'll ask him out.