BOUNTYDOG:


But if he is a millionaire,even though he is 40 and still goes out dancing shoki as long as he meets his demands @ home.I believe he has grown up,cos I don't know what it means to grow up as ur age.
Or f he is poor and takes life too seriously?

Kudos bro! I was about asking her the same questions..Tis so sad dah many Naija girls(cos dah's wah dey are,nt ladies or women in any way) define u as a grown up if and only if u gat stacks,even if @40 he still plays tinko-tinko wf d kids in d street!!..jst saying!

itops:
What is it with excessive rules and regulataions for ladies all the time, what is so big of a deal about men anyways...... Could it be.because a woman wants to get married she picks up anything on the street in the appearance of a man in the name of marriage? please when setting rules and regulations for ladies also set rules for men. No man is doing a lady a favour by marrying her rather the lady does the favour tp the man.

WHAT IS IT SELF? EVERYTIME WOMEN! WOMEN!! WOMEN!!! ARE THEY THE ONLY GENDERS?.

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Good observation but I still believe d favor goes both ways though...neither is she doin him a favor alone nor is he doin her a favor alone. They both favoring each other.

As long as marrige isn't a ticket to heaven,I bow out of this thread in PEACE! Any sensible guy/lady's greatest achievement should be to make heaven! Cos everything else na vanity upon vanity! I rest my case!

Mondisweets:
Its always wiser to read a post carefully i said your mother's generation, that is women who grew up in your mother's generation. I never stopped at "your mother"So i dont know what u want me to apologise for exactly.

I am in a relstionship so you can save your prayers for your fellow 40year men who do not act their age

The young man you quoted have been trying to be meek, gentle and reasonable in his chart with u , yet you've resorted to insult and call someone you know nothing about names. I think am in the same mood with you atleast to make your life worth living, I wonder who the hell is in a relation-sheep with a God forsaken LovePeddler like you. If you have hatred for men of 40 years, hope is not a boy of 15 that is digging that your expired hole. face me since you came here to rant nonsense, AKPA AMU.

softysparky:

Being 1000 yards wife material is not the issue here, even the 2yards wife material get married first most times.

2 yard wife material get married first most times ke? And u are still single? Work more harder o!

Sometimes,I wonder y some people will tell u love is not abt money. Love is love,but money makes it beautiful and interesting. Secondly ,is marrying a rich guy a crime or are all d rich men bad. When so called 'not rich' guys have small amount of money,den u will know who they,so y not kuku marry d rich ones,u know wat dey can do already.Sometimes,I wonder y some people will tell u love is not abt money. Love is love,but money makes it beautiful and interesting. Secondly ,is marrying a rich guy a crime or are all d rich men bad. When so called 'not rich' guys have small amount of money,den u will know who they,so y not kuku marry d rich ones,u know wat dey can do already.Sometimes,I wonder y some people will tell u love is not abt money. Love is love,but money makes it beautiful and interesting. Secondly ,is marrying a rich guy a crime or are all d rich men bad. When d so called 'not rich' guys have small amount of money,den u will know who they,so y not kuku marry d rich ones,u know wat dey can do already.

The reason is not far-fetched. How I wished our ladies will beg God to give them the unction to mold fellow beigns so they can mould men of their taste ... and the problem will be solved. Ask prayer warriors and they will tell you the blessing of a husband/life partner tops the list of prayer points.

Rich Man Rich man almost every gal wants to marry a rich man. YES! Even my sisters too but have you ladies ever thought how does this dude makes his money, is it honest? What that kills us all is greed. Wanting to want more, never satisfy. I know of some ladies who will be comfortable to marry a drug pusher, yahoo boy, a thief etc ( generally people with no honest means of living) gone are the days when a girl will comfortable marry a teacher because she knows that his salary can not even buy her cream. Only lazy girls waits for a rich man to come by (that I told my sisters before they started making money for themselves) but if the rich man comes good n fine that should be an added advantage. That will even make the man respect you. Marriage is about togetherness. If the man and the wife makes a honest living and live within their mean I see no reason why people should complain.
#justmythought

Lol...

aristocrazzy:
Do you think all girls are the same.

but all girls say that.

So so true, i can't agree with you more on this issue. When i see sum girls dis days, i shake my head.


Do u know d most painful part of it all? They're looking forward 2 a God fearing man.

It's not compulsory to get married. What's the big deal in marriage? Not all ladies will get married...same with guys as well. And non of the reasons stated by OP is contributory.##singleforlife

Nice share

Is the OP a muslim with a hidden agenda against our Christian sisters?

MarieSucre:
ABEEngine, se you see the list the op posted eh. pls if you see a girl like that, kindy mould her to your desired and refined taste.

Marie, even the self-acclaimed decent ladies have one or a combination of those ills the author mentioned but we pray to meet one with the least combinations.

And yes by God's grace the reformation process would yield good progress as it would only take patience, prayer and understanding.

Cheers

Enegod:
am telling u!!!
the end is near

lmao......crase people

naijaboiy:
Na the ones wey e pain naim dey bash Op up and down

People wey e nor concern don read jejely comot

Besides there is a counter thread and the men are civil about it in their comments.

Women

Boss please point me in the direction of that thread biko. Thanks

Creamish:


Sweetheart...no one is bashing anyone. I don't recall using any condescending word in my post. I recall acknowledging the truth in his list..as they are indeed possible faults ladies might have...but it’s always safer to use "SOME" in place of "MOST" and not always make it seem like a single lady is single because she is any of the listed. Its not always the case.

c'est tout..

picture of your c'est tout or i seriously dont blivit
I kind of admire your defensive spirit for your kind, makes me wonder if i have actually discovered the next biggest feminist (after beyonce) on NL! #a complement though

excel001:

The young man you quoted have been trying to be meek, gentle and reasonable in his chart with u , yet you've resorted to insult and call someone you know nothing about names. I think am in the same mood with you atleast to make your life worth living, I wonder who the hell is in a relation-sheep with a God forsaken LovePeddler like you. If you have hatred for men of 40 years, hope is not a boy of 15 that is digging that your expired hole. face me since you came here to rant nonsense, AKPA AMU.

show me one name that i called him otherwise please just keep quiet and stay in your lane.
If you are 40 and single its really not my fault. If you are looking for someone to go ghetto psycho on, im not that person. Take your frustrations to God and he might just provide for you.

I was not talking to you so i dont understand why you have taken it upon yourself to take panado for another person's headache.

Please do get a life.

kallmemrB:
Miss u don't need to make urself feel better by lieing u are in a relationship....i can easily tell its all fiction thru ur aggressive display of ur feminism...but its all good am glad u found a fictional version of urself

i was never aggressive your just failed to comprehend what i said and thats really not my problem. You cannot even show me where i insulted your mother. Im actually with someone and maybe you are the one in a fictional relationship and you have resorted to thinking that everyone else is

This Oyinbo philosophy of one man for one woman only does not work for Africans. African women have to share their men. I know no woman likes that but that is the reality. Imagine the followings:-
A society has 100 baby boys and 100 baby girls.

1. Due to reckless life style of men, at least 5 of these boys will die prematurely
2. At least 2 of these of these boys are physically not capable of having sex. Its just a biological reality
3. At least 5 of these boys are sodomites who do not find women attractive. Its an ugly reality
4. At least 3 of the boys will be spending most of their lives in prison. Its a social reality
5. At leas 8 of these boys will be too poor to run their own lives, let alone running a family

Now we are left with 77 men for 100 women.

And on these figures I have done guys great favours. Realistically there is less than 60 men available for 100 women.

So sharing is inevitable ladies.

Mondisweets:
i was never aggressive your just failed to comprehend what i said and thats really not my problem. You cannot even show me where i insulted your mother. Im actually with someone and maybe you are the the one in a fictional relationship and you have resorted to thinking that everyone else is

honestly am single arm and am not lieing abt that

", this is 2014 not your mother's generation where the only thing women"

What I call an insult here is the mention my mother in the sentence cos I was wondering why u didn't say your own mothers generation...i would have not taken it as an insult...i love my mum she's the best woman I know


If you insist u are not in a fictional relationship then I believe...i wish u the best in ur relationship.. Just relax and choose ur words carefully so u won't be caught in the wrong

kallmemrB:
keep telling urself that until u are Rita Dominic's age by then ur eyes go clear

rita dominic sef gud, you no say franca brown... Na yeye dey worry her

Ladybluecash:
rita dominic sef gud, you no say franca brown... Na yeye dey worry her

hahaha

chizzily:
you men (sorry 'boys') must really think y'all some kinda treasure.
you guys need some exposure, cause not every girl is desperate to get married. #fact

You will need to visit a deliverance session with any MFM branch (to say the least) for fact finding and your personal exorcism, it will do you a lot of good. By the way, the post was intended for those who unconsciously missed out on prospective suitors or are WILLING to walk down the aisle someday. Kindly take your unready tongue-wagging self to the bet chat room where you belong.

kallmemrB:
honestly am single arm and am not lieing abt that

good but don't think everyone else is in the same boat with you no one ridiculed you for being single so stop ridiculing Rita because you are the same.

", this is 2014 not your mother's generation where the only thing women"

now explain how its insulting your mother when i was referring to her generation?

What I call an insult here is the mention my mother in the sentence cos I was wondering why u didn't say your own mothers generation...i would have not taken it as an insult...i love my mum she's the best woman I know

i already said it that i was referring to women who grew up in her generation. So if you still see it as an insult even after i explained what i meant then there is really nothing i can do about it.

If you insist u are not in a fictional relationship then I believe...i wish u the best in ur relationship.. Just relax and choose ur words carefully so u won't be caught in the wrong

i have already explained what i meant, i never intended to insult your mother.

What if the rich guy no look dia face?

Gobe on point be dat abi?




Why? will they eat sand in the marriage? I was telling myself this lie but now I've realized I was wrong. Marry the rich guy if he comes to u.

Edusouls:
keep giving excuses for your failures, alpha males dont even know or will ever notice that a loser woman like you ever exist, lots and excesses of young and beautiful,charming,submissive,sexy and hot girls out there, and that is men's taste.. not expired, old and life shortening women like you, so marry ur self and die unhappy, or change and adore the kings of earth so maybe you stand a chance of slight happiness,so move fast before you die miserably...

Overgrown baby, what is your pains? go and scratch your balls you fool

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

I want to believe you are already living in a world without a man. Lolz.

Mondisweets:
good but don't think everyone else is in the same boat with you

now explain how its insulting your mother when i was referring to her generation?

i already said it that i was referring to women who grew up in her generation. So if you still see it as an insult even after i explained what i meant then there is really nothing i can do about it.

i have already explained what i meant, i never intended to insult your mother.

Honestly I understood what u meant in ur first quote abt the clarification on the mothers generation....am not holding any grudge...u are the one still bringing it up

Its an online community we are here to have fun and maybe meet new friends so Mondisweets am cool with u ok

And abt my relationship status,i don't expect everyone to be single.... Am ok been single for now...