Whynotthetruth:




Babe, you're getting it all mixed up.
First, I am not advocating housewife stuff which our tradition never even advocated. Yes! women had farms from where they fed their households then. There were farmsteads for different wives though the father worked more with his sons on the general farm. Remember, it was more of polygamous in nature. So our tradition; isn't pro-housewife par say fully.

Going back to the root involves such as respect for our culture, norms and values; which just like the bible has roles mapped out for every member of the household. I am for respect for family values. Don't usurp the role or office of your husband it is both against biblical and our traditional values my dear. Usurping roles is one of the cardinal principles of feminism, which is what many ladies do today; and end up bastardizing the institution of holy matrimony...
Yes, go back to the Bible and see exactly what God made marriage to be NOT What you think he made it to be...

Genesis 2:18, ephesians 5:31, that's all

chiggiee:


okay. good for you.

Babe, your response to kelechi50 depicts of one who isn't comfortable with our traditions, culture, norms, values etc
Babe, when those are respected; it engenders happy and lasting marriage. They're not in anyway different from the biblical instructions on marriage, man, woman and children.
Let's not be selective in our choice of truth...If you really desire a true anambra Igbo man, babe there's lot you need to learn about those cultural and biblical citations.

By the way; 3cycle...note that my spec in ladies is BBC...meaning; BRAIN, BEAUTY & CHARACTER (BBC)... If you've any that suits that; kindly link us bro...ka ogbanje gbaba...lolz....nwanne; oge adiroooooo

chiggiee:



Genesis 2:18, ephesians 5:31, that's all

Thanks darling...I was waiting for these quotes. Don't be selective in reading and obeying the Bible...God gave woman as a helper not as lord or head or whatever to the man.
Then most importantly; why not start reading that letter to Ephesians from verse 21 & 22 down to around verse 33. Emphasis here on the named verses viz; 22,23,33 or were they deleted in your Bible?

Whynotthetruth:



Babe, your response to kelechi50 depicts of one who isn't comfortable with our traditions, culture, norms, values etc
Babe, when those are respected; it engenders happy and lasting marriage. They're not in anyway different from the biblical instructions on marriage, man, woman and children.
Let's not be selective in our choice of truth...If you really desire a true anambra Igbo man, babe there's lot you need to learn about those cultural and biblical citations.

By the way; 3cycle...note that my spec in ladies is BBC...meaning; BRAIN, BEAUTY & CHARACTER (BBC)... If you've any that suits that; kindly link us bro...ka ogbanje gbaba...lolz....nwanne; oge adiroooooo

noted

Whynotthetruth:




Thanks darling...I was waiting for these quotes. Don't be selective in reading and obeying the Bible...God gave woman as a helper not as lord or head or whatever to the man.
Then most importantly; why not start reading that letter to Ephesians from verse 21 & 22 down to around verse 33. Emphasis here on the named verses viz; 22,23,33 or were they deleted in your Bible?

and have i said otherwise? please do not create a wrong impression. thanks

ChristyG:
who told this suberu girl that lagos is more populated with ibos,where did u get that sh1t stats from,dont be deceived by d useless numbers nl ibos write here,dere is nothing like dat..if u looking for ur ibo guy,move to east where majority of them are,lagos is not iboland,dont get it twisted

Why do u like fooling urself? This ur hatred for Igbos is what is going suffocate u to death one of these days!!!

3cycle:
You are not searching in the right places. Checkout the spareparts and building material shops at Alaba, them many there.

chiggiee:


and have i said otherwise? please do not create a wrong impression. thanks

Then I am sorry. Maybe I misunderstood you, just likewise it seemed you misunderstood my stance too...ka Chukwu mezuoro anyi nile echiche obi anyi nke abughi njo...

wrong thread..... moonwalks out

3cycle:
You are not searching in the right places. Checkout the spareparts and building material shops at Alaba, them many there.

That was hilarious

Tinubu:
hmmmmm


Another ritualist on the prowl







You want us to meet you so that you can use our amu for rituals abi?

Anyway



If you can't find your type of man in the whole of Lagos, then you have to check yourself. ... maybe you aren't worth having those types of men

Lmfao

3cycle:

Kedu ife ona ko
Abeg shift if you have no meaningful thing to say, coming from a lady I will suggest you go for a brain check.
That you and your fellow corpers slept with married men and ended up cursed does not mean most single ladies were cursed. Read again and understand where she's coming from.

U jus dey jam talk I happen to be married even b4 my nysc, u dig? Pls modify ur post I hate it wen I'm being insulted mayb I shouldn't av posted here

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Am sure you are looking at a guy you can happily settle down with,not just for fun. If right,then you have to note the following:
1,Reappraise where you having been hoping to meet such guys. You can't be hanging out at clubs at night and expect to meet an igbo guy that is decent. Hardly will you come to such places and expect a guy that is willing to take you home to parents. Most guys coming there are coming with a mindset-quickfun.
2,Reappraise yourself and ask i
What is it with you and Yoruba boys? you people wont stop at insulting other tribe because of your shortcomings. The comparative analysis shows how much you are driven by tribal bigotry. You made some valid points while you spoilt the whole thing by mentioning another tribe. Be objective next time bro

Richard6:

U are wrong, am not saying that am a decent person but there are many decent guys in lagos. I reside in lagos and I know what am saying, so search well

in other words, she needs a decent igbo husband material dat is interested in toasting her

chiggiee:
my name is gozie, i am female and i am from Anambra state. I have been in Lagos almost all my life; schooled in lagos, served in lagos and currently working in Lagos.
meeting a decent igbo guy in Lagos has been a herculean's task since my university days, i have mostly had guys from other tribes flock around me and i am really not looking to settle down with a non-igbo guy(and please it has nothing to do with being tribalistic because the ratio of my non-igbo friends to the igbo ones is like 80:20).
so i would really like to know why it is difficult, cos i know Lagos is more populated with igbo people. so is it my location? or maybe i don't go out often? or maybe it is not the right time?

please feel free to drop your comments.

p.S. should in case a decent igbo guy(residing in Lagos) stumbles upon this post, i am just a mail away: chigiee@yahoo.com

You keep less Igbo friends and expect to meet an Igbo guy?
Except you are too hot, then your small Igbo friends' ratio will work for you but if you are not that hot, make more Igbo friends and spread your net wider.

kelvin100:


You keep less Igbo friends and expect to meet an Igbo guy?
Except you are too hot, then your small Igbo friends' ratio will work for you but if you are not that hot, make more Igbo friends and spread your net wider.

noted. thanks

feeekey:


U jus dey jam talk I happen to be married even b4 my nysc, u dig? Pls modify ur post I hate it wen I'm being insulted mayb I shouldn't av posted here

So you are married and you sound like a primary school pupil. People like you are the reason why single girls don't associate with their married friends just so they won't be tagged a snatcher. What made you think she slept with a married man? How old are u sef

Whynotthetruth:



By the way; 3cy cle...note that my spec in ladies is BBC...meaning; BRAIN, BEAUTY & CHARACTER (BBC)... If you've any that suits that; kindly link us bro...ka ogbanje gbaba...lolz....nwanne; oge adiroooooo

Errmmm 3circle happens to be a she and not a bro. Why not PM the op she seems to be an interesting beautiful lady
You never can tell.

3cycle:

Errmmm 3circle happens to be a she and not a bro. Why not PM the op she seems to be an interesting beautiful lady
You never can tell.

Wow...never imagined you were ever a "she"...Good to know...best wishes dear...I will take your advice but are you married sorry just being curious...

Whynotthetruth:




Wow...never imagined you were ever a "she"...Good to know...best wishes dear...I will take your advice but are you married sorry just being curious...

I will be married. Thanks for the wishes, best of lucks too.

Sad but through,average igbo girl born and Brought up outside igbo land is different,the places you will find them is not the problem,if you are good the must surely find you,check your self

HKCOMPANY:
Sad but through,average igbo girl born and Brought up outside igbo land is different,the places you will find them is not the problem,if you are good the must surely find you,check your self

noted.

Chigee
How market
If you havent found yet let me pm my decent ibo brother. He is looking for a wifey.

On a serious note
I think you should focus more on any guy that makes you happy. Regardless of tribe. I am ibo too, so I understand why you want an ibo guy.
But it should be your happiness first.

I was born and breed in igbo land
But am just trying an Ibo/ibo relationship for the first time.
My happiness counts, more than anything. So I never hold back when I am happy.
If you meet a sweet lover, you wont even remb you are ibo and you will fight anyone to be with him.


I pray true love finds you, no matter the tribe.

chidyhels:
On a serious note
I think you should focus more on any guy that makes you happy. Regardless of tribe. I am ibo too, so I understand why you want an ibo guy.
But it should be your happiness first.

I was born and breed in igbo land
But am just trying an Ibo/ibo relationship for the first time.
My happiness counts, more than anything. So I never hold back when I am happy.
If you meet a sweet lover, you wont even remb you are ibo and you will fight anyone to be with him.


I pray true love finds you, no matter the tribe.

awww. i love your post. thanks, will put your advice into consideration

yuzedo:
Lol, I REALLY like this chiggiee's attitude on this thread. You can sense an unforced realness that surely translates to real-life geniality and practicalness.

I have mailed you. Although I do not think my motive is to fill the vacancy, as my "groom-price" has been paid. Still, it would be awesome to make your acquaintance. Cheers!

Lol, so you finally hooked up with Rita Dummynick!
Congrats!

Your post made me smile. I'm also an Anambarian



Search for both of us or when you get 2 give me one
Lagos, abuja, ph based

yuzedo:
Lol, I REALLY like this chiggiee's attitude on this thread. You can sense an unforced realness that surely translates to real-life geniality and practicalness.

I have mailed you. Although I do not think my motive is to fill the vacancy, as my "groom-price" has been paid. Still, it would be awesome to make your acquaintance. Cheers!

You are married
Oh my world!
Chai! And i had plans oh....

3cycle:

So you are married and you sound like a primary school pupil. People like you are the reason why single girls don't associate with their married friends just so they won't be tagged a snatcher. What made you think she slept with a married man? How old are u sef

Well she said she got married before nysc, so you can guess how old she is

Nne, I like your maturity.
I will mail you at least we can be friends but that will be later cos am sure your mail is flooded already. So I will wait until you settle things a bit.