funmilayoB:
we can cope

How?

kika23:


I admire your strength!!

some r females but have men's genes in their DNA They
1 They chase d opposite sex
2 they have extreme sexual urges
3 The cheat
4 Masturbate E.t.c
all these r not typical of a normal female behavior

emusmith:


There's one I know of. She is wealthy.
Guys selling indecency CDs know her.
.She buys them and watch...

They're always wealthy but lonely!! They'd give anything to get laid once in a while. Not just about the sex, the need for companionship sets in too...

So I have this friend and there's this guy that really likes her. She likes him a lot too and he's wealthy but the only reason she cannot be involved with this guy is because he comes in once in three months. By once I mean days... Not even a week! I quickly rejected it for her oo! I said "my friend, money is so not everything when happiness is not there" Money will make you happy for a while but it gets boring when HE is not there.. The kids need their papa around too...

kika23:


Ehn... You'd leave it behind oooo!! But you'd be gone for just two weeks na! I can cope with a month sef... so no wahala... I'd still be thinking it

You remind me of something .I met this French guy crying in the smoking/changing lounge and I got closer and got his confidence to ascertain what's going on because initially I thought he's been fired but nay ,this guy was crying because according to him; he had this agreement with his wife that anything after 5 weeks she's going to get it somewhere else and this poor dude would be staying behind for another two weeks as his back-to-back isn't coming for those two weeks and his job is delicate to operations .I consoled him but deep inside me I dey laugh.This is why sometimes when people bash Nigerian women/girls I laugh at them because some things you see with these foreigners our women can't pull such stunt though that doesn't make them a saint but with my experience give me my black woman anytime there is still room for some tolerance.

kika23:


They're always wealthy but lonely!! They'd give anything to get laid once in a while. Not just about the sex, the need for companionship sets in too...

So I have this friend and there's this guy that really likes her. She likes him a lot too and he's wealthy but the only reason she cannot be involved with this guy is because he comes in once in three months. By once I mean days... Not even a week! I quickly rejected it for her oo! I said "my friend, money is so not everything when happiness is not there" Money will make you happy for a while but it gets boring when HE is not there.. The kids need their papa around too...

A long term & wise advice from you, Kika.
Some girls would close their eyes to that and regret later...

Truckpusher:
You remind me of something .I met this French guy crying in the smoking/changing lounge and I got closer and got his confidence to ascertain what's going on because initially I thought he's been fired but nay ,this guy was crying because according to him; he had this agreement with his wife that anything after 5 weeks she's going to get it somewhere else and this poor dude would be staying behind for another two weeks as his back-to-back isn't coming for those two weeks and his job is delicate to operations .I consoled him but deep inside me I dey laugh.This is why sometimes when people bash Nigerian women/girls I laugh at them because some things you see with these foreigners our women can't pull such stunt though that doesn't make them a saint but with my experience give me my black woman anytime there is still room for some tolerance.

True! A black woman has great genes of survival in her- although not all.

Distance is not healthy for marriage.
If any couple are in such situation, they should work seriously towards arrangements to bring the family together under one roof Instead of leaving the distance romance as the permanent arrangement.
Risky.

Truckpusher:
You remind me of something .I met this French guy crying in the smoking/changing lounge and I got closer and got his confidence to ascertain what's going on because initially I thought he's been fired but nay ,this guy was crying because according to him; he had this agreement with his wife that anything after 5 weeks she's going to get it somewhere else and this poor dude would be staying behind for another two weeks as his back-to-back isn't coming for those two weeks and his job is delicate to operations .I consoled him but deep inside me I dey laugh.This is why sometimes when people bash Nigerian women/girls I laugh at them because some things you see with these foreigners our women can't pull such stunt though that doesn't make them a saint but with my experience give me my black woman anytime there is still room for some tolerance.

Can you imagine?? That oil job mehnnn.. Good pay and benefits but.........

emusmith:


A long term & wise advice from you, Kika.
Some girls would close their eyes to that and regret later...

Moderation is just the key!!

Truckpusher:
You remind me of something .I met this French guy crying in the smoking/changing lounge and I got closer and got his confidence to ascertain what's going on because initially I thought he's been fired but nay ,this guy was crying because according to him; he had this agreement with his wife that anything after 5 weeks she's going to get it somewhere else and this poor dude would be staying behind for another two weeks as his back-to-back isn't coming for those two weeks and his job is delicate to operations .I consoled him but deep inside me I dey laugh.This is why sometimes when people bash Nigerian women/girls I laugh at them because some things you see with these foreigners our women can't pull such stunt though that doesn't make them a saint but with my experience give me my black woman anytime there is still room for some tolerance.

10000 likes.

emusmith:


True! A black woman has great genes of survival in her- although not all.

Honestly ,this isn't to say that other race do not have great women out there, but the load of crap that our women take from us is unprecedented.

I agree with you coco, very risky.

Truckpusher:
Honestly ,this isn't to say that other races do not have great women out their, but the load of crap that our women take from us is unprecedented.

So true, Bro.

That's one reason I love Nigerian Ladies.

Thumbs Up To All Our Ladies Out There

emusmith:


So true, Bro.

That's one reason I love Nigerian Ladies.

Thumbs Up To All Our Ladies Out There

Thanchuuu Thanchuuu!! We the bestest!!!

kika23:


Can you imagine?? That oil job mehnnn.. Good pay and benefits but.........

Of course sacrifices are required my dear - Nothing good comes easy.

I felt he was an iidiot back then, which black man go enter that kain useless agreement with madam?


Na nairaland family section dem go judge una case.

kika23:


Moderation is just the key!!

Yes o.

The way forward then should be Oil Firms should be:

1. Try to post married staff in the state where their family lives.

2. Ensure they don't exceed two weeks at work- 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off.

3. For sailors, quit bringing in sex peddlers for them to cure their sexual urge. It's really tempting for our married folks.

I truly wish something can be done

Truckpusher:
This isn't about grace ,it's about being principled as grace might just abandon you when you needed her most.

Lol
Bro I tell you. You tend to momentarily forget the principles you set for yourself when it's get to it's elastic limit

Truckpusher:
Of course sacrifices are required my dear - Nothing good comes easy.

I felt he was an iidiot back then, which black man go enter that kain useless agreement with madam?


Na nairaland family section dem go judge una case.

Lmao!! Very silly agreement.... Too silly sef!! No matter how lonely a woman is, she fit cope small na...

buygala:
When the desirable isn't available, then the available becomes desirable...

I know some married peeps will come here and gush self-righteously about faithfulness, perseverance and shiit, but the truth is that most distanced couples satisfy their Konji externally on a coded level .... After all, marital vows don't cure konji fever.. Penisses and vaginas do..


Even when spouses are around, peeps still find a way to cheat. .. talk less of when spouse has been away for long... The men might even start raising another family in their location, while the women might become professional peniss samplers, or the ones with a bit of God's fear in them might acquire just one peniss to be managing in the meantime

bros you spoke the truth!

I don't believe in distant relationships. There are alsways cases of infidelity.forget all the pretences. The man will have girlfriends where ever he is and the woman will be secretely dating another man.this is when women sleeps with their househelps,gatemen and drivers because the sex urge is unquenchable.but they will pretend and keep face like say all is well and they are coping well.pfft! All na wash.

kika23:
From the stories I've heard, this situation has led to so many breakups as a result of unfaithfulness ( mostly on the part of some wives, because the men may cheat too while away) ... It's rather a difficult one, in my opinion. I would prefer the two weeks in two weeks out kind of work (at most), anything outside this, naaaaaaaah! It's not just the money that's important, I need my man around too..

do you know that some women can't even stay without sex for a few week? A friend of mine was once sleeping with a married woman whose husband spends like 3wks to sometimes a month on a business trip.the woman was demanding for sex everyday and even paying him.
The problem is that most women knows the nature of their husbands job before marriage but they will still go ahead to marry and start keeping boyfriends because the man isn't always around.I have an uncle who's transfered to lagos while the wife is still in uyo schooling.I thought he was a saint untill I came to stay with him a few months.I'll see 5 different pretty girls sleep wth him every wk.I thought about it and said "well,the wife will be running things with other male students over there too" .they visited and I asked the maid what's up and she told me about the wife's sneaky moves too and how a male student will visit and she'll drive out with the guy and tell the maid that if her hubby calls her,she should tell him that she(the wife) went to vigil because her phone will be off..hehehe

AgapeCharis:
Lol
Bro I tell you. You tend to momentarily forget the principles you set for yourself when it's get to it's elastic limit

Have you defined "Grace" from your perspective along this line, Agapecharis?

emusmith:


There's one I know of. She is wealthy.
Guys selling indecency CDs know her.
.She buys them and watch...

is it not the same woman you said a colleague of yours was sleeping with? That her husband was an oil rig worker.

emusmith:


Yes o.

The way forward then should be Oil Firms should:

1. Try to post married staff in the state where their family lives.

2. Ensure they don't exceed two weeks at work- 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off.

3. For sailors, quit bringing in sex peddlers for them to cure their urge. It's really tempting for our married folks.

I truly wish something can be done

Oil firms don't give a rat asss about you and your family as long as the black gold is flowing undisturbed.They have all those policies in place but when it comes to reality operations first before anything.

There was this particular in incident where some Koreans were kept for more than 5 months onboard and everyone looked the other way citing that their contractual obligations/agreement with their parent Korean company doesn't give room for any waiver until their job is done .The Americans,French and other notable nationalities looked the other way until a Nigerian manager an Edo man stood up and said enough is enough before those folks were yanked off and sent to phc for one week to cure their konji and some of them are married.
The oil companies only pay lip service ,it it operations first.

emusmith:


Have you defined "Grace" from your perspective along this line, Agapecharis?

God's ability working in you taking you across when your strength fails.

chibic:
bros you spoke the truth!

I don't believe in distant relationships. There are alsways cases of infidelity.forget all the pretences. The man will have girlfriends where ever he is and the woman will be secretely dating another man.this is when women sleeps with their househelps,gatemen and drivers because the sex urge is unquenchable.but they will pretend and keep face like say all is well and they are coping well.pfft! All na wash.



do you know that some women can't even stay without sex for a few week? A friend of mine was once sleeping with a married woman whose husband spends like 3wks to sometimes a month on a business trip.the woman was demanding for sex everyday and even paying him.
The problem is that most women knows the nature of their husbands job before marriage but they will still go ahead to marry and start keeping boyfriends because the man isn't always around.I have an uncle who's transfered to lagos while the wife is still in uyo schooling.I thought he was a saint untill I came to stay with him a few months.I'll see 5 different pretty girls sleep wth him every wk.I thought about it and said "well,the wife will be running things with other male students over there too" .they visited and I asked the made wahts up and she told me about the wife's sneaky moves too and how a male student will visit and she'll drive out with the guy and tell the maid that if her hubby calls her,she should tell him that she(the wife) went to vigil because her phone will be off..hehehe

You just hit the nail!

She knows the nature of the job and still said, I Do!

Do you know it favours some ladies?
I know some who like it when their husbands are out there in the rigs.

They get to reunite with their exes and live anyhow.

My colleague years ago was telling me of his escapades with another of our colleague- a wealthy young woman whose skin is as smooth as a baby's, according to him.

Things are happening joor!

chibic:
bros you spoke the truth!

I don't believe in distant relationships. There are alsways cases of infidelity.forget all the pretences. The man will have girlfriends where ever he is and the woman will be secretely dating another man.this is when women sleeps with their househelps,gatemen and drivers because the sex urge is unquenchable.but they will pretend and keep face like say all is well and they are coping well.pfft! All na wash.



do you know that some women can't even stay without sex for a few week? A friend of mine was once sleeping with a married woman whose husband spends like 3wks to sometimes a month on a business trip.the woman was demanding for sex everyday and even paying him.
The problem is that most women knows the nature of their husbands job before marriage but they will still go ahead to marry and start keeping boyfriends because the man isn't always around.I have an uncle who's transfered to lagos while the wife is still in uyo schooling.I thought he was a saint untill I came to stay with him a few months.I'll see 5 different pretty girls sleep wth him every wk.I thought about it and said "well,the wife will be running things with other male students over there too" .they visited and I asked the made wahts up and she told me about the wife's sneaky moves too and how a male student will visit and she'll drive out with the guy and tell the maid that if her hubby calls her,she should tell him that she(the wife) went to vigil because her phone will be off..hehehe

Choi!!

AgapeCharis:
God's ability working in you taking you across when your strength fails.

You make me smile

Thanks, I needed to hear that on a Monday morning like this

Let's not derail

chibic:

do you know that some women can't even stay without sex for a few week? A friend of mine was once sleeping with a married woman whose husband spends like 3wks to sometimes a month on a business trip.the woman was demanding for sex everyday and even paying him.
The problem is that most women knows the nature of their husbands job before marriage but they will still go ahead to marry and start keeping boyfriends because the man isn't always around.I have an uncle who's transfered to lagos while the wife is still in uyo schooling.I thought he was a saint untill I came to stay with him a few months.I'll see 5 different pretty girls sleep wth him every wk.I thought about it and said "well,the wife will be running things with other male students over there too" .they visited and I asked the made wahts up and she told me about the wife's sneaky moves too and how a male student will visit and she'll drive out with the guy and tell the maid that if her hubby calls her,she should tell him that she(the wife) went to vigil because her phone will be off..hehehe

My dear, things happen everyday ooo! That's why I told my friend not to try it at all.... Chai!! Honestly I can't, I'd need him around most of the time, cheating breaks my heart.

Herzumpther:
10000 likes.

This kain plenty likes dey sweet belle

But take am easy with the kiss before you stain my white polo.

chibic:
is it not the same woman you said a colleague of yours was sleeping with? That her husband was an oil rig worker.

My colleague does it with her and she still gets to CDs to watch.
He often relates that to my friend then...

Her children are the cutest I've seen...

kika23:


My dear, things happen everyday ooo! That's why I told my friend not to try it at all.... Chai!! Honestly I can't, I'd need him around most of the time, cheating breaks my heart.

Hmm...Tender heart right?

Truckpusher:
This kain plenty likes dey sweet belle

But take am easy with the kiss before you stain my white polo.

You just confirm am say no be white polo you wear.

BTW take more, no worry I will be careful with your white polo.

emusmith:


Hmm...Tender heart right?

Exactly!!