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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Truckpusher(m): 7:13pm On Feb 27, 2015
Enegod:
and no unnecessary fish-like odor grin grin
Nigerian ladies are clean. wink
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by chikahenry(m): 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
1day
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Enegod(m): 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
nairaman66:


That's not true! I wooed a girl for 2 years! It all depends on the situation.. If the girl is worth it, I can do it for 5 years.. cheesy
some have even done it for 10yrs... you should break their record grin

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by auntymi(f): 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
seedorfg:
ten year, i think grin
seconded grin
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by summerflame(m): 7:15pm On Feb 27, 2015
Shiloh 2024 loading for her. Me no dey ask woman out, action speaks louder than voice. Cinema and zoological garden is the key and givingyou my time. Max of 1 week
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by engrjacuzzi: 7:15pm On Feb 27, 2015
this guy must b an arsenal fan. it took arsene Wenger over 10 years to win a trophy. so u can wait for as long as you wish if u decide to b a specialist.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by mentorandfriend(m): 7:15pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?
My brother, I feel what you're passing through, but let me remind you about this statement by my mentor, Fela Durotoye. He said, "Women are no trophies." Over time, I've found this statement to be right. Try to remember that bro. It has helped me from vain pursuits.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by braine(m): 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2015
How does a guy woo ladies? I still don't grab how its done.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 27, 2015
Dude! Two months?! And you are already giving up?

What about those who woo a girl for a year or even more than that. Your situation seems like the girl doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you, so be friends with her or just look for another girl, Jeez!

But to me a month!, if she's not interested in you, move on to the next.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by delors(m): 7:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
Grab a bible, read psalms 119. If after reading the longest chapter in the Bible she never gree, get on the bus and find another scape goat...no dulling.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 27, 2015
Nneka123:
Dude! Two months?! Are you are already giving up?

What about those who woo a girl for a year or even more than that. Your situation seems like the girl doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you, so be friends with her or just look for another girl, Jeez!

But to me a month!, if she's not interested in you, move on to the next.
If I woo you one month, make I know wetin cause am. . . grin

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by IYANGBALI: 7:18pm On Feb 27, 2015
At least 5 years
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Airforce1(m): 7:19pm On Feb 27, 2015
Nneka123:
Dude! Two months?! Are you are already giving up?

What about those who woo a girl for a year or even more than that. Your situation seems like the girl doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you, so be friends with her or just look for another girl, Jeez!

But to me a month!, if she's not interested in you, move on to the next.

Correct yourself jor

Mtchew
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by summerflame(m): 7:19pm On Feb 27, 2015
You this womaniser is here again. Lol. I pity you
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by ClintonNzedimma(m): 7:20pm On Feb 27, 2015
braine:
How does a guy woo ladies? I still don't grab how its done.
Me too oh.
Maybe thats the reason why i have never had a girlfriend or dated b4.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by 49cents(m): 7:20pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

How long is your money?
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by richard870(m): 7:21pm On Feb 27, 2015
As long as he refuses to accept that it's not a Do or Die thing
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by seedorfg(m): 7:21pm On Feb 27, 2015
you re beautiful @ auntymi
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by LewisO: 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2015
elantraceey:


Hmmm I see

What makes u typed that?
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by benideey(m): 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2015
I really don't have the luxury of time to wait when I am trying to be friends with her and she dare punishes my feelings with repulsive acts.

I will just let her be and move on; no sentiments. I can't stoop for a girl. I do always feel you can't be friends or lovers with everyone! I really don't fancy when a lady is forming for the universe. I prefer when friendship happens naturally like if we meet at workplace, within the neighbourhood, in groups and co.#NO TIME,MOVE ON....you may probably be missing out if she keeps delaying!

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2015
2 weeks max.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by simplex2: 7:22pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.
.

Haaa!!! Aunty you can lie enh!

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Enegod(m): 7:23pm On Feb 27, 2015
Truckpusher:
Nigerian ladies are clean. wink
grin I don dey pity them... They have really suffered from the bashing guys give them here
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by summerflame(m): 7:24pm On Feb 27, 2015
Guy u be baddoo, u want make the guy dey cry. That truth is too bitter for that woman wrapper. Washere
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by YoshiMaster: 7:25pm On Feb 27, 2015
Nneka123:
Dude! Two months?! And you are already giving up?

What about those who woo a girl for a year or even more than that. Your situation seems like the girl doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you, so be friends with her or just look for another girl, Jeez!

But to me a month!, if she's not interested in you, move on to the next.

U in Lagos

Lemme shry to wow u in an month tines.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by YoshiMaster: 7:26pm On Feb 27, 2015
I don't like shacing woman, I likes to be shaced.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by LydiaBI(f): 7:27pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I agree with you that 2 months is a long time to woo a girl. This is why I decided to end our friendship and told her to stop calling and texting her. I think it takes a girl less than a day to decide if they would date a guy or not but some girls just like playing hard to get.


I don't agree with you bro! It takes more than a day to trust a 'Nigerian guy' with one's heart for even 6months let alone for a relationship you wanna take serious,this is because Nigerian guys(not all though) are very deceitful,they can hire and fire the same minute,they say/act 'A' when it's actually 'Z' #lol

And in this case OP,the girl needs you more than you need her hence,she's taking her time to know you(your financial strength and intentions) and prepare herself for any risk (if it arises) before she invests her emotions et al. Please hang on if you need her that much....
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by summerflame(m): 7:27pm On Feb 27, 2015
Sarimah, I love you, oyar say yes. It is as simple as that. 2 month bawo. Guy, wooing a lady is a gift and not for dummies like you

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by coolvitus(m): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
Till u can wait no more all up to u guy
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by kunlepicktu: 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.
Hw old re u?
I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by oseiwe(m): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.
4 years and you are not feeling the nigga?
I wonder who needs deliverance between both of una

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by cescky(m): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
Airforce1:

Correct yourself jor
Mtchew


why dont you just tell nneka your mind grin

after all these years.. from thread to thread angry

np:westillawaityouralbum grin

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