Its your shots to call...

What say that AA/AS lady wont develop a terminal illness under 3months?just a que?
Does she take care of herself?eat well?

There's no need for too much fear. I want to believe she isn't one that has crisis all the time and she lives a normal life using her medications appropriately. Your kids are 100% AS and that is good for you. The question you need ask yourself is are you strong enough to help her during her crisis?

NLSince:
Hey Guys,

I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice about my current situation. I have seen some very good and some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope I get more of the former.

So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another and she told me she was SS.

Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in relationships before which have ended but I don't date with the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different, Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop. However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA

I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go against everything I believe in and break off the relationship once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25 right now.

Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good one (If I don't have to) and start searching again.

cc: MizmyColi, Kachisbarbie, Xiadnat, PickaBeau1, MatthewBriggs

your story too long abeg! U2 talk hahaaa

NLSince:
Hey Guys,

I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice about my current situation. I have seen some very good and some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope I get more of the former.

So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another and she told me she was SS.

Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in relationships before which have ended but I don't date with the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different, Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop. However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA

I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go against everything I believe in and break off the relationship once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25 right now.

Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good one (If I don't have to) and start searching again.

cc: MizmyColi, Kachisbarbie, Xiadnat, PickaBeau1, MatthewBriggs

There is power from the divine to do whatever we wish, turning a sickle cell to AA is a piece of cake.

richol:
pray to GOD....cos ive seen cases that the aa marrying ss nd all the children are ss

Lies...how can u integrate your claim

Hmmmm,it's a hard one but since ur an AS,I think u shld go ahead#

Go and see a doctor.

richol:
pray to GOD....cos ive seen cases that the aa marrying ss nd all the children are ss

I think all the children should be AS(carrier),and that look odd...what is AA genotype doing?

searching4love:


OP WHY DON'T YOU TRY DATING A FOREIGN LADY? THEY DON'T HAVE THIS SICKLE CELL PROBLEMS LIKE MANY NIGERIAN GIRLS


#team foreign girls

oniranu ..

I am AA and I'm engaged to a lady who is SS. She is the one person who truly gets me and who I believe will support me and love me no matter what happens. I am truly in love with her too and am ready to support her and take care of her. It is difficult to find someone like that, so even when she told me she was SS, I continued with the relationship.

My advice is to go ahead and leave her health to God. As long as she is taking the necessary steps to keep the condition under control and has a good ad close relationship with God, she will live long.

As for me, I don't think about how my wife to be might die early as I believe that God will keep her and she will outlive me.

Hmmmm,it's a hard one but since ur an AA,I think u shld go ahead#

My own advice,end it the earlier the better for both of U!

temzybabe:
oniranu ..

U get brain so

Do nt wait 4 a crisis b4 u break up wit her.dat wouldn't b fair @ all.

Oh boy, the world and economy is bad enough.....don't add health issues to it.
Love really doesn't answer all.

NLSince:
Hey Guys,

I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice about my current situation. I have seen some very good and some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope I get more of the former.

So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another and she told me she was SS.

Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in relationships before which have ended but I don't date with the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different, Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop. However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA

I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go against everything I believe in and break off the relationship once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25 right now.

Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good one (If I don't have to) and start searching again.

cc: MizmyColi, Kachisbarbie, Xiadnat, PickaBeau1, MatthewBriggs

You are ignorant and crazy.

Sincerely my brother searching for a wife not a girlfriend is a very hard mission. So many married men can testify to this am sure.

You need to defined what you want in life...If Your faith can carry you through, follow that faith of yours.

MY brother and my friend if u really really love the girl my advice to u is take her to a real man of GOD nd believe me her blood group will change when d power of d holyghost visit her case. pls pls i know u wnt take my advice bt pls d bible says wen GOD blesses u he added no sorrow to it, 'and he dat has found a wife has found a gud tin. so with GOD all tins are possible. i advice u 2 read nd listen to testimonies of individuals all ova d world dat their blood type change miraculously tru prayers, SO therefore just report d case 2 a man of GOD. nd i will recommend u going to d synagogue church of all nations, or visit d healing school with pastor christ oyakhilome or go to auchi benin to pastor suleiman or go to warri to prophet jeremiah omoto fufeying. these re d men of GOD i know dat tru them ur case will be settled. bt i repeat if u truely in all tins LOVE her. thank u.

richol:
pray to GOD....cos ive seen cases that the aa marrying ss nd all the children are ss

It is impossible, all the children will be AS.

Osihgen:
For her to survive till 25, she can live very long, many SS dont live upto 25

My SS cousin died of recent at 28. RIP

NLSince:
Hey Guys,

I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice about my current situation. I have seen some very good and some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope I get more of the former.

So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another and she told me she was SS.

Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in relationships before which have ended but I don't date with the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different, Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop. However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA

I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go against everything I believe in and break off the relationship once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25 right now.

Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good one (If I don't have to) and start searching again.

cc: MizmyColi, Kachisbarbie, Xiadnat, PickaBeau1, MatthewBriggs

one thing i know for sure (especially when a female Sickle cell warrior is over the age of 20) is, their survival rate at first labour is very low, but the moment she survive it, the risk becomes lower..
like the popular sayings, there is nothing God cannot do...

Chai! Some people are really suffering o. With God all things are possible

searching4love:


U get brain so

keep searching for foreign wife till u reach 50

Op don't go there,run now that you can. I just check my crystal ball,the marriage will not work,because of this and some other reasons. Request for her recent photograph,pray over it for 7 days and every evening for the 7 days put the photograph under your pillow,you will see why I said you should run,alafia. Eli!

jobsat34:


one thing i know for sure (especially when a female Sickle cell warrior is over the age of 20) is, their survival rate at first labour is very low, but the moment she survive it, the risk becomes lower..
like the popular sayings, there is nothing God cannot do...

Yes sir....that is very true. She has survived childhood, she has a pretty good chance....and yes, with G-d all things are possible.

Best wishes to you!

NLSince:
Hey Guys,

I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice about my current situation. I have seen some very good and some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope I get more of the former.

So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another and she told me she was SS.

Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in relationships before which have ended but I don't date with the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different, Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop. However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA

I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go against everything I believe in and break off the relationship once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25 right now.

Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good one (If I don't have to) and start searching again.

cc: MizmyColi, Kachisbarbie, Xiadnat, PickaBeau1, MatthewBriggs

I am a practicing medical doctor i want you to ask you her these question hw many liters of water does she consume a day do she take in B complex daily which is a class of water-soluble vitamins
that play important roles in cell metabolism does she also take in folic acid daily which is specially important in aiding rapid cell division and
growth, such as in infancy and pregnancy ask her these question and ask me for more question if needed

richol:
pray to GOD....cos ive seen cases that the aa marrying ss nd all the children are ss

. That is not through

People here can talk rubbish. See dude am a doctor and my sincere advice is no don't marry. She most likely wont live up to 40. I have never seen any ss at 40. Most even die while giving birth which is really a trying time and challenging if you want multiple kids. There are severe costly management to research on but even that is not guaranteed. Had a medical colleague who was ss and during our internship we dont let her stress herself, we did most of her calls and people were wondering why she had to read medicine and waste her years instead of a 4 year course. She died during nysc. May her soul RIP. Almost all ss crisis is an emergency and have seen many die from complications. You can even google their life expectancy which will of course be lower in Nigeria

the truth's that an AA and an SS can never give birth to an SS. they can only give birth to an AS. you can still give her a try. its called love.