Lala247:
Hi ppl

Just a general discussion, share your views, experiences , stories......

I have seen and heard women in relationships , where they get slapped, beaten, all sorts of violence thrown at them.

If i ask y they still remain in a horrible relationship they say its cuz they love him??
Some say its normal in nigeria for men to hit ladies behind closed doors .... Why is this acceptable and is there a kaw in nigeria preventing this...

Comment pls

ebabsuoires:


Its acceptable because of our social, geographical, political, religious, and geo-political construction
That's the truth
Accept it that way
Okay!!!

Lala247:


So if ur husband was beating u up , thats right u will remain. In the relationship

alberto2k:
Guys are joining the legendury beat and beats by Dre crew... Na wetin dey reign now


And P.S: I have a problem with your Dp.... Please cover that up, NL has over a million users... So just imagine how many have seen that by now, you won't attract any suitor by putting up such to the public eye (noo oofeinse)

ronald4lif:
No woman should stay in an abusive relationship, none. But in Nigeria the reasons why most of these women stay put in such marriages is that of religion, societal accepted norms, scare of what people may gossip about her and the fact that they are house wives and have no reliable source of income. Their husband is their only source of livelihood so she would rather stay and receive the beatings than quiting and having no where to rely on. It's that bad.

As per if they have laws against domestic abuse, well it's never been about having laws but implementing them. Let a woman dare take her husband to court for abuse the judge might even laugh at her and tell her go and plead with your husband woman, he beats you and so what lol.

Lala247:


Lol dunno y u guys checking out dps

Pls if u dont want to comment get out

Lala247:


Lol dunno y u guys checking out dps

Pls if u dont want to comment get out

alberto2k:


The billz is all on me... So, what's your business with what I decide to do with it?


Berra goan take your ur pills, hug your pilliow and kiss your Teddy bear goodnight

alberto2k:
Guys are joining the legendury beat and beats by Dre crew... Na wetin dey reign now


And P.S: I have a problem with your Dp.... Please cover that up, NL has over a million users... So just imagine how many have seen that by now, you won't attract any suitor by putting up such to the public eye (noo oofeinse)

Lala247:
Hi ppl

Just a general discussion, share your views, experiences , stories......

I have seen and heard women in relationships , where they get slapped, beaten, all sorts of violence thrown at them.

If i ask y they still remain in a horrible relationship they say its cuz they love him??
Some say its normal in nigeria for men to hit ladies behind closed doors .... Why is this acceptable and is there a law in nigeria preventing this...

Comment pls

ebabsuoires:


Why did you then put a photo on your profile.
Was it for fancy

Answer me
Answer me now!!!

Rubbish

You think you are smart
Please repent

braindamage:
I stand to be corrected, there is a bill against domestic violence/violence against women(can't remember the exact title of the bill), which was passed by the lower house in 2013, and sailed second reading in October by the Senate. Sadly, everyone is occupied with election, it might not be passed by the senate and receive the President's accent before May 29. In Nigeria, law enforcement play little role to quell domestic violence, but FIDA plays a good role to help abused women. On it's acceptance due to love, Nigeria is not unique to this scenario.

ebabsuoires:


Its acceptable because of our social, geographical, political, religious, and geo-political construction
That's the truth
Accept it that way
Okay!!!

ronald4lif:


Well, such may never happen when there's gender inequality. That to me is the bane of most domestic abuse. When we are thought we are head of the family and that whatever decision we take is final how then can one expects domestic abuse not to hold sway.

You see, I don't want to sound like and advocate of gender equality but when there's none of it domestic abuse will never be abolished in our country.

ZedX5:
What a _stupid comment!

Who made you the judge and commander of the DP's people decide to put up? Who asked you to check on it? Who told you she was trying to attract a suitor? If you have a problem, get your issues sorted out. You don't tell people what to do. Fools like you watch worse with vaseline in your hands so how about you get the fvck outta here and stop this crass stupidity show you're putting up here. . .

Lala247:


Lol how much will u get if i put it down 0
Lol nah pic dey worri una

alberto2k:


Yeye dey smell...

Woman wrapper like you.

U dey hustle for punny way u no fit get

ZedX5:
I'm too cultured to raise my hand on a woman I claim to love. If I can no longer tolerate our relationship, I'll end it honourably.

ZedX5:
Calling out your stupidity is hustling for punny? You're a fool.

phlio:
violence or no violence... if the beating reach bad degree her eye go open......ehn ehn abeg cover that your saggy brewst am sick of it too soft I think ur brwest deh face south south

Lala247:


But i blive if there was a real law

It can slowly b abolished

Lala247:


Ok do u , how much money are you making for ur comments 0
Carry on hun do ur thing
B der looking at dp , focus on urself