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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:08pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:Sweetheart I'll give you this advise cos I see you're much younger 1. When it comes to raising kids, pls never make mouth about what they could become or what could happen to them. Not every irresponsible child has irresponsible parents 2. There's no way the guy showed all these traits in the beginning and the op went ahead to get preggy for him. You can never tell the heart of a man or woman so u can never be sure of even the person u think is good for you or for your daughter As time goes on, you'll begin to understand these words I said to you today. Be careful what u say cos of tomorrow For me,even if mcdokwe is my son, I can never ever support him hitting the mother of his child especially when she already had a child for him outside wedlock. Do u know how much trauma it carries in this our society. To make matters worse,Beat her after impregnating her with no dime as bride price, even open a thread to describe the kind of blows he gave her, insult her father. Jeezzz Don't forget the guy replied her friend's message(which is what brought up this whole drama) talk about controlling! On a very serious note,I don't think I'll wish op's condition for my enemy Pathetic to say the least 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:10pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
mcdokwe: Chai! I am almost falling in love already, did you study hypnosis by any chance? I can see why the Op will believe it when you tell her that she is responsible for your problems. It is well my brother, kontinu 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 6:10pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: People quarrel, people make up. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:11pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:If your being verbally abusive puts the abused in fear of their well being or safety then you can be arrested for it. Do you realize she also hit him? I think first sometimes sef, I'm not saying he is a victim, I'm saying they both are abusive so don't push all the blames to him. She chose to stick with a man who thinks of her in that manner, that one is entirely her fault. 5 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:14pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
icedbeatz:I beg to differ The man rants worse than a woman. Did u See what he said to his father in law? Did u hear the kind of things he said to the lady? Even opening threads up and down nl shows how much of a ranter he is Yet the same him beat the lady in mouth battle and still had the guts to beat her mercilessly He's lucky he jammed a nice family. That's all I can say 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Ewuro4: 6:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29: Lol 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:20pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
mcdokwe: Unfortunately in your rants, u forgot that u already said some of the stuff u said about her family. U even agreed u told her u used her to explore sex. I throway cap for you Telling her dad u won't abandon ur child like he abandoned his daughter' talk about guts: you have lots of it U rant like a woman but remember u can't beat a lady in mouth battle no matter how hard you try. So pls don't rant and expect her to be quiet. Or go beating her and come and start describing the blows u gave her 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:22pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:as you wish. Obviously the babe has taken responsibility for her actions by moving on. So na you know wetin you dey talk again. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:23pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:For starters, age is not a prerequisite for wisdom, now let's move on. 1. It's not like am making mouth about what my kids will become, I said I'll do my part by teaching them to make better judgments like my mum taught me and it's been working for me because I chose to listen, now if my kid decides not to listen, especially when she is of age, why should I suffer for that? Why should I absorb her of responsibility when she decided to be irresponsible? 2. I disagree, the signs are always there, people are just often too blinded to see it, except the dude became who he is overnight, even in which case, she should have packed and ran instead of staying to exchange punches and invectives. You shouldn't support him ofcourse but you shouldn't support her hitting/insulting him too and stop saying he's not supposed to hit her because she bore him a child and is a woman, he is not supposed to hit anyone, that's what you should be preaching. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
kaboninc:I hope they make up, I rest my case..... I really wish them well shaaa.... I just read where the guy said they will make up and laugh at the comments here 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:27pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
He's both verbally and physically abusive. Yet somehow she's at fault. Learning from the captain of the "wreck their self esteem crew" |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy:it's not just about the lady now,if you had seen that she too was at fault, we wouldn't be having this discussion and just as na me know wetin I dey talk, na you also know wetin you dey talk again too, after all, you follow dey the thread dey blame OP. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: I've read his thread and read hers now. The root of the matter is him. EOD. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:30pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Haaaa... If a woman can be this temperamental online, only heaven knows what will happen if we share a home. Haba! No wonder she smashed the dude's phone. No one of them is innocent, but then again, it is said that the remote of a home is in a woman's palms, if this lady had been calm, and cool tempered, I don't think their issues would have gone as far as it did. Typical ranter. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 6:30pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
And it doesn't register on d mans JT? Men sha! Forming invincible since 01BC yagbaboy1: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther: if d husband relly loved her he wuldnt hit her. if my ex-hubby narrate story for u eh,u wil tink am d devil even to d extent of saying he stil loves me nd misses me nd my child. its all lies nd strategy to see him as d good guy while he continue in his violent habit underground. love dosnt come wit pain nd regret. since i seprated from him none of his family or him has shown up for reconciliation not to talk of showing interest in his child nd am neva going back either. wuld u say he loved us? the evil dat some men do nowadays live wit them. if u av a God fearing,loving and caring hubby plz hold him tight ,adore,respect and appriciate him coz most men nowadays ar leftovers. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:32pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
charles316: These faggs won't let the poor guy be. Always jumping at any opportunity to talk about him. He doesn't do guys. Face me and leave him alone. You and the cowards that like to bring people's husbands into nairaland matter when they don't even know of your miserable existence. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:33pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: Yes I'll say that again This guy is a coward that cannot near his fellow men out there in a fight He beat her because she's his baby mama Also don't forget her family wasn't in support so she'll do everything in her power to stay with the beast. Now for her to brace up with all the shame and move back to same parents shows how much she has endured in mcdokwe's hands So u're saying if ur daughter dates an abuser and he kills her, you will be happy abi because she didn't listen to you? May whatever we support reach our hand. Amen For me I can never wish any such treatment on my daughter no matter what because honey guess what? U can't dictate for your child who to fall in love with. It's a heart thing The op knows he's dealing with a calm family that's why he's insulting them up and down after impregnating her outside wedlock and giving her what he described as 'deadly blows' twice in one day 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy: I agree. Let's go back to the genesis, why will he reply the lady's text? He's controlling, verbally and emotionally abusive To crown it all, he went physical with deadly blows again cos he didn't think the lady should say a word back to him just because his name is mcdokwe and he has a JT(which the op could've done him a favor by cutting it off already ) |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
ephee:Hmmmm na wa o. I will sure do the bolded. Lol @ leftovers. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bestestgirl:You are crazy you know, right? . That's why you should never let anyone walk all over you, we all have powers and should use them. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Una two needs serious prayer Both party feeling unnecessarily important Get your acts right and do this damn thing Marriage has never been a bed of roses for all Keep third parties out of your relationship. I see you two getting back together But gal. You need to watch your temper. Boy. Go and pay bride price If you did, nl wont be the ones between this case now |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:42pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: Very violent. He forgot to mention he's been locked up before because of his violent attitude. Dunno if it is towards this same girl or another one. @bold ugh pls don't remind me of that horrible pic I saw last week. That's not something to joke with o. I still can't get it out of my head. Better she left than resort to such a horrendous act. #i believe you're kidding sha. But don't kid with that stuff. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:44pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: Loll yes I deserve that cane, i keep coming back |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:44pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I didn't know you were this gullible You are referring to some eediot that posts pictures that are supposedly of me claiming I was married and divorced and remarried The pictures are now different from before and so is the address,you didn't notice? Someone else had claimed I was barren Another said I had a live in lover Mchtwwww So which is it? Man listening to gossips Honey,I have been married and chopping only one man and one man only since I was 23 years old No leave no transfer But if those stories give you a stiffy ride on Glad you are being entertained 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 6:45pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: I tell you! 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Ewuro4: 6:46pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
All is read here is passing blames, I'm right, you're wrong, he started it, she threw the first punch.. Patience. If only couples can take a deep breath and calm down before saying regretful utterances to each other, marital rancors will be minimal. Just take a break and walk away. Nobody's stûpid oh.. I soo much value peace in my family. Happy children, accurate vital signs and happy parents. Gosh its all worth it. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:50pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy:Lol I'm kidding jare but men like mcdokwe need to begin to understand that no one has monopoly of violence. Ladies are no longer smiling these days o 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 6:50pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Imanuelle: See you and sweetcocoa, and MizMyColi, you guys are very objective. Cococandy, in as much as you try to fight you cause, also know that men can and are also victims of the very same abuse you castigate them for. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
I hope you will work on your violent attitude instead of turning around to say your next victim deserves it. If you can be locked up for a such a thing and still repeat that act on a lady again, then we don't have reason to believe you. mcdokwe: 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Finally before I step out of the thread The level of hypocrisy on nairaland is nauseating People like sweetcocoa are here blaming op why she chose the guy and whether she was taped bla bla bla and bragging about what they would've done if it was their child. Yet if someone opens a thread asking for advise on whether she should accept someone without her parents approval, u'll start hearing things like 'it's your life', 'your parents cannot dictate for you' etc Now this one has gone wrong and she's termed irresponsible girl that should've listen to her parents. Be careful what u say sha Karma doesn't fail to react God is watching all of you |
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