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Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by ogawisdom(m): 10:08am On Mar 21, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: This is d mindset dt creates a lot of problems for ladies. Dt is I dnt need a man in my life to b happy mindset. A man or a woman can't truly b happy without each other no matter wat. Dey were made for d companion of each other 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Odunharry(m): 10:13am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Sunnypar:Bos I hail of.. it been a while |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by josite: 10:14am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:. and if she wants marriage cos she badly want regular sex.she should trust Jesus to come and sex her regularly. this woman is not you.that's the only thing you forget. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 10:16am On Mar 21, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:My respected writer, you want to promote feminism abi? If I catch u, eh. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by deletrue: 10:17am On Mar 21, 2015 |
NifemiOlu:In addition, she should not show mannerlessness while doing that. Show humility always and dress matured. Can she cook very well? How many times has she visited fast food joints for a week? Besides, be prayerful. Wishing you good luck. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:17am On Mar 21, 2015 |
steppin:You mean pretending? |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Rexnegro(m): 10:20am On Mar 21, 2015 |
xreal:At 37 already ? Am so sure by now attitude n behaviour is not her prob cos her present age would make her have attitude n behaviours in abundant. So bro wat can she do to attract serious guys/men her way. Op my take is she shld join a big crowded church n join ushering unit, y she's standing to usher some men might or will look her way n possibly a date might set. N be honest with words helps a lot. So op tell her to be honest with herself. All d best to her. |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by ogawisdom(m): 10:23am On Mar 21, 2015 |
okabe: This cracked me up 3 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by HouseT: 10:24am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Ladies are face with two seasons in life...rainy season and the dry season..since she failed to recognised and accept her own man in the rainy season.now she is inside her dry season...let her be nice and go extra mile pleasing all men that may come her way or had contact with her...hopefully one of them will love her and propose. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by vega84(m): 10:25am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Pls wat happend to all her suitors during her younger years huh? I guess she was waiting fr Mr right sent frm heaven to land on her laps. Well my advice to her is that it's never too late age doesn't really matter she should be nice,cool and gentle she will surely get a nice suitor somehw. And my advice to ladies in general is that there is no such man as mr right or mr perfect, there is no man out there that has ur name on his forehead. So stp waiting, starting making ur present suitors and bfs husband's. Cos time no de oooo # vegatalks# 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Dolypson04(m): 10:32am On Mar 21, 2015 |
duperola:She shd look out for responsible man not eligible guy 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by mistiquephat(m): 10:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Tell her to add me on bbm 231CD472 |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by idu1(m): 10:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
stinggy:Na so we see am o my guy 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Shubbylee(m): 10:35am On Mar 21, 2015 |
duperola: If she's pretty, physically fit and in shape (Lepa) and she has a very good source of Income pls hook me up!! I love older Ladies!! 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chigoizie7(m): 10:38am On Mar 21, 2015 |
duperola: Haba nah, she is already desperate oooh, saying "on the verge of desperation" is just sugar coating the whole shit. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by elderhimself(m): 10:40am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Typing from under my bed : If the suitors aint coming, go after them !!! 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:42am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Chinks:oh pls!does it matter how many she turned down?and how does that help her present situation?even if she had a terrible past,how does it help to mend the present.smh |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by kukuruku156(f): 10:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
moderatorr1: Nicely put, so on point. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by alasboy4u(m): 10:47am On Mar 21, 2015 |
let her connect to d grace of a strong man of God like my papa, her marriage will manifest speedly |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:48am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Dahjhi:Lol@increasing the worlds population unnecessarily 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 10:51am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Kereokwu:right or rich man? |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Dahjhi: 10:51am On Mar 21, 2015 |
chubbypearl:my view always |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:52am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Gbam!but with this african mentality,she MUST marry ooooo.the lady is already desperate,i pray she doesn't fall into the wrong hands |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Onegai(f): 10:53am On Mar 21, 2015 |
It is oh so easy to say "must she get married, let her take her time, marriage is not for everyone, don't be desperate, let her have kids outside wedlock" from the comfort and security of your home/marriage/relationship. The complaisance stinks. I know what is like to stop attending weddings because everyone is hooked up (even those small girls), to avoid your fb page before you go crazy seeing all those updates of happy families whilst you're still in your parents' home, the random times people will just start passing comment on your life or discussing your life publicly (well-meaning but you still wanna die). OP, it is crazy out there and whatever decision she takes is going to be tough. As someone who said "I will find a man and have my kids without marriage" when that situation stared me in the face, I ran like a person being chased by BH. The reality was different from my calculations. Being a single mum is not something you discuss on NL. It is one thing to half-heartedly want to get married, it is another to want it with every fibre (for the companionship) and be told "marriage is not for everyone, don't be desperate". A lot of men in your 30s are going to be unserious about you and once you reach 35, all the married ones will show up to attempt to grace your bed. The beauty of age is that you are now bold enough to ask a man "please what are your intentions" immediately he kisses you. The unserious ones will tell you you're rushing them, the serious ones know your age and will straight up say their mind "I want a casual fling, are you interested? " or "I want more than a casual something, I'm genuinely here". Don't get mad, say thanks and move on (I used to tell them "thanks for being honest with me, I'm looking for more than a fling right now but If I change my mind I will inform you" and no hard feelings). Let her go out. Let her find a hobby. Do things that take her to continually meet people. I was advised that by a single woman in her 40s. Let her not take men seriously, A MAN IS NOT REAL UNTIL HE DECLARES PUBLICLY YOU TWO ARE DATING. That means she should bone all those midnight chatting and phone calls, they mean nothing until the man declares his mind (I see ladies who dump everything and everyone else in favour of those calls, meanwhile he can wake up and decide to stop calling one day and disappear. Then you waste more time in tears and emotion). Grit your teeth and go out (even when you're not in the mood). Be cautious of that joining some society in church. I have a lot of male friends and they always made it clear that they used church workers and church attendees as their hunting grounds, since they knew most of those women joined church to meet eligible men. So be friendly but remember, he ain't real till he publicly declares your relationship to all of mankind. Whatever fun you want to have, go and have it starting from now. Every time you say "I'm too tired to go out to this birthday party/office dinner/whatever function", you are reducing your chances of meeting people (we are no longer in the days of Tobit, husbands don't see you praying in your window and knock your father's door down demanding your hand in marriage ). GO OUT THERE AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE. If things don't work out, at least you won't have spent your life sitting in one spot, waiting for a bus to arrive that wasn't coming. I speak from experience and that of my sisters and friends. All the best OP. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Joniboi(m): 10:53am On Mar 21, 2015 |
searching4love:He he he he! Whenever I see you posts, even before reading them I know you are out to give it hot to our Nigerian girls. Mr Foreing girls, I am begging on their behalf, please pity them small even though I know that you are always on point with your comments at times 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 21, 2015 |
chubbypearl:d rejections may have led to the current situation. Meanwhile, ur brother dey there... link them. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:56am On Mar 21, 2015 |
RedBenson:Story for the gods!no be only market,na shoprite! |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 10:58am On Mar 21, 2015 |
plendil: |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by pbs4real(m): 10:59am On Mar 21, 2015 |
centmichael101:gbagaun!! |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by chubbypearl(f): 11:06am On Mar 21, 2015 |
ferdimako:so?even if she reject them,how you won take that one help am?no bring my brother come here oooo,i no mention anything about family for here |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by otunbadan(m): 11:14am On Mar 21, 2015 |
searching4love: Ode |
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