donpeey22:
This has been puzzling me for sometimes now. I need to be convinced on why it is worthwhile for a guy to go out of his to marry and commit to a Nigerian girl. With their level of materialism I don't consider it worthy to commit to any Nigerian girl. I just feel that they won't be in the relationship for genuine reason but for what they stand to gain financially and socially. That is why they always prioritize money and fame. So, this fact kills my morale each I time I try to convince myself to get into a relationship. Not that I am that broke but the thought that the girl is coming only for the money or what she can benefit from the relationship discourages me a lot.

Pls I need mature advice on how to handle this feeling and commit to a girl. Thanks in advance.

Orijin101:
Take a look at the foolish question you are asking!
SMH

ITbomb:
Change the company of girls you keep and where you pick them.

You can't keep drinking water from the gutters and keep complaining that all waters in Nigeria is dirty

donpeey22:
This has been puzzling me for sometimes now. I need to be convinced on why it is worthwhile for a guy to go out of his to marry and commit to a Nigerian girl. With their level of materialism I don't consider it worthy to commit to any Nigerian girl. I just feel that they won't be in the relationship for genuine reason but for what they stand to gain financially and socially. That is why they always prioritize money and fame. So, this fact kills my morale each I time I try to convince myself to get into a relationship. Not that I am that broke but the thought that the girl is coming only for the money or what she can benefit from the relationship discourages me a lot.

Pls I need mature advice on how to handle this feeling and commit to a girl. Thanks in advance.

donpeey22:
See them who.res claiming to be angels on Nairaland

I wonder who the gold diggers we meet every day on streets are.

Hypocrites!!!

Abeg, barman bring one beer come this table

ronald4lif:
Most materialistic women becomes less materialistic after marriage. There's a sense of responsibility, family planning and a different view to life entirely when someone is in a relationship and when they are married. You think a woman will know how much you earn and will not plan the daily running of the family in way that will accommodate the husband budget (if she's not working)?. When she knows they have kids to fed, rents, and other welfare to meet up? Man, it's your choice to make though but this reason is not substantial enough to scare you off marrying a Nigerian woman. Except you may want to come up with something better.

ivyy:



You are far too kind

Dekatron:
Well, it depends on HOW you see the girls. Okay, granted. Nigerian girls are materialistic, tell me : IS YOUR NIGERIAN SISTER MATERIALISTIC? WAS YOUR NIGERIAN MUM MATERIALISTIC? Listen boss, it NOT about accusing the girls.

THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF MATTERS ALOT TOO. Are you someone that drives a TOYOTA VENZA, HAVE iPHONE6+& SAMSUNG S6? and a smiling BANK ACCOUNT? and when you wanna approach, all you do is FLAUNT and SHOW OFF?
You cannot smear your body with VEGGIE OIL THAT WAS USED TO FRY FISH,& EXPECT THAT RATS WONT COME.


*In my Ex' voice : 'ODIKWA IMPOSSIBLE'

donpeey22:
Bros all girls are the same including my mum and sisters. They are annoyingly materialistic. Tell me, how can I genuinely love a girl knowing fully well that he's in the relationship for the money not for any love!

Dekatron:
i get you.


CHANGE YOUR MENTALITY ABOUT NIGERIAN GIRLS. YOU ARE SEEING THINGS, JUST LIKE TERRORISTS(NO OFFENCE).


searching4love. . . Oya see

Dekatron:
i get you.


CHANGE YOUR MENTALITY ABOUT NIGERIAN GIRLS. YOU ARE SEEING THINGS, JUST LIKE TERRORISTS(NO OFFENCE).


searching4love. . . Oya see

donpeey22:
My guy I am trying to change the mentality but it's not easy.

It annoys me when I think of the fact that the girl is in the relationship because she sees that I have the money and not that she truly loves me and desires to be in the relationship.

Most of them are only after the money yet they expect a guy to commit and be faithful to them, when I can use the same money to buy as much more pvssies as I want.

#It'sNotEasyToCommitToaNaijaGirl#

prettyjo:
and some people took their time to advice him.
who cares if you Dont want to marry a Nigerian girl
mstcheww