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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
blackiridis:

bros u get sense
Thanks smiley
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 24, 2015
Vince77:
abi?
Yea. . .
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:21pm On Mar 24, 2015
joliej:


don't worry you're not mature, when you are you would know how to face your fears and live up to them. for now... just bask in your reverie
the only thing that is mature in your life is your make-up.

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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 24, 2015
jumman:
Oshisko, abeg go go siddon, if ur dad was scared would he have married your mother, and would your mother have given birth to you?

His dad married his mom with full confidence coz way back then gals don't behave d way you modern Oloshos r behaving now. Majority of una too heartless and corrupt this generation.

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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by rhames(m): 2:32pm On Mar 24, 2015
like seriously? I wonder if you are a man at all or just hanging that instrument in your trousers for decoration.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by claudia001(f): 2:45pm On Mar 24, 2015
:ofact that u paid her bride price doesn't make her an object for ur personal use.
Pvin:


Then don't be scared since you have got purchasing power. As for me, something I bought with my money will always be my subject thereby obeying and answerable to me so long I takes good care of it else.... Story 4 d gods
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:46pm On Mar 24, 2015
Burnnotice:
Bro two wrongs don't make a right....if its not in your plan doesn't mean you should make her erase it out of her plan' #nobadblood + #amnewhere smiley
i see
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:49pm On Mar 24, 2015
Stelvin101:


His dad married his mom with full confidence coz way back then gals don't behave d way you modern Oloshos r behaving now. Majority of una too heartless and corrupt this generation.
that's why I tell the mumu say she go dey addend people wedding still she grow old. As if you know. This generation of vipers
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Pvin: 2:50pm On Mar 24, 2015
claudia001:
:ofact that u paid her bride price doesn't make her an object for ur personal use.

So she should be meant for public use(like public toilet) please don't quote me if my point is not clear to u.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by ifeomaekol(f): 2:52pm On Mar 24, 2015
Pvin:


Then don't be scared since you have got purchasing power. As for me, something I bought with my money will always be my subject thereby obeying and answerable to me so long I takes good care of it else.... Story 4 d gods
sorry for the woman u ll marry.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 24, 2015
@ op. If you study this thread. You go see say na women dey give you insult pass. No mind them Group of female goat.


Most of them never still marry even at the age of 37.

So them dey pure there frustration on you.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Pvin: 2:58pm On Mar 24, 2015
ifeomaekol:
sorry for the woman u ll marry.

Even when I takes good care of her which is what every woman craves for.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by MDelgado(m): 3:04pm On Mar 24, 2015
daviyjones:
I will take my chances.

You won't have them..
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 3:10pm On Mar 24, 2015
DeRay98:


would you be one of his concubines?
eww no undecided do I even know him.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 3:11pm On Mar 24, 2015
Why are you scared when ur not ready?
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by chillian(f): 3:12pm On Mar 24, 2015
If you are scared then ask God to direct you pick up courage.one you have to bear in mind is that marriage is the coming together of two imperfect people to make things work out and then correct each to become perfect

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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Karleb(m): 3:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
A times I wonder if our ladies think this way.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by yomi007k(m): 3:34pm On Mar 24, 2015
Broda, I guess I'm even more scared than u are.
If u be guy n u no fear naija women then u don't know wats up.
Ur scared cos u know wats up...and that's good for ur safety.
Ur perfectly normal bro.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Mar 24, 2015
daviyjones:
Am scared of the idea of stucking with one woman for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life.

and we all know a woman will never show Her true colour until she is in, what if she Is a nagging woman am I going to live with that for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life? Am sure that man won't hit 50years.


Am scared!!!!!!

Pray to God to give you the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by RaeMystix: 4:40pm On Mar 24, 2015
@op.
You aren't the only one........ Although, i'm very lucky to be raised and brought up with parents who loves, respect and cherish each other, but also knows that marriage isn't rosy. That scares the crap out of me. Knowing that first I have to get over the touch of settling and making sure I take some crap ( I hate baggage ), in addition to that, deal with some difficult family members?.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by nkemdi89(f): 5:10pm On Mar 24, 2015
Change most of your friends maybe you re friends to mostly single guys and try to have more married people be it male or female as friends that may condition your mind into settling down also if you feel there are some things you want to achieve and marriage may stop you follow your heart cos this life is too short, meanwhile it depends on the type of girls you date too preferable a working class who is not over ambituous will be better for you and finally go and join your town union meeting so that you will attend lot of family oriented ceremony. Final bullet quit clubbing for now.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 5:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
yomi007k:
Broda, I guess I'm even more scared than u are.
If u be guy n u no fear naija women then u don't know wats up.
Ur scared cos u know wats up...and that's good for ur safety.
Ur perfectly normal bro.
.....seconded
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by ifeomaekol(f): 5:27pm On Mar 24, 2015
Pvin:


Even when I takes good care of her which is what every woman craves for.
better change ur views, a woman isn't a property, a woman u ll marry is supposed to complement u, and u dnt address pple as 'it'. For ur own good, change.
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Adaezeagu(f): 5:28pm On Mar 24, 2015
smileyI dont nagg
am very loving
cum marry me
daviyjones:
Am scared of the idea of stucking with one woman for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life.

and we all know a woman will never show Her true colour until she is in, what if she Is a nagging woman am I going to live with that for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life? Am sure that man won't hit 50years.


Am scared!!!!!!
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 24, 2015
nkemdi89:
Change most of your friends maybe you re friends to mostly single guys and try to have more married people be it male or female as friends that may condition your mind into settling down also if you feel there are some things you want to achieve and marriage may stop you follow your heart cos this life is too short, meanwhile it depends on the type of girls you date too preferable a working class who is not over ambituous will be better for you and finally go and join your town union meeting so that you will attend lot of family oriented ceremony. Final bullet quit clubbing for now.
smiley smiley smiley
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 5:50pm On Mar 24, 2015
daviyjones:
Am scared of the idea of stucking with one woman for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life.

and we all know a woman will never show Her true colour until she is in, what if she Is a nagging woman am I going to live with that for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life? Am sure that man won't hit 50years.


Am scared!!!!!!
my dear you don't have to be scared I was like dat b4 onnce u meet de one she will convince u nd help u work out ur fears nd by de way deres no woman who doesn't nag but all inn modderation God bless u dear
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by GoodMuyis(m): 5:56pm On Mar 24, 2015
Your fear is not about keeping on woman till eternity, your fears is

* You are not sure yet if you can bear her liabilities
* You fear because of what other say about their marital failures
* You fear maybe she doesnt deserve to have someone like you

Solution had been suggested on 1st page "ATTEND SEMINAR FOR SINGLES"

Grace
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by tunnary(m): 6:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
i'm scared of marriage, it shows ur d soft type. Ur a man nt a woman. If u no ur financialy stable den settledown wit d one u luv nd if she start showin her colours den make u ready for her too. Me i dont tolerate nonsence, woman nor go fit play wit me because of love; u do anyhw u see anyhw
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Ephemmm: 6:53pm On Mar 24, 2015
Pvin:


Mrs. President doesn't nag, rather she stands as a strong pillar beside the husband. A quality I love so much in her. (in every Union, one must come out stronger and the other weaker)

I advice you go for such woman if you want to go far because any man who is scared of marriage is weak.


"Any man who is scared of marriage is weak"

You are wrong by making this assertion. The truth is that this dude is a deep thinker.

Though I am not a psychologist, but I am sure that if an outcome of a thing is so significant to someone and is unknown, anxiety/fear will usually sets in.

Go and ask footballers the anxiety they passed through while playing final or someone writing an exam that will define his destiny.

As for me, I can only advise this dude to be determine and take the calculated risk: there is no success guarantee in any undertaking. Marriage, business, changing of jobs, etc involves risk, but many succeded in them.

Goodluck!

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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by ehis05(m): 10:21pm On Mar 24, 2015
Don't b scared its nt 4 eternity....its till death do u part...no marriage 4 heaven or hell
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by SangoCrusader: 10:36pm On Mar 24, 2015
daviyjones:
Am scared of the idea of stucking with one woman for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life.

and we all know a woman will never show Her true colour until she is in, what if she Is a nagging woman am I going to live with that for eternity,forever, for the rest of my life? Am sure that man won't hit 50years.


Am scared!!!!!!

Boss, I'm 29 as well and make sure you chop as much as possible before considering marriage. I think you have another 7 years before you commit to one of these females... and even then, you must find a wife that will let you play away once in a while. 1 woman for life doesn't work in the world any longer...
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Suzyky4u(f): 8:48am On Mar 25, 2015
Pvin:


Then don't be scared since you have got purchasing power. As for me, something I bought with my money will always be my subject thereby obeying and answerable to me so long I takes good care of it else.... Story 4 d gods

Na your type woman dey tie like wrapper. Well, why am I wondering? It's your culture. If your mama and sisters na commodity, why wouldn't you want to buy a wife? undecided

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