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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Apr 02, 2015
Vivly:
Why na? grin
Curiosity na bastard sometimes.
I saw the book trending on goodreads and I wanted to know why. I must read a straight romance book today.
pls do.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Apr 02, 2015
Dnarvaez:

Wrong statement!

Ur opinion luv is worth nothing to me. So hold onto it tight.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Daughterzion(f): 8:05pm On Apr 02, 2015
Vivly:
Why na? grin
Curiosity na bastard sometimes.
I saw the book trending on goodreads and I wanted to know why. I must read a straight romance book today.
wats d title
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Vivly(f): 8:10pm On Apr 02, 2015
Daughterzion:
wats d title
Something like summer.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by lezz(m): 9:36pm On Apr 02, 2015
craziebone:


are other paraphilias like bestiality and pedophilia natural too?
be careful bro, you're hitting on a very delicate spot. I think she's speaking from personal experience judging from the intensity of her tone.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by belac: 9:52pm On Apr 02, 2015
ronald4lif:
Mehn, I got no power for religious propagandists this cold afternoon.

They always beat me to it each time I air my views related to this issue.

Bounces out
are you an Atheists or Agnostics, because you don't see to agreed religious argument here
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by lezz(m): 9:53pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:


I think the dim-wit here is you.

It seems you don't know the difference between Natural and Abnormal

The fact that someone has a certain sexual preference since birth doesn't rule off the fact that that particular sexual preference is abnormal.

I am done arguing with you.
Please don't quote or mention me , because if you do, the both of us would get a ban.
He's right.
Stop trying to sell recycled statement of gay thesis. It will never fly.

But who would blame you; you may be speaking of personal experience. And your metre for gauging morality, right and wrong is as loose as the tongue of a babbling toddler.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:


Yes in most cases they are

What would you say about a necrophiliac who since approaching purberty has been sexually attracted to corpses.
Or a male Pedophiliac who has always been attracted to little children. Would you say that it is not natural, or that it was a choice he made?
I would say a capital "NO" to that

That is the same way it is for a homosexual!

what about female pedophilia, they are not natural?

What your opponents are confused about is your stance on homosexuality. Yes you think it is natural but do you think it should be an acceptable alternative lifestyle?

The problem i have with the LGBT movement is that they want us to see their homosexual behaviour to be as ok as heterosexual behaviour. They have succeeded in bullying the APA into delisting homosexuality as a paraphilia.

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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 02, 2015
Lala247:
I got a gay friend
N its a lifestyle choice for him cuz his ex was a chic undecided

maybe he was doubting his sexuality at the time he was going out with his chic. Or maybe he is bisexual
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 02, 2015
craziebone:


maybe he was doubting his sexuality at the time he was going out with his chic. Or maybe he is bisexual

No he doesnt even look at girls now
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 02, 2015
DarkAngel86:


Ur opinion luv is worth nothing to me. So hold onto it tight.
Pardon. Did you just say love is of no worth to you or that was just a
typo-error? I seriously don't really know if you really meant what you typed up there or maybe you've been badly hurt by someone who you love dearly.
None can do without love becoz it rules all situations. Love:
1. Endures
2. Does not hate
3. Heals deep wounds
4. Is Patient... I can continue to go on and on about it... Pls do ensure you show some love to someone and they sure will reciprocate it someday.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Apr 02, 2015
Omg. Pls stop quoting me.

If you know so much about "Love" then love you're fellow human and let gay people be proud of their sexuality.

Ps
I said your opinion, is worth nothing to me.


Dnarvaez:

Pardon. Did you just say love is of no worth to you or that was just a
typo-error? I seriously don't really know if you really meant what you typed up there or maybe you've been badly hurt by someone who you love dearly.
None can do without love becoz it rules all situations. Love:
1. Endures
2. Does not hate
3. Heals deep wounds
4. Is Patient... I can continue to go on and on about it... Pls do ensure you show some love to someone and they sure will reciprocate it someday.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Apr 02, 2015
DarkAngel86:
Omg. Pls stop quoting me.

If you know so much about "Love" then love you're fellow human and let gay people be proud of their sexuality.

Ps
I said your opinion, is worth nothing to me.


Alright then

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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by martineverest(m): 12:37am On Apr 03, 2015
Its actually d environment,if u check,its either he grew up with women,he was always in midst of women or his father wasnt arount......we were born into dis world without sexual orientation and not knowing what sex is.growing up,our life style esp,who we associate with;our envronment determines where our sexual orientation switches to.....a boy of 2yrs of ages dat grew up with girls till age like 10 is likely to act like a woman,thereby changing his sexual orientaion.likewise a woman.....no one was born gay or straight,its actually d environment dat determines our lifestyle.even adam and eve lived 2geda without knowing about sex,until a third party was involed
PunkyOh:
I believe it's natural because there's this 10 year old little boy I know & he already "acts gay". All the signs are there, even his mom has made peace with the fact that he is not like other boys. All his friends are girls. He screams & makes sounds just like a girl, for the lack of better words. The boy is straight up girly. His mom says he started showing signs at a young age. At age 3 he'd ask his mom to tie a shoe with a towel behind his back, as if he was carrying a baby & etc.

Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 7:01am On Apr 03, 2015
Lala247:


No he doesnt even look at girls now

that's exactly what i mean. Maybe at the time he was going out with his lady lover, he was doubting his sexuality if he was straight or gay. It could also be that he has always known he is gay but tried to roll with girls and see if he could change but after some time, got convinced he won't change and eventually settled for what he thiks he is. It could also be that he rolled with girls all these while because he was afraid of being judged by the people around.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by funlord(m): 7:20am On Apr 03, 2015
@lezz! U 2 much my guy! @ least u can also see thru her "smoke and mirrors dundee united based assessment"! Missclasshit made a grave error yesterday by trying 2 mess wit a wu tang dude like me and dats y I had to behead her and her lezbo trash thesis! Keep running b***h! I'm on your ass! Yur carcass is mine! Lol!

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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Daughterzion(f): 7:46am On Apr 03, 2015
Wai wait am confused here. Is gayism the act of changing ones sexuality or the act of sex btw the same sex. Make persn elaborate
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:02am On Apr 03, 2015
lordthree:
are you gay? and yes homosexuality is a lifestyle, why didnt we ever hear of homosexuality in the olden days.
hmmmm....
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:08am On Apr 03, 2015
Babygal4eva:


That really isn't true at all but to argue with a homophobe is a waste of anybodies time, like you have any morality to begin with.

It could be natural and it could be due to his/her environment and all that. Being different doesn't make you abnormal it just makes you special but being a pig headed prude like funlord makes you an ignoramus.
So you mean being GAY makes you special?

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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:08am On Apr 03, 2015
Babygal4eva:


That really isn't true at all but to argue with a homophobe is a waste of anybodies time, like you have any morality to begin with.

It could be natural and it could be due to his/her environment and all that. Being different doesn't make you abnormal it just makes you special but being a pig headed prude like funlord makes you an ignoramus.
So,you mean being GAY makes you special?

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Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:11am On Apr 03, 2015
Vivly:
I read a full gay book yesterday and I think it has messed up my head. Seriously searching for a reversal.
what were the key points?...can u pls just summarize here?
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:22am On Apr 03, 2015
justmag:
Let me educate you. In the gay community, alot of people will call homosexuality natural. They only say this because they feel they have felt that way since birth. However, it is more natural and normal for a man to be sexuallly attracted to a woman. On the other hand,most people will not call gay people normal and this depends on your beliefs. Most people are gay due to different conditions, for example,

1. a man who was raised and brought mostly around girls,

2.a woman who has been hurt by soo many men and believes there are no good men out there permanently. Women look for greener pastures amongst women instead

3. Finally! There are those who just do it for adventure. They try it and like it. Like Katie perry said. ""I KISSED A GIRLS AND I LIKE IT!""

so calling it natural will be a stretch!

undecided
4.Some people do it as a form of business and as a means of livelihood.....They make money by being gays...not because they want to be gays buh just because"they think"it's lucrative...taking from experience/s
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Vivly(f): 8:23am On Apr 03, 2015
TheChosenOne1:
what were the key points?...can u pls just summarize here?
sorry I can't.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:26am On Apr 03, 2015
martineverest:
Its actually d environment,if u check,its either he grew up with women,he was always in midst of women or his father wasnt arount......we were born into dis world without sexual orientation and not knowing what sex is.growing up,our life style esp,who we associate with;our envronment determines where our sexual orientation switches to.....a boy of 2yrs of ages dat grew up with girls till age like 10 is likely to act like a woman,thereby changing his sexual orientaion.likewise a woman.....no one was born gay or straight,its actually d environment dat determines our lifestyle.even adam and eve lived 2geda without knowing about sex,until a third party was involed
Environmental Determinism.....
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by justmag(m): 8:27am On Apr 03, 2015
TheChosenOne1:
4.Some people do it as a form of business and as a means of livelihood.....They make money by being gays...not because they want to be gays buh just because"they think"it's lucrative...taking from experience/s


noooooo way. Are you serious? This is news to me. Mind explaining how that's lucrative. Like are gay dudes in demand or something?? If that's the case. I think i need to move to Mars because there's no hope for humanity. undecided
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:40am On Apr 03, 2015
justmag:



noooooo way. Are you serious? This is news to me. Mind explaining how that's lucrative. Like are gay dudes in demand or something?? If that's the case. I think i need to move to Mars because there's no hope for humanity. undecided
Dude....I'm sooo sooo serious...it's 101%real...no be say dem say,it's something I'm seeing with my bare eyes...Just bcoz his parent aren't that okay as a result of this,sending money to himat times is always difficult,he ventured into it...one of his boos recently got him an iphone 5 and an expensive wrist watch on his birthday..Don't just know what the world is turning into...May God have his way in our lives..
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 8:53am On Apr 03, 2015
And to all those saying it's natural!...is wearing of bum shorts,crop tops also natural coz most of the gay lords in my school wear bum shorts on their streets to banking halls..Must you dress like a woman before you can be identified as a gay?coz most gays abroad,I don't think they dress like women..quote me wrong pls...
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Daughterzion(f): 9:49am On Apr 03, 2015
TheChosenOne1:
And to all those saying it's natural!...is wearing of bum shorts,crop tops also natural coz most of the gay lords in my school wear bum shorts on their streets to banking halls..Must you dress like a woman before you can be identified as a gay?coz most gays abroad,I don't think they dress like women..quote me wrong pls...
does gay mean changing ur sex or having sex with the same sex?
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by lezz(m): 9:56am On Apr 03, 2015
funlord:
@lezz! U 2 much my guy! @ least u can also see thru her "smoke and mirrors dundee united based assessment"! Missclasshit made a grave error yesterday by trying 2 mess wit a wu tang dude like me and dats y I had to behead her and her lezbo trash thesis! Keep running b***h! I'm on your ass! Yur carcass is mine! Lol!
her lame attempt at rationalizing a taboo in the pretence of moral sophistication has exposed her as someone who lack the ability to differentiate between right and wrong.

her logical bankruptcy and aggressive attitude depict her as a low intelligent specie who hasn't grasped the essense of her wowanhood.

She is a cancer to young female children who have the right to know what normal relations exist between a man and a woman.

There are many like her who I have termed the internet book haram; Who spun their ignorance and perversion on innocent readers.

I have dedicated myself to their pursuit.
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 03, 2015
craziebone:


that's exactly what i mean. Maybe at the time he was going out with his lady lover, he was doubting his sexuality if he was straight or gay. It could also be that he has always known he is gay but tried to roll with girls and see if he could change but after some time, got convinced he won't change and eventually settled for what he thiks he is. It could also be that he rolled with girls all these while because he was afraid of being judged by the people around.

Its true sha

Cuz i can walk around unclad self he wont even flinch ,, but if its a guy different story . Yh so r u saying his bern gay all along n he might have been born with it?
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by TheChosenOne1: 10:30am On Apr 03, 2015
Daughterzion:
does gay mean changing ur sex or having sex with the same sex?
That is what I don't get too...I believe you being a gay shouldn't stop u from maintaining"the person" you are(it shouldn't change the way u dress especially the clothes you wear)...buh I'm surprised it's been the oda way round amongst naija gays....Well,that's by the way though!
Re: Please Help! Is Homosexualism Natural Or A Chosen Lifestyle? by Nobody: 10:48am On Apr 03, 2015
Daughterzion:
Wai wait am confused here. Is gayism the act of changing ones sexuality or the act of sex btw the same sex. Make persn elaborate
One sexuality can never change.
It's either you were born that way or nothing.

Gayism is never an act of having sex. It's having sexual feelings for same sex.

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