I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

no nt r[color=#550000][/color]eally

no nt really

Yes, you are wrong. As long you are not working for yourself, you need to learn to 'suck up' to your boss, especially in our kind of environment (Nigeria). Sorry man, goodluck at your next job.

yhu wernt wrong and at dsame tym u were,

Yhu knew who her father is and d big project ahead of u, u shuld av put all dez into consideration and at least please her,

Maybe afta d whole project stuff, u fit come do "igara chicken" for d crazie lady.

dude you are wrong...she ain't your girlfriend who you can form alpha male for. Dust your cv and include carrying of bags as your special skill

ekpe,u dull,u for cary am na,u for form mugu for am,u fit get luck she cal u cum do d tin,wen she dey huny,if u dey do am like dat always u fit get luck she mary u

you are too proud..
You can even get better payment if you just carry it and joke with her like..
Girls sha.. See big bag like say no be wrapper de inside.. Just simple..

You were wrong. Write her an apology letter.

..Man has got sm big ego.. Or she has a serious crush on d lady... If u knw u cnt work unda sm1... Y dnt U try b Ur own boss.. Consider is as a part of mistake dt makes Us grow n learn more... U shud Jst 4gt it n move on bro.. Goodluck!

You are very wrong, insurbodinated abd covetous. How can your boss give you Instruction and you immediately start coquetting? You are on your own. You want to be Joseph without knowing how to dream.

She's yur boss.... So yu were so wrong

my dear...at tyms one has to bend to d wishes of odas...in other to acheive ones goal...so u were wrng...

You weren't wrong. It was never stated in the offer letter that you job description included carrying her hand bag. She has inferiority complex and she could only overcome it by seeing you do attend to her domestic needs. She wanted to cross the line and you didn't let her. That's the same way some people get to start doing uncomplimentary things to keep their jobs. You were a man.
Don't feel bad,other jobs will turn up.

I will do the same 100 times you are right bro............A man has to be a man,I cant sell my birthright because of food.

drfk001:
dude you are wrong...she ain't your girlfriend who you can form alpha male for. Dust your cv and include carrying of bags as your special skill

hahahahahahaha! U r wicked o!

eyeview:
You weren't wrong. It was never stated in the offer letter that you job description included carrying her hand bag. She has inferiority complex and she could only overcome it by seeing you do attend to her domestic needs. She wanted to cross the line and you didn't let her. That's the same way some people get to start doing uncomplimentary things to keep their jobs. You were a man.
Don't feel bad,other jobs will turn up.

Kolade354:
I will do the same 100 times you are right bro............A man has to be a man,I cant sell my birthright because of food.

@klark3, I believe the above quoted responses are from sane human beings like you. Nigerians have gone to the gutters to be slaves just to have their daily bread, but God is your strength. Just ensure you be more diplomatic and trust in God for your future.

People are different, so I will not blame him if he doesn't carry it, but its weird if she just hands over her bag to you to carry, and your boss doesn't have manners. People like that, will take it personal if there man or brother is told to do something like that. it doesn't seem right. For that kind of thing to happen I believe there should be a level of friendship/relationship between the 2 of you. The secretary to my big oga, I do help her carry her bag, of cause she will say, ayo please help me drop my bag in the office, she's older than I am, although am her senior in heirachy but I don't see anything there, although we kind of close. if she had to told him in an appealing manner the dude might have just carry it.

I'm sorry, why is this in the romance section?
Meanwhile. . . You were not wrong. . . Except she was older than you.

saintneo:

@klark3, I believe the above quoted responses are from sane human beings like you. Nigerians have gone to the gutters to be slaves just to have their daily bread, but God is your strength. Just ensure you be more diplomatic and trust in God for your future.

Thanks man.

I believe you need get a lawyer and sue her for wrongful dismissal. Enough with people been slaved just because.

No worry, your new president has promised more jobs......just rearrange your CV and wait for May 29th.

Guy, you are more than wrong.. She is your boss and not your gf.. Even if she is. Younger than you, you have to carry it..

klark3:
I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

Nt only dt u r wrong but U r too dull

It is not in the company's rules and regulation u shud carry your boss handbag.

U have not done anything wrong. She needs a puppet and she thought that puppet can be you.

I appreciate d fact dat u turn down her request.

U neva carry your mama bag let alone your wife/gf. Nah one arrogant bi*ch u wan do boi boi for. Ur head correct OP.

You were not wrong bro. I would do the same if I was in same condition. Its always to know and define boundaries in a formal setting. Your boss is just proud and arrogant and may start sending you on errand on house chores. RULES OF ENGUAGEMENT is not only for military men.

Bro,you fvcked up big time..

In search of daily bread,there are so many insults,and compromising situation you just have to ignore to get it.

Anybody telling you otherwise is your enemy..

If you have the chance to redeem the situation,please do. Work no dey Nigeria.

Pls he is not wrong. Handbag is not part of the job description.Nigerians just like taking ppl for granted just because they are in a higher position.

Good radiance to bad rubbish abi. You are better of not working to such a place.

Guy u didn't do anyfin wrong, if u had carried the bag, she wud prolly ask u to clean her car for her the nxt day.... She nids a maid to do those petty stuffs for her if she can't do it...... U can try appologize if u still nid d job, buh make ur sef abundantly clear, u av a certificate and u aint an errand boy....I always wonder if the pple in the developed world behave like naija bosses, hmmmm---It won't be funny... Its in naija u see a lecturer using and insulting MSC and Phd students like slaves and sub-humans.......... If anyone tells u, you r wrong, tell them u don't av dia kind of slave mentality..... U shudnt become a monkey cos of wat u will eat

rokiatu:

dat YANSH is fit for a doggy style. U dn't even need to bend ya kneels and touch ur toes@ya dp.