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Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by sukkot: 6:28pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
me myself i would accept the bag and then smash it on the floor and tear it to pieces, maybe even piss in it and then walked out of the job. i may even include a dirty slap. but thats just me 3 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by EcoTerror: 6:30pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
All these people wey dey blame dis guy na lazy people. How una want my guy to dey carry him boss bag like naija police. My guy study architecture wey no be beans oo. If d woman ask my guy to carry bag today tomao na to ask am to hold pikin for am. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Anyway sha, you for bring yourself low a bit, especially looking at the project ahead. There is a time for everything. Office is no place for ego, especially when you are under someone. #Humility Just think of the waiters who you ask to serve you food when you go to a restaurant. Aren't they human beings too? But it's their job to be patient with customers and wait on them and fetch things. You coulda played it off with humour. It's not like you're trying to toast her (don't even go there), so the hangup of "obeying a woman" shouldn't even play in your mind. Na your oga. Simple. Whoever in the office wants to laugh at you over it will in short time become one of your sub-ordinates. In the west, you can form that one because you would have the law behind you and all that. But even here, people suck up to boss. Talk less of NAIJA. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: Dumbo |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by kaboninc(m): 6:31pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
bukatyne: Hey Buky, That's being not proud joor. He did pretend not to listen and the boss could have also pretended that he pretended not to have heard her. Loll But sacking him for that? Its best that way sef because I tell you, more is yet to come. I am very jovial and command strong humor in the office. But eye service, I no dey do am. I could meet my boss in the elevator (even the Chairman) but all man must carry him load. Some issues are really non-issues. I hope you are not like that too.... 3 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by JustCare: 6:31pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
You were wrong. Write her an apology letter.are you really a nobody how come your username is this way |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by oshaosha2014(m): 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
eyeview: You made an earth shattering sense! Thank you for this. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
You were wrong. Write her an apology letter.How you take don am? I no fit click your username. Which form of magic you dey use? 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Justfollowit:See this clueless ahole! You've picked the wrong person to mess with |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Seun(m): 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04:Only a cocky employee thinks he/she is the "contemporary" of his/her boss. A woman would have received lectures on submissiveness. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Abeg somebody help me. Who get that username "by nobody" I no fit torch he profile |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Dotmanroy(m): 6:34pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3:Yesso |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by oshaosha2014(m): 6:34pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
eyeview: How can I like this your comment more than once at the same time. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bukatyne(f): 6:34pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
kaboninc: I do not like eye service but once in a blue moon, I bend for my boss. Since his boss asked, he should have helped. Even people in position of power seemly wait on others for favors. All these big people even do leg service more than then junior ones. A little humility helps. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by watchindelta(m): 6:35pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
If nah me I go suck crazy commot 4 her left breast na witch dey worry her |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Filmdirect: 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Look! You men need to stop this woman thing! Women are not going back to the kitchen! He said she wouldn't be there if not it was her father's company. So? It's like telling Ivanka Trump that you will not respect her because she is only working in her father's company because it is her father. She will fire you and put word on the street and no one would hire you in New York. Why do parents work hard? so they can pass off something to their kids and their kids will not start from scratch. It is happening all over the world. Are we dreaming in Nigeria? Her father worked and created a company so she can be boss and not struggle the same route he did. Is Dangote's son not going to be above his mates? or Babangida's son and daughters. Am i not working hard on my business so my sons will start off ahead? you are not her contemporary. She is your boss and is paying your salary. If you want to be her equal, go and open your own business and call the shots. Till then humble yourself, be diplomatic in taking your stand or be fired. We sound like we live in the stone age! Your problem is she is a woman. That is what is affecting mens' egos. She was born a woman and will not grovel on the floor because the opposite gender has a problem with what God made her to be. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by sharpchap: 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
my broda if madam gif you her bag, carry am after all if na ya senior sister or aunty nko? nothing dey there oooo. she trusts you thats why. women dont give their bags to just anyone. you come fall her hand. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by nduchucks: 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Oga, you were fired for insubordination. You should have been smart enough to talk to her privately about how you feel humiliated about her requests first, instead of being rude to her by ignoring her request. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by frank043(m): 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
eschewevil91: You talk and reason very well. I'm of the same school of thought. The dude did what any 'normal' fellow ought to have done. Its even outrageous to say you sacked your staff cos 'he didn't carry you bad'. If she thinks her staff should do this,only God knows how she uses her driver,cooks,gateman,gardeners etc. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Ifeann(f): 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: U are not wrong.. u had every right to ignore her... frist she says carry her bag, next she will ask u to go buy her food or other petty errands... She has an inferiority complex and could not handle the disregard u showed her for her stupi.dity.. Be bold, pray and get another job.. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 6:38pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
You were wrong for getting a job there in the first place. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 6:38pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Seun:I think the word "contemporary" totally obliterates the gender cause you're trying to push. Its wrong for someone, anyone(male or female) that is about the same age and probably has the same qualificatioins as you to push you around. The OP and the "Boss" are both architects. The only edge she has over him is that its her fathers company. Gives her no right to turn an architect like herself into an errand boy. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by klark3: 6:38pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sukkot:Am 28, she will be 30 sept this yr, because she celebrated her 29th birthday sept last year. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by SonOfDavid91(m): 6:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
of course, no matter your age, your height, your status, etc., your BOSS still have the power of authority over you. I hope others will learn from this! Happy good Friday. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
1. So, an architect can not carry his Boss hand bag ? 2. What if your Boss was a man, would you have carried his hand bag if he asked you to ? If the answer to the second question is Yes, then you have a problem with humility. The fact that you carry people's hand bag today does not make you incapable of owning your own business tomorrow. My first Boss was a woman, a sadistic one at that. I worked from 7am to 11pm daily sometimes I worked on sundays. For her, she believed she was using me, but for me, I was learning business strategies. Today, I could say I am richer than her in geometric proportion. Pride goes before a fall. Learn from this and make your life easy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: Bwahahaha, my belle o I.diot! Emasculated man |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
jaykaylegend: You won bring slavery come Nigeria by. Why are you like this. There is no agreement that said carry her bag. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: Bwahahaha, my belle o Who you be? I.diot! Emasculated man |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by jaykaylegend(m): 6:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Drabrah:at least you came down to my level... We are in Nigeria so everybody trys to take advantage of being a boss to somebody..#naija_made |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Ifeann(f): 6:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: Justfollowit is a st.upid girl who makes a hobby of being rude on nairaland. . Forget her 1 Like |
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