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Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
dollarlander:If indeed pride made you fall, the same pride will get you back on your feet. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Kolade354(m): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
InvertedHammer:So because she has been giving her free ride,He is now Obliged to carry Handbag............Pls Dont quote me again cosit is obvious you are not in line with me. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by NET1(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
I don't understand some people here. Is that part of his Job Description? Why would she order him to carry her handbag? As her boyfriend, houseboy or wetin? Today, it is 'carry my handbag'. Tomorrow, it will be 'wash my car'. Next tomorrow, 'wash my panties'. Next week, 'prepare my lunch and serve me in bed' PS: Can you imagine? It's even her makeup kit? OP, guy raise your head high abeg. You did nothing wrong jare. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by ucheheart(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Of all the comments, yours is the most reasonable. Thank you for saying my mind. Others just couldn't reason this way, they were only seeing the need to keep the job and swallow insults. To hell with the job and to hell with the manager. eyeview: 4 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: you're so dumb actually and i'll not in any way insult your father cause i've got a problem with you and not him. By the way i would have felt bad if he's still alive but he is actually resting in peace. So as you can see i still maintain my point that you are realy mad. Mania individual. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
No one can do that to you in a developed country,but in Nigeria,you are damned wrong. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by inyajoegwu: 8:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
[sup][/sup] klark3: klark3: I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare. I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason. I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project. Was I wrong? [not really but next time get a new job before turning such down your boss order] |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Abbey2sam(m): 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sometimes you have to be a puppet to become a puppeteer................make her feel like the puppeteer until you turn turn her into your puppet, you weren't wrong bro, you were not just diplomatic about the situation, you could have carried the hand bag for her; it takes nothing out of your ego after all your ego can not put food on your table, and it wont solve your financial problem either............ [size=38pt] i put it to you that was not your EGO in action, that was PRIDE....[/size] 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by pretty16(f): 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
drfk001: Lmao! Jeez, u are so funny. But really, I don't see why the O.P. Didn't carry the bag. It doesn't take anything from you. He would have even offered without the Boss asking. She would see him as being humble, not a proud person. But now that he has shown pride, look where it Landed him. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Fabdedon:. . What if she doesn't like the joke? Or she's just the mean type? . . @OP.... You're not just wrong but equally Stupeed!... . Why would you feel too big to carry just handbag? I mean HANDBAG?.... Mtchwww... When u carry brown envelope and walk under the sun for months... Your brain will function again...perhaps properlly! |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by andyanders: 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: Yeye man. Money you no get.Your parents, no money and instead of you to cool down and get what you want so that you can one day set up yours and be an employer of labor and you are here trying to feel a big boy when you got nothing and has nothing. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by udysweet(f): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
drfk001: |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by omowest(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
JayKaba: That is salve trade mentality, if u are work under white man u will know what am talking about. Guy u are 100% right, let kill salve trade mentality in AFRICA |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by tit(f): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
eyeview: look at your letter of employment, it often says : any other duties that may be assigned to you. carrying hand bag is one of those any other duties. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Kenyata(m): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Your boss is covered under an item that is always inserted in one's JD that says, "And any other job as may be assigned from time to time". I wont say you've done a bad thing by refusing to carry her bag neither will I say you did a good thing judging by the JD item I qouted above. It's a matter of principle. The tendency is always there to refuse such task if you personally won't do such to a surbodinate. I pray you get another job soon but always remember that item. Most bosses and employers hide under it to turn you to an errand boy. It's not entirely without the other positive side though, a test of attitude like someone mentioned earlier. So, if you are unwilling to be your own boss soon, then I'm afraid, you may have to do it next time! |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: But were you don hear say Jesus carry woman bag for Bible. Or dey do slavery things. He job na to come die. Nothing much nothing less. So stop this your fake preaching |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 8:46pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
andyanders:SMH for u. I'm very sure you're someone's driver. Am I wrong? And BTW OP is not a driver like you 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by inyajoegwu: 8:46pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
next time make sure you have secured a better job before turning down your boss order. cos I don't tink carrying her bag is a big deal. ;Dnext time make sure you have secured a better job before turning down your boss order. cos I don't tink carrying her bag is a big deal. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:47pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
kelvyn7: I swear, na your generation slavery go start again 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 8:53pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez:Fvck you and fvck your father. I have a problem with him because he didn't bring you up right. So I send you back to him. Cry me a river. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 8:56pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica:Well said. Put the stupîd girl in her place |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Mishydoo(m): 8:57pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: [size=16pt]How old is she?....If ur older dan her den I cn understand why u did what u did... However,dia things about working for some1 u need to learn....A female boss is d worst of individuals,u have to deal with dia complex emotions too...I hope uv learnt ur lessons tho[/size] |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by andyanders: 8:57pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: I will even feed you, your parents and your generation. When your egocentric behavior has taken you and your op friend to the dustbin now, I pity you both.A day will come when you will even wash a woman's underwear and get paid for doing that. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: Look at who was properly brought up! Hmmm dumb ass fool. Please go and sleep. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by dollarlander: 8:59pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: The same pride will finish you just like it finished the devil. Read Proverbs 11:2, proverbs 13:10, proverbs 16:18, proverbs 29:23, 1john2:16 talks about pride of life. If you now read about Lucifer the author of pride, Isaiah 14:12-15 and beyond if you like. God bless you. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
andyanders:See how u stylishly dodged my question. I'll just assume I'm right, you're someone's driver 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by drehdinho(m): 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
jaykaylegend:Hmm! See your mouth. I pity you. So you can be a slave to someone who is as old as your child just because of money. in fact if I were to be the Op , I would do what he did in another manner. I can stylishly leave the environment or deceive her one way or the other. And if I notice her countenance to be sullen afterwards,I will still go ahead and play with her. With that,she won't be able to fire me. My advise for Op is this, learn how to live a sociable life that's what you lacked in that situation. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Opey4luv:Who made that book? Robert greene Is he a human? Yes In some cases of life, you outshine your master sometimes Brother. Go and understands life |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by sammoe(m): 9:03pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
drfk001: Innovation! |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
JayKaba:He is not wrong man! All the poverty mentality! She did that to ridicule him nothing more. Women always trying to prove. something where there is nothing. Give then power, they abuse it to the last. The dude is an architect not a personal guard" 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by eyeview: 9:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: You are a CEO in the making. You have the configurations of an entrepreneur. You have received two sets of advice so far Group 1 are made of fellow CEO minded people like you who have sense of self worth and have abundance mentality Group 2 are the people with servant mentality and are glad they have a job and would do anything for their boss to keep the job. They have scarcity mentality and thus believe 'no job out there' theory. 3 Likes |
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