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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by habeebcole: 11:34pm On Apr 03, 2015
elantraceey:


My dear it does, If a man could lay his own life down for you just because of love then you should be able to forgive anybody .
nt at that very moment nt evn a week after......no matter aw remorseful she is it wont work
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by IDEApro(m): 11:34pm On Apr 03, 2015
I can forgive a cheating wife who came begging accompanied by both parent, the person she cheats with, a clergy man as witness and same confession to all our grown kids.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by megacity: 11:36pm On Apr 03, 2015
she opened her legs wide for another man without remembering she had a husband eh??
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 03, 2015
suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.


Everyone take/see things differently, on man may find so much pride in that another may see it as trash. I think the man should do what he chooses to do, best is for her to learn from the mistake and move on. She confessed, she will live a happy life knowing she holds nothing against him. On the other hand, if he wants a divorce doesn't mean he hasn't forgiven her, it only means he can't trust her. And when there is no trust, of what essence is the marriage for? He would hurt her, rather than do that, he is divorcing her. Which I think is cool.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by lovetwins: 11:37pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
If i was d man..forget d marriage.. Men can cheat and get forgiven but not women cheesy ...
since men can be forgiven, why can't women be forgiven as well? Is there a gender advantage in marriage?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by kajsa(f): 11:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
Some ladies bear 'stupid' as a second name. Dey actually 4get dat its a man's world n a man can get away wif almost anyfing buh d female specie will always be @d receiving end of issues like this....epele o, pray that God'll use super glue on ur marriage.....ndo *idiot*

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by kayalla(f): 11:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
buh francistony,u stupid aff bro..hw many accts do u own?? Nicca Nl wont oay u fot having triple accts

SAMBARRY:
It is only a man that wasn't opportuned to have a mom or good home training that will refer to another person's mother like that. Gutter child

AlphaGentMan:
Ok..u done?
why una come de bring personal beef into this matter now.

make una give the advice wey OP ask, enhen u can fight later OP is waiting
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by roymary: 11:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by elantraceey(f): 11:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
habeebcole:
nt at that very moment nt evn a week after......no matter aw remorseful she is it wont work

Check yourself , you've probably done worst things that you've never admitted to . Every one that errs us deserve a gift of forgiveness and forgiveness even help you more than the person , take it from someone who have been so unforgiving for a long time .

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 03, 2015
kayalla:





why una come de bring personal beef into this matter now.

make una give the advice wey OP ask, enhen u can fight later OP is waiting
Lolz..i tire o,i advice my own little way..she begin rush me..Anyways,Thanks..i don relax since sef

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by nairalife2013(m): 11:40pm On Apr 03, 2015
I hate certain confessions! ...confess to God n let me be. Dont put d home under pressure by telling me stories dat can raise unhealthy anxiety and damage our hearts and affect d kids indirectly or directly. Well, for me I would forgiv her but I ll start living wid her at arm's length.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 03, 2015
suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.


My question is; Why did she open her legs to another man? Was her husband not satisfying her?

Well, for me I don't forgive cheating. I don't know of ur husband.

I'd rather she go to the man whom she opened her legs to and continue to live with him, so that she can continue getting that thing that she couldn't get from her husband, that led her into opening her pussy to a random man.

I see no difference between ashy and the socalled married ashy, cos she does not deserve to be called a woman or lady anymore.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 03, 2015
Na wa o . Sometimes e good make person learn how to get strong mind.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:42pm On Apr 03, 2015
Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo
if you are a married man, i pray ur partner cheats on you severally, only then would you know how it feels
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 03, 2015
IDEApro:
I can forgive a cheating wife who came begging accompanied by both parent, the person she cheats with, a clergy man as witness and same confession to all our grown kids.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by habeebcole: 11:43pm On Apr 03, 2015
elantraceey:


Check yourself , you've probably done worst things that you've never admitted to . Every one that errs us deserve a gift of forgiveness and forgiveness even help you more than the person , take it from someone who have been so unforgiving for a long time .

one like from me to u thumbs up
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:45pm On Apr 03, 2015
I can see guys talking anyhow on this thread like they dont cheat. undecided
You see why one needs to shut up and seek no forgiveness?
If them fuccck outside belle full, them go still get time monitor who fuccck their wife to to. Na just conscience dey worry this woman because I dont see any reason why she even open her mouth confess, the one she tell Baba God never reach?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:47pm On Apr 03, 2015
Emaprince:
you are busy feeling too proud. I think you are the woman. But then, its the man's choice to stay or seperate. Not all men can live with a promiscous woman. I won't even advice any man to do it. Its dangerous and the thought of the woman being shameless enough to spread her legs for another man is enough to quit.

As for the confession part..there are many reasons why she may do that. Its possible her bubbles were about to burst and she decided to confess. Maybe somebody very close to the hubby caught her and she felt the right thing to do is to confess than allowing the man to find out by himself. One pastor's wife who sleeps with her driver confessed after the guy left her due to a quarrel. He threatened to expose her to the hubby with pics, na so the woman run go confess sharpaly...lol..

You dey mind those shameless thing without pride?

She has no dignity at all... she belongs to the dogs.

I bet her children will be so proud to know how she spread her legs to a random man when they grow older if she has any.

Some people sef.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Emaprince: 11:48pm On Apr 03, 2015
elantraceey:


Check yourself , you've probably done worst things that you've never admitted to . Every one that errs us deserve a gift of forgiveness and forgiveness even help you more than the person , take it from someone who have been so unforgiving for a long time .
hmm! You'll make a very good preacher..eerrm councellor...good mother too
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 03, 2015
EggovinMma:
I can see guys talking anyhow on this thread like they dont cheat. undecided
You see why one needs to shut up and seek no forgiveness?
If them fuccck outside belle full, them go still get time monitor who fuccck their wife to to. Na just conscience dey worry this woman because I dont see any reason why she even open her mouth confess, the one she tell Baba God never reach?

Wow! Even you?
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Jahblessme: 11:53pm On Apr 03, 2015
toecyne:

if you are a married man, i pray ur partner cheats on you severally, only then would you know how it feels

Taa kpuchie GI onu there.. Make him cheat naa.He cheats,I cheat we repent and sin no more...Who no want fresh blokos...

Only a man who doesn't cheat deserves a faithful wife and has a right to judge.
For a woman to cheat,she must be frustrated.. Abeegi make we live and let live.

Na dis woman foolish ..confess ko confess ni.Na her husband holy pass?

Must one chop only one soup till death? I'm happy for the women with monstrous husbands who are cheating underground. A man wey de carry mistress steady,his home dey peaceful and calm ask urself why?? she's polishing an agile blokos.

Keep on deceiving urselves,holy nwejes.
If u r a cheat and u quote me,may amadioha strike you with warts and impotence.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by braine(m): 11:54pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
if u not d patient,good and softhearted man..even when she willingly confesses her sin,it wuld make u lose trust on her and u start thinkn,wat if she's been doing it or does it again without my knowledge..
Yes, true, the trust would be damaged. But still, something should work out.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:55pm On Apr 03, 2015
emmyrichie:


Wow! Even you?
Yes na! She should have kept her mouth shut.Now what's the gain? What if he finally sent her out? Abeg no be all secret dem dey open.

I don't support cheating in marriage.But if na relationship, I no send, I cheat if i feel like!
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 03, 2015
braine:
Yes, true, the trust would be damaged. But still, something should work out.
honestly,not with me..pple myt tag me immature but i cnt bear a WIFE(not a gf,cos that 1 is manageable) cheatinv..
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Ewuro4: 11:57pm On Apr 03, 2015
EggovinMma:
I can see guys talking anyhow on this thread like they dont cheat. undecided
You see why one needs to shut up and seek no forgiveness?
If them fuccck outside belle full, them go still get time monitor who fuccck their wife to to. Na just conscience dey worry this woman because I dont see any reason why she even open her mouth confess, the one she tell Baba God never reach?

Goodnes Gracious cheesy
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 03, 2015
Before drawing conclusions on a fragile case as such, we must first inquire if she has repented from her ungodly act and has shown remorse for what she did.. Secondly, the identity of who she slept with is very crucial here cos that will determine if she will stay or be divorced.. If person in question here is a total stranger that is not known to her husband then she's safe but if the person she slept with is her husband's friend or Boss then divorce should be her case cos she crossed the lines...
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 03, 2015
EggovinMma:

Yes na! She should have kept her mouth shut.Now what's the gain? What if he finally sent her out? Abeg no be all secret dem dey open.

I don't support cheating in marriage.But if na relationship, I no send, I cheat if i feel like!

Hmm... what if he later found out on his own; of which he was definitely gonna find out?

Wait! Do you say you re a cheat? Wow! Why do you cheat? Are you an aristo? Sorry to ask, is it that you re kind of a nympho?

Why!!!?
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:59pm On Apr 03, 2015
Weren't she ready to pay for her sins before confessing?
No, you deserve a pat on the back, a crown and a medal undecided
Biko, onye akpasula'm iwe this Holy week sad

That's Penance, take it. It will soothe you if you are indeed remorseful cool

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Ngokafor(f): 11:59pm On Apr 03, 2015
Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo




..this lady sef!!...rotfl grin grin cheesy
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by elantraceey(f): 12:01am On Apr 04, 2015
Emaprince:
hmm! You'll make a very good preacher..eerrm councellor...good mother too

Good mother definitely as for the others errrnmmmmm.......
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by KAYD007(m): 12:01am On Apr 04, 2015
unstoppablemua:


I feel like insulting u for wat u just said but I will just ignore u. u can just imagine, it's not ur fault. the most important thing is that God has forgiven her for confessing the act.

You don't say shocked. You mean you actually saw God pronouncing forgiveness on her?
So, by implication if I murder you tonight God has forgiven me already abi?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by pomsky: 12:02am On Apr 04, 2015
suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

.......why does she expect to be forgiven becos she confessed? Did he promise her that?
When we sin and ask God for forgiveness, we expect Him to forgive us becos He promised to forgive when we confess:
...1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
We expect from man what only God has and gives capacity for.
Let her pray to God to touch him, and his heart will be softened.
Its important to note men all have different capacities. Don't assume the capacity of others!
The wrong things we do and sometimes get away with with God, might not be easily overlooked by man!

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