gospi:
I c a lot of confused people in d house.How can a man be fair to u if he dosnt see u as his equal. Men and women are equal(read colossians). because men are stronger physically dosnt make dem superior beings.
However in marriage the man is the head(leader),dat dosnt make him a superior human being.The God that created men and women says men and women are equal; so u know better than him? because of what ?Ego?
A man would only be fair to his wife if he sees her as equal,cos if he sees u as below him he wud treat u as shuch.
I hav a boss at work and he has employees dosnt mean d boss is a superior human being.He has a superior Role.

Vickybee:

Did I tell you that I want to be like her?

Mtcheew

JudgementHammer:


[s]U sound like u've gone travails from a man. Mayb ur dad brutalized ur mum in ur presence or ur 1st luv betrayed you etc. You u should call on God or a psychologist to help you overcome the effects of such brutality on you. I pity you if you continue like this. I knw some women who put up the nelson mandela's kinda courage for this your kinda mission, they're receiving insults from their fellow women today for being divorced and single parents. Some aren't even married.[/s]

Nneka123:

MzNelly:
Any woman who thinks she and a man should share equal rights has something seriously wrong with her.

The word is fairness.
Treat me like you want to be treated.

Don't talk equality bullsh1t here, cos that sh1t is nonexistent.

Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men.

Dimples192:
The post is confusing because female equality is fighting for fairness.

Don't misunderstand feminism it's a beautiful thing.

Proud card holding feminist right here.

Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men.

freecocoa:
This is sad coming from a woman.

Fairness is not treating people the way you want to be treated, it is being impartial to everyone.

freecocoa:
And you are supposed to be a feminist? Wow!

Vickybee:

I don't understand...

Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men.

gospi:


Dat is Jesus,we are not equal to Jesus,God created men and women and says we are equal. And u "Man" say we are not equal and I'm suppsd to take urs? Please if u lack wisdom ask from God. Be mistaking position for who you are.

Shollypopzz:

Airforce1:


No
Vickybee is not a feminist

She's just an attention seeker

Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men.

MzNelly:


What is sad is seeing foolhardy females trying to place themselves on the same pedestal as men.

freecocoa:
Yea well, I think Equality in marriage is actually good, given that

Equality is simply having the same value despite sex, race and what have you.

Fairness is treating everyone as same.

I don't see how it's feasible to treat your wife the same with everyone.

Vickybee:

I don't understand...

Shollypopzz:


I am still trying to find words for that post...........Jeez!

Thanks, how have you been? Haven't seen you in a bit.

gospi:
I c a lot of confused people in d house.How can a man be fair to u if he dosnt see u as his equal. Men and women are equal(read colossians). because men are stronger physically dosnt make dem superior beings.
However in marriage the man is the head(leader),dat dosnt make him a superior human being.The God that created men and women says men and women are equal; so u know better than him? because of what ?Ego?
A man would only be fair to his wife if he sees her as equal,cos if he sees u as below him he wud treat u as shuch.
I hav a boss at work and he has employees dosnt mean d boss is a superior human being.He has a superior Role.

Vickybee:

Silly overused lines; come with something creative, please.

1) I can't hang out with ladies that make marriage their uptmost priority. So, no avenue for insults.

2) My dad has never beat my mum.

3) I'm still dating my first love. Lubbish!

Vickybee:

Silly overused lines; come with something creative, please.

1) I can't hang out with ladies that make marriage their uptmost priority. So, no avenue for insults.

2) My dad has never beat my mum.

3) I'm still dating my first love. Lubbish!

Airforce1:
LADIES OF TODAY: Anything a man do, I must do too.
There was peace in homes, the society and world at large when ladies have respect for their men. But today, even some modern-day churches encourage wives to claim equal rights with husbands. How sad!


Fortunately, a lady just agreed with what "A certain blogger" complained about. Read her take below:

I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. 
Marriage is not ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Ladies, be careful how you use words that end up entrenching selfishness in your relationship/marriage. 

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway? 

Dear ladies, STOP demanding EQUAL RIGHTS from your man...
preach FAIRNESS (which means ‘treat me as you would treat yourself’). Honestly, I can’t imagine a more magic word!

Nobody (in his right mind) cheats on himself, harms himself, maltreats himself, shortchanges himself or gets violent with himself . Cultivating the marital virtue of fairness will give your marriage not only equality but closeness, and it will require you to continually work both on your own and together – as a couple.



http://www.olufamous.com/2015/04/read-ladys-take-on-woman-claiming-equal.html?utmsource=feedburner&m=1

emog17:
If u say men and women are equal outside marriage then why do u still want guys to treat you special cos you're a lady? If a man doesn't treat you special, you'll still be the one to say he's not a gentleman. Men and women are not equal in or outside marriage, period!

gospi:

Are we talking about everyone or talking about marriage here? Wats the difference between "having the same value despite sex" and treating everyone as same? And u say fairness has notin to do wit equality?U havnt differentiated anytin as far as I'm concrned

freecocoa:
It would be nice, if you
please, tell us why women and men shouldn't be on the same pedestal, thank you.