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To be very honest with you some exs are very hard to get over especially if the relationship was so good and the person treated you so well doing the relationship. I know so cause I have been in similar scenario. Well I am now over him but hes still not over me. I am gonna be very honest with you and tell you how i got over mine.


1 Take it one step at a time, you don't to pretend like you don't miss them because if you do so, you wouldn't move on at all. All you have to do is, keep it to yourself and battle it within your heart. You don't have to let it show that you miss him but allow your heart to miss him, the time will pass trust me

2 Do not contact him. Please don't. Just don't do this. No matter how much you miss him please don't. and even if he does don't respond.
With time he will begin to fade from your life.


3 Concentrate on yourself, improve yourself, and don't rush into any relationship. The time may be slow but surely you will get over him. and beside you just broke up. its just been two months. This is the reminiscing phrase. Things will get better trust me.


Moving on from someone you love and deeply cared about takes time.

Bind and cast the demon outta ur life

Why Did you Break-up with Him?

Get a job.

There's no medicine for a broken heart..Keep your self busy,,,dont stay idle or else u'll keep thinking abt him...time is a great healer...u cant just forget abt someone u'av loved for a very long time in a day..,,its gonna take a while..

PS-jumping into another relationship as quick a possible doesnt work,,trust me!!!!use this break to improve yourself and make urself a better partner for the next guy..

You think about him alot thats why...get into another relationship as soon as possible.

The easiest way to get over a relationship is to get into another one.

Trust me, it works !

Smoke it off with weed
Thank me later

rokiatu:
To be very honest with you some exs are very hard to get over especially if the relationship was so good and the person treated you so well doing the relationship. I know so cause I have been in similar scenario. Well I am now over him but hes still not over me. I am gonna be very honest with you and tell you how i got over mine.


1 Take it one step at a time, you don't to pretend like you don't miss them because if you do so, you wouldn't move on at all. All you have to do is, keep it to yourself and battle it within your heart. You don't have to let it show that you miss him but allow your heart to miss him, the time will pass trust me

2 Do not contact him. Please don't. Just don't do this. No matter how much you miss him please don't. and even if he does don't respond.
With time he will begin to fade from your life.


3 Concentrate on yourself, improve yourself, and don't rush into any relationship. The time may be slow but surely you will get over him. and beside you just broke up. its just been two months. This is the reminiscing phrase. Things will get better trust me.


Moving on from someone you love and deeply cared about takes time.

You have said it all. Nothing can be more correct than this You just have to give it time.
Do not go into another r/ship. The guy will end up being a bandage over your mind which you will discard the moment you heal. You will end up with another emotional issue on your hands. Emotional mounds take time to heal. when you heal you mill be more mature

thank u...i still find d whole tin painful tho...so painful cos i knw i put in all my best...i wil put all u said into practice..

Op give one of ur toasters ah try; and get busy

pwettyaura:
thank u...i still find d whole tin painful tho...so painful cos i knw i put in all my best...i wil put all u said into practice..

forget the past and think of the future. Some bad things happen for a reason.Engage in something u like doing. It will help you a lot. Also remember Ithat the guy may be having fun while hurt.

getting into another relationship might help for the main time, but as tym goes on it might complicate issues. the worse thing to do is rushing into a new relationship juz to help u get over the previous one. juz be patient, get busy,hang out with friends and family,get a hobby, give it time. trust me u won't feel this way forever. takia

your comment is making me cry...thank u and thanks to everyone.

Just hookup with me and you will get over him sharply

pwettyaura:
your comment is making me cry...thank u and thanks to everyone.

no matter how much you Cryit will not bring him back. You should be strong

Healing a broken heart from a lost love seems to be the most challenging endeavor that anyone could imagine. A break up usually starts with a period of paralyzing shock, turning into helplessness and deep grief. It appears impossible to ever be happy again.
Relationship breakups are tough, they are emotionally exhausting and can be incapacitating at times.

For some who begin to dwell in regret and sadness, breakups can even spiral into depression,even the breakups that make the most logical sense are still emotionally painful and in fact, it is the emotional not logical part of ourselves that causes us to dwell in these relationships that we may logically know are not healthy for us.

While a grieving period is expected after a breakup, it can be easy to get caught in an emotionally harmful pattern if we don’t actively push ourselves forward in our lives. Schedule plans in advance to see friends or family at least a few times during the week and weekends, especially if you live alone and be sure to follow through with them.

If you feel you don’t want to be around anyone which can be common after a breakup, this is the time to act opposite of the urge. Push yourself to interact with people and prevent a pattern of loneliness and depression.

Hobbies are a positive way to keep from dwelling in sadness and forming negative patterns. Whether it is going to the gym, jog, swim, walk, cook, doing a puzzle or reading, just do whatever it is you enjoy doing, allow yourself to create time and space for them. Be sure to include social hobbies as well as individual ones.

Each person grieves a loss differently and there is no actual time limit for grieving however, there is a difference between healthy grieving and dwelling in regret and sorrow while some could spend months consumed by guilt and sadness if we allow ourselves to.

As we move forward, it is still important to acknowledge our pain and other emotions we may feel as the result of a significant breakup. Set a time each day that you will allow yourself to reflect, feel, and process your relationship loss, setting a timer is helpful for this.

I would recommend no more than 20-30 minutes a day, and have an activity scheduled to immediately follow this time. Avoid harboring hope that you and your ex-partner will get back together sometimes in the future.
This is the crucial time when you must demonstrate strength and reluctance in letting those thoughts get into your head, the longer you hope that you will get back together the slower and the the harder your recover from break-up will be. Being strong now will most certainly pay off in the future.

Stop reminiscing on the wonderful times that you and your ex had while you were together, such wonderful memories are great to have and you should be thankful that you had those intense experiences and feelings however at this time right after breaking up, these thoughts do nothing good to you and only aggravate your pain and prolong your recovery by making you feel that you sustained a major loss and that your life is never going to be the same.

Perceive your recent break-up as a great opportunity to learn how to deal with such experiences and become a stronger and a more mature individual. Like any other challenging experience that pushes your emotional levels (such as employment termination, loss of a loved one to a terminal illness, etc…) breaking up and losing love today will “condition” you and will make your recovery from similar experiences in the future easier.

Lastly, continue living! Pursue your professional and social goals and don’t leave much space for boredom in your life. This is not the right time to “relax.” You will have plenty of time to relax once you are over your ex and perhaps once you met someone new.
Breaking up is a hard and demoralizing experience that can take a lot of life motivation out of a person however, it can be at least in some ways a positive experience if you allow it to be.
It can make you grow and become a stronger and a more attractive person. Make sure you take advantage of those valuable life lessons!

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

The best way to get over someone is to avoid any and all contact with them. After 2 months and you still have those feelings, you are obviously doing it all wrong.
1. Defriend him on Facebook and block
him. Out of sight, out of mind.
2. Avoid going to places you went with him as a couple.
3. Start dating someone...Anyone!
4. Delete him from your phone and block
his number.
5. Don't ask your friends about him. Avoid any discussion that concerns him
6.Throw out anything in your home that would remind you of him. Especially pictures and things he may have left behind.
6. If you can't get a man, masturbate and cry. Also, try not to think of him in the arms of the person he left you for.Unless you want more tears.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

I am so so sorry for the pain you are feeling.

This is one of the reason a woman must keep her options open until she has her desired kind of commitment from the kind of man she enjoys. The good girl act must be constantly revised to suit the situation you are in. I advise you start dating any man that asks you out even when you are feeling sad and bad you need to get out there and shake off the heaviness. Dating i mean not sexing. Please have some fun, so little time.

Whenever thoughts of him come up gently redirect your thoughts to anything you can do to make yourself happy that does not involve him in any way. It may be things as little as filing your nails, taking a walk and any other thing that delights your spirit. Be gentle with yourself this is a lovely opportunity to rediscover yourself and decide who you want to be in life and your next relationship. Invest your thinking in yourself little by little until you begin to feel good about you again. If you don't feel like dating its ok just don't stay too long in the funk there are so many great men out there who want to give you what you want why hide from them thinking of a guy who has happily moved on? Again have some fun we have just enough time.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

put ur picture if u want me to give you advice.

Enegod:
The best way to get over someone is to avoid any and all contact with them. After 2 months and you still have those feelings, you are obviously doing it all wrong.
1. Defriend him on Facebook and block
him. Out of sight, out of mind.
2. Avoid going to places you went with him as a couple.
3. Start dating someone...Anyone!
4. Delete him from your phone and block
his number.
5. Don't ask your friends about him. Avoid any discussion that concerns him
6.Throw out anything in your home that would remind you of him. Especially pictures and things he may have left behind.
6. If you can't get a man, masturbate and cry. Also, try not to think of him in the arms of the person he left you for.Unless you want more tears.

all d tins u said are wat he did wen he broke up wit me...he blocked me off all his social medias nd sent a msg to me dat he was sorry for doing dat but for him to get over me..out of sight and out of mind....i felt soo bad cos i tot i should be d one doing all that not vice versa.

rokiatu:

u dey display ur YANSH lyk say na commodity. I understand ur YANSH is ur selling point, is dat y u r always displaying it@ya dp? Abeg, hw much? I wan buy am.

pwettyaura:
your comment is making me cry...thank u and thanks to everyone.

stil dt ur medical doctor friendi think u shld enter into medical field it can help u get over him or wht do you think instead of you to try and be more successful in life than him u r here cryingdnt u knw u might be a deputy gov in the future? or a presidents wife y r u looking dwn on urslfeven if he was the one that disvirgined you that shldnt make u to hate urslf. try to be successful please so that in the next 5 years he will regret his actions. move on mydear. see you at the top swthrt

Vikky014:
stil dt ur medical doctor friendi think u shld enter into medical field it can help u get over him or wht do you think instead of you to try and be more successful in life than him u r here cryingdnt u knw u might be a deputy gov in the future? or a presidents wife y r u looking dwn on urslfeven if he was the one that disvirgined you that shldnt make u to hate urslf. try to be successful please so that in the next 5 years he will regret his actions. move on mydear. see you at the top swthrt

thank u so much dear...am tryin to..its jst a little bit hard...thank u for ur advice

pwettyaura:
all d tins u said are wat he did wen he broke up wit me...he blocked me off all his social medias nd sent a msg to me dat he was sorry for doing dat but for him to get over me..out of sight and out of mind....i felt soo bad cos i tot i should be d one doing all that not vice versa.

If you know your self worth you will find strength in knowing that those who under value your worth Isn't worth it anyway...

rokiatu:
To be very honest with you some exs are very hard to get over especially if the relationship was so good and the person treated you so well doing the relationship. I know so cause I have been in similar scenario. Well I am now over him but hes still not over me. I am gonna be very honest with you and tell you how i got over mine.


1 Take it one step at a time, you don't to pretend like you don't miss them because if you do so, you wouldn't move on at all. All you have to do is, keep it to yourself and battle it within your heart. You don't have to let it show that you miss him but allow your heart to miss him, the time will pass trust me

2 Do not contact him. Please don't. Just don't do this. No matter how much you miss him please don't. and even if he does don't respond.
With time he will begin to fade from your life.


3 Concentrate on yourself, improve yourself, and don't rush into any relationship. The time may be slow but surely you will get over him. and beside you just broke up. its just been two months. This is the reminiscing phrase. Things will get better trust me.


Moving on from someone you love and deeply cared about takes time.

will he b ova u wen his current babe's azz is not as big as urs

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

after reading ur post... I rili wanted to contribute but den I realized, I've neva had an ex...

So much to learn from.

pwettyaura:
thank u so much dear...am tryin to..its jst a little bit hard...thank u for ur advice

you are even more beautiful than the said lady he is bedding now. please move on jare hate him nt love bcause he hate you in the first place..dnt even think he loved you. believe me, y shld u be thinking about someone that hate youit shldnt b hard to you abeg. unless you are idle try and strt doing something stop crying for God sake. he doesnt deserve those tears you are shedding. block him off in your mind jst regard him as a dead person.

Cutehector:
will he b ova u wen his current babe's azz is not as big as urs

hahahahahahahahahaha. wicked

Vikky014:
stil dt ur medical doctor friendi think u shld enter into medical field it can help u get over him or wht do you think instead of you to try and be more successful in life than him u r here cryingdnt u knw u might be a deputy gov in the future? or a presidents wife y r u looking dwn on urslfeven if he was the one that disvirgined you that shldnt make u to hate urslf. try to be successful please so that in the next 5 years he will regret his actions. move on mydear. see you at the top swthrt

honestly, there's no sense in what u wrote