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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by BornnAgainChild(f): 10:14am On Apr 27, 2015
E.g yahoo boi

AllNaijaBlogger:
Applies to men too


Rude, BMF (blow money fast), dependent men are not marriage material...
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by phintohlar(f): 10:36am On Apr 27, 2015
sinizia:
8. She's lazy.
9. She can't cook, even indomie.
10. She sucks in bedmatics.
11. She nags a lot.
12. She's on NL, 2go, Twitter, Instagram, Viber, Whatsapp, BBM, Tango, Facebook, at the same time. Is she omnipresent? shockedshocked
13. If her role model is Cossy Orjiakor.
14. If her celebrity crush is Derenle or Charley Boy. lipsrsealed
lmao but guy u use style wicked sha ooh haba... She can still be on BBM,Whatsapp,Facebook,Nl & Twitter nah... But u don 4get 2 add Wechat sha
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 27, 2015
Numbers 1 and 2 are absolute bull sh1t!
So you want a woman that will sell your house and then inform you after she's done with? Independent my foot. Or a woman that will dress like mother Theresa?


falconey:

1. SHE'S DEPENDENT- On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your
number and asks you to buy it for her. When she
wants to make any important decision, she stalls and
waits till you see each other. When she needs to do
things she should be able to handle on her own, she
keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for
her, then you need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping
her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it
happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the
home when her husband isn’t home and make
important decisions when he is busy.
You need an independent one not a dependent
person. It is a wife you want not a pet.


2. HER DRESSING- believe it or not, a wife needs to
apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets
married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full
of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I
do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started
practising.
There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your
wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a
stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when
you are out together.
Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you
want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing
like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their
baby dresses?


3. SHE'S RUDE- I know no man wants a woman who
cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a
wife. So if your woman is rude(to you and to every
other person around) and she shows no traces of
changing, don’t bother making her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to show and you
would hate yourself if you wife her.


4. SHE'S EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE- if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious,
then you need to relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that
emotionally unstable person, then think twice
about the relationship before taking the next step.
Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle
courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage.


5. SHE LIES- lying partners are the worst ever. No
reason why you should even be with them in
relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!


6. YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IN COMMON-- if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then
think twice. When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love doing together.
What happens when you hate what she loves and
she hates what you love?


7. SHE MISMANAGES EVERYTHING- a woman who
would rather buy an expensive weave than spend
money on better things or who makes decisions
that aren’t smart where money is concerned or
who would urge you to spend money on the most
expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable
things would not make a good wife.
cool ADD YOURS.

http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/7-signs-your-girlfriend-isnt-meant-to-be-your-future-wife/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

Cc lalasticlala
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by vone2000tolu: 10:50am On Apr 27, 2015
thanks
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by sinizia: 11:23am On Apr 27, 2015
phintohlar:
lmao but guy u use style wicked sha ooh haba... She can still be on BBM,Whatsapp,Facebook,Nl & Twitter nah... But u don 4get 2 add Wechat sha

LOL. But not at the same time na. grin i forgot about WeChat. How could i? embarassed

Nice DP. You look good. smiley
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by cashruler(f): 11:36am On Apr 27, 2015
[quote author=ginawest post=33149531]hehehe....lolz...its impossible to stop sumtin u r enjoying[/quote
Sure it s not. So enjoy it while it last
]
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by DeRay98(m): 12:00pm On Apr 27, 2015
FLAWLES:
You take her to a show and she scream and Faintz on seeing WIZkid >cheesy

hahaha grin
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by chlowi(f): 12:01pm On Apr 27, 2015
AllNaijaBlogger:
Applies to men too


Rude, BMF (blow money fast), dependent men are not marriage material...

True
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by princesa(f): 12:13pm On Apr 27, 2015
Toks2008:


We men mut understand this...NO WOMAN IS PERFECT and i repeat NO WOMAN IS PERFECT.

As a man you must know the strong virtues you desire and overlook the other lapses

for me if a lady is sexually decent and also can perform magic in the kitchen i guess she has my passmark nd i can xcuse some areas of weaknesses provided she is willing to also woek on them

please define sexually decent. Thanks
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by feldido(m): 12:19pm On Apr 27, 2015
FitnessNigeria:


Physics and Maths nko?

All join
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by whizzyjohn(m): 12:19pm On Apr 27, 2015
Ma girl is a wife material#dancing shoki#
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Gemc3(f): 12:19pm On Apr 27, 2015
frisby:




@OP:

Notice that I have been using the phrase "wife material" in quotes. That's because no one size fits all, there's no particular list that applies to everyone. People have different things they look for in a spouse (men or women).

Also let's not forget. You do not deserve a princess if you're not of royal blood yourself.
#guys take note#


You too much
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by achinaboy(m): 12:25pm On Apr 27, 2015
this is not a wife material or raw material

Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Toks2008(m): 12:32pm On Apr 27, 2015
princesa:


please define sexually decent. Thanks

Before i define it i woukd like you to understand this

Most guys are present and future minded meaning that if a man meets you today and sincerely wants you,the number of guys u hv had in the past holds no water and your rough past is inconsequential provided it does not have a future implication like damaged womb or sti.

Now a sexually decent lady by my reckoning is a lady who is faithful to only man man and will nver bed another man asides just one at the present moment she is dating the guy.

A sexually decent lady can also be said to be the type who does not swtch from one man to another meaning getting in and out of relationships arbitrarily or indiscriminately even if she sleeps with one man at a time.
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by princesa(f): 12:48pm On Apr 27, 2015
Toks2008:


Before i define it i woukd like you to understand this

Most guys are present and future minded meaning that if a man meets you today and sincerely wants you,the number of guys u hv had in the past holds no water and your rough past is inconsequential provided it does not have a future implication like damaged womb or sti.

Now a sexually decent lady by my reckoning is a lady who is faithful to only man man and will nver bed another man asides just one at the present moment she is dating the guy.

A sexually decent lady can also be said to be the type who does not swtch from one man to another meaning getting in and out of relationships arbitrarily or indiscriminately even if she sleeps with one man at a time.

OK, thanks for explaining.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by loomer: 1:11pm On Apr 27, 2015
agarawu23:
she get big eye

you take her out for shopping and she point a bag of #250,000 sad

she is never satisfied even after 4rounds of sexx

like seriously what else after 4 rounds shocked better draw your two ears and run from her

U no go kill person
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by agarawu23(m): 1:12pm On Apr 27, 2015
loomer:


U no go kill person
na so bro

take note of them
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by loomer: 1:14pm On Apr 27, 2015
agarawu23:
na so bro

take note of them


No be only ears I go old slf, na naked I go run with my cloths for hand
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by agarawu23(m): 1:15pm On Apr 27, 2015
loomer:



No be only ears I go old slf, na naked I go run with my cloths for hand
cheesy

my new topic wats your opinion
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by loomer: 1:54pm On Apr 27, 2015
agarawu23:
cheesy

my new topic wats your opinion


How many of these qualities must she have before she's classified as "NOT THE ONE"
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Unorthodox(m): 2:13pm On Apr 27, 2015
[i][/i] grin[color=#770077][/color]


Not necessary. She can be a side chic grin. True taalk
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by searay(m): 3:05pm On Apr 27, 2015
agarawu23:
she get big eye

you take her out for shopping and she point a bag of #250,000 sad

she is never satisfied even after 4rounds of sexx

like seriously what else after 4 rounds shocked better draw your two ears and run from her
4 rounds? Na boxing?
Or may be name 3 minutes each. I will give her one round of 70 minutes
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by holatoj(m): 3:12pm On Apr 27, 2015
are u God ?? why giving signs ??
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by macdelene(m): 3:42pm On Apr 27, 2015
sinizia:
8. She's lazy.
9. She can't cook, even indomie.
10. She sucks in bedmatics.
11. She nags a lot.
12. She's on NL, 2go, Twitter, Instagram, Viber, Whatsapp, BBM, Tango, Facebook, at the same time. Is she omnipresent? shockedshocked
13. If her role model is Cossy Orjiakor.
14. If her celebrity crush is Derenle or Charley Boy. lipsrsealed

Ha this is just my qualities what should I DO?
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by macdelene(m): 3:45pm On Apr 27, 2015
Guys are just writing all sorts just pray to God to give you, your own Becos if you meet a lady that pretend after marriage and she starts exhibiting all the characters you don't like. You will divorce her shebi?
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by sinizia: 4:05pm On Apr 27, 2015
macdelene:


Ha this is just my qualities what should I DO?

Fall in love with me and all your sins shall be forgiven. grin
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by drews(m): 4:33pm On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:
Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once…at least nobody in their right mind plans to.
If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent- On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy.
You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet.

2. Her dressing- believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started practising.
There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together.
Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses?


3. She’s rude- I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude(to you and to every other person around) and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her.

4. She’s emotionally unstable- if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step.

Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage.
5. She lies- lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!

6. You have absolutely nothing in common- if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice.
When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love?

7. She mismanages everything- a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife.

http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/7-signs-your-girlfriend-isnt-meant-to-be-your-future-wife/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

its also applicable to all men aswell.......
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by tomiobj(m): 4:48pm On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:
Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once…at least nobody in their right mind plans to.
If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent- On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy.
You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet.

2. Her dressing- believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started practising.
There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together.
Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses?


3. She’s rude- I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude(to you and to every other person around) and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her.

4. She’s emotionally unstable- if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step.

Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage.
5. She lies- lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!

6. You have absolutely nothing in common- if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice.
When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love?

7. She mismanages everything- a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife.

http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/7-signs-your-girlfriend-isnt-meant-to-be-your-future-wife/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

. Your number 6 reason isn't always correct. Forexample if you both like talking. It will ccause a problem because both of you will keep talking and no one will listen. It should be changed to compatibility.
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by macdelene(m): 4:51pm On Apr 27, 2015
sinizia:


Fall in love with me and all your sins shall be forgiven. grin

wink
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Adaeze003(f): 5:00pm On Apr 27, 2015
Funny all the things these dudes expect from one human... like they possess 1/3 of it...

When you guys come back from lala land, you'll see the girls that are available and just pick one...

Or better still, mould one with clay undecided undecided

And they accuse us of wanting it all...
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by martinosi: 7:51pm On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:
Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once…at least nobody in their right mind plans to.
If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent- On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy.
You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet.

2. Her dressing- believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started practising.
There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together.
Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses?


3. She’s rude- I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude(to you and to every other person around) and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her.

4. She’s emotionally unstable- if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step.

Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage.
5. She lies- lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!

6. You have absolutely nothing in common- if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice.
When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love?


7. She mismanages everything- a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife.

http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/7-signs-your-girlfriend-isnt-meant-to-be-your-future-wife/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook


You need to repost this in the Family Section...AND I MEAN THIS AS A BIG COMPLIMENT...!!!

POINT 6 IS THE BIGGEST SIGN....
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Nobody: 10:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
Cutehector:
Thr is a man for every woman and a woman for every man....

So there are equal numbers of men and women in the world?

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