suggyspic:
They meet 9yrs ago through a friend while he was developing his property. Initially he wanted a fling with her but as the relationship progressed, he saw the gentle and unique person in her. she confided in him how she was raped by 3 boys in the community and how her family could not follow up the case at the station because they were poor. The police was demanding so much from her poor parents to prosecute the boys. The families of the boys threatened to deal with her family if they are jailed. Her family been strangers had no choice but to close the case at the station. she forgive the boys and left it to God to judge.

Nonso listened as glory amidst tear was narrating her past. He promise not to ever hurt her, while the relationship lasted. One thing lead to the other and eventually Nonso married glory in 2009 when she was 3months pregnant. The marriage was the talk of the town as the community (were she was raped) never believed she would ever get married. Nonso and glory lived within the same community.

Five years in the marriage she could not get pregnant again after she lost her initial pregnancy. Nonso became a laughing stock from his friends who knows her story and advise him not to marry her. He tried all he could medically for her to get pregnant but non was forth coming. The lab result reveal he had low sperm count while his wife had some infection and hormonal imbalance. Nonso did not believe the lab test. He went out and cheated on his wife. The lady (outside) got pregnant and told Nonso. Nonso did not believe her, but told her to abort the baby if it was true. The lady informed Nonso's sister, who advise her to keep the baby that she would take care of her and the baby.

She gave birth in January this year. (beautiful baby girl) and Nonso learnt about it in March. Nonso could not believe the conspiracy, he accuse his sister of deliberately trying to brake his home, he vowed not to have anything to do with the lady and his child. Nonso's wife heard about it (God knows who told her), she confronted Nonso who did not deny or accept but told her the hold truth. Rather than stand by her husband, she dropped her wedding ring and parked out of the house.

I have deliberately changed names to cover identity. Please advise.
Is nonso under a spell?
would you advise the lady to abort the girl considering the yrs of searching for a child?
Now that the child is born, is nonso action still logical?
if you are the wife, would you end your marriage?
is there a way out? No insult Please, the deed has been done.

Kruzilano:
The rapists banged her well, she enjoyed it beta dan da of her husband. Dats why

suggyspic:


I can give you her Phone number if it would make u believe that not every story is like saharareporters story.

cococandy:
so because of that she owes him her life and happiness?
Whether he married her or not, she's still a human being with dignity that should be respected.

Not saying he's done something totally unforgivable. The fact that he doesn't want to have anything to do again with the outside lady and is really sorry it got to that, maybe a reason why she could consider forgiving.

But don't bring her past which was no fault of hers into the equation. She was raped and so what? She turned to a low grade human being who should feel lucky a man married her?
What is wrong with you?

kaima1984:
if am d wife, I wunt leave my home for any reason,wat Nonso did ws annoying n betraying BT d deed has been done and forgiveness will b d right thing t do instead of leaving home

kaima1984:
if am d wife, I wunt leave my home for any reason, in wat Nonso did ws annoying n betraying BT d deed has been done and forgiveness will b d right thing t do instead of leaving home

bukatyne:
I understand the wife's POV

Lanadelrey:
This story doesn't ring true. But if it is, the lady in question has the right to decide not to forgive her husband's infidelity and leave the marriage afterall marriage is the union of 2, even the bible in corinthians says divorce is wrong except for the sin of adultery. So before god and man she is allowed to decide if she can forgive this and as it seems she can't, she's allowed to move on with her life. And to the person who said she should be lucky a man married her after being a victim of rape, you're absolutely vile and disgusting for that statement. This woman has been through a traumatic experience already and knowing this country she didn't get any counseling or and psychological rehabilitation after the incident and from what you say she didn't get justice either, she worked through this entirely on her own strength and willpower and knowing the stigmatization in Nigeria she must have endured her fair share of mockery but she decided to be strong and she got married in hopes of a happy life full of love with her real life Prince Charming, since this man can't be that for her, she should leave and go find happiness alone or with someone else. The man is an absolute douchebag and the only spell he's under is that of his utter selfishness. You find a broken person trying to heal, make them love and trust you, then break them even further. Humans are poison!!!

SAMBARRY:
5minsmadness sometimes you exude so much intelligence other times you display so much foolishness that I don't know where to place you.wa kan sha soro shaka sha. O ga o

kaima1984:
if am d wife, I wunt leave my home for any reason,wat Nonso did ws annoying n betraying BT d deed has been done and forgiveness will b d right thing t do instead of leaving home

suggyspic:


I can give you her Phone number if it would make u believe that not every story is like saharareporters story.

5minsmadness:


See Palavar!

Nonso has low spérm count, yet he Impregnated a woman outside on first attempt.

Madam was raped by three boys. Two of exes have told me similar stories. Both turned out to be false
But even if true it has no bearing/significance on this story.

They have not been to a proper hospital if not hormone problem and infection is not difficult to treat.
. Nonso played away match and now has a son albeit unwillingly. He should cater for his child. But don't bring the child to the house unless madam permits him to. That child should stay with the mother or sister.

Madam left. Hmm. OK o. It's her joice cho I wish her luck in her future endeavors. But it's possible she has inadvertently paved the way for the other woman to enter BUT WHO CARES! She doesn't need nonso's sorry cheating ass right? She doesn't need the five years wasted. She can pick herself up and move on, afterall nothing is holding her to the bastard cheating good for nothing husband!



At the dentist waiting for the anaesthetic to kick in.
Mabye it alweady has!

You said "that child" should not be brought into the house! Except "madam" permits, ......which is like asking Jesus to marry devil!