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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 8:18pm On May 28, 2015
jomile:
it can still fall in love,but it will take a while,I won't allow my past experience to rub me of d most beautiful thing God has ever created,which is LOVE
God's love is different,what exists between men and women is lust,pure lust.,that's why it always leads to pains and heartbreak.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 8:22pm On May 28, 2015
vhickky:
I am sorry about that......some women would give anything to have a guy like u that would love them sincerely like that.....she doesn't worth it man.....let it go....I just don't know why people who are sincere ends up with people like that...life is really not fair...a woman would be praying to meet someone like u and she wouldn't, and someone who doesn't deserve u would do......such is life
most women still love bad guys,If you show them kindness,they will take u for granted.

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 8:55pm On May 28, 2015
IHate9ja1:
ADVICE FOR MEN
1. Before you start a relationship with a
lady, you must think carefully about what
you are about to do.
A relationship is not something you should
rush into or handle
lightly.
2. Are you ready for a relationship with
her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and
spiritually mature to meet her needs?
3. Being sexually attracted to her means
absolutely nothing.
It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other
thing your mind may come up with. It may
just be your hormones messing with your
mind.
A woman is more than her body and her
sexuality. She has a life which you should be
able to blend with. Can you do that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you handle
it?
She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you
handle her mistakes, failures and
weaknesses?
Can you handle her dreams without being
intimidated and becoming jealous?
5. She already had a life before she met
you. Can you fit into and help improve her
life?
6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and
become all that she can be, by God’s grace?
7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote
a large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream?
Are you ready to pour your resources into
making her all the Lord plans for her to be?
If you are not ready, don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love
you’, ask yourself if this is not just a
moment of ‘emotional madness’.
A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’.
She needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to make that
commitment that will lead to marriage.
Please leave her alone in peace and stop
wasting her time and resources...
most of them are not ready for commitment either,they are just in for the fun,the fun of sampling different dicks before marriage,they only get serious in their late 20's and before that time,so many dicks has passed through their pusyses.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 8:59pm On May 28, 2015
ifewise:
My last relationship,My babe dumped me for my bestfriend.My bestfriend told me Mr lover boy na me go Fu*k ur babe.Although she's pleading atm,I learnt nt to make a woman too comfortable in relationship & Dont trust WOMEN at all.
pls don't take her back,then end the friendship with ur socalled friend.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by bobojoshua(m): 9:27pm On May 28, 2015
Phiniz:

Is not always true,if u handle a gal with lesser interest and not being too possessive they will value U,AND u know u cant dump what U value,i dont ve an ex,they know my happiness dont come from them so they know very well that once they go they lose because i can aways get another.best advice always remb WOMEN DONT MAKE U HAPPY,SEX DONT KEEP THEM EITHER what keep them is how u handle them.become too possessive they will dump U,Hit indirectly and directly they wil cling to u for years bcause thier mind will always tell them They need U more...
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Springz(f): 9:53pm On May 28, 2015
To never assume and act on an assumption.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by simplymade(m): 10:10pm On May 28, 2015
Aminat508:
Insecurity
ode nie
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Aminat508(f): 10:21pm On May 28, 2015
simplymade:
ode nie
lolz oshee
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Nobody: 12:34am On May 29, 2015
SleekyPosh:

Really?
You still dey ask
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 2:44am On May 29, 2015
IHate9ja1:
ADVICE FOR MEN 1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly. 2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs? 3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that? 4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous? 5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life? 6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s grace? 7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother. 8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage. Please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and resources...
awesome...food for thought
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 5:31am On May 29, 2015
best way to avoid heartbreaks...ladies avoid sex before marriage as much as possible. It saves you the heartache of feeling used and dumped...guys avoid spending on a girl. You feel at peace knowing nothing was lost...

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Chimezie198(m): 6:35am On May 29, 2015
To say I Love you is very easy but to show it na another wahala.
anybody wey neva get experience for girl matter still come holiday.
in order to knw d type of person you're dealing with You hv to come very close to d person, don't be far. d person cant hide d real face for long.
hmm… girls eh
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 8:18am On May 29, 2015
Chimezie198:
To say I Love you is very easy but to show it na another wahala.
anybody wey neva get experience for girl matter still come holiday.
in order to knw d type of person you're dealing with You hv to come very close to d person, don't be far. d person cant hide d real face for long.
hmm… girls eh
bro, naija girls can hide things from you for as long as they like.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by skyrocketernal(m): 8:24am On May 29, 2015
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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 10:49am On May 29, 2015
hmmm
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 3:14pm On May 29, 2015
Never make anyone a priority when you are just an option...

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 6:15pm On May 29, 2015
Most naija girls are after what they can get from a guy, my advice to you guys...make the cash first before considering any bitch
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 11:44pm On May 29, 2015
Any babe who dumps for another then later come back to beg,will surely do it again,she only came back cos the new didn't live up to her expectations,don't take her back.


No matter how you spend on a girl to make her feel comfortable,there is one guy at the corner fuckkking her pusy free of charge even without condom and she will still use the money you sent her to buy pills.


Its bad to let someone help u get any babe,he will still use the skill and lure her to bed,then fuccck the hell out of her pusy.


I have also learnt that a tight pusy ontop big assss is the best enjoyment any man can think of.



No matter how innocent your girlfriend appears,that another is bleeping her pusy behind ur back.

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Youngpo413: 11:49pm On May 29, 2015
That a girl who tell u she loves is also saying the same to a dozen or more guys.



Any babes who let's you sleep with her without condom,will do surely do the same with other guys,not that you very special to her.


I learnt that women hates condoms.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by kesspeakz(f): 3:02am On May 30, 2015
I learnt it's very important to built your self up financially, mentally and emotionally, Before going into a relationship. Relationship last long when the other party knows you have so much to offer.



Meanwhile, guys pls visit http://kesspeakz..com/?m=1 to read on exciting, hilarious and lesson filled topics on relationship, friendship, romance, people, work issues and so on.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 6:08am On May 30, 2015
Youngpo413:
most of them are not ready for commitment either,they are just in for the fun,the fun of sampling different dicks before marriage,they only get serious in their late 20's and before that time,so many dicks has passed through their pusyses.
that advice was for men not ladies
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 11:08pm On May 30, 2015
it takes extra grace to be in a long distant relationship
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by wasak(m): 8:07am On May 31, 2015
I don't have a previous relationship. I still keep all the girls I've dated. Quite well, I've learnt never to go beyond your comfort zone for any girl at all, it's not worth it, I'm talking about Nigerian girls here, I don't know if Indians are d same.
Never ever close ur options always leave them open, the moment she sees a better person, you become a disadvantaged option, although she'll always try to cover it up.
Lastly, guys should understand that most women are emotionally selfish, even if they extend a favor to u, just know it's because they are comfortable doing that.
Lemme stop here... Currently I have around 4 girlfriends, so I'm not even bothered about anyone messing up. Don't ever put your whole heart in the basket of one girl. It's d worst mistake any guy can make.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 12:43am On Jun 01, 2015
wasak:
I don't have a previous relationship. I still keep all the girls I've dated. Quite well, I've learnt never to go beyond your comfort zone for any girl at all, it's not worth it, I'm talking about Nigerian girls here, I don't know if Indians are d same.
Never ever close ur options always leave them open, the moment she sees a better person, you become a disadvantaged option, although she'll always try to cover it up.
Lastly, guys should understand that most women are emotionally selfish, even if they extend a favor to u, just know it's because they are comfortable doing that.
Lemme stop here... Currently I have around 4 girlfriends, so I'm not even bothered about anyone messing up. Don't ever put your whole heart in the basket of one girl. It's d worst mistake any guy can make.
are u warming up for polygamy? you must be a muslim that marries 4wives...lol

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by wasak(m): 6:31am On Jun 01, 2015
presh247:

are u warming up for polygamy? you must be a muslim that marries 4wives...lol
Incidentally I'm a Muslim
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Safari29: 6:34am On Jun 01, 2015
I learnt that dating single mothers no be beans.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Richiy(f): 7:36am On Jun 01, 2015
Mine is: Do not chase after illusions. If it is dead, just let it go.
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 5:19pm On Jun 02, 2015
Richiy:
Mine is: Do not chase after illusions. If it is dead, just let it go.
hmmm
Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by quiet006storm: 6:17pm On Jun 02, 2015
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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jun 02, 2015
Chai, my pathetic story.I learnt communication is very key in a relationship.yeah right, u dont expect to last with someone dah calls u only once a week.



Btw..I miss Nl though, my sugarplum @agapecharis, am back not to stay tho, probably till UNN decides to make us useful again.

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Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by presh247(m): 11:38pm On Jun 02, 2015
Youngpo413:
Any babe who dumps for another then later come back to beg,will surely do it again,she only came back cos the new didn't live up to her expectations,don't take her back.


No matter how you spend on a girl to make her feel comfortable,there is one guy at the corner fuckkking her pusy free of charge even without condom and she will still use the money you sent her to buy pills.


Its bad to let someone help u get any babe,he will still use the skill and lure her to bed,then fuccck the hell out of her pusy.


I have also learnt that a tight pusy ontop big assss is the best enjoyment any man can think of.



No matter how innocent your girlfriend appears,that another is bleeping her pusy behind ur back.
bro u are funny oh...but ur points sounds true

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