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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Jennifer89(f): 7:13am On Jun 25, 2015

op there is nothing wrong with that just keep cool. you didn't mention that ur dad is a womanizer so why r u worried. ma hubby's dad called me everyday and he's still doing same now that I'm married.

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Uchefrancis16(m): 7:30am On Jun 25, 2015

valmunich:
Go talk to the old man joor. . . what rubbish.

Easy bro!

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by gagewonda(m): 7:38am On Jun 25, 2015

Freest:

well, from what i can be certain of about my dad is the d fact that he cant mess around. Outside being a very dedicated pastor, he also is a disciplinarian and he doesn't even condole rubbish from us. told is the only day we'll bring a girl to his house is if we sure she's the one we wanna marry. And after all my dad is in Edo state and my girl in Lagos. So i don't see anything happening between them. But am still concerned abt the calls on daily basis.

don't be worried bro I understand ur concerns my dad did same to me too.its cos he likes her, myn even hooked up a meeting wit my gf mom so d two family can be frnds lolz

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Roughfyzay(m): 7:48am On Jun 25, 2015

I have nothing to offer on this. Talk it out with your fiance

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by DanielGb(m): 7:49am On Jun 25, 2015

@OP: 4rm all i cud deduce, u ar a grown up man wu is expected[by parent] to get married[any moment soon]. Secondly, due 2d family u grew up, Dad and Mum neva see u wit any Girlfriend. Finally, u bring a babe which dad and mum believe she is okay, and dier Son need a companion.

Bros, wetin papa dey do no mean anytin. Its all abt u. If say u no like am, den tel mummy[jokinly and wisely] wetin him husband they do.

Example:
You: Mum, ur husband dey funny o. Dad calls [name of ur babe] frequently, just 2 check on her. Don't u think dats too much?

Women are d most curious being. She go make research, and tell u if 'all is well' wit ur relationship or not.

Bros, tel ur babe, make she dey fyn excuss not 2talk 2d man regularly.

Example:
Dad: Hello my daughter.
Your Babe: daddy gud afternoon.
Dad: hw ar u?
Babe: am fyn sir. [quickly cut in] Pls sir, can we talk later, cos am busy doing an assignment rt nw. [End d discussion], Wil talk 2u lera.
Dad: ok
Babe: [press Red Button]
... Conversion Ends ...

Additional Info:
If dad calls, tell ur babe to make dad speak with her female friends, probably pray 4dem.
Wen Dad calls tell ur babe 2tel dad that, "can i speak wit mum?", if dad says No or give an excuss, Ur babe shud demand dat anytime dad wana speak wit her dat mummy must b by her side, as she needed 2 talk 2her too.

My point[in parable]:
Wisdom is profitable for all.

All u need to do is reduce d high-sugar level in d Juice. Add some water. [Bros, DECODE that one].

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by rigarmortis: 7:51am On Jun 25, 2015

The thing is, your dad likes the girl, though not on a romantic level, he likes her character and other wifely qualities she might posses.

So he calls to let her feel comfy and welcome into the family, but there is a line between that and meddlesomeness, too much of the calls will make the girl feel like you have no choice but to marry her, and the thing about girls is, dont let them be sure about anything, always keep them guessing, otherwise she will take you for granted, you wink innocently at some girl and she will be calling to report you to your dad.

The trick is, to stay above the fray, let them keep talking, just quietly stay away, dont call or talk to any of them, gir calls, dont pick, dad calls dont pick, pick once in a while and answer in monosyllables.

She aaks you if you still love her.....tell her to ask your dad, when is the wedding.....ask my dad, did we use protection the last time......ask my dad.

They will get the message.

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Akynzodeighbour(m): 7:51am On Jun 25, 2015

I don't get it, why carry matters like this to a social forum, don't you have mentors? Why bring your dads matter, so are we the one to tell you what to do? I'm sure your dad won't be happy if he knows you took such a step

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by kaycshine(f): 7:56am On Jun 25, 2015

sholikay:
What an elderly person sees while sitting, if a child should CLIMB MTN mast he or she will not see it..
Leave the old man make him do thorough investigation, since you said he's a clergy man..
He's your father, you ought to have known the kind of person he is before you make a mistake of suspecting him wrongly. Even baba God go vex for you..

U mean to tell me dat all d while she stayed with them in their house was not enough for d old man to find out d things he wants to find its now dat she has gone n probably wont always be d her fiance dat he wants to do his investigations lie lie d old man has an evil gender at d back of his mind. guy take precautions now o before it becomes story for d gods

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Nobody: 7:57am On Jun 25, 2015

Freest:

well, from what i can be certain of about my dad is the d fact that he cant mess around. Outside being a very dedicated pastor, he also is a disciplinarian and he doesn't even condole rubbish from us. told is the only day we'll bring a girl to his house is if we sure she's the one we wanna marry. And after all my dad is in Edo state and my girl in Lagos. So i don't see anything happening between them. But am still concerned abt the calls on daily basis.

@Op, pls be informed. I'm talking yo you from experience.your Dad isn't in anyway flirting around with your girl. Now, what he is doing is that he's just trying to make your girl feel at home and that is a very bad thing. women are known to abuse privileges given to them by their in laws. don't be surprised when your girl would start behaving rude to you, because she would feel so much relaxed that afterall your parents loves her you don't have much say again. u need to educate your dad about the reasons why he shouldn't make her feel too much at home until you marry her. u can thank me later.

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by peedeeasobie(m): 8:03am On Jun 25, 2015

Freest:

Thanks bro..... but with all i just dey hope his ways wouldn't tie my hands in the relationship cos i notice he really approves of her.... and that makes me feel the girl will be too free or relaxed and you know ladies.... it will start entering their head and making them misbehave....

What is wrong with ur girl being free and relaxed?
What kind of mentality is this?

The fact that ur dad is even involved will make her to respect your relationship more, she wouldn't want to jeopardize cos of the respect she has for your dad.

I think you are uncomfortable because if you misbehave she will get your father involved!

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Topmost2015(m): 8:06am On Jun 25, 2015

Your Dad really like her and had already accepted your gal as part of the family. Trust he's treating her as one of his children. so, relax yourself and stay calm. Your old man is a clergy man and meet with all sort of ladies in the church even more beautiful than your gal and i doubt if he messed around with female church members and if he's the type, then you've gotten a stepmum.

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by vizkiz: 8:08am On Jun 25, 2015

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by NIGERIALOLoCOM(m): 8:09am On Jun 25, 2015

Vivalavida99:

I endorse this post.

I have seen clergy misbehave, never count on that.

Yea! One trusts at his/her own peril, just as I don't trust your profile picture.

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Freest(m): 8:23am On Jun 25, 2015

Jennifer89:
op there is nothing wrong with that just keep cool. you didn't mention that ur dad is a womanizer so why r u worried. ma hubby's dad called me everyday and he's still doing same now that I'm married.

thanks.... at least I have a living testifier...

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Freest(m): 8:26am On Jun 25, 2015

peedeeasobie:

What is wrong with ur girl being free and relaxed?
What kind of mentality is this?

The fact that ur dad is even involved will make her to respect your relationship more, she wouldn't want to jeopardize cos of the respect she has for your dad.

I think you are uncomfortable because if you misbehave she will get your father involved!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm,m

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Missmossy(f): 8:27am On Jun 25, 2015

Except you have trust issues with your own father,i see no reason for you to be alarmed grin

He is a clergyman moreover cheesy

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Nobody: 8:30am On Jun 25, 2015

Your dad is a clergy and you trust him so much..
Your dad is a disciplinarian and has told you that you only bring who you have made up your mind to make a wife home..
Now you met the lady you want to make your wife you brought her home...
Maybe your dad likes her for a daughter in law and choose to treat her the way he wants your sisters father-in-law to treat his own daughter...

Now what is the source of concern?
You brought her to spend a week so your parents can be hostile to her?
From the picture you painted of your dad, go to bed and have some rest.
Concentrate on more important things than why he is calling the lady.

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by owobokiri(m): 8:36am On Jun 25, 2015

You talk as if you are not sure of geting married to the gal. In which case, you went against your dads rule of not bringing any gal you are not getting married to into his house. You should have observed that rule. Had such unmentioned rule with my parents when I lived with them, I did keep to my own part of the bargain.. Since you so much trust your dad, I am thinking this is most probably his own way of trying to biuld up a cool relationship with a potential daughter in law. It could because the lady in question impressed them when she visited with you, which is a big plus for her since laddies sseldom make such huge impressions on their prospective father/mother in-law on the first meeting.

At worst, this is creepy and at best, this is too forward. My hesitation here is simply because you vouched for your dads character. In any event, my suspicsion is that you are trying to walk back a bit from yur comittments in this relationship, while pretending otherwise. If that is the case, simply tell your dad in an informal tone that you feel his calls may get into the gals head, making her feel like a corronotad queen. That way, he will apply the brakes without geting mad at you. But if you are sure this lady will be your wife and that your dad just like my dad is the clean type, there is nothing to worry about. You should even be happy; to find a young girl of this 'indomie' generation having a scintilating chemistry with the potential father/mother law from the get go is a big relief. . That is , if she is not faking things. . If I may ask; how about your mom, she is aware of the calls? She likes the lady that much too??

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Freest:

Thanks bro..... but with all i just dey hope his ways wouldn't tie my hands in the relationship cos i notice he really approves of her.... and that makes me feel the girl will be too free or relaxed and you know ladies.... it will start entering their head and making them misbehave....

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by 400billionman: 8:37am On Jun 25, 2015

Freest:
I happened to be in a relationship and for the first time i asked my girl to come meet my parents since we started getting serious and next year i have plans to get married to her. she met my parents three weeks ago and stayed in our family house for about a week before going back. Since then my Dad calls her like every day just to check up on her. This is beginning to get me worried as it is unusual of my Dad. FYI my Dad is a clergy man and very disciplined hence i know nothing is wrong negatively. But my concern is that the man is taking the relationship more serious than even me in the relationship. Am concerned and my girl is so excited about it. I had plans to talk to my dad but don't know if it is right. I feel my dad is making this girl feel supercool and am not comfortable with that. Please i need candid advice!!!

#Freest#

Melahou:
You should be very concern about it...
No need confronting your dad instead talk to your girl and make her understand you are not comfortable...if there's a way she can ignore his calls most times to as to pass the message to your dad...
But be calm about it

Here is all you need to do.

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by beyoncausme: 8:37am On Jun 25, 2015

your dad konws what he is doing,soo just relax nothing is happening...

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by mudiana(m): 8:42am On Jun 25, 2015

Doh!

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Melahou(m): 8:48am On Jun 25, 2015

Abbey2sam:

wrong

then whats your opinion SIR

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Nobody: 8:50am On Jun 25, 2015

Oh Chai, I Think your dad has collected some his own share of her kpekus or he wants to collect asap.

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Nobody: 8:53am On Jun 25, 2015

Lolzzz.... Damage

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Nobody: 8:55am On Jun 25, 2015

he wants you to hurry up and marry...

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Abugab(m): 8:55am On Jun 25, 2015

coretechng1:
This is on point. And by the way,does your dad call your sisters and you everyday?And besides whats the nature and content of the discussion between your girfriend and your dad each time he calls her?

Well, I am married and it is well over a decade.
Prior to that, my mum (dad late) and my girl were in constant touch and even till date.
Things such as her likes, her family, folks and siblings, career, general welfare........
My mum and us all communicate constantly as it is a duty. When you start meeting people, you will want to explore her knowledge of issues and matters, her spirituality.....I don't see anything wrong here. I only got to know fully that you are not only married to your wife but to her family. Also, explore her background and find out if the have anything hereditary that might come haunting them

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by omaji53jeremiah: 9:04am On Jun 25, 2015

you don't have to be worried just keep calm, be watchful.

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by scentmarlc(m): 9:05am On Jun 25, 2015

vizkiz:

your head dey there!

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Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Melahou(m): 9:13am On Jun 25, 2015

Jennifer89:
op there is nothing wrong with that just keep cool. you didn't mention that ur dad is a womanizer so why r u worried. ma hubby's dad called me everyday and he's still doing same now that I'm married.

that you do not see anything wrong with yours does not mean everyone should be comfortable about it.

people are different...with different motives...

who knows if he calls her ten times a day even does mid night calls with her wink

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by Melahou(m): 9:13am On Jun 25, 2015

Jennifer89:
op there is nothing wrong with that just keep cool. you didn't mention that ur dad is a womanizer so why r u worried. ma hubby's dad called me everyday and he's still doing same now that I'm married.

Re: My Dad Calls My Girl Like Every Day. by sholikay(m): 9:14am On Jun 25, 2015

kaycshine:

U mean to tell me dat all d while she stayed with them in their house was not enough for d old man to find out d things he wants to find its now dat she has gone n probably wont always be d her fiance dat he wants to do his investigations lie lie d old man has an evil gender at d back of his mind. guy take precautions now o before it becomes story for d gods

obviously, you should know some ladies pretend more, when in the sight of their parent-in-law. The man has much experience about marriage and women.. GOD knows he might have experienced some kind of irregularities with his wife (the guy's mother) before their Union went stable.. What I see is that the man seems to want the best for the guy.. Period!!... Nawao for some peeps Sha..

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