please read well before you reply

women always call men that beat their wifes coward, well a coward must be he that beats someone for absolutely no reason, not just his wife, even a man that beats his child for little or no reason that does not justify beating the child in that manner. most times a man that drinks, which is very wrong for a family man.

yes, but women sometimes most times fail to realize that the man is the head, especially women of nowadays, they keep attending women meetings and empowerment programs that keeps deceiving them that they are equal to men which is not, for christ sake if not for any reason, for the fact that men has 7 true ribs and women have just 1. and 7 is not equal to 1. however this has made women very disrespectful, some are just disrespectful naturally without having any ego or attending meetings or friends that keep fueling the ego. let me ask a question, what will you do to a child that claim the same rights with you has the elder? with so much stubbornness? this is the case of most women of today that you hear were beaten by their husband or boyfriend. for example, you husband said you should not go to a particular party, then you feel he is your husband and not your dictator, sorry for you, because if it was so i could also tell my parents they are just my parents and not my dictator, and when you come back from the party to meet your husband at home hungry, no food, what do you expect? "sweetheart welcome, how was your day, go and rest you hear"?? then after the man discipline the wife, neighbors wey no know wetin happen go con dey talk, " coward, men that beat their wife, watin she do u now, na so o, every night" and that's the way media would carry it, " man beats wife till bleeding every night - Nairaland" thereby portraying men as evil

what im saying is most of the stories you hear are sometimes triggered by the wife disrespect and stubbornness, a man can't just beat his wife for literally nothing, the only situation where i might fault man is when its taking too far. and actually if a man beats his wife out of discipline, its because he loves her, and sometimes the women realize this, that's the same reason you would hear a women that is always beaten by her husband still stay with him and says she loves him, the same reason why some women admits they are happy when their man beats them. because if as a man i don't love my wife, and i'm seeing someone outside what's the point of beating her when she misbehave? i really dont care!!!

so women don't just learn to love your husband, learn to respect them, take them as your guardian, even the bible said you should be submissive to your husband. what they say is final, you can only make a suggestion and hope it is taking. a man once said that even if he makes 20k and his wife makes 1m, his wife is the one supporting

and men, if you most discipline your spouse, do it moderately, and also don't do stuffs that would make you loose your respect as a man
tenk.

Hmm.I don't think so

Nice

if wall no open mouth, lizard no go enter.

one of my friends just miraculously escaped food poisoning by his wife.... the guy doesn't beat woman before, but today, MIKE TYSON be learner for im syd.

Well said, but there are so many ways to discipline her, than result to beating.

Speak with her, dnt ignore her. No malice
But ignore her food. Ladies call it chidish, why because it pain them to the bone.

At that particular period, there is ntin like ur responsibility, cut it off.

Mind you, dnt take your family issue outside your home, I dnt support that.

Arrant nonsense. Na ur pikin ko? Just wondering the kind of feeling those who beat their wife get when the woman is sobbing.




That doesn't mean if she raises her hand first to slap me as d sturbon ones are fond of doing,I won't CHANGE it for her oo

ronald4lif:
Plot reserved for Victoriabee and MrsChima.

Thank you for the plot...it is lovely.

I have some work to do when a nigga compare women to children.

"Without a neck, the head can't stand on it own"
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"Two heads are better than one".
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"Without effective leadership team, the family community has gone into extinction".
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"A house divided against itself falls"
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What do you tell a parent who doesn't spanl/beat their children and grow up to be upstanding citizens? Parents that shows their children love and compassion and children grow up to be peacemakersz?

Do you think you should follow that parental style since you have equate grown women to chilsren? Roman civilization was the most powerful leadership group in the world and Rome wasn't built in a day! However it took matters of days for Rome to fall or lose it power because they were callous and underestimated the peasants.

If women are being compared to children than let me compare men to Roman Empire.

(The post is to OP)

Whichever way you look at it, beating her is plain irresponsible. If you hadn't spoilt her in the first place, the need to beat her won't even arise. And there are several ways to deal with her if she misbehaves.... But if for some weird reasons, the woman doesn't take to correction or exhibits obstreperous attitudes, then beating is allowed.

Where did you fall from.
how can you equate your wife to your child

And when the kitchen bulb becomes faulty and my husband refuses to fix it after a week of constantly reminding him, I should beat him up?

Just go through what you wrote all over again and try to read it out to yourself.

very ridiculous... just when I thought I've seen it all

Gosh!

someone used 'discipline your wife' up there.
*does sign of the cross* Lawd have mercy

Sharksblow:
if wall no open mouth, lizard no go enter.

one of my friends just miraculously escaped food poisoning by his wife.... the guy don't beat woman before, but today, MIKE TYSON be learner for im syd.

lol

jcflex:
Well said, but there are so many ways to discipline her, than result to beating.

Speak with her, dnt ignore her. No malice
But ignore her food. Ladies call it chidish, why because it pain them to the bone.

At that particular period, there is ntin like ur responsibility, cut it off.

Mind you, dnt take your family issue outside your home, I dnt support that.

well said

@runzlord, you are a fool. I have no words for a fool other than to ‘go kill yourself', insecure fool!

Mannylex:
Whichever way you look at it, beating her is plain irresponsible. If you hadn't spoilt her in the first place, the need to beat her won't even arise. And there are several ways to deal with her if she misbehaves.... But if for some weird reasons, the woman doesn't take to correction or exhibits obstreperous attitudes, then beating is allowed.

Ode!

Sharksblow:
if wall no open mouth, lizard no go enter.

one of my friends just miraculously escaped food poisoning by his wife.... the guy don't beat woman before, but today, MIKE TYSON be learner for im syd.

Ode!

Insidous:


Ode!

You are a compound foool.

MrsChima:


Thank you for the plot...it is lovely.

I have some work to do when a nigga compare women to children.

"Without a neck, the head can't stand on it own"
Unknown Author

"Two heads are better than one".
Unknown Author

"Without effective leadership team, the family community has gone into extinction".
Unknown Author

"A house divided against itself falls"
Unknown Author

What do you tell a parent who doesn't spanl/beat their children and grow up to be upstanding citizens? Parents that shows their children love and compassion and children grow up to be peacemakersz?

Do you think you should follow that parental style since you have equate grown women to chilsren? Roman civilization was the most powerful leadership group in the world and Rome wasn't built in a day! However it took matters of days for Rome to fall or lose it power because they were callous and underestimated the peasants.

If women are being compared to children than let me compare men to Roman Empire.

(The post is to OP)

Beamborla:

Where did you fall from.
how can you equate your wife to your child
And when the kitchen bulb becomes faulty and my husband refuses to fix it after a week of constantly reminding him, I should beat him up?
Just go through what you wrote all over again and try to read it out to yourself.
very ridiculous... just when I thought I've seen it all
Gosh!
someone used 'discipline your wife' up there.
*does sign of the cross* Lawd have mercy

women were not being compared to children, i only used children as younger ones, to explain the term "respect"

and beamborla, did you read the last paragraph?

Mannylex:


You are a compound foool.

Seriously You are an Ode!

Insidous:


Seriously You are an Ode!

Young lady, I repeat you are a compound foool. You can go ahead and screw yourself. Idiat

runzlord:

women were not being compared to children, i only used children as younger ones, to explain the term "respect"

SMH.

Mannylex:


Young lady, I repeat you are a compound foool. You can go ahead and screw yourself. Idiat

Ode!

You will be poisoned one day by your wife or your kids. I can't tell for now

Insidous:
@runzlord, you are a fool. I have no words for a fool other than to ‘go kill yourself', insecure fool!

mumu

MrsChima:


SMH.

not like i expected women to 100% agree

Beamborla:

Where did you fall from.
how can you equate your wife to your child

And when the kitchen bulb becomes faulty and my husband refuses to fix it after a week of constantly reminding him, I should beat him up?

Just go through what you wrote all over again and try to read it out to yourself.

very ridiculous... just when I thought I've seen it all

Gosh!

someone used 'discipline your wife' up there.
*does sign of the cross* Lawd have mercy

I don't know why I visualized you using wooden spoons to form a cross and sprinkling cyanide powder around your person.

Insidous:


Ode!

You will be poisoned one day by your wife or your kids. I can't tell for now

You have been noticed.

runzlord:

not like i expected women to 100% agree

I agree with valid points but not dumb rubbish!

cyprus000:
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I totally get your point bro.
You are viewing it from a religious point of view.
Let's keep religion aside and face reality.
Beating a woman just bcs she misbehave is out of place and should be condemmed.

If I am in such situation,I won't hesitate to send her back to her parents to learn morals and respect.
That being said,I won't hesitate to beat hell fire out of her,if devil push her to try and hit me.
No matter the reason or she hit my mama.

I will double the beating for her,if she goes near my mama.
Lastly:on the day my wife comes home and claim feminist.
That's the end of the marriage. I am an african and if rejecting to be turned into vegetable is seen as "backward"
Then I accept that I am a cave man,living a stone age life.
I was trained to respect and treat people equal,but if my woman wants more than that.
Then she has no business in my life.
**i don't even see the importance of marriage self**
Pay one woman out there to give you nice kids or adopt,to save yourself women stress[/size]

lmao

Mannylex:


You have been noticed.

‘Cries'

Seriously, you will end up poisoned one day. She is going to get tired of the beating and pull the plug or your children might just do it. No one wants an abusive father and husband: P

R.I.P in advance: D

runzlord:

mumu

Ode! She is going to invest you with potassium chloride. Fantastic drug I tell ya

Insecure fool