MrsChima:


If you have gathered that bullshit based on that comment then you are dumber than I thought.

nah, you read it wrong again, as usual, what i meant is, that's why most women push their men to sleep outside, sex is part of marriage, and is especially important to those that waited till they got married to have sex, if you denied you husband of sex, cos of a quality reason, like injury and promise him on a later time, its allowed, apart from that, you have no right to say no, i mean that what he paid for and not your cooking or warefare

Beamborla:

And you are already nursing the idea of 'BEATING/DISCIPLINING' her

Good noon

We meet again how are you today? And where did we stop last night?

runzlord:

nah, you read it wrong again, as usual, what i meant is, that's why most women push their men to sleep outside, sex is part of marriage, and is especially important to those that waited till they got married to have sex, if you denied you husband of sex, cos of a quality reason, like injury and promise him on a later time, its allowed, apart from that, you have no right to say no, i mean that what he paid for and not your cooking or warefare

This pile of putrid dogsh1t.

If a woman was giving her man sex everyday and all day and he still seek olishos then what would be the excuse?

runzlord:

and you are already defending her?
how was your nite?

Anything for a sister...
Btw I was not defending her. just trying to show you the flaws in your believe.

runzlord:
please read well before you reply

women always call men that beat their wifes coward, well a coward must be he that beats someone for absolutely no reason, not just his wife, even a man that beats his child for little or no reason that does not justify beating the child in that manner. most times a man that drinks, which is very wrong for a family man.

yes, but women sometimes most times fail to realize that the man is the head, especially women of nowadays, they keep attending women meetings and empowerment programs that keeps deceiving them that they are equal to men which is not, for christ sake if not for any reason, for the fact that men has 7 true ribs and women have just 1. and 7 is not equal to 1. however this has made women very disrespectful, some are just disrespectful naturally without having any ego or attending meetings or friends that keep fueling the ego. let me ask a question, what will you do to a child that claim the same rights with you has the elder? with so much stubbornness? this is the case of most women of today that you hear were beaten by their husband or boyfriend. for example, you husband said you should not go to a particular party, then you feel he is your husband and not your dictator, sorry for you, because if it was so i could also tell my parents they are just my parents and not my dictator, and when you come back from the party to meet your husband at home hungry, no food, what do you expect? "sweetheart welcome, how was your day, go and rest you hear"?? then after the man discipline the wife, neighbors wey no know wetin happen go con dey talk, " coward, men that beat their wife, watin she do u now, na so o, every night" and that's the way media would carry it, " man beats wife till bleeding every night - Nairaland" thereby portraying men as evil

what im saying is most of the stories you hear are sometimes triggered by the wife disrespect and stubbornness, a man can't just beat his wife for literally nothing, the only situation where i might fault man is when its taking too far. and actually if a man beats his wife out of discipline, its because he loves her, and sometimes the women realize this, that's the same reason you would hear a women that is always beaten by her husband still stay with him and says she loves him, the same reason why some women admits they are happy when their man beats them. because if as a man i don't love my wife, and i'm seeing someone outside what's the point of beating her when she misbehave? i really dont care!!!

so women don't just learn to love your husband, learn to respect them, take them as your guardian, even the bible said you should be submissive to your husband. what they say is final, you can only make a suggestion and hope it is taking. a man once said that even if he makes 20k and his wife makes 1m, his wife is the one supporting

and men, if you most discipline your spouse, do it moderately, and also don't do stuffs that would make you loose your respect as a man
tenk.

Bro, you have done extremely well. However, you need to modify your spellings, punctuation and grammatical construction in general.

All I can say is that life is unpredictable.. You never can tell what will happen in the future.. Good girl gone bad.. But take it or leave it, sometimes beating a woman is a sign of love and discipline.. You can't beat a woman you don't love unless you're a cheater.. Psychology has taught me that..

Beamborla:

Anything for a sister...

Btw
I was not defending her. just trying to show you the flaws in your believe.

which is also the flaws in your believe

MrsChima:


This pile of putrid dogsh1t.

If a woman was giving her man sex everyday and all day and he still seek olishos then what would be the excuse?

i don't think there is any man as strong as that, if i am receiving from my women, i can never go outside, unless i wan kill my self

Lolzzzzzz, OP specialises in creating controversial topics.

Una go argue tired.
Cc: Lalasticlala

MrsChima:


You can't learn from other people's experience. You can learn to apply the advices and suggestions of experienced person but you do not PERSONALLY learn something unless you actually experience it.

That's like a doctor saying he learned how to cut body parts without cutting it!

some thing actually require personal experience, but others don't, and in this case, no personal experience is needed,like do you need to experience your wife not cooking for you before you find out what to do? when you can learn from how others sorted out the issue to restore love in the marriage? and apply immediately

besides not only husband and wife is involved
boyfriend and girlfriend too experience problems like this, so free me on my marital status

one more thing, are you married?

OCTAVO:
Lolzzzzzz, OP specialises in creating controversial topics.

Una go argue tired.
Cc: Lalasticlala

lmaoooo abeg no come spoil show

Abimbolaile:
You must be from Mars....if so i cannot understand why you would equate your wife to your child...wait first is she a kid? okay so she comes late and no food for you...it is beating that would solve the issues abi or how did you marry her...am sure you met in a club...please go and think well...Beating your wife/husband is wrong and should be condemned...no Justification for that nonsense.

not comparing women to children! i'm explaining respect and children are good examples, if you don't like that idea, you can replace it with, senior student and junior or aunt/uncle and niece/nephew or even teacher and student......

MsBliss:
I laugh in Greek .

still did not know laughing had languages

runzlord:


some thing actually require personal experience, but others don't, and in this case, no personal experience is needed,like do you need to experience your wife not cooking for you before you find out what to do? when you can learn from how others sorted out the issue to restore love in the marriage? and apply immediately

besides not only husband and wife is involved
boyfriend and girlfriend too experience problems like this, so free me on my marital status

one more thing, are you married?

You continue on fooling yourself. You don't need help doing so.

runzlord:

exactly, that's why my last line actually said men should not do anything that would make them loose respect from their wifes....

..so wat exactly is the point of the thread?

is either i beat her or i Bleep her hard tru her ass.dats hw i put sence into my gal brain.

Mannylex:


We meet again how are you today? And where did we stop last night?

We stopped where you offered to buy me a ring

Creamish:


..so wat exactly is the point of the thread?

that some men beating their wives is sometimes justifiable

MrsChima:


You continue on fooling yourself. You don't need help doing so.

that does not anwser the question

runzlord:

that some men beating their wives is sometimes justifiable

Your opinion alone right? U know it contradicts your last statement about losing respect? I don't see why I should respect a wife-beater...be he mine or someone else's.

runzlord:
which is also the flaws in your believe

okies
beat her up, hun. Before your wedding, get you some koboko(6 mouth) and some Italian belts.
Beat her, then rape whenever she errs...she's your wife and you are the lord

You want to justify beating a woman who did not hit you?......




Na wa oooo

Beamborla:

okies

beat her up, hun.
Before your wedding, get you some koboko(6 mouth) and some Italian belts.

Beat her, then rape whenever she errs...she's your wife and you are the lord

nah.... my wife is actually very respectful, i've done many things that makes me unreliable, but she still likes and respects me.

Creamish:


Your opinion alone right? U know it contradicts your last statement about losing respect? I don't see why I should respect a wife-beater...be he mine or someone else's.

im saying if you have respect in the first place, there won't be a wife beater

runzlord:

im saying if you have respect in the first place, there won't be a wife beater

No one is perfect and there is no relationship without issues. D'u mean that the wife must be beaten for every issue? Does every issue mean "disrespect"? How d'u resolve your difference? There is no justification for wife-beating.

Stop justifying it in your head or it would affect your relationship. When U start believing something wrong is right, it overrules what your conscience says on it. Respect is not beaten out of someone. It is earned.

First , for the records, I'd like to state here that your post is mumuish

While I can agree that not everything is black nor white, you have failed woefully by giving invalid points.
A man who beats his wife on the basis of indiscipline loves her

Some women deliberately try to trigger violence by initiating it themselves. Only on that ground can I not castigate a man who lifts his finger on a woman.


Op just make more sense next time

ivyy:
First , for the records, I'd like to state here that your post is mumuish

While I can agree that not everything is black nor white, you have failed woefully by giving invalid points.
A man who beats his wife on the basis of indiscipline loves her

Some women deliberately try to trigger violence by initiating it themselves. Only on that ground can I not castigate a man who lifts his finger on a woman.


Op just make more sense next time

Nice one...keep it up dear

ivyy:
First , for the records, I'd like to state here that your post is mumuish

While I can agree that not everything is black nor white, you have failed woefully by giving invalid points.
A man who beats his wife on the basis of indiscipline loves her

Some women deliberately try to trigger violence by initiating it themselves. Only on that ground can I not castigate a man who lifts his finger on a woman.


Op just make more sense next time

There should be no lifting of hands whatsoever on any woman....If she 'triggers' violence, the best a man should do is to leave the house or the vicinity instead of giving in to the temptation of beating her up....

Iffa hear say any man beat my sister, me and that man go enter one trouser.

Ferdybaba:


There should be no lifting of hands whatsoever on any woman....If she 'triggers' violence, the best a man should do is to leave the house or the vicinity instead of giving in to the temptation of beating her up....

Iffa hear say any man beat my sister, me and that man go enter one trouser.

Lol if na mike Tyson or Floyd mayweather beat your sister nko

ElDeeVee:

Lol if na mike Tyson or Floyd mayweather beat your sister nko

Seriously i don't care.....I hold my sisters in high esteem.I can even travel down just to fight for them....

No just go there at all

Ferdybaba:


Seriously i don't care.....I hold my sisters in high esteem.I can even travel down just to fight for them....

No just go there at all

runzlord:


nah.... my wife is actually very respectful, i've done many things that makes me unreliable, but she still likes and respects me.

Happy for you!